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cthulu2016

(10,960 posts)
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 02:00 PM Jan 2014

Dawn Zimmer is being discussed as if she's alleging molestation

Last edited Mon Jan 20, 2014, 03:39 PM - Edit history (1)

Watching Candy "Aleister" Crowley interview Dawn Zmmer, it's the same as the Christie talking points...

"But you tweeted something positive about Christie in August."

"If this happened when you say, why didn't you come out with it then?"

These are the top veracity questions being asked (at Christie's behest), yet really have nothing to do with this case.

Why not ask what she was wearing? Maybe she had on an outfit that practically asked for a political shakedown.



I suggest that the Christie defense is different than it would be if Zimmer were a man. Not worse or better... different.


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Dawn Zimmer is being discussed as if she's alleging molestation (Original Post) cthulu2016 Jan 2014 OP
You had me at "Candy 'Aleister' Crowley" Squinch Jan 2014 #1
I don't get the Aleister reference? nt arthritisR_US Jan 2014 #23
Aleister Crowley, famous Satanist anti partisan Jan 2014 #32
I had never heard of that, thanks! :) nt arthritisR_US Jan 2014 #35
I believe zimmer qazplm Jan 2014 #2
No, skepticism is in order, but not along those lines cthulu2016 Jan 2014 #3
but those aren't emotional questions qazplm Jan 2014 #11
While they may be fair questions, they really are not relevent. Bandit Jan 2014 #37
These are reasonable questions... Demo_Chris Jan 2014 #4
No. They are ridiculous questions in the real world of politicians. cthulu2016 Jan 2014 #7
I'd bet that someone in Hudson County is involved FarCenter Jan 2014 #9
it isn't?? qazplm Jan 2014 #12
"You are adding criminal. The allegation is not criminal" Bandit Jan 2014 #38
Maybe... Auntie Bush Jan 2014 #15
In a perfect world maybe...but, this is far from Blue_Roses Jan 2014 #20
I did not say she was not credible, I said these were reasonable questions... Demo_Chris Jan 2014 #27
I see and I agree that these are important questions Blue_Roses Jan 2014 #36
Christie is on offense Gothmog Jan 2014 #5
Drama much Boom Sound 416 Jan 2014 #6
This is why nobody wants to stick their neck out. Baitball Blogger Jan 2014 #8
Good point. JoePhilly Jan 2014 #26
This is the "Why didn't she just leave him" excuse for domestic violence. And no, it wouldn't be libdem4life Jan 2014 #10
are you comparing qazplm Jan 2014 #13
But I do think that she was afraid of Christie. I know he scares me. CTyankee Jan 2014 #14
I doubt she was physically afraid of him qazplm Jan 2014 #16
Yes, but such men are scary looking and use it to their advantage psychologically. CTyankee Jan 2014 #17
he doesnt strike me qazplm Jan 2014 #24
The persona he chooses to put forward, as often shown in his still pics, shows a snarling, angry CTyankee Jan 2014 #25
It's the same process...equal pay, as well. So yes, sacrificing and demonizing the females libdem4life Jan 2014 #18
It may not be the same domestic abuse situation Blue_Roses Jan 2014 #21
Now you see why she kept her mouth shut earlier. With Chistie at 70% approval, bluestate10 Jan 2014 #19
Exactly! Blue_Roses Jan 2014 #22
Another very obvious possible reason for not coming forward sooner . . . markpkessinger Jan 2014 #34
My Hoboken resident sibling says the mayor is good but naive Justice Jan 2014 #28
And it's only going to get worse for her- hope she is prepared KaryninMiami Jan 2014 #29
Crowley is also the one who was all full of sympathy for the Steubenville rapists riqster Jan 2014 #30
my gut says she has a tape riverwalker Jan 2014 #31
wow. that's nasty... CTyankee Jan 2014 #33

qazplm

(3,626 posts)
2. I believe zimmer
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 02:08 PM
Jan 2014

but those are fair questions, and questions we'd be asking if the shoes were reversed.

cthulu2016

(10,960 posts)
3. No, skepticism is in order, but not along those lines
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 02:18 PM
Jan 2014

Her emotional state is not what the case is about, and my statement is that the 1500 words of Christie deflection points (that media folks are parroting as if they were probitive) are taylored to Dawn Zimmer being a woman, because Christie's people calculated (correctly, I think) that these are the best deflections to cast doubt on the veracity of a reasonably young, reasonably attractive woman.

Had she been a 70 year old man the Christie deflection points would have been different in tone.

Why are people not suggesting that Gates made up his claims about Clinton or Obama because he said good things about them at other times, or didn't resign on the spot?

Because everyone knows that those are not sensible questions about politics.


Harry Reid says that some Republican said crummy thing X in negotiations six months ago.

Nobody cites Reid saying something positive about the person on a later date, and nobody says, "Why didn't you come out with this then?"

Those are not sensible questions in politics. She is a MAYOR. The mayor of a large city doesn't call a press conference every time something that seems shady happens, and people in politics say stuff that is not entirely emotionally authentic.



qazplm

(3,626 posts)
11. but those aren't emotional questions
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 03:28 PM
Jan 2014

"But you tweeted something positive about Christie in August."

"If this happened when you say, why didn't you come out with it then?"

Those are basic veracity and credibility questions anyone would ask.
People ARE suggesting that Gates made up his claims, others are saying his credibility is enhanced because he also said nice things.

It works both ways.

When you wait a long time to report something, you are going to be asked why you waited so long, and why you praised someone (while remaining silent) in between the occurrence of what you said happened and the time you reported it.

It's basic cross-exam 101.

Bandit

(21,475 posts)
37. While they may be fair questions, they really are not relevent.
Mon Jan 20, 2014, 04:55 PM
Jan 2014

It really does not matter when she made the allegations, what matters is if the allegations are true, and since she went directly to the US attorney, I suspect she would not have done so had they been false.

 

Demo_Chris

(6,234 posts)
4. These are reasonable questions...
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 02:28 PM
Jan 2014

Dawn is making some very serious accusations. If you were aware that your Governor was engaged in potentially criminal and definitely immoral behavior, would you not have a duty to come forward as soon as you knew?

cthulu2016

(10,960 posts)
7. No. They are ridiculous questions in the real world of politicians.
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 02:42 PM
Jan 2014
If you were aware that your Governor was engaged in potentially criminal and definitely immoral behavior, would you not have a duty to come forward as soon as you knew?


No, not on this planet.

You are adding criminal. The allegation is not criminal.

A US Senator says he might support unemployment extension if his state got some bridge project.

Is Harry Reid obliged to announce that to the press that day?

Maybe he SHOULD, but in the real world there is no such expectation.

Was Gates duty-bound to call a press conference to report that Hillary was influenced by politics in decision X?

No. Of course not.

People are thinking about this issue in a weird and confused way. This is a corrupt style, not a specific crime to report.
 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
9. I'd bet that someone in Hudson County is involved
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 02:50 PM
Jan 2014

Realistically, the scenario is that Christie's team applies pressure on Zimmer in order to get something from the Democratic organization in Hudson County -- probably someone involved in the project back before Zimmer became mayor and stalled it.

qazplm

(3,626 posts)
12. it isn't??
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 03:29 PM
Jan 2014

Sure seems like it to me if true, and if true, someone should be charged with something.

Not sure the evidence will be there to the level of guilt beyond reasonable doubt, but that's a different story.

Bandit

(21,475 posts)
38. "You are adding criminal. The allegation is not criminal"
Mon Jan 20, 2014, 04:59 PM
Jan 2014

I think you might be wrong or why the US Attorney? Extortion is Criminal and that is what this is. Not just some political power play....If it was just Ethics, then it would go to an Ethics panal and not a US Attorney.

Auntie Bush

(17,528 posts)
15. Maybe...
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 03:50 PM
Jan 2014

Maybe you should wait till you have more evidence or someone else agrees with you. Well, I guess I mean wait till the boat is rocking or someone else rocks the boat.

Blue_Roses

(12,894 posts)
20. In a perfect world maybe...but, this is far from
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 04:33 PM
Jan 2014

the "perfect" situation. First, you have an over-bearing governor who seems to snap at the drop of a hat, especially if he doesn't get his way. Second, you have a mayor who is in dire need of funding help for her city. She has to walk a tight rope as it is. Oh, and she is a Democrat and a woman (which shouldn't matter, but we all know it does).

The bottom line: She's dammed any way she decides to move on this. She picked the best option for her and her city. I think she is VERY credible and is handling this in the best way she can--under the circumstances.

 

Demo_Chris

(6,234 posts)
27. I did not say she was not credible, I said these were reasonable questions...
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 06:55 PM
Jan 2014

She damn well should be capable of explaining herself. We aren't talking Sarah Palin here after all.

Blue_Roses

(12,894 posts)
36. I see and I agree that these are important questions
Mon Jan 20, 2014, 03:35 PM
Jan 2014

My beef about the questions ( and it's not aimed at you) is the accusatory tone from the media, who are trying to pull an "agenda" out of her admission.

Gothmog

(145,086 posts)
5. Christie is on offense
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 02:38 PM
Jan 2014

Christie is on the attack. Who cares about the facts when you can attack the source and the media

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
10. This is the "Why didn't she just leave him" excuse for domestic violence. And no, it wouldn't be
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 02:57 PM
Jan 2014

the same for a man. Notice that Christie fired his closest aide...a female...through another staffer...without one word. He allowed the men to "resign". He called her a liar, and deceitful, and pretty much blamed her for his woes right away.

qazplm

(3,626 posts)
13. are you comparing
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 03:29 PM
Jan 2014

a victim of domestic violence to this situation?

Are you kidding me? Not remotely the same thing at all.

CTyankee

(63,901 posts)
14. But I do think that she was afraid of Christie. I know he scares me.
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 03:40 PM
Jan 2014

He is large, snarling, angry and intimidating. I think lots of women have a wise fear around such men.

qazplm

(3,626 posts)
16. I doubt she was physically afraid of him
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 04:05 PM
Jan 2014

but she undoubtedly feared the political backlash at the time it happened.

He was very popular, seen as somewhat bipartisan, a presidential candidate, and I have no doubt she thought he could make her life really rough if he wanted to.

CTyankee

(63,901 posts)
17. Yes, but such men are scary looking and use it to their advantage psychologically.
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 04:12 PM
Jan 2014

It's a tactic that Christie used to his advantage.

qazplm

(3,626 posts)
24. he doesnt strike me
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 06:23 PM
Jan 2014

as "Scary-looking" to be honest, I mean he looks like he'd be rather easy to evade.

CTyankee

(63,901 posts)
25. The persona he chooses to put forward, as often shown in his still pics, shows a snarling, angry
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 06:45 PM
Jan 2014

guy. Plus he's large. That's not a comforting mix of "attributes" for a woman to encounter. Plus, we've seen him go after women and old people who dare question him. Typical bully: pick on women and older, weak people. Not the first time in history this type has come before us...

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
18. It's the same process...equal pay, as well. So yes, sacrificing and demonizing the females
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 04:19 PM
Jan 2014

occurs and the process of blaming the victim proceeds. Dawn Zimmer was a victim, thus her town. She stood up to him. Seems she didn't get the memo.

Mayor Sokolich, OTOH, had a friendly conversation with Christie after his initial unfriendly Christie information to the press (which now seems like smoke and mirrors), and hasn't been seen or heard of since.

Same with Pulof...he backed right off like a good boy.

And other than calling Mayor Sokolich "a little Serbian" and an "idiot" and lower than Pulof, none of these folks or his aides or PA employees got fired (with no notice, conversation and by one of his aides) as did Ms Kelly...accused of lying and deceit...profusely and dramatically in the first speech. She has even taken the steps of assuring (don't have a link) behind the scenes that she is still loyal. I also noted the attorney "given" to her is closely tied in with NJ politics. Of course she, as a single mother of 4, does not have the means for a high-level attorney. So figure that out.

The men were allowed to resign.

Is it so hard to believe that being a lifetime bully would not also heavily include sexism. My question back...is it equal opportunity?

Blue_Roses

(12,894 posts)
21. It may not be the same domestic abuse situation
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 04:42 PM
Jan 2014

that a spouse or partner feels, but it is abuse. Abuse of power. Abuse emotionally. Abuse verbally. AND, we really don't know, but I would fear physical "abuse" if I hit the wrong nerve.

Either way you look at it, it is still abuse.

bluestate10

(10,942 posts)
19. Now you see why she kept her mouth shut earlier. With Chistie at 70% approval,
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 04:22 PM
Jan 2014

Zimmer would have been ripped apart if she had come out earlier.

Blue_Roses

(12,894 posts)
22. Exactly!
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 04:47 PM
Jan 2014

It left her with few options...actually, none if she wanted to get the help needed for her city. And she still didn't get it.

markpkessinger

(8,392 posts)
34. Another very obvious possible reason for not coming forward sooner . . .
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 08:13 PM
Jan 2014

. . . is that her city was still in desperate need of the Sandy relief funds, and she was probably still oping to convince the Christie administration to release them.

KaryninMiami

(3,073 posts)
29. And it's only going to get worse for her- hope she is prepared
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 07:36 PM
Jan 2014

The wrath of Christie and all of his pals will soon be bombarding her and the media with more of the Crowly type questions and accusations. If she's telling the truth- and I hope she is- and she has some way to back it up with evidence, then she should be ok. But she should expect to get get roughed up by the Christie bullies for sure. Hopefully she's ready for this- it will not be pleasant.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
30. Crowley is also the one who was all full of sympathy for the Steubenville rapists
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 07:36 PM
Jan 2014

When they were convicted and sentenced, and did not care about their victim.

Stopped watching CNN on that very day.

riverwalker

(8,694 posts)
31. my gut says she has a tape
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 07:55 PM
Jan 2014

Her husband, Stanley Grossbard, was taped last year by an opponent of hers. She is quite familiar with how it is done.

"Sadly, the fact is, Mr. Garcia invited my husband to lunch, taped him, and tried to trick him into saying something that he could then use to try and extort me in my capacity as mayor,” Zimmer said in a statement. “Since my husband is an honest and honorable man, and Mr. Garcia is not, the only person incriminated on the tape is Mr. Garcia.”

Read more at http://www.politickernj.com/67763/assembly-candidate-charges-hoboken-mayor-zimmer-ethnic-cleansing-lawsuit#ixzz2qtJVW4X5

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