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Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 02:08 PM Mar 2014

since when does name calling and insulting = political criticism?

I assume we are trying to encourage policy change. Of course we show disappointment and frustration, it is often the impetus to make changes.

But why does anyone really think that anger and frustration manifested as insults and name calling is the way to affect policy change?

Du is being told over and over that name calling is actually the same thing as policy criticism. I'm not buying it.

eta....if anyone wants to call a politician names and insult them, go for it...but imho, don't pretend at a more noble cause. Sometimes name calling is what it is. Own it.

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since when does name calling and insulting = political criticism? (Original Post) Sheepshank Mar 2014 OP
Indeed ... especially when people don't even understand the policy frazzled Mar 2014 #1
Just read this on another thread... Sheepshank Mar 2014 #2
yep. moving the bar lower and lower, bit by bit Whisp Mar 2014 #16
It's a way to make people think political discussion and sharing information is disgusting to turn freshwest Mar 2014 #81
Actually, the ACA made a change -- a positive change. pnwmom Mar 2014 #43
I didn't know that. Ended up learning a bunch about forumularies. KittyWampus Mar 2014 #54
I Concur ProfessorGAC Mar 2014 #3
and yet, the dozen up dozens of recs for just that tenor of vitriol Sheepshank Mar 2014 #4
name calling on DU was great when it applied to bush nt msongs Mar 2014 #5
Well ... Obama = Bush. JoePhilly Mar 2014 #8
Read my sig. Should explain. Seeking Serenity Mar 2014 #20
Did I say name calling is never appropriate? No. Sheepshank Mar 2014 #37
In those years, arthritisR_US Mar 2014 #50
Yep nt Mojorabbit Mar 2014 #90
Kick & recommended. William769 Mar 2014 #6
How many of these do we have to have on the main page at the same time? n-t Logical Mar 2014 #7
I wonder if I log out Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #14
At least you would stop posting then. n-t Logical Mar 2014 #18
burn Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #19
You really are Control-Z Mar 2014 #38
Thanks Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #76
a logical burn lol Sheepshank Mar 2014 #61
Double burn Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #75
If you have fingers, and if you have a keyboard, and if you have a clue... NYC_SKP Mar 2014 #65
Since the days of the Athenean Senate? Democracyinkind Mar 2014 #9
I really want to one-up you by citing an even older example of political invective, but I don't know Donald Ian Rankin Mar 2014 #64
It shows no class and no style so any message is lost. randome Mar 2014 #10
How do you feel about name calling other DUers? n/t cui bono Mar 2014 #11
It's only ok if you are on the side of "goodness and righteousness." rhett o rick Mar 2014 #30
Been called plenty of names here on DU...especially by the Snowden is a hero crowd. Sheepshank Mar 2014 #39
But how do you feel about it? The same as what you said in your OP? cui bono Mar 2014 #41
those people calling me names are not attempting a policy fix...clearly. Sheepshank Mar 2014 #42
So name calling is fine if you're not trying to affect policy change? cui bono Mar 2014 #44
That is a whole separate discussion. Sheepshank Mar 2014 #57
That's why I was asking, thanks for the answer. cui bono Mar 2014 #66
I have had exactly the opposite experience... former9thward Mar 2014 #46
People here adore the Pope who says LGBT people are an attack on God's plan which Bluenorthwest Mar 2014 #12
I agree a lot of what passes for "criticism" here is not really that treestar Mar 2014 #13
Ted Nugent would be proud of that post you refer to. Whisp Mar 2014 #15
you're right! it DOES sound like a nugget from Nugent n/t Sheepshank Mar 2014 #74
apparently here it's called 'feet to the fire' protectin' da constitushun there Whisp Mar 2014 #77
at least since Carter alc Mar 2014 #17
This Control-Z Mar 2014 #35
It was one of LBJ's favorite tactics. Rex Mar 2014 #21
Bacon comes from pigs, not sheepshanks. cui bono Mar 2014 #48
Similar to a calling out with no name mentioned seveneyes Mar 2014 #22
Since politics existed LeftishBrit Mar 2014 #23
I think you meant 16th century, didn't you? Seeking Serenity Mar 2014 #28
Yes, I did and have now changed it. LeftishBrit Mar 2014 #29
LOL. I like that. Seeking Serenity Mar 2014 #31
Very true - he had an amazing number of children, but no legitimate heirs! LeftishBrit Mar 2014 #40
More or less accurate - el_bryanto Mar 2014 #24
As long as the name calling is directed at the President mcar Mar 2014 #25
Since when is GD meta? Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #26
So maybe Ted Nugent is simply upset about something too personal to say? randome Mar 2014 #45
So you've never said anything before in the heat of the moment of being upset? Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #53
Can't have it both ways. Nine Mar 2014 #79
+1. historylovr Mar 2014 #52
+2 Owl Mar 2014 #78
Thanks. elleng Mar 2014 #27
+100000000000000 stg81 Mar 2014 #32
For a good while now. JoeyT Mar 2014 #33
Name calling is very overrated. KurtNYC Mar 2014 #34
Love this: Control-Z Mar 2014 #36
Sometimes it just feels good to call someone an asshole, especially when they deserve it. badtoworse Mar 2014 #47
The problem is: it wasn't deserved. frazzled Mar 2014 #56
That whole thing about Will? badtoworse Mar 2014 #59
Read about formularies: he screamed before he understood frazzled Mar 2014 #70
Caring for your spouse who has MS is rough under any circumstances. badtoworse Mar 2014 #84
That is a true statement...but doesn't apply to the OP Sheepshank Mar 2014 #58
Post 59 deals with your point badtoworse Mar 2014 #62
The two are not equivalent when referencing one's own party LanternWaste Mar 2014 #49
We are also being told that name-calling, insults, and snark are the same things as "replies" villager Mar 2014 #51
Didn't you used to post a lot in the Gungeon? badtoworse Mar 2014 #55
I guess your memory is quite faulty indeed villager Mar 2014 #80
My recollection is that you were quite anti-RKBA and not tolerant of other views... badtoworse Mar 2014 #82
So you see, we're in agreement after all. villager Mar 2014 #83
Excellent! I'll see you in the Gungeon! badtoworse Mar 2014 #86
Eh, I prefer the Gun Control Reform Activism group now, mostly villager Mar 2014 #88
up until we qualified free speech n/t reddread Mar 2014 #60
free speech all you want...not one is trying to stop that Sheepshank Mar 2014 #69
just answering the OP n/t reddread Mar 2014 #71
Since . . . always? . . . Journeyman Mar 2014 #63
Perhaps DU could set up a name-calling forum, and we can all just not go there. n/t DebJ Mar 2014 #67
since never crimeariver1225 Mar 2014 #68
"Since when does name calling and insulting = political criticism?" Since Fox news. eom Sivafae Mar 2014 #72
All this whine and no cheese plate? pscot Mar 2014 #73
What name calling? Skip Intro Mar 2014 #85
*sigh*...nothing to do with hero worship Sheepshank Mar 2014 #87
Since one long time poster thinks it's okay to ignorantly use the President as his personal Cha Mar 2014 #89

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
1. Indeed ... especially when people don't even understand the policy
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 02:30 PM
Mar 2014

and therefore name call inappropriately.

So let's go over this again. All insurance policies have formularies--lists of drugs they do and do not cover. This includes the insurance from your workplace, private insurance, Medicare, the VA, and, yes ... even the British and Canadian health systems.

Here's how it works, in general, from Think Progress:

Under the law, insurers must offer drug benefits as part of 10 essential health care benefits, meaning that millions of uninsured Americans will now have drug coverage for the very first time. But the coverage won’t be limitless. Insurers will continue to rely on drug formularies — as they currently do in the private market and Medicare Part D — to decide which prescriptions are covered and which are not.

The ACA requires that issuers provide the greater of one drug from each category or class, or offer as many drugs in each category as are covered by a benchmark plan. The law allows states the choice of four different benchmarks, which Gottlieb helpfully lists in his article: 1) One of the three largest small group plans in the state by enrollment; 2) one of the three largest state employee health plans by enrollment; 3) one of the three largest federal employee health plan options by enrollment; or 4) the largest HMO plan offered in the state’s commercial market by enrollment.

States — not the federal government — select the benchmark and insurers then offer coverage for the drugs listed in those formularies. “What the vast majority of states have chosen is a common small business plan, so you know it’s saying what will be available in the exchanges and in the individual market generally is what’s popular among small businesses now and that seems like a reasonable place to start,” the Kaiser Family Foundation’s Larry Levitt explained.

But yes, there are certain limits: a formulary, for instance, may cover three drugs for treating a certain condition but not two others. Obamacare — like all insurers currently operating in the market — has a fix for that. ACA regulations demand that a health plan must have an “exceptions process” in place that allows patients to request and gain access to clinically appropriate drugs that aren’t covered by the health plan (in addition to internal and external appeal processes). So, if a health plan does not cover a particular drug that a patient absolutely needs, their doctor can certify medical necessity to extend coverage. Insurers have relied on drug formularies before the law went into effect and already have exceptions processes in place, meaning that most “will not have to implement significant changes.”

http://thinkprogress.org/health/2013/12/10/3042741/drugs-obamacare-coverage/


Restrictions on drugs have always existed. Ways to get around them have always existed. The ACA (and the President) did not change this in any way. And things were WORSE for the majority of previously uninsured, or privately insured, people before the ACA. Shit happens and will always happen. Often, you can fix the shit. Sometimes it's hard. The president is not responsible for everybody's shit, in every instance.
 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
2. Just read this on another thread...
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 02:40 PM
Mar 2014
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4703134

and I think this is spot on. The attempt to normalize insults is the end result, it has nothing to do with trying to make a point of policy change or point out a policy shortcoming...the insult has it's own agenda, and trying to wrap it up in normalcy is the end game.

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
16. yep. moving the bar lower and lower, bit by bit
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 03:21 PM
Mar 2014

It's a hostile takeover in slow motion. You don't even know it's happened, until it's too late.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
81. It's a way to make people think political discussion and sharing information is disgusting to turn
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 10:52 PM
Mar 2014
people off of getting involved and not voting. It leaves a taste in the mouth that makes one want to gag.

If not for an agenda as you say, it's a way of trolling other people who are trying to talk about things. It's crazy making and I call it abuse.


pnwmom

(108,955 posts)
43. Actually, the ACA made a change -- a positive change.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:40 PM
Mar 2014

They set up internal appeals and external appeals -- both with short time limits-- and a process for a doctor to request an exemption for a drug not on the formulary.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
4. and yet, the dozen up dozens of recs for just that tenor of vitriol
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 02:53 PM
Mar 2014

makes one scratch their heads a little.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
37. Did I say name calling is never appropriate? No.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:24 PM
Mar 2014

Last edited Fri Mar 21, 2014, 05:11 PM - Edit history (1)

I said name calling is name calling and that is all it is. It isn't political criticism and pretending that it passes for political activitsm or as critical of policy, is a lie.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
65. If you have fingers, and if you have a keyboard, and if you have a clue...
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 06:29 PM
Mar 2014

...you can use the ignore, trash group, or hide thread features.

I'm kidding, I'm sure you have fingers and a keyboard!

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And clues, those too!

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
64. I really want to one-up you by citing an even older example of political invective, but I don't know
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 06:14 PM
Mar 2014

of any, alas.

I'm sure there are some, though.

Somewhere out there, there is a cave with "Thog are mammoth-turd. Ug have big club! Ug for tribe leader!" painted on the wall.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
10. It shows no class and no style so any message is lost.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 03:14 PM
Mar 2014

Up your game, people!
[hr][font color="blue"][center]Birds are territorial creatures.
The lyrics to the songbird's melodious trill go something like this:
"Stay out of my territory or I'll PECK YOUR GODDAMNED EYES OUT!"
[/center][/font][hr]

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
39. Been called plenty of names here on DU...especially by the Snowden is a hero crowd.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:26 PM
Mar 2014

Last edited Fri Mar 21, 2014, 05:17 PM - Edit history (1)

most recently I was called a Cheney-bot, ignorant, a dunce....

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
42. those people calling me names are not attempting a policy fix...clearly.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:35 PM
Mar 2014

a personal attack doesn't do that.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
44. So name calling is fine if you're not trying to affect policy change?
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:41 PM
Mar 2014

Why is that okay?

I would be more than happy to rec your OP if it were about all name calling on DU, which is why I asked you to clarify.


 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
57. That is a whole separate discussion.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 05:17 PM
Mar 2014

My OP was clearly limited to insults NOT be equal to policy or political criticism. I don't think I said it was "fine".

I think you have a good point for another thread....however, be prepared to get an overload that it's always ok to call policiticians names...at least that is the general trend I am reading.

It stings to be called names. Not sure if it acheives anything.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
66. That's why I was asking, thanks for the answer.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 06:36 PM
Mar 2014

On name calling of politicians, do you think we should stop will all the name calling or just Dem politicians? And what about the cute nicknames that people use for politicians?

I think a lot of them are funny but I think it detracts from a point being taken seriously. I try to say Repubs or Republicans even though I would love to say Rethugs, but I figure if someone from outside is reading in here and are in the middle, it will turn them off. Personally, I think I go back and forth on using or not using them. I def use BushCo a lot. Overall though, I think it just adds to the divisiveness which is hurting our country.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
12. People here adore the Pope who says LGBT people are an attack on God's plan which
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 03:17 PM
Mar 2014

comes from Satan. Hate speech, not mere name calling, bigoted hate speech is considered acceptable by many. 'We love him' they say. 'He shows Democrats the way' they say about an anti choice gay baiter.
Rick Warren called us pedophiles, was instantly invited to pray at Inaugural. What about that? No apology has been offered by ANY of those who did that.
So first get your straight folks to stop the hate. Then complain about others.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
13. I agree a lot of what passes for "criticism" here is not really that
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 03:17 PM
Mar 2014

It is not real political criticism, or is illogical and lame. Yet merely poking holes in it gets you insults like fanboy, etc.

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
77. apparently here it's called 'feet to the fire' protectin' da constitushun there
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 08:24 PM
Mar 2014

it's called fucking assholes saying fucking asshole things.

same words tho!

alc

(1,151 posts)
17. at least since Carter
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 03:28 PM
Mar 2014

I have some memories of Nixon but my first real memories of this are Carter-era. I have read that Adam's and Jefferson each controlled newspapers that practiced "name calling and insulting" against the other. In fact, that was the reason for the Sedition Act.

If you're talking about DU, look at all the "intelligent criticism" there was of Bush. In truth, DU was a good place for criticism of Bush, and there is some intelligent criticism of Obama. But DU also serves the purpose of a place to rant and vent about politics and politicians with people who can sympathize when needed, and talk you down when needed, or tell you cut it out when you go to far.

Control-Z

(15,682 posts)
35. This
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:19 PM
Mar 2014

sums up "that" entire thread.

"DU also serves the purpose of a place to rant and vent about politics and politicians with people who can sympathize when needed, and talk you down when needed, or tell you cut it out when you go to far."

I believe every single response, made directly to Will, was one of the above.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
48. Bacon comes from pigs, not sheepshanks.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:55 PM
Mar 2014

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To anyone who takes offense to that, it was a simple joke about eggs & bacon, pigs and sheep. There was no underlying message, no jab, no nothing.

LeftishBrit

(41,202 posts)
23. Since politics existed
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 03:54 PM
Mar 2014

'Begot by butchers
But by bishops bred.
How high his honour
Holds his haughty head'

(Anonymous rhyme about Cardinal Wolsey, 16th century)

And this is hardly the earliest example!

Seeking Serenity

(2,840 posts)
28. I think you meant 16th century, didn't you?
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:00 PM
Mar 2014

Wolsey was long dead before the 1600's came around, wasn't he?

Or was it the rhyme that was 17th century based? If so, my apologies.

LeftishBrit

(41,202 posts)
29. Yes, I did and have now changed it.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:04 PM
Mar 2014

I had at first been about to quote a 17th century rhyme by the Earl of Rochester, and then found an earlier one, but failed to change the date.

I will quote the Rochester rhyme anyway. It is about King Charles II, so at least one can't accuse Rochester of being afraid to attack the powerful:

We have a pretty witty king,
Whose word no man relies on:
He never said a foolish thing,
And never did a wise one.

Seeking Serenity

(2,840 posts)
31. LOL. I like that.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:08 PM
Mar 2014

Y'all sure swang from one side of the pendulum to the other with the Restoration, didn't you? Charles II was quite the libertine, as I understand it, as compared to the Cromwell Lord Protectorate.

LeftishBrit

(41,202 posts)
40. Very true - he had an amazing number of children, but no legitimate heirs!
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:28 PM
Mar 2014

Last edited Fri Nov 21, 2014, 01:12 PM - Edit history (1)

Charles is said to have responded to Rochester's verse with 'My words are my own; my actions are my Ministers'!'

Another 17th century poem, this time about about Charles' Ministers (sometimes attributed to Dryden, but not with certainty), goes:

On the Young Statesmen

1 Clarendon had law and sense.
Clifford was fierce and brave.
Bennet's grave look was a pretence,
And Danby's matchless impudence
Helped to support the knave.

2 But Sunderland, Godolphin, Lory[42],
These will appear such chits in story,
'Twill turn all politics to jests,
To be repeated like John Dory,
When fiddlers sing at feasts.

3 Protect us, mighty Providence!
What would these madmen have?
First, they would bribe us without pence,
Deceive us without common sense,
And without power enslave.

4 Shall free-born men, in humble awe,
Submit to servile shame;
Who from consent and custom draw
The same right to be ruled by law,
Which kings pretend to reign?

5 The duke shall wield his conquering sword,
The chancellor make a speech,
The king shall pass his honest word,
The pawn'd revenue sums afford,
And then, come kiss my breech.

6 So have I seen a king on chess
(His rooks and knights withdrawn,
His queen and bishops in distress)
Shifting about, grow less and less,
With here and there a pawn.



During the Bush administration, and earlier during that of our very own Maggie Thatcher, I was frequently reminded of verses 3 and 4 of this poem, in particular.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
24. More or less accurate -
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 03:57 PM
Mar 2014

Obviously criticism can get quite heated, but just laying into someone isn't. That said, there are people who feel like we should do this and own it; because of course our political enemies have no such compunction.

Bryant

mcar

(42,278 posts)
25. As long as the name calling is directed at the President
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 03:58 PM
Mar 2014

It's OK on DU. If it's directed at anyone else it's wrong and mean.

 

Vashta Nerada

(3,922 posts)
26. Since when is GD meta?
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 03:58 PM
Mar 2014

It's pathetic to see 50 threads attacking someone because he was noticeably upset that his wife wasn't going to get medication for a horrible disease.

I thought being liberal meant having empathy.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
45. So maybe Ted Nugent is simply upset about something too personal to say?
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:42 PM
Mar 2014

That thread was no 'upset husband' thread. It was mean-spirited and vulgar. I could go off on a tirade about Vashta Nerada not paying me enough salary but you have absolutely nothing to do with that.

Same principle. I'm upset so I can go on a tirade against anyone I choose and not get called to account for it.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]Treat your body like a machine. Your mind like a castle.[/center][/font][hr]

 

Vashta Nerada

(3,922 posts)
53. So you've never said anything before in the heat of the moment of being upset?
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 05:06 PM
Mar 2014

Gotcha.

You must be Jesus.

Nine

(1,741 posts)
79. Can't have it both ways.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 08:36 PM
Mar 2014

For every WP supporter saying that we need to be compassionate because of his circumstances, another WP supporter is defending his rant as valid political discourse.

If you want to give him a pass on saying something inappropriate, fine. If you want to argue that there was nothing inappropriate about what he said and that he was speaking truth to power, fine again. But you can't have it both ways. If he was serious about what he said, and it certainly seems like he was, then it's unfair to characterize those challenging his assertions as big meanies who don't care about his wife's problems.

JoeyT

(6,785 posts)
33. For a good while now.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:11 PM
Mar 2014

Hater. Professional left. Paulite. Chavista. Putinista. The people that are terribly upset over someone calling the president names call others plenty of names.

So people should stop pretending like they're trying to raise the bar for political discussion or something. They think one politician is off limits and everyone else, including other members of DU are fair game. Own that.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
34. Name calling is very overrated.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:11 PM
Mar 2014

Better to state your position. In the words of Bill Clinton, who had plenty of experience in this area, "Every time they attack you it gives you a chance to get your message out."

Control-Z

(15,682 posts)
36. Love this:
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:24 PM
Mar 2014

"Every time they attack you it gives you a chance to get your message out." -Bill Clinton

 

badtoworse

(5,957 posts)
47. Sometimes it just feels good to call someone an asshole, especially when they deserve it.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:49 PM
Mar 2014

ETA: Holding political office doesn't get you a pass in my book.

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
56. The problem is: it wasn't deserved.
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 05:16 PM
Mar 2014

Please read all the information so that you'll understand why the complaint was misplaced. The problem was real: the finger pointing was misinformed.

 

badtoworse

(5,957 posts)
59. That whole thing about Will?
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 05:28 PM
Mar 2014

I was actually talking in general, not about Will specifically.

In any case. what Obama said when he was pitching the ACA is a matter of historical record. Apparently, Will's wife has MS that was pre-existing. She was "covered" for it, but the insurance company wouldn't pay for her medications. What kind of coverage is that? He's got a right to be pissed. I understand he did get some relief, but not from his insurance.

Let's be honest - what would the reaction here have been if this happened with a Republican in the White House? Everyone would be screaming about it using the same pajoratives that Will used.

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
70. Read about formularies: he screamed before he understood
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 06:52 PM
Mar 2014

They existed before the ACA, and after (though they're better, in the individual market, under ACA rules). If you have Medicare, the same restrictions on drugs exists: not all drugs are covered by Medicare Part D plans. You have to know the drugs you need and pick a plan that covers them. Not even the national health plans in Britain or Canada are free of such limitations on available drugs.

Not all drugs available to treat a certain disease have to be covered in the formulary, but the ACA requires that the policy must cover some drugs for that disease. Each plan has a different formulary. It's wise to check, if a choice is available. Failing that, the law also has an expedited means for a patient's doctor to request that the insurance cover a drug that isn't on the list, and an expedited review is now required of that request. Or, you can go to the drug company, which he did and got what he wanted in a snap.

Had he engaged one bit of research or investigation, he would have known not to start screaming like a madman at the first impediment. Rage is not healthy. Calling people foul names is disgraceful.

I could get mean, but I won't.



 

badtoworse

(5,957 posts)
84. Caring for your spouse who has MS is rough under any circumstances.
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 12:33 AM
Mar 2014

He went all-in on Obamacare; expected coverage but apparently got the same run around from insurance companies as before. In explaining this, you sound a lot like someone arguing that the banks were completely justified seizing all the homes they did when folks defaulted on their mortgages. Maybe you're right and his expectations were unreasonable, but I would cut him a lot more slack than many others on this board.

In any case, I followed the debate on Obamacare and there is no question in my mind that what was delivered fell far short of what a reasonable person would have expected based on the sales pitch. I can't help noticing that we don't call it Obamacare much anymore - now it's the ACA. Do you think that is a coincidence?

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
58. That is a true statement...but doesn't apply to the OP
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 05:27 PM
Mar 2014

no passes, and call every asshole on the planet just that.

BUT to pretend that is it's for the purpose of being critical of policy is just not be being honest.

Call a person an asswipe when they are being an asswipe is perfectly honest.

 

badtoworse

(5,957 posts)
62. Post 59 deals with your point
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 05:39 PM
Mar 2014

I read Will's posts and while his language was crude, his criticism was valid, at least in my opinion. People certainly pay more attention when you're polite, but Will was posting on an internet board where vulgar language is common and he was upset. He gets a pass from me. I expect he'd use a different tone if he was speaking to his senator or congressman.

I really hate hypocrisy and this whole matter reeks of it.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
49. The two are not equivalent when referencing one's own party
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:55 PM
Mar 2014

The two are not equivalent when referencing one's own party. However, when referencing another party, another philosophy, another religion, another "them", conflating the two is quite valid and is more often than not, considered a most noble and righteous activity on DU since 2001... especially when discussing Newt Gingrich, Tom DeLay, or (insert most vilified politician here).

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
51. We are also being told that name-calling, insults, and snark are the same things as "replies"
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 04:59 PM
Mar 2014

...or even "conversation."

I don't get that, either.

 

badtoworse

(5,957 posts)
55. Didn't you used to post a lot in the Gungeon?
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 05:07 PM
Mar 2014

Apologies if my memory is faulty, but I don't remember civility as being your strong suit.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
80. I guess your memory is quite faulty indeed
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 08:38 PM
Mar 2014

Since you've conveniently omitted the kinds of posts -- also posing as "conversation" -- that I was replying to

 

badtoworse

(5,957 posts)
82. My recollection is that you were quite anti-RKBA and not tolerant of other views...
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 12:10 AM
Mar 2014

... but if I'm wrong, I'm wrong. In any case, I like civil discourse, particularly in disagreement - it's a lot more interesting than just hurling insults. Apparently, so do you.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
83. So you see, we're in agreement after all.
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 12:23 AM
Mar 2014

At least on the rubrics/bounds of conversation and discourse.

Though I feel constrained to point out that being against gun proliferation is not ipso facto a form of hurling insults at someone.

Though most in the gungeon reacted that way, of course.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
88. Eh, I prefer the Gun Control Reform Activism group now, mostly
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 03:34 AM
Mar 2014

Gungeon reactions to even the most common-sense proposals to reign in gun violence tend to be the usual bitter, corrosive posts.

But: You can buy me a beer sometime!

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
69. free speech all you want...not one is trying to stop that
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 06:45 PM
Mar 2014

...not sure what you are trying to say?

Skip Intro

(19,768 posts)
85. What name calling?
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 12:35 AM
Mar 2014

One thread is over and over?

Plenty of namecalling goes on at DU, but it is usually directed at anyone criticizing directly or indirectly anything related to Obama. This brings vile attacks from taunting wannabe bullies.

Some people don't go in for the hero worship and the blind faith, and realize politicians are absolutely to be questioned and judged by the people, rather than knelt before.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
87. *sigh*...nothing to do with hero worship
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 01:13 AM
Mar 2014

nuance may have passed you by...the OP referring to insults being just fine and dandy and all, but call them what they are, and that is insults. Sometimes it feels good to throw one or two out there. Just quit with the bull crap by calling it policy criticism or holding anyone's feet to the fire.

Cha

(296,778 posts)
89. Since one long time poster thinks it's okay to ignorantly use the President as his personal
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 04:13 AM
Mar 2014

whipping post with language so vile it even got a hide ... and how Dare anyone disagree or they will be Shamed, Shamed, Shamed, I tell ya.. with Dripping Demagoguery made of so much straw it Fairly Flows outta the screen.

It's of course useless to ask for more civility in the criticism.. they smell blood in the water and it's a feeding frenzy.. The gop have thought they smelled blood many times.. "ACA is Obama's Waterloo".. to name one such infamous instance.

Thanks for the post, Sheepshank~

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