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And today's game is: Let's Minimize the Unequal Treatment of Women! (Original Post) redqueen Jul 2014 OP
I hate this "narrow" decision bullshit gwheezie Jul 2014 #1
So far I've seen two dismissive OPs. I don't even want to start reading comments redqueen Jul 2014 #3
I know the ones you are talking about Marrah_G Jul 2014 #25
What you said Aerows Jul 2014 #123
Just like their installation of Bush--they called that a "narrow" decision, too, tblue37 Jul 2014 #76
I have realized that I just don't understand ... dawg Jul 2014 #2
Andrea Dworkin wrote a book about right wing women. redqueen Jul 2014 #5
Funny how often that turns out to be "today's game". n/t winter is coming Jul 2014 #4
Yeah no shit, right? redqueen Jul 2014 #7
I was in a bad mood all day yesterday & it's not much better today. CrispyQ Jul 2014 #6
It's fucking frightening. redqueen Jul 2014 #8
It IS frightening...where the $%^& do we live...Iran ???? nt clarice Jul 2014 #28
Sometimes I think there is no end to how far right things are going to go. smirkymonkey Jul 2014 #100
Same here ladym55 Jul 2014 #31
Seriously. It's beyond scary. Solly Mack Jul 2014 #99
No not really no Egnever Jul 2014 #9
If everyone but those two agree with me then how the FUCK is this divisive? redqueen Jul 2014 #10
Because you are pretending the board in general Egnever Jul 2014 #14
Bullshit I am. That's your spin. There's more apologist shit on this board than those two posts. redqueen Jul 2014 #15
True! "Get (another) job is some RW bullshit. Unfucking believable to see it here. bettyellen Jul 2014 #19
we are advocating for women who ARE being victimized, it's not a game- but thanks for the disdain. bettyellen Jul 2014 #11
No you aren't Egnever Jul 2014 #12
Every Dem should be outraged at the court decision to specifically discriminate about women. bettyellen Jul 2014 #16
+1. Outrage is a wholly appropriate response. n/t MadrasT Jul 2014 #18
Absolutely! smirkymonkey Jul 2014 #101
"I'm giving the side eye to those who are not." redqueen Jul 2014 #21
Dems have allowed our bodies to become a fucking wedge issue bringing zealots to the poll bettyellen Jul 2014 #22
+ 1,000 bettyellen suffragette Jul 2014 #112
"claiming outrage" sheshe2 Jul 2014 #49
He seems outraged at our outrage, doesn't he? And I am pretty sure we are not "claiming outrage" Squinch Jul 2014 #70
Yes he does Squinch. sheshe2 Jul 2014 #73
No. All the usual suspects are weighing in on this one. As if we didn't already know where they Squinch Jul 2014 #75
we just turn it on and off Generic Other Jul 2014 #82
And, not surprisingly at all, you feel the need to express your umbrage about the fact that women Squinch Jul 2014 #69
I get the same disdain or NO responses about abused women in the Middle East.nt clarice Jul 2014 #67
See what I mean ? nt clarice Jul 2014 #72
Never seen you post on that *very different* problem... bettyellen Jul 2014 #83
I have to say, I've never seen all these posts either. Though there have been a number of comments Squinch Jul 2014 #85
i have noticed the same thing JI7 Jul 2014 #88
I guess we'll put these comments in the "disdain" column. My point is made. nt clarice Jul 2014 #119
I don't see where she proclaimed the mindset of the board. Demit Jul 2014 #79
"Always" and chervilant Jul 2014 #84
Pshaw, you can still buy your own birth control pills. Quantess Jul 2014 #13
I can't believe some of the shit I'm reading today. nt redqueen Jul 2014 #17
It is everywhere. MuseRider Jul 2014 #20
Yes, it is. redqueen Jul 2014 #23
Just remember that most of the DU men have our back Marrah_G Jul 2014 #24
Oh yeah, redqueen Jul 2014 #27
I don't know who is playing this game of which you speak, MADem Jul 2014 #26
There are a handful. redqueen Jul 2014 #30
At least one woman wrote such an OP last night, and defended it up and down. Hekate Jul 2014 #36
My attitude is you can't fix stoooooopid, so why engage in the attempt? MADem Jul 2014 #48
I have been trying. This OP is me commiserating with like-minded dems and progressives redqueen Jul 2014 #54
When they toss out that "no big deal" garbage, they are hoping MADem Jul 2014 #59
If I mentioned them, I would get tosed DonCoquixote Jul 2014 #80
I'd be inclined to go snarl at them... MADem Jul 2014 #111
Kicking for exposure. William769 Jul 2014 #29
Thanks, William. redqueen Jul 2014 #32
Anytime. William769 Jul 2014 #33
Plus we look so silly with our hair all on fire, right? Plus hysteria, yeah? Hekate Jul 2014 #34
Anyone using that word and claiming it is neutral deserves to be laughed off the fucking board. redqueen Jul 2014 #37
Exactly Bobbie Jo Jul 2014 #64
And that's just while we aren't ohheckyeah Jul 2014 #63
"Today's"? Shit, it seems like the game every fucking day. riqster Jul 2014 #35
Well that is encouraging redqueen Jul 2014 #42
Indeed. Hang in there, redqueen. I appreciate your posts. riqster Jul 2014 #51
Thanks riqster redqueen Jul 2014 #60
Exactly. Everyday it seems like it's another fucking insult. smirkymonkey Jul 2014 #102
K&R me b zola Jul 2014 #38
Not from this male DU'er BootinUp Jul 2014 #39
"There is more shit coming this is just the most recent blow." redqueen Jul 2014 #44
"Hysterical" WilliamPitt Jul 2014 #40
Thanks Will redqueen Jul 2014 #46
We've got a new one BainsBane Jul 2014 #41
Yep I saw that. redqueen Jul 2014 #47
Nothing surprises me anymore BainsBane Jul 2014 #52
I noticed! m-lekktor Jul 2014 #43
A hide earned rebuking this shit is worth it IMO. redqueen Jul 2014 #53
Just tried to answer one of their OP, sadoldgirl Jul 2014 #45
I hope millions and millions of women are motivated by this. redqueen Jul 2014 #56
This has gotten me fired up like nothing before. smirkymonkey Jul 2014 #103
OH HELL YES. There are now five dangerous humans on that court. Women and the men who ancianita Jul 2014 #110
You've got that right get the red out Jul 2014 #50
LOL! redqueen Jul 2014 #57
Contraception is SEPARATE from women's health issues! Jeff In Milwaukee Jul 2014 #55
Oh Goddess please tell me that rw argument hasnt been posted here redqueen Jul 2014 #58
No, no... Jeff In Milwaukee Jul 2014 #65
Actually, here's something close to it on rightwing radio... Jeff In Milwaukee Jul 2014 #106
Oh, it was yesterdays game and will be tomorrows game .... etherealtruth Jul 2014 #61
Yeah, the ones trivializing this issue are particularly abhorrent. redqueen Jul 2014 #89
Nor am I etherealtruth Jul 2014 #92
That's why they call them trolls - TBF Jul 2014 #62
I'm starting to think the persona management software has a way to spoof post count Maedhros Jul 2014 #78
Some of them do a lot of posting in small groups TBF Jul 2014 #93
Oh. The Gungeon. Maedhros Jul 2014 #95
Is it a game? hfojvt Jul 2014 #66
Perfect example of what the OP is talking about. Squinch Jul 2014 #77
Always bout you, innit it?nt bravenak Jul 2014 #105
that's pretty funny hfojvt Jul 2014 #107
Hard to see it any other way. JTFrog Jul 2014 #116
it actually might be easy hfojvt Jul 2014 #121
And by that logic it's all about the JETS. JTFrog Jul 2014 #122
I am very much in the minority here in many ways hfojvt Jul 2014 #124
A link might be useful whatchamacallit Jul 2014 #68
Hyperbole aside, it's been disconcerting reading a lot of the responses. bluesbassman Jul 2014 #71
Thanks redqueen Jul 2014 #90
or door number 3 DonCoquixote Jul 2014 #120
Message auto-removed Name removed Jul 2014 #74
K & R thucythucy Jul 2014 #81
We women are just overreacting and need to be told to calm down lunatica Jul 2014 #86
Yeah, what shape would the world be in without those types? nt redqueen Jul 2014 #91
I've actually seen someone defending the poor old SCOTUS on DU Rex Jul 2014 #87
Yeah, I'm sure it wouldn't be a shock. nt redqueen Jul 2014 #94
They are an old, tired crowd who are running out of excuses Bluenorthwest Jul 2014 #96
I've been gone from here for so long. cwydro Jul 2014 #97
Post removed Post removed Jul 2014 #98
Thanks redqueen! smirkymonkey Jul 2014 #104
They're talkin' crazy talk, redqueen.. lots of nerve too.. spouting off about hair on fire from Cha Jul 2014 #108
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Jul 2014 #109
Today's game? JoeyT Jul 2014 #113
Friggin steps towards the "Handmaid's Tale" Katashi_itto Jul 2014 #114
Yeah, right theHandpuppet Jul 2014 #115
Seriously what is your malfunction? I can't support when the Pope does something right in the Katashi_itto Jul 2014 #117
Oh, I think you and I both know how deep your support is... theHandpuppet Jul 2014 #118

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
1. I hate this "narrow" decision bullshit
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 10:29 AM
Jul 2014

The old men picked a favorite religion and gender. Corporations are people and religions apparently.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
3. So far I've seen two dismissive OPs. I don't even want to start reading comments
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 10:39 AM
Jul 2014

cause it's too early to be

but seriously I'm just at this point

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
25. I know the ones you are talking about
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:24 PM
Jul 2014

Might be best to put them on ignore before they bait you into getting posts hidden.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
123. What you said
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 02:25 PM
Jul 2014

and they will bait you into getting a post hidden. I advise everyone to make use of jury blacklists.

tblue37

(65,273 posts)
76. Just like their installation of Bush--they called that a "narrow" decision, too,
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 03:56 PM
Jul 2014

and said it applied only in that one case and could not be used as a precedent.

The conservative justices on the SC just pull their decisions out of their tushies, one at a time, based on nothing but their own partisan preference about a given issue, entirely without any regard for the Constitution or for long established precedents.

dawg

(10,622 posts)
2. I have realized that I just don't understand ...
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 10:38 AM
Jul 2014

most of humanity.

I don't understand all the poor people who vote for the party of the rich.

I don't understand all the women who vote for the party of patriarchy. Hell, I don't even understand how women can even be in relationships with those men.

And our side isn't much better.

CrispyQ

(36,445 posts)
6. I was in a bad mood all day yesterday & it's not much better today.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 10:42 AM
Jul 2014

We are sliding backwards at an alarming rate.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
8. It's fucking frightening.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 10:45 AM
Jul 2014

It reminds me or something a history professor told me: He said that as far left as the pendulum swung in the 60's, he was terrified to think how far right we would end up going before it started swinging back to the left.

ladym55

(2,577 posts)
31. Same here
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:38 PM
Jul 2014

I always thought things would be better for my daughter. They're not. On many levels, they are actually worse.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
9. No not really no
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 10:51 AM
Jul 2014

You always take one or two outliers to proclaim the mindset of the board. Both of those posts are getting push back.

But it's fun to play victim amiright?

Those decisions are so atrocious that I am hoping it ensures Dem wins going forward if only to see this court redefined.

One or two posters making ridiculous claims do not reflect the feelings of this board. Why is it so difficult to just shoot down their ridiculous threads instead of painting the entire board with their sentiments.

Seems you are more interested in division.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
14. Because you are pretending the board in general
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 11:15 AM
Jul 2014

Agreed with them which is ridiculous. No it is not minimize women's rights day on DU. You know damn well it isn't .

Last time I bump this dumb ass thread.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
15. Bullshit I am. That's your spin. There's more apologist shit on this board than those two posts.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 11:19 AM
Jul 2014

You're the one imagining shit about "the board in general"

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
11. we are advocating for women who ARE being victimized, it's not a game- but thanks for the disdain.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 10:57 AM
Jul 2014
 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
16. Every Dem should be outraged at the court decision to specifically discriminate about women.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 11:20 AM
Jul 2014

I'm giving the side eye to those who are not.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
101. Absolutely!
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 08:11 PM
Jul 2014

This decision was outrageously offensive on so many levels. I am spitting nails right now.

Corporate personhood, activist judges, the aggressive dismantling of women's rights in this country, the continuous blurring of the lines between church and state. I could go on, but I have to go put my fist through a wall right now.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
22. Dems have allowed our bodies to become a fucking wedge issue bringing zealots to the poll
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 12:08 PM
Jul 2014

You'd think they would be smart enough to catch on what needs to be done? Seriously short sighted, this reluctance to support reproductive choice.

Squinch

(50,934 posts)
70. He seems outraged at our outrage, doesn't he? And I am pretty sure we are not "claiming outrage"
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 03:31 PM
Jul 2014

I for one am actually outraged. Plus annoyed at the stupid posters who need to tell us their opinions that our actual outrage is not warranted.

Honestly, the stupid around here sometimes....

Squinch

(50,934 posts)
75. No. All the usual suspects are weighing in on this one. As if we didn't already know where they
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 03:47 PM
Jul 2014

stood.

Squinch

(50,934 posts)
69. And, not surprisingly at all, you feel the need to express your umbrage about the fact that women
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 03:28 PM
Jul 2014

on this board are expressing their displeasure with the decision and the stupid reactions to the decision that are found here.

While at the same time saying that there are no problems with the attitude toward women here.

See anything funny about that?

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
83. Never seen you post on that *very different* problem...
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 05:31 PM
Jul 2014

And if you derail threads with a different issue, yeah, you'll be met w distain. Most disrupters are.

Squinch

(50,934 posts)
85. I have to say, I've never seen all these posts either. Though there have been a number of comments
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 05:47 PM
Jul 2014

lately in a number of unrelated threads like this.

JI7

(89,244 posts)
88. i have noticed the same thing
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 05:57 PM
Jul 2014

person complaining about people not commenting on their middle east threads.

first of all this is a US site which is mostly focused on US politics so most users and concerns will be about what goes on in this country.

most stories involving foreign events get less response than domestic news.

would people complain about lack of comments on threads in a French PRes election compared to the US Pres elections the way they are about this issue ?

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
79. I don't see where she proclaimed the mindset of the board.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 04:40 PM
Jul 2014

And I think your 'fun to play the victim' line is out of line. It shows your mindset, for sure.

Your whole post is a reach.

chervilant

(8,267 posts)
84. "Always" and
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 05:34 PM
Jul 2014

"entire board."

Your biases are rather transparent, and you seem to show up on pro-feminism threads to flaunt your biases.

You are not subtle.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
13. Pshaw, you can still buy your own birth control pills.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 11:13 AM
Jul 2014

Nobody is stopping you from paying full price if you really need your BC pills and IUD. Don't get hysterical, now.

/sarcasm

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
23. Yes, it is.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:21 PM
Jul 2014

Seems this decision has caused some to just come out and openly reveal their contempt for women.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
24. Just remember that most of the DU men have our back
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:23 PM
Jul 2014

There are a few loud, obnoxious ones who think we are just being hysterical, but they really are a very minute percentage of our DU brothers.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
27. Oh yeah,
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:30 PM
Jul 2014

and those few are getting lots of "blowback" for their 'settle down now its not that big a deal' posts.

I'd like to see more blowback for the 'women already get more freebies than men' post, but eh.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
26. I don't know who is playing this game of which you speak,
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:27 PM
Jul 2014

but I've only seen a couple of people taking the attitude that this is 'nuthin' but a thang.'

Most people think it sucks. Most people are right.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
30. There are a handful.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:33 PM
Jul 2014

And it is salt in the wound to women to not only know that these kinds of men post here, but to see their dismissive bullshit about this punch-to-the-face issue here, where we expect to be among allies.

They are being rightly trounced, so that's nice.

Hekate

(90,620 posts)
36. At least one woman wrote such an OP last night, and defended it up and down.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:46 PM
Jul 2014

I was aghast.

But maybe the Anarchist symbol was a clue I should have noticed.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
48. My attitude is you can't fix stoooooopid, so why engage in the attempt?
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:51 PM
Jul 2014

You only meet with frustration.

It's like wrestling with a pig--you get dirty, hot and angry, and the pig likes it.

Throw the idiots some shade and move on.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
54. I have been trying. This OP is me commiserating with like-minded dems and progressives
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:54 PM
Jul 2014

who are equally sickened to see this much of that shit here.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
59. When they toss out that "no big deal" garbage, they are hoping
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 03:01 PM
Jul 2014

to get a rise out of people.

It's obvious that they are idiots; they don't seem to realize where the hell they came from--they slept through the whole birds and bees lecture, I suppose.

They're as clueless as a tourist trapped in a sculpture--they need education and social skills, apparently.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
111. I'd be inclined to go snarl at them...
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 02:26 AM
Jul 2014

I certainly don't want to give the little shits any more attention--it's what they crave!

But thanks! Appreciate the thought!

Hekate

(90,620 posts)
34. Plus we look so silly with our hair all on fire, right? Plus hysteria, yeah?
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:41 PM
Jul 2014

That's the word I was looking for, redqueen: HYSTERIA. Wimminz is known for hysteria. Proven scientific fact.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
37. Anyone using that word and claiming it is neutral deserves to be laughed off the fucking board.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:46 PM
Jul 2014

This is a political board. People here should know the political impact of speech.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
35. "Today's"? Shit, it seems like the game every fucking day.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:43 PM
Jul 2014

One day it's minimize rape, another it's pay inequality, today it's reproductive rights.

Christ on a teabag, this anti-female shit is all too prevalent.

One good thing: I was able to vote to circular-file one of the "minimize" threads today. Wonder of wonders, the vote result was to hide the misogynistic OP. Small victories...

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
42. Well that is encouraging
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:48 PM
Jul 2014

But yeah, it does seem to be a rather obvious pattern. Especially for a few posters

BootinUp

(47,136 posts)
39. Not from this male DU'er
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:47 PM
Jul 2014

Its disgusting of course what you bring up. In fact DU disgusts me on a lot of days. I am a man yes, but recent SCOTUS decisions are really getting me down to be honest. I agree with the "women are often the canaries in the mine" comment from Sec. Clinton. There is more shit coming this is just the most recent blow.

 

WilliamPitt

(58,179 posts)
40. "Hysterical"
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:47 PM
Jul 2014
1610s, from L. hystericus "of the womb," from Gk. hysterikos "of the womb, suffering in the womb," from hystera "womb" (see uterus). Originally defined as a neurotic condition peculiar to women and thought to be caused by a dysfunction of the uterus.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/hysterical

These shit attitudes are embedded in the very language.

Long road behind. Long road ahead.



You are not alone.

BainsBane

(53,026 posts)
41. We've got a new one
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:47 PM
Jul 2014

Let's pretend that equality means a man should be able to have access to plan B pills to save himself money by averting a woman's pregnancy, by controlling her body!

sadoldgirl

(3,431 posts)
45. Just tried to answer one of their OP,
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:49 PM
Jul 2014

but it was already hidden. I wonder how those "lovely" people will feel when the next axe comes down. The word "essentially" in the 5 old geezers decision about other possible cases does not get defined. So, yes, right now it will only hurt women, but later???
The only glimmer of hope I have is a possible motivation for more women to vote for Democrats. That does not mean that I have stopped fuming!!

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
56. I hope millions and millions of women are motivated by this.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:58 PM
Jul 2014

I hope the obnoxious, backwards, ignorant men in their lives are equally open about their lack of concern and that it motivates women to GOTV this fall

And hell, I hope they're also motivated to start raising a lot more hell about feminist issues in general, and to start putting up with WAY LESS shit.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
103. This has gotten me fired up like nothing before.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 08:19 PM
Jul 2014

I have ABSOLUTELY had it! We aren't backing down on this shit anymore.

ancianita

(36,014 posts)
110. OH HELL YES. There are now five dangerous humans on that court. Women and the men who
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 12:29 AM
Jul 2014

support them know it.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
57. LOL!
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:59 PM
Jul 2014

Sorry, I hope there isn't any lasting damage to valuable relationships... But you did make me laugh... thanks

Jeff In Milwaukee

(13,992 posts)
55. Contraception is SEPARATE from women's health issues!
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:56 PM
Jul 2014

Because the girlies only use contraception for making sexy play time. They're slutty.

Do I win?

And just in case we're unclear...

Jeff In Milwaukee

(13,992 posts)
106. Actually, here's something close to it on rightwing radio...
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 09:15 PM
Jul 2014
During an appearance on Sirius XM’s The Wilkow Majority, host Andrew Wilkow argued that the real question in Burwell v. Hobby Lobby Stores Inc., was about “whether or not a person who runs a business should be forced to provide something that is largely for recreational behavior, if it goes against their religious beliefs.”


His guest was Utah Senator Mike Lee, who basically agreed with Wilkow.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
61. Oh, it was yesterdays game and will be tomorrows game ....
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 03:06 PM
Jul 2014

I was particularly thrilled to read posts trivializing the courts decision and women's outrage.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
89. Yeah, the ones trivializing this issue are particularly abhorrent.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 06:39 PM
Jul 2014

Then again I can't say I'm surprised by which DUers are engaging in such shit.

TBF

(32,034 posts)
62. That's why they call them trolls -
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 03:07 PM
Jul 2014

and I am calling out every single one I see. I don't care how many posts they've racked up here.

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
78. I'm starting to think the persona management software has a way to spoof post count
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 04:09 PM
Jul 2014

and join date.

Some of the stuff coming out of people I've never seen before with 26K posts just doesn't fit.

TBF

(32,034 posts)
93. Some of them do a lot of posting in small groups
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 06:47 PM
Jul 2014

like the gungeon (just an example) and then in general discussion you see the true colors.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
66. Is it a game?
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 03:15 PM
Jul 2014

Look, I care about certain issues where it seems that nobody else cares about them. Every person has issues that they care a lot about, issues that they care some about and issues that they don't care about.

So people who do not share the same passion might think people are over-reacting if they start spitting fire about some event.

Doubtless people do the same thing to me. I am still spitting nails about ATRA which was signed into law over a year and a half ago. Almost nobody else cares.

Aggravating when people don't share your concerns, but I don't see how it helps to try to drive them away.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
121. it actually might be easy
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 11:53 AM
Jul 2014

I mentioned that I was upset about ATRA.

Is that because ATRA is "all about me".

Or is it about income inequality which presumably impacts ALL of society?

The funny part is that bravenak who cares about racial issues, because he is black.

I am not saying that is bad, but clearly on those issues he has a dog in the hunt - it IS about him, and about a group he belongs to.

Or this OP, where Redqueen, and many others, care so much about this Hobby Lobby case, because they are women. Again, they personally have a dog in the hunt.

But no, it is only hfojvt who only cares about himself. He's bad for not caring about issues that affect US.

Look at your icon PFLAG - a group about YOUR kids or YOUR friends. Apparently it is all about THEM.

People do obviously care more about issues that affect them, so pointing a finger at me, strikes me as pretty funny.

And yeah, I went to protest the invasion of Iraq because I didn't want people I don't even know getting blown up.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
122. And by that logic it's all about the JETS.
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 02:22 PM
Jul 2014

WTF?

There are plenty of men here who care a lot about the Hobby Lobby case because they care about women. Believe it or not, you are very much in the minority here stating that you don't share women's concerns.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
124. I am very much in the minority here in many ways
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 08:33 PM
Jul 2014

Seemingly I am one of the few who doesn't hate Christianity.

And I am missing your logic.

I am not a member of the Jets. Nor do I support the Jets or mean to by sporting this icon. It's only a metaphor. http://journals.democraticunderground.com/hfojvt/122

Perhaps you also mean PFLAG as a metaphor of some sort and don't actually support them.

My point was that PFLAG is also an organization that seems to be all about THEMselves. It is THEIR children and THEIR friends that they are concerned about.

Amazingly enough though, I don't make up my mind based on polling. I don't ask "what does everybody else think?" and finding a huge majority decide "well, I guess I will think that too."

One of the "great" things about being in the minority though, is that some people in the huge majority have no qualms about demonizing you.

bluesbassman

(19,368 posts)
71. Hyperbole aside, it's been disconcerting reading a lot of the responses.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 03:32 PM
Jul 2014

While I believe the vast majority of DUers are appalled at this decision, that there are people here who see this as neither a short term slam against women, or in the long run a precedent setting erosion in the separation of church and state and the furtherance of corporate "personhood" is part of what's fueling the outrage.

And make no mistake, outrage IS the correct response to this outrageous decision. I stand with you in opposing this decision for it's immediate harm against women and it's long term potential to harm all of us.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
120. or door number 3
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 10:28 AM
Jul 2014

"While I believe the vast majority of DUers are appalled at this decision, that there are people here who see this as neither a short term slam against women, or in the long run a precedent setting erosion in the separation of church and state and the furtherance of corporate "personhood" is part of what's fueling the outrage. "

Or, the fact is, there are people who insists they are "liberals", yet really have no problem with women becoming second class citizens, nor wth corporations and churches getting more power. There is the "i'm all right jack" crowd that misses the FDR benefits and Clinton era jobs, but sees no paradox in the fact that what progress we got was because EVERYBODY benefitted, and we tasled ourselves to improve EVERYONE'S lot, not just people that look like them.

Response to redqueen (Original post)

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
86. We women are just overreacting and need to be told to calm down
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 05:51 PM
Jul 2014

dontcha know? I'm so glad big brave men are around to calm my hysterical outbursts.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
96. They are an old, tired crowd who are running out of excuses
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 07:12 PM
Jul 2014

They are transparent and they are outmatched.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
97. I've been gone from here for so long.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 07:15 PM
Jul 2014

Not for any reason except family responsibilities.

But wow, it seems to have gotten even worse on this front. I sense the influx of either older bitter males, or younger clueless (wanna be macho) ones. Not sure which. Maybe both?

Response to redqueen (Original post)

Cha

(297,036 posts)
108. They're talkin' crazy talk, redqueen.. lots of nerve too.. spouting off about hair on fire from
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 12:12 AM
Jul 2014

their male pov. It's the Smug 5 who are ignorant ol men.. that should be a clue.



lol.. look at Scalia.. acting like he knows how to smile.

JoeyT

(6,785 posts)
113. Today's game?
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 06:34 AM
Jul 2014

They've been playing that game so much for so long the crease on the board is broken and the paint is wearing off the pieces.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
115. Yeah, right
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 06:48 AM
Jul 2014

I think I hear a Pope Francis thread calling your name. Yours and number of others now expressing such outrage at the SC decisions of the last week.

 

Katashi_itto

(10,175 posts)
117. Seriously what is your malfunction? I can't support when the Pope does something right in the
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 06:54 AM
Jul 2014

that screwed up institution that is the Vatican and not be for women's rights? Maybe you can overlook the fact the CC has over a billion followers but I can't.

Is that how black and white your world is?

Must be upsetting that I don't fit your world view.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
118. Oh, I think you and I both know how deep your support is...
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 07:08 AM
Jul 2014

... for DUers who have criticized Francis for his positions on the rights of women and LGBTs. Well, some of us do have a few memory cells left.

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