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brooklynite

(94,489 posts)
Mon Jul 28, 2014, 10:29 PM Jul 2014

A consolidation of Porn opinions from my reading on DU...

BDSM Porn: BAD - It glorifies the abuse of women; no one could participate in such activities for rational reasons.

Non-BDSM Porn: BAD - it objectifies women; no performer could participate in such activities for rational reasons.

Have I missed a category?

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A consolidation of Porn opinions from my reading on DU... (Original Post) brooklynite Jul 2014 OP
furries. Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2014 #1
THE 17 MOST WTF FETISHES IMAGINABLE wyldwolf Jul 2014 #2
The messy one doesn't seem that weird. Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #13
I had heard of the amputation fetish nt LiberalElite Jul 2014 #30
Seriously now. If it doesn't involve an inflatable swimming pool.......... wandy Jul 2014 #3
You left out an important ingredient. xfundy Jul 2014 #52
Fart porn? AgingAmerican Jul 2014 #4
I travel the world with a map. It helps me go where I want and avoid places I should avoid. aikoaiko Jul 2014 #5
Yes you forgot the . . . kickitup Jul 2014 #6
kickitup Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2014 #9
I'm staying but thanks. I need DU because living in rural, red Kentucky kickitup Jul 2014 #42
you have my complete and total sympathy = Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2014 #47
If someone has a working internet connection and they're coming to DU for porn Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #12
LOL. hifiguy Jul 2014 #53
I think you're just hearing a few loud voices leftstreet Jul 2014 #15
Thank you! Some common sense right here. nomorenomore08 Jul 2014 #43
too bad it falls on deaf ears around here. Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2014 #48
I think you got the gist of it. NaturalHigh Jul 2014 #7
Yeah, I think you missed at least one The Straight Story Jul 2014 #8
you cannot go against nature, because when you do Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #11
No new tale to tell...... Coventina Jul 2014 #19
I'm one who hates the lack of romance treestar Jul 2014 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2014 #14
It's always the same. Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #16
Alternately.... opiate69 Jul 2014 #17
50 Shades of OH MY GOD WE'RE ALL GONNA DIE Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #18
And now I have Country Joe stuck in my head lol opiate69 Jul 2014 #20
Great song! In_The_Wind Jul 2014 #21
I'd probably be crucified if I discussed my love of sleepwalking porn. nt conservaphobe Jul 2014 #22
Porn and Pony Carts In_The_Wind Jul 2014 #23
Anne Rice had a kinky streak, did she not. Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #24
Great imagination. In_The_Wind Jul 2014 #25
Didn't read it, it sucked The Straight Story Jul 2014 #26
Yes, it did. In_The_Wind Jul 2014 #27
Funny story about that. Aristus Jul 2014 #29
"And that's how Gran met that nice EMT." nolabear Jul 2014 #32
HA! Aristus Jul 2014 #33
Oh my In_The_Wind Jul 2014 #36
After she got her refund, I went over to the bookshelves and found the print version of the book. Aristus Jul 2014 #37
I was unaware of an audio copy. In_The_Wind Jul 2014 #38
Well, she was pretty upset... Aristus Jul 2014 #39
Anne Rice linked to bad review of the Beauty trilogy on her kickitup Jul 2014 #41
Wow. conservaphobe Jul 2014 #50
Yeah, you've missed quite a lot Warpy Jul 2014 #28
Lol! nt ecstatic Jul 2014 #34
What about gay porn, does that objectify women as well? Lurks Often Jul 2014 #31
Women are evidently big consumers of gay erotica. I will kickitup Jul 2014 #44
Some women like the idea of or watching two or more men Lurks Often Jul 2014 #51
Anyone who's been in an adult book store knows that ... JEFF9K Jul 2014 #35
Really? This is what's important? I'm a retired sex-worker with my share of porn out there, and genwah Jul 2014 #40
This site is certainly not aptly named. JEFF9K Jul 2014 #45
well, The Underground part works pretty well Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2014 #49
you've been here since 2006, right? Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #46

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
13. The messy one doesn't seem that weird.
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 04:43 PM
Jul 2014

But I'm not sure the reward would be worth the admittedly intensive clean-up process.

wandy

(3,539 posts)
3. Seriously now. If it doesn't involve an inflatable swimming pool..........
Mon Jul 28, 2014, 11:01 PM
Jul 2014

swim fins and a few watermelons, it just ain't porn.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
4. Fart porn?
Mon Jul 28, 2014, 11:05 PM
Jul 2014

I'm sure there is plenty of misogynistic stuff in fart porn!

All the 'Tops' I know in the BDSM world are dominatrix's, so that blows that one out of the water.

aikoaiko

(34,165 posts)
5. I travel the world with a map. It helps me go where I want and avoid places I should avoid.
Mon Jul 28, 2014, 11:05 PM
Jul 2014

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kickitup

(355 posts)
6. Yes you forgot the . . .
Mon Jul 28, 2014, 11:33 PM
Jul 2014

All porn is above criticism and only people who are prudes dare to question it category. This can also be referred to as the "Gimme my porn right now while he stomps his foot" category. Honest to God, I am through here. I can find a more nuanced, intellectually stimulating discussion on a sub-reddit.

There seems to be a significant number of people here who are incapable of holding more than one opinion about something in their silly heads at one time. It apparently is beyond their ability to grasp the fact that one can question certain elements found in certain types of porn but have no interest whatsoever in keeping others from porning away to their heart's content be it through consumption or participation.

kickitup

(355 posts)
42. I'm staying but thanks. I need DU because living in rural, red Kentucky
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 09:45 PM
Jul 2014

makes me think I'm alone politically at times. I guess it will be a love/hate kind of thing,lol. I do hope everybody will unite to help us "Ditch Mitch." I'm scared he is going to win and I don't know why anybody in their right mind would vote for him.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
47. you have my complete and total sympathy =
Wed Jul 30, 2014, 12:36 AM
Jul 2014

Lived in parts of Kentucky a few years ago.


and Yes, the turtle must go.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
53. LOL.
Wed Jul 30, 2014, 02:06 PM
Jul 2014

And in response to the OP there are a lot of staunch defenders of the First Amendment (and Voltaire - "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.&quot around these parts.

leftstreet

(36,103 posts)
15. I think you're just hearing a few loud voices
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 05:01 PM
Jul 2014

(And some of them probably get loud to cover guilt hiding porn use from a loved one, or something immature like that)

I don't think the majority here are afraid to question much of anything, nor do I think they really give two shits what other people do in privacy

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
8. Yeah, I think you missed at least one
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 12:03 AM
Jul 2014

Back when there was talk about the SI cover there was some talk about how men liked to just self gratify themselves using any pictures of women not seen as natural (those women were not standing in natural poses, no one stands like that at the beach....)

So porn is any depiction of any person not in a natural way (ie, in a business suit at a meeting table, sitting behind a monitor smoking and drinking, in their PJ's, etc)....so any image of any woman if looked at (leering?) by a man could be seen as porn if he does not comment on the pic in a simple way -- like, "That is a nice photo, I respect the work done in making it and the scene of productivity in the workplace it shows" and so on. Women must be fully clothed/covered, no makeup, think factory worker in China. Otherwise, it is patriarchal misogynist porn men will use.

Porn is everywhere around you, I think it is called 'Ninja Porn' because you cannot see it until someone who understands it shows you it.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
10. I'm one who hates the lack of romance
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 12:08 AM
Jul 2014

in our society right now. Porn and BDSM just lack that. Heck, sex lacks it, at least the way we look at it now. It's all so clinical or competition related and more like sports or just another job. If you want romance, you have to find novels at least 60 years old.

Response to treestar (Reply #10)

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
24. Anne Rice had a kinky streak, did she not.
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 08:27 PM
Jul 2014

Although we've already been through the unforgivable things Hollywood did to Exit to Eden.

Aristus

(66,310 posts)
29. Funny story about that.
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 08:42 PM
Jul 2014

I was working in a book store once about 20 years ago. An old lady came in to return an audio book. She was upset because she thought she had bought a reading of the classic 'Sleeping Beauty'. Turns out, it was the audio book of the Anne Rice (Roquelaire?) erotic trilogy, read by Amy Brenneman.

I would have loved to have been there when this prim old lady put on the cassette and began listening...

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
36. Oh my
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 09:07 PM
Jul 2014
Methinks she will never forget what she heard.
Did she listen to book two ...
Wonder what's on her mind when she watches The Kentucky Derby.

Aristus

(66,310 posts)
37. After she got her refund, I went over to the bookshelves and found the print version of the book.
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 09:10 PM
Jul 2014

I looked it over and determined that she could not have got more than three pages into the story before realizing that she had chosen the wrong 'Sleeping Beauty'.

I never listened to audio book, but I always wondered how Amy Brenneman could have read the whole thing on to tape.

That would have embarrassed the hell out of me...

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
38. I was unaware of an audio copy.
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 09:16 PM
Jul 2014

I wouldn't have listened to it.

BTW That's rather presumptuous of you to decide the little old lady quit after only 3 pages.

Aristus

(66,310 posts)
39. Well, she was pretty upset...
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 09:19 PM
Jul 2014

If she...uh...enjoyed...the audio book, wouldn't she have returned to the store to get the other two?...

kickitup

(355 posts)
41. Anne Rice linked to bad review of the Beauty trilogy on her
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 09:38 PM
Jul 2014

Facebook page and it was hilarious because the reviewer was ranting and raving about how disgusted she was ... and she was on the third book!

She was so disgusted she read all three, bless her heart.

Warpy

(111,237 posts)
28. Yeah, you've missed quite a lot
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 08:39 PM
Jul 2014

but pretty much covered it for the male-female. Even diaper fetishes could be considered a form of BDSM, along with golden showers.

I discovered the range of porn and sexual kink when I cleaned out student apartments one summer for money under the table. Funny that they'd leave their porn stashes behind with the ripped clothing and funky mattresses covered with stuff I didn't want to speculate about. I used gloves, naturally.

That was the summer I determined to mind my own damned business and let everybody else mind theirs unless I was a witness to somebody getting hurt.

 

Lurks Often

(5,455 posts)
31. What about gay porn, does that objectify women as well?
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 08:45 PM
Jul 2014


The things humans do for some seconds of involuntary muscle contractions that set off the pleasure receptors in the brain never ceases to amaze me, scare me, interest me and occasionally disgust me.

kickitup

(355 posts)
44. Women are evidently big consumers of gay erotica. I will
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 09:54 PM
Jul 2014

admit I don't understand the appeal, being a straight woman. Many of the writers of gay erotica are also women and I can't understand that either. I write erotica (cough, porn) and I wouldn't be able to do gay sex or even the male sexual experience justice. I mean I have asked my husband to explain to me how a male orgasm feels so I can write a somewhat realistic male point of view but I feel limited in my ability to do so.

 

Lurks Often

(5,455 posts)
51. Some women like the idea of or watching two or more men
Wed Jul 30, 2014, 08:40 AM
Jul 2014

go at it, some don't. I've always been curious about what the woman feels during sex.

We've come a long way in a relatively short time frame, same sex marriages are rapidly becoming legal everywhere, women being bi-sexual is generally accepted and even the idea of men actually be bi-sexual (as opposed to being gay and in denial about it) is coming to be acceptable.

With the United States being such a relatively prudish country, the leaps and bounds of progress in our views regarding sex and relationships we've made in just the past 20 years remains somewhat of a surprise to me. Course we still have a ways to go, but we are making progress.

JEFF9K

(1,935 posts)
35. Anyone who's been in an adult book store knows that ...
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 09:06 PM
Jul 2014

... only half of porn even involves women. So, at most, these women are half right.

genwah

(574 posts)
40. Really? This is what's important? I'm a retired sex-worker with my share of porn out there, and
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 09:21 PM
Jul 2014

I'm really wondering why people spend time here. mean "Democratic" is right there in the name of the site, but what are we doing for Democratic ideals, Democratic action, and what? We're arguing over a crappy BDSM book that may be a good movie based on a crappy book, and for what?

Is anyone here interested in DOING SOMETHING to change the congress? In moving the Overton window a little? Yes, BDSM porn is cute, and fun for people outside of the community, but is that what this community (lightheartedly called the "Democratic Underground" is for? Opinions about porn? Who cares?

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
46. you've been here since 2006, right?
Tue Jul 29, 2014, 11:33 PM
Jul 2014

Surely you've noticed by now that actual political discussions are generally dwarfed by circumcision-PETA-Thanksgiving-Olive Garden-Kids in Airports-Porn bombed the Moon and Chicken threads.

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