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scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 10:15 PM Aug 2014

For my 27th thousand post on DU.

I've been on DU since sometime in 2001 - I don't remember which month I joined. I know I began reading DU in the spring of 2001, and was a registered member by the time of the 9/11 attacks. My registration number is 106679, which means I was the 6,679th person to sign up on DU.

I doubt many people are familiar with my username these days, since I have never been a paricularly profligate poster, and these days I maybe post a comment in the main forums no more than 2 -3 times a week, and post an OP less than 3-4 times a year. But I've been here reading all along, through all these 13+ years. I've seen countless DUers that I knew from the early days drift away or get banned - and there are many of those who got banned whom I dearly miss even today. Not to mention those very precious DUers who shuffled off this mortal coil - to the grievous loss of us all.

Anyway, the last time I marked a milestone in my post count was when I reached 1,000 posts, ages ago. Back then I was in a friendly race with Jackpine Radical for reaching the 1,000 mark - I think I may have won, but I honestly don't remember for sure. What matters to me now is that he is still here and still posting, and is still my good friend. Thank you, Jackpine! And if you won that race, please be sure to correct the record!

I totally missed noticing when I made my 10,000th post, and totally missed noticing when I made my 20,000th post - so I've been sort of half-assed watching for this 27,000 mark - just for the heck of it. I noticed I had reached 26,999 on Monday, so I started thinking about what I might want to write for #27,000, to mark the occasion.

So, this is it. This is how I'm marking my 27,000th post on DU.

I still love this place - even as I despair about many things that go on here, even as I miss how it was in the early days, even as I feel anger, disgust, despair about how people have come to treat each other here - I mean, come on, can't some of you at least TRY to be kind to each other?

DU is my home on the internet - literally, it's my homepage, has been since 2001. After all these years here, I can't imagine my life without DU. And I've "met" so many wonderful, extraordinary people here - some in real life, for which I will always be grateful.

Please be kind to each other. Please don't automatically assume ill intent on the part of those with whom you disagree. When your first instinct is to respond to someone with anger or snark, please take a moment before you click "post" to consider the possibility that you might have misinterpreted their intent. Please take a moment to consider that your reflexively moving into combat mode will only result in defensiveness and combativeness in return.

I think that most of us are here because we care about the state of our country and its governance, and we hope that, through our discussions with each other, we can share and promote ideas for creating a better future. What else is the point?

Really, this is all I have to say for my 27,000th post: please treat each other with kindness.

Thanks,
sw

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For my 27th thousand post on DU. (Original Post) scarletwoman Aug 2014 OP
And a wonderful post it is. Autumn Aug 2014 #1
awesome post, and many more happy ones ! nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #2
Congratulations, Old Friend! The Magistrate Aug 2014 #3
I've always been particularly enamored of the number 9 since I was a kid. scarletwoman Aug 2014 #12
Congratulations! IdaBriggs Aug 2014 #4
For my 3,933rd post... ChisolmTrailDem Aug 2014 #5
Welcome to DU!!! But seriously, congrats! NYC_SKP Aug 2014 #6
LOL! Thanks! scarletwoman Aug 2014 #19
Congratulations on 27k, SW. Jackpine Radical Aug 2014 #7
Aha! I WON, I WON!!!!! Bwaahahahaaa! scarletwoman Aug 2014 #15
An excellent post thank you! ALBliberal Aug 2014 #8
I know who you are - TBF Aug 2014 #9
Thank you for your kind words! scarletwoman Aug 2014 #17
K&R Zorra Aug 2014 #10
Dear Zorra, I'm so glad you're here on DU! scarletwoman Aug 2014 #18
Congrats. Nice thoughts. vanlassie Aug 2014 #11
I'm always suspicions of low post-count posters like you.... Algernon Moncrieff Aug 2014 #13
Nice way to pass the milestone. brer cat Aug 2014 #14
Hello! hunter Aug 2014 #16
Hello back atcha! scarletwoman Aug 2014 #21
Wow! 27,000! 3catwoman3 Aug 2014 #20
Oh sure, you can get there! scarletwoman Aug 2014 #23
Congratulations on your 27,000th post, my dear scarletwoman! CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2014 #22
Congrats on 27th thousand scarletwoman Crewleader Aug 2014 #24
I wish I had read this before my last post. Vattel Aug 2014 #25
Congratulations to another fine Minnesotan! Lydia Leftcoast Aug 2014 #26
kindness kpete Aug 2014 #27
Always good to see one of your posts me b zola Aug 2014 #28
Quite an 2naSalit Aug 2014 #29
Such a good commemorative post! Thanks! nolabear Aug 2014 #30
+27,000 Martin Eden Aug 2014 #31
You've always been one of my favourite posters here, scarletwoman. polly7 Aug 2014 #32
And what a mouthful you had to say madokie Aug 2014 #33
Great post, kick! Agschmid Aug 2014 #34
Congratulations, scarletwoman Iwillnevergiveup Aug 2014 #35
Thanks for Your Investment DesertFaux Aug 2014 #36
Welcome to DU... N_E_1 for Tennis Aug 2014 #58
I love your sentiments, dear scarletwoman. longship Aug 2014 #37
It's wonderful to see you! myrna minx Aug 2014 #38
The kindness horse bolted from the barn with its tail on fire Jeff Rosenzweig Aug 2014 #39
Congratulations & wonderful sentiment emsimon33 Aug 2014 #40
I love you to death, ScarletWoman, Blue_In_AK Aug 2014 #41
Murderer! lovemydog Aug 2014 #65
Congratulations, scarletwoman! Enthusiast Aug 2014 #42
Hey, there! H2O Man Aug 2014 #43
K&R. "please treat each other with kindness" - hope this gets 27k recs. FSogol Aug 2014 #44
Excellent post. Laelth Aug 2014 #45
Thank you, scarletwoman! Octafish Aug 2014 #46
Congrats malaise Aug 2014 #47
Maybe a serotonin reuptake inhibitor would be right for you. tclambert Aug 2014 #48
Here's to you! panader0 Aug 2014 #49
A tip of my hat to you Scarlet. Tierra_y_Libertad Aug 2014 #50
Thank you, and congratulations from another long-timer. Aristus Aug 2014 #51
be kind! BlancheSplanchnik Aug 2014 #52
pppfffttt Kali Aug 2014 #53
HUGE K & R !!! - THANK YOU !!! WillyT Aug 2014 #54
Agreed, scarletwoman. Lot of drama queens and MEMEME! personalities closeupready Aug 2014 #55
you give very good advice... and congrats on quite the milestone Peacetrain Aug 2014 #56
... handmade34 Aug 2014 #57
27,000 never will get there.... N_E_1 for Tennis Aug 2014 #59
It's posters like you that got me hooked on DU almost 10 years ago. Maven Aug 2014 #60
Lovely sentiment, sw MissDeeds Aug 2014 #61
Kicked and recommended. Thank you for your kind and wise words. AikidoSoul Aug 2014 #62
what a beautiful post... I can't think of a better topic than this! secondwind Aug 2014 #63
That's a really good post SW! lovemydog Aug 2014 #64
Congrach!!!! calimary Aug 2014 #66
so glad you still post: G_j Aug 2014 #67
What? Your not leaving? Good for you and good for DU. Cleita Aug 2014 #68
What a great post. LuvNewcastle Aug 2014 #69

The Magistrate

(95,244 posts)
3. Congratulations, Old Friend!
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 10:21 PM
Aug 2014

That is a nice round number: there is something appropriate for celebration about three times nine, somehow....

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
12. I've always been particularly enamored of the number 9 since I was a kid.
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 10:49 PM
Aug 2014

It's such a cool number! When you add up the digits of any multiple of nine, they will always add up to nine!!! How cool is that?!

Thanks for the congrats!

 

ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
5. For my 3,933rd post...
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 10:25 PM
Aug 2014

I'd like to thank you for this message and will pledge to take a lesson from it and try to automatically go into combat mode.

Congrats on 27grand!

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
6. Welcome to DU!!! But seriously, congrats!
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 10:27 PM
Aug 2014

You're an asset to this community, and your message is the best.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
7. Congratulations on 27k, SW.
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 10:29 PM
Aug 2014

I guess I started posting here a little before you. I hadn't thought of our "posting race" in years. I think you won, iirc.

I feel the same way about U, even after all this time. I had it set as my homepage too, for many years, but for some reason changed it. However, with Chrome and Macs, I seem to always have a DU tab open whenever I pop the lid in any case.

I always get a great, warm feeling when I see one of your posts and know I can anticipate wit, compassion, and wisdom when I open it. It's good to know you're in the world.

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
15. Aha! I WON, I WON!!!!! Bwaahahahaaa!
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 10:55 PM
Aug 2014


Thanks, dear friend! What a long, strange trip it's been! I feel the same way when I see a post from you - I always make sure to rec it, and do my best to add a comment when I can.

It's good to know you're in the world, too. You always inspire me to keep caring.

3catwoman3

(23,973 posts)
20. Wow! 27,000!
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 11:12 PM
Aug 2014

I will never get there.

I especially appreciate this part of your message -


Please be kind to each other. Please don't automatically assume ill intent on the part of those with whom you disagree. When your first instinct is to respond to someone with anger or snark, please take a moment before you click "post" to consider the possibility that you might have misinterpreted their intent. Please take a moment to consider that your reflexively moving into combat mode will only result in defensiveness and combativeness in return.

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
23. Oh sure, you can get there!
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 11:20 PM
Aug 2014

Most of the oldtimers have way more posts than me! Just keep on keeping on.

Thank you for your kind words!

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,583 posts)
22. Congratulations on your 27,000th post, my dear scarletwoman!
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 11:15 PM
Aug 2014

Here's to many, many more!

I agree so much about treating each other with kindness. I try to do it as well.......see my sigline.

And, like you, DU is my electronic home, the place I come to first every day, and the place I sign off from at night...

I'm glad you're here!

 

Vattel

(9,289 posts)
25. I wish I had read this before my last post.
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 11:22 PM
Aug 2014

Thanks for the needed reminder scarletwoman. And thanks for your many contributions to this site.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
32. You've always been one of my favourite posters here, scarletwoman.
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 12:30 AM
Aug 2014

Congrats on your milestone!, and what a great post. For you, I WILL try harder to think in a kinder way before I hit that button.

You're a gem, it's always so good to see your name here.

Iwillnevergiveup

(9,298 posts)
35. Congratulations, scarletwoman
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 01:14 AM
Aug 2014

Love your sentiment - it really does work. And your sig line is just outstanding - that also works.

 

DesertFaux

(15 posts)
36. Thanks for Your Investment
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 01:23 AM
Aug 2014

It does take balance though. Balance between rage, insecurity, fear and love for people. Thanks for your help and energy, thanks for caring, for expressing your care and hoping for a good outcome. It doesn't always happen the way we want, this investment thing, but giving our time, energy and resources is all we can do. Keep on truck'in.

longship

(40,416 posts)
37. I love your sentiments, dear scarletwoman.
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 01:44 AM
Aug 2014

I am sick about nastiness here. People take disagreement as a personal affront. That's too bad.

Here's to you, my friend.

Jeff Rosenzweig

(121 posts)
39. The kindness horse bolted from the barn with its tail on fire
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 02:52 AM
Aug 2014

a long, long time ago here. But I do congratulate you on your milestone, my friend. May you be well always.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
45. Excellent post.
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 07:50 AM
Aug 2014

Here's a tip for those who wish to heed scarletwoman's sage advice, and it's a long-standing axiom in American politics: never question another person's motives. We must assume, in order to preserve civility in our political discourse, that we are all patriots--that we want only what we feel is best for our country and its citizens. You might think you see evidence of ill will and malicious intent, but it's disastrous to say so ... ever, and on a site like this, while it's fine to assume nefarious motives about our political opponents on the right, it's really never OK to accuse another DU poster of being a "Paulbot" or a Republican troll. I have seen far too much of that lately.

So, to echo scarletwoman, I also invite us all to be kind to one another, but I note that the best way to do that is to assume noble motives on the part of all participants here, and, if you can't do that, just don't reply. Accusing people of evil motives degrades our discourse, creates enemies, and fosters discord in our ranks. Accusing DU posters of working for the enemy actually weakens us and strengthens our opponents. Let us not eat our own.

Peace.

-Laelth

tclambert

(11,085 posts)
48. Maybe a serotonin reuptake inhibitor would be right for you.
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 11:09 AM
Aug 2014

SRIs have shown some success in treating OCD. Of course, the world actually needs some people with OCD. How can anyone reach the top of their profession without a big, heapin' helpin' of OCD?

Aristus

(66,316 posts)
51. Thank you, and congratulations from another long-timer.
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 11:16 AM
Aug 2014

I can tell how long we've been here by the way we reminisce about the 'good old days'.

Barack Obama is President now, instead of 'W'. And DU has gone downhill.

Seems a fair, or at least workable, trade-off.

Many more years of posting to you, scarletwoman...

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
52. be kind!
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 11:23 AM
Aug 2014


That's about the main thing, isn't it? The crux of the biscuit. Heeeee! Actually, that's why I have my pic here.....reminds me not to succumb to Anonymity Syndrome.

Always do appreciate your posts.

Kali

(55,007 posts)
53. pppfffttt
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 11:27 AM
Aug 2014

go to the Lounge and post an "Ask Taterguy a Dumbass Question" thread, you will reach 27,005 in no time!


(congrats, and nice post)

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
55. Agreed, scarletwoman. Lot of drama queens and MEMEME! personalities
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 11:33 AM
Aug 2014

here these days. I guess there were always drama queens here, but the narcissism seems worse nowadays. Not sure why. K&R

N_E_1 for Tennis

(9,715 posts)
59. 27,000 never will get there....
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 01:59 PM
Aug 2014

Congrats.
Been here a long time also. Low poster tho.
Your posts always are good, always read when I see your name.

Maven

(10,533 posts)
60. It's posters like you that got me hooked on DU almost 10 years ago.
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 02:01 PM
Aug 2014

Thanks for the uplifting post, sw. I always enjoy seeing your name in threads.

calimary

(81,212 posts)
66. Congrach!!!!
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 05:46 PM
Aug 2014

Dear scarletwoman, that's just MARVELOUS! A great milestone! You speak so greatly (in both common usages for the word "greatly" - frequency and degree of wonderfulness) for me in this think-piece. But you, at least, had the presence of mind to note when you were getting close to a major number like this. It totally passed me by til one day recently when it finally occurred to me to glance at my own post numbers! I bet it's something a lot of us don't do! DU is my "home on the internet," too. Other than my kid's band's Facebook page, that is!

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
68. What? Your not leaving? Good for you and good for DU.
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 05:57 PM
Aug 2014

Have a and settle down to write your 27001th post.

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