Two Words....Sex Contract

[Rhinodawg]

they cover straight and gay.

Save yourself a lot of grief.


http://www.sex-contract.com/

[davidpdx]

1. An interesting idea

I usually try to have an actual conversation with the person and get an idea of what they are willing to do.

There is always the stipulation that sex while hanging off the ceiling is out of the question.

With that amount of paperwork I might need to rent a warehouse or two.

[Rhinodawg]

3. Nothing that a team of lawyers with notaries couldnt handle. lol

Create a sex consent form for a man to sign:


Kissing
Consent to mouth-to-mouth kissing
Yes No
If yes, what kind:
closed mouth kissing open-mouthed kissing with lips open-mouthed kissing with tongue light biting/nibbling heavy biting/nibbling
Consent to being kissed on the face and neck
Yes No
If yes:
will not hold the kisser responsible for hickies


Touching
Consent to being touched or fondled
Yes No
Consent to being touched on the chest
outside of clothes: Inside of clothes
Consent to being touched on the buttocks (not including anal penetration)
outside of clothes: inside of clothes
Consent to being touched in the crotch
outside of clothes: inside of clothes


Oral-Genital, Oral-Anal Contact
Consent to receive oral sex (fellatio)
Yes No
If receiving fellatio:
agree not to ejaculate in my partner's mouth
Consent to receive oral sex performed on the anus (analingus)
Yes No

Genital-to-Genital Contact
Agree to genital-to-genital contact, not including penetration (outercourse)
Yes No
If yes:
will use a condom
Vaginal penetration
Agree to vaginal penetration by my penis
Yes No
If yes:
agree to use of a condom
agree not to ejaculate within the vagina
I agree to get a prescription from a licensed physician before using Viagra or taking Levitra during sex


Anal penetration
Agree to anal penetration by fingers
Yes No
If yes:
1 fingers 2 fingers 3 fingers 4 fingers full fisting
Agree to anal penetration by sex toys
Yes No
If yes, which kind:
dildos vibrators butt plugs
Consent to penetrate my partner's anus with my penis
Yes No
If yes:
agree to use of a condom
agree not to ejaculate within my partner's anus
STDs
Have or had in the past the following STDs (sexually transmitted diseases): Check all that apply:
herpes syphilis gonorrhea genital or anal warts chlamydia HIV/AIDS hepatitis yeast infection
If I become infected:
will not hold the partner responsible for any disease or condition acquired during the sex act


Birth Control
I will use the following form(s) of birth control:
condom withdrawal spermicidal jelly/foam am sterile



Required:
I am 18 years of age or older and possess the intellectual and emotional maturity required to consent to sex.
I consent to the sex acts listed above of my own free will. I have not been coerced into signing this document or agreeing to these terms. I have also not been paid any money, or expect to receive any form of remuneration now or in the future, for performing these sex acts.
I am not intoxicated with drugs or alcohol, my judgment is in no way impaired and I offer full and informed consent to these sex acts.
I acknowledge that this contract is for informational purposes only and may not be enforceable. I agree to review this contract with a licensed attorney in my locality before using it.

[davidpdx]

8. Those stipulations are long enough they could stretch to Uranus and back

hahahahaha

[davidpdx]

12. Well I am a married man now

So sex is a foreign concept.

[RandiFan1290]

15. Yeah, if only he had those women sign a paper

before he raped them..


'Publicons really are disgusting fucking slime.

[geek tragedy]

21. So you're one of the rape apologists who thinks

all victims are liars.

[JustAnotherGen]

22. +1

[Rhinodawg]

27. Geek...i never,never said that.

I'm old school.

I believe people are innocent until proven guilty.

I have stated here I don't know who is right and who is wrong.

yes, it looks like hes a rapist and it may be true.

[geek tragedy]

28. O rly?

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5854551

Rhinodawg
25. I have to wonder....
if there is racial element to this.

Railroad the black guy. Disgusting.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5854606

Rhinodawg
29. Oh please...spare me your faux outrage.
History is replete with innocent African -American males accused of rape.

Go away and read some history.

It's easy to pile on accused people to get your name in the media.

Also, your claim that Cosby could have benefited from this presumes that the women are lying about consent.

[Rhinodawg]

29. Wow...

and where did I say I didn't believe the women?

[geek tragedy]

31. Of what use would this contract be to a rapist? nt

[Rhinodawg]

33. Probably no use at all.

if its true, he should go to jail.

but I never and would never accuse any woman of lying.

you can have the last word.

[LanternWaste]

42. The way you hide behind the very implications you make is quite creative.

The way you hide behind the very implications you make is quite creative.

[Hoppy]

18. About two years ago, one of the college was wanting their students to ask similar questions before

getting it on.

[Prophet 451]

2. So much for spontaneity

[Rhinodawg]

4. So much for your career and money and reputation.

[Prophet 451]

5. That would require me to have one of the three

My SO and I have been together long enough to know what we are willing to do with one another.

[geek tragedy]

30. A bogus contract doesn't immunize one from the consequences

of being a serial rapist.

[redgreenandblue]

6. I hate that phrase, but "only in America"

[Le Taz Hot]

7. One word . . . Spam

[cali]

10. one phrase: par for the course.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

41. word.

Bingo.

[ileus]

11. I guess there's no refusal after signing consent?

This may need to be filmed just to make sure none of the boundaries were crossed against the others will.

[Travis_0004]

13. Dave chapelle did a bit on this 10 years ago.

He also recomended a non disclosure agreement if his performace didnt meet expections.

[brooklynite]

14. Since a participant has the right to change their mind at any time, how is this useful?

BTW - have YOU applied this technology?

[Skidmore]

16. Islam beat you to it.

http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2010/03/temporary-marriage-iran-islam

I have known people involved in such contractual arrangements for varying lengths of time. Same principle.

[GummyBearz]

36. In that case

If Islam does it, it must be an acceptable idea. Case closed

[Skidmore]

45. Nah, I just think it is funny

such is a proposal is being made by the OP, given the nature of its historical existence elsewhere.

[FSogol]

17. How romanitcal!

[gollygee]

19. There is no other situation where people don't understand when someone doesn't want to do something

I don't buy that people are surprised when women say they didn't actually want sex.

[pinboy3niner]

20. Happy Contractiversary, honey!

I got you a new pen and a coupon for 3 free document notarizations!

[demwing]

23. Needs a non-compete clause

"Any sexual positions learned or secrets revealed during contracted sexual contact are regulated by this contract, and cannot be shared with or used upon any additional or subsequent sexual partners, by either party to this contract, for a period of 6 months immediately following the dissolution of this partnership."

[pinboy3niner]

24. I already applied to the Potent Office to trademark everything. :) nt

[Major Nikon]

25. Is there an app for that?

[Xithras]

39. Humorously enough...yes

There is an app that allows both partners in a potential sexual "connection" to sync their hookup and specify how far they are willing to go. It's actually not a bad idea, because it lets both partners know how far each is interested in going ahead of time, and provides legal protection for both. It also allows for later notifications for pregnancy and STD's.

There was another app that was just a consent questionnaire, but Apple yanked it about a month ago.

[rurallib]

26. why do I have a feeling this will show up on the "Big Bang Theory'?

[Sheldon Cooper]

35. Sheldon will no doubt present one to Amy, if their relationship ever gets to that point.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

32. Isn't this something like what Christian had Anna sign in 50 Shades of Gray ... ?

and didn't the typical Housewife (or whomever snatched up all those books) think it was all -So Sexy- ... ?

so seriously.

we have Prenups.

why not

sex contracts.

Aren't they pretty much de riguer in the BDSM community ... ?

really.

[GummyBearz]

37. eh...

My wife made it clear she wouldnt sign a prenup and I wouldnt sign a sex contract. And while I love her and we have sex regularly, she wants things in bed that I'm not into at all. I guess that deal bites her in the ass, but I wont.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

40. like I could give a shit what goes on with you and your wife. sheesh.

[GummyBearz]

43. Darn

I really hoped you would give a shit

[Ykcutnek]

34. I guess the exhibitionists will be happy to bring lawyers into the bedroom.

But what about the rest of us?

[dilby]

38. It's a start but missing the key stuff I think you need a contract for.

And that being BDSM stuff, I have been with women in the past who were into some alternative forms of play but I would not do it because I was always worried that they could come back and say I did XYZ to them and I would be in prison after that. Something like this would have changed my mind knowing I had some flimsy form of protection.

The other thing I can see as a problem is that this contract would need to be signed before every time you have sex. Just because a girl agreed to the contract once does not mean the guy can then rape her everyday after that and say well we had a contract.

[LanternWaste]

44. Must be a tough old world when one is so strongly compelled to...

Must be a tough old world when one is so strongly compelled to have sex with individuals we have neither full trust nor faith in. One might presume that avoiding such would much more easily, and much more efficiently avoid a "lot of grief."

However, if your own desire for intimacy with those your do not trust outweighs any self-discipline you may or may not posses... good luck with the contract. Having read a handful of your posts, it certainly sounds as though it would come in handy for you.