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Source: Gawker
The man wanted to paddle his tween daughter for getting into "a heated argument" with her sister, WLWT reports, so he called the Okeechobee County Sheriff's Office and asked them to supervise. A deputy came to the house, watched the corporal punishment, and left after determining it was legal.
"It's within statute for them to discipline their children, and spank them. ... You are entitled to paddle your child, whether you use you hands, you use a belt, you use a paddle. Within reason. As long as you're paddlin' the buttocks," undersheriff Noel Stephen told WLWT. The report didn't specify whether hand, belt, or paddle was the weapon of choice in this particular case.
Stephen is apparently correct: "Corporal discipline of a child by a parent or legal custodian for disciplinary purposes does not in itself constitute abuse when it does not result in harm to the child," according to Florida's civil code, and the threshold for "harm" is pretty high: It includes cuts, burns, sprains, hemorrhages, broken bones, and disfigurement, among other things.
Read more: http://gawker.com/dad-calls-cops-to-watch-him-spank-12-year-old-daughter-1677493594
Kalidurga
(14,177 posts)I hope his daughter turns out alright. She might just be gone when she is of age, no looking back.
RKP5637
(67,104 posts)Jackpine Radical
(45,274 posts)Does PTSD count as "harm to the child?"
RKP5637
(67,104 posts)IMO a lot of these laws are about letting these jerks have a good time of it all. As you said, sick shit.
MindPilot
(12,693 posts)"undersheriff Noel Stephen has personally overseen about a dozen such paddlin' incidents, but says the sheriff's office only provides the service when deputies aren't handling more serious calls."
Creepy...really, really creepy.
ETA, after giving it a little more thought, it sounds a lot perverse. I'll bet there is some really nasty shit going on beneath the surface there.
RKP5637
(67,104 posts)demmiblue
(36,841 posts)Two adult males taking part in the spanking of a tween (who has probably already started puberty, mind you).
Creepy and humiliating.
MindPilot
(12,693 posts)The young lady's father and a uniformed police officer. You could do your entire psych dissertation on the damage that can cause.
Again I think there is way more going on here than a wildly inappropriate administration of corporal punishment.
pipoman
(16,038 posts)An occasional swat on the seat to get the kid's attention, never infliction of serious pain....that's just counter productive imo ..by 12 there are enough other things important to the kid to take away. ...way more effective
Trillo
(9,154 posts)If this becomes a trend, imagine the future resentment toward cops. "My daddy spanked me in your presence because I caught him assaulting mom, and he falsely claimed I was 'in a heated argument' with my sister. You did nothing to him, mom was locked up in the basement while you stood by and witnessed. Fuck you coppers."
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)I would have arrested the father for misues of public funds.
jdenver_2624
(50 posts)Time to call CPS on this guy.
joeglow3
(6,228 posts)It mentions nothing of his views on breastfeeding in public, getting children vaccinated, owning pit bulls or if he would circumcise his sons.
Initech
(100,063 posts)countryjake
(8,554 posts)SomethingFishy
(4,876 posts)frylock
(34,825 posts)now that daddy has shown her the proper way to handle disagreements.
on edit: and yeah, i have to agree that this is fukcin creepy.