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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsBill Cosby makes a "rape joke." FUCK YOU, you pitiful excuse for a human being. FUCK YOU.
It reportedly drew cheers and applause when he uttered it at a stand-up show in London, Ontario on Thursday.
By Lucia Graves
http://www.nationaljournal.com/politics/the-worst-part-about-bill-cosby-s-rape-joke-20150109
During his show in Canada on Thursday night, Bill Cosby used a comedy performance to make a joke about the 20-plus women alleging he drugged them or sexually assaulted them. When a woman in the front row of the performance space said she was getting up to get a drink, Cosby reportedly told her, "You have to be careful about drinking around me."
The comments, relayed via Twitter by Richard Warnica, a reporter from the National Post in Toronto, were well received by Cosby's audience. After some initial gasps, "the gasps then changed to cheers and applause," according to Warnica's tweets. Later in the performance, a single heckler was removed (though more than 100 protesters were gathered outside the arena).
The comedian has long refused to answer questions about the rape allegations against him, recently stonewalling NPR's Scott Simon when Simon inquired about the reports on a Weekend Edition Saturday show. But Cosby is apparently not above joking about the allegationsand that's just fine with his some of his fans.
After the show, Cosby openly reveled in his joke's warm reception. "One outburst, but over 2,600 loyal, patient, and courageous fans enjoyed the most wonderful medicine that exist for humankind. Laughter."
PCIntern
(25,539 posts)OK OK...he could be Caligula's Court Jester. How's that for laughs?
Nevada Blue
(130 posts)or has he only been tried in the court of public opinion (and supermarket tabloids)?
I have no opinion about it at all until I know more. Seems to me when people like Janice Dickinson get on the bandwagon, there is at least a possibility that not all of these women are telling the truth.
I'm still in wait and see mode, personally.
Miles Archer
(18,837 posts)...you either are guilty or you suck ass as a human being.
Either way, "Dr. Huxtable" fucked UP on this one.
mythology
(9,527 posts)I've made some pretty tasteless jokes about my physical condition after having knee surgery that means I won't be able to walk normally for several weeks. Yes it's a little different in that outside of my parents having to take me in for several weeks while I can't drive, nobody is effected, but some people deflect stress with humor.
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)shooting kids or some other dipshit with a serious problem mocked it, would it be humor too or a symptom of their pathology?
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)There's always something on the DU.
Earlier this week it was that vulgar explicit cartoons that deride a particular religious leader (and, by association, believers of that leader,) are Okie Dokie expressions of something protected by something and that's OK because SATIRE.
And here have people who have made the claims against Cosby and we have others who've come out in his defense.
Nobody on this board knows what happened but it's oK to presume his guilt, I suppose, because, well, I really have no idea.
It just happens.
If he is guilty, however, I hope he burns in hell.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)why.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)You are certainly neither a rape apologist nor a misogynist. Obviously.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)person says something doesn't mean it's true. take the innuendo in your post, for example.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)that it's true.
rock
(13,218 posts)And next answer, how many people say there isn't a god?
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Cha
(297,154 posts)women brainwashed?
malaise
(268,949 posts)That sure isn't true.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)rape. That's just a given.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)The odds that they're all lying would seem to be unrealistically low.
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)It's just the way it is, no matter how successful.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)You must have thought Anita Hill was lying too.
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)I lurve you, geek tragedy!
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)Their stories are extremely similar, and unless you believe there's some kind of orchestrated conspiracy among dozens of different women to open themselves up to slut-shaming and general public denigration, it's likely they're true.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)one woman claims he grabbed her breast.
another claims he kissed her.
Beverly Johnson claims he made her a cappuccino & after 2 "sips," she knew it was drugged, but too late -- she passed out, but not before calling him a motherfucker, which apparently made him give up his designs on her, such that he "dragged her out of his house and hailed her a cab"
one woman accuses cosby of licking her toes while she was drugged.
Sammy Davis Jr.'s ex says Cosby invited her to his room and immediately "ripped" her clothes off and raped her -- no drugs. She never told Sammy because..."I just figured, If I don't think about it, it won't bother me."
http://www.vulture.com/2014/09/timeline-of-the-abuse-charges-against-cosby.html
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)of the participants and am passingly familiar with the public persona of just a couple?
Maybe you think that's a sound basis for having a strong opinion. I disagree.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)There was no trial.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)is directly analogous to Bill Cosby raping women in private rooms. Maybe you'd like to bring in the Nazis too.
Ordinary Cambodians had knowledge of Pol Pot's camps and his disappearances, because he killed 25% of the population. So most citizens suffered directly or knew someone who did.
Who has knowledge of Cosby's alleged crimes, especially 20-40 years down the road? He didn't rape women in public.
Private persons accused of crimes like rape have a right to trial in the US.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Your choice to believe them all to be liars is not an enlightened one.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)about what happened between private parties in private, and where accusations are made, prefer a court of law decide the matter. As opposed to internet posters named "geek tragedy".
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)unwanted sexual aggression? Does it have to be straight up rape to let the world know that he has a problem with using women against their will. If he TOUCHED THEM AT ALL he's a perv. If 100 women came out with their stories and its really damned possible that they exist, it would still be about color or something else for some because they don't get it. ANY touch unwanted is SEXUAL ASSAULT.
zappaman
(20,606 posts)rock
(13,218 posts)The various courts say not enough evidence.
On edit: Oh, I should say most of the cases have met the statute of limitations.
peacebird
(14,195 posts)I always thought it was innocent until proven guilty.
Why didn't these women go to the police as soon as the alleged rape took place?
malaise
(268,949 posts)and they have the same plan for Obama.
Bring evidence or STFU - see how gently they handle the English prince who was hangng out with a convicted pedophile.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)except for malice? Among a group of women who all spent time with Cosby (you know he would rip their stories to shreds if her could- he partied, mentored and or or worked with all of them). I don't think that is a credible explanation at all. What is credible, is that society barely acknowledged "date rape" then or prosecutes rape of the incapacitated to this very day.
These women correctly assessed their chances at justice many years ago vs the chances it would further damage their lives, and for the most part- behaved accordingly.
I agree the prince is getting off easy- just as Cosby did years ago. As the majority of less powerful men do. When it's one woman, she is always asking for it. They would love us to believe it's always "sluts and nuts".
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)police" canard is the go-to for rape culture fans.
peacebird
(14,195 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)All of them.
You are choosing to believe one wealthy and powerful man over dozens of women.
Seems rather odd that you can't imagine why rape victims wouldn't come forward against a rich, powerful male celebrity.
peacebird
(14,195 posts)NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)Last edited Sat Jan 10, 2015, 11:13 PM - Edit history (1)
really changed except he no longer has a hit tv show, but now we're supposed to believe they're no longer scared of his power.
He was going to have a new tv show, but he ran afoul of someone or something and isn't going to. What happened to Bill's power?
And I note that the poster who called me an asshole in response just deleted his post. and while I may be an asshole, I'm a female asshole, btw. unlike the male calling me an asshole.
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NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)There are countless reasons rape victims don't report.
Nobody gives a shit enough Bill Cosby to orchestrate a takedown. That man is just a fucking creep.
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)go through trial.
peacebird
(14,195 posts)I find it more than troubling that none of these women went to the authorities back when it could have mattered, and now that it can never be fairly adjucated a bunch of folks are coming out with the same story. Did he rape? I do not know, nor do you. Did he have sex with women who later regretted it and now call it rape? I do no know, nor do you. Which one is telling the truth? He said, she said. IF he is guilty then let justice be done, but how can he ever clear his name if he is innocent? Bottom line, we do not know. Innocent until proven guilty, sorry, but that is the way of it. Not innocent until enough people accuse.
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)The victim may feel that she/he is to blame for what happened.
The victim may feel embarrassed about what happened.
The victim may believe that the justice system is uncooperative, inefficient, or victim-blaming.
The victim may not want the perpetrator to get in trouble.
The victim may not want her/his family to find out.
The victim may not recognize that she/he was raped.
The victim may have been threatened by the perpetrator.
The victim may fear retaliation by the perpetrator if she/he was to report.
The victim may fear that she/he will not be believed.
The victim may have already had a bad experience with the police.
The victim may know someone who reported and had a bad experience with the police.
The victims friends and/or family may not support reporting.
The victims friends and/or family are telling the victim it was not rape.
There may be cultural considerations that lead the victim to avoid the police at all costs.
The rest of your post is just apologist nonsense that sounds like it came from AVFM.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)going to the press less hellish?
not to mention that other trials can be hellish as well.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Your apologism for a known rapist is far more offensive than a cartoon, in my opinion.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)"not assuming rape victims are liars" already carries the assumption that those they accuse are rapists they're the victims of.
I thought kangaroo courts were for backward countries.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)The vast majority having no pecuniary motive to do so?
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)might exist.
I don't either, which is why I believe, generally speaking, in 'innocent until proven guilty' for private citizens.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Even if you say the odds in each case are 50/50, the odds are 1/2^25.
He is not in jail. He is a rapist.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)I repeat: as you don't have all the information, you have no idea what the odds are.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)Or the thistle burrs that won't go away?
Or a snippy little dog that won't stop yapping and snapping at your ankles?
I have had two or three of the darlings these past three days, they are like the Energizer bunny!
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)Response to NYC_SKP (Reply #4)
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NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)We're soaking in it now!
NJCher
(35,658 posts)Cher
tblue37
(65,336 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)out that dozens of women describing the same pattern of behavior make an overwhelmingly credible case.
But, free country and it's your right to keep your head in the sand.
Cosby is a rapist.
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)Where ever do you come up with these things?
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)If Bill Cosby is more credible to a person than the 30 women combined, that person is a rape apologist.
rock
(13,218 posts)These women have for the most part talked to reporters (not under oath). The women were not cross examined. What the reporters said was reported in the media (not under oath). Because some of us say, "We don't know these women, nor the circumstances of the stories, and desire to await an official investigation rather than jumping to conclusions." Your conclusion: they are all telling the truth; we are assuming the women are all liars; The best I can describe your logic is to say it is composed of non sequiturs. (That's the best, mind you.)
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)You are free to disbelieve their stories and presume that Bill Cosby is an innocent victim of a smear campaign.
Either he is a rapist or they are all liars. One seems much more plausible and statistically likely.
rock
(13,218 posts)I do not have to take a pro or a con position for a situation in which I have insufficient evidence. But I agree with underlying thought: you are free to believe their stories and presume that Bill Cosby is an evil rapist.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)are telling the truth. That's the only way one can avoid having an opinion as to whether he's guilty.
30 different women combined aren't more credible to you than Bill Cosby is.
I am going with the math.
840high
(17,196 posts)Donald Ian Rankin
(13,598 posts)At least 28 different women have accused him of drugging and raping them, many of them strangers to one another.
That many accusations from people who knew one another might, conceivably, be a conspiracy.
But the number of women who have never met one another who have testified that he drugged and raped them makes it really quite implausible that he didn't, I think, especially given that some of the accusations were made before others were widely known about.
braddy
(3,585 posts)in 2005 she had brought forth 13 more Jane Does, so he settled.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)of why he settled, despite claiming you know.
braddy
(3,585 posts)she also found 13 more Jane Doe victims, mostly to support her description and his methods.
This is a discussion, not a court room, and I would say that settlement sure is a heavy hit against him.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)or a determination of guilt.
it's go away money.
braddy
(3,585 posts)if that makes you feel better.
While doing that you can ignore the phenomena of dozens of women from a variety of states and cities, of all ages today, even their 70s, some very successful, describing sexual assaults from 5 different decades.
This would be one of the strangest conspiracies we have ever heard directed at an individual, in regards to rape claims.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)braddy
(3,585 posts)his 400 million dollars of power and high priced lawyers and his media influence to destroy her.
Cosby settled, and America's Dad, with 400 million dollars, that already had a team of legal sharks and private investigators to protect him during his wild sex life, did not reach that decision until he had tried methods that had already worked for him in the past.
"A former Enquirer reporter told Page Six that the tabloid had a story planned about Cosby's alleged sexual escapades for the summer of 1989:
Contacted by the Enquirer for comment, Cosby apparently handed the weekly a story about his then-23-year-old daughter Erinn's battle with drug and alcohol abuse instead.
"My editor told me that daddy Cosby was the source. He ratted out his flesh and blood," said my source.
Cosby was quoted in the flattering story as saying, "Deep down inside, she knows we love her."
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)braddy
(3,585 posts)"As Page Six's Richard Johnson relayed on Monday, a former National Enquirer reporter told Johnson that in exchange for the tabloid killing a story about Cosby "swinging with Sammy Davis Jr. and some showgirls in Las Vegas," the actor allegedly leaked information about his daughter Erinn, then 23, and her battle with drugs and alcohol."
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)braddy
(3,585 posts)that he doesn't want to name, he could be making it up.
Cosby has never settled out of court on this claim.
wheniwasincongress
(1,307 posts)Long before any trendy "bandwagon" as you so kindly put it...
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)I still like the old ways, when someone was not convicted in the media but in a court of law.
Thanks for asking that question, American is losing its 'freedoms' or I should say, giving them up with hardly a whimper. No one took them, as we were warned about, we just handed them over.
alp227
(32,018 posts)because that would take away Cosby's freedoms to have a good reputation, and the media isn't a court of law?
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)your question. When allegations are made, remember the accusation against Gore eg, if it is a public figure, the media has a duty to report RESPONSIBLY on such a story.
Eg, I've seen some coverage of this story. Most of it resembles the Enquirer, a lot of supposition, opinions etc as you would expect from tabloid media.
What is missing is any kind of investigative reporting, eg, any evidence. What is not missing, is the media convicting someone based on 40 year old allegations for which, so far, there has been no evidence presented.
What the media should do is to cover any court proceeding related to the allegations and keep their opinions to themselves. They know nothing so their opinions mean nothing.
And no matter how many people allege something, under our system of justice, until there is some evidence, none of them are proof of anything.
Yes, I know, this is a very undemocratic view apparently, lately. But it's my view and I'm sticking to it.
alp227
(32,018 posts)What about when men accused Catholic priests of abusing them as boys? Would you demand medical evidence, surveillance video, etc.?
Or the men who accused Jerry Sandusky of rape? Sure there existed circumstantial evidence such as Sandusky's 1998 confession to the mother of a victim (but prosecutors declined to charge Sandusky at the time). As well as text messages to a victim.
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)presented, in the Sandusky case. That is how it should be done.
In court, with evidence.
As I said, the press has an obligation to investigate such stories, not spend hours speculating with nothing to go on but allegations.
alp227
(32,018 posts)If a coach and janitor hadn't walked in on Sandusky raping kids at PSU football facility, would Sandusky be in prison today?
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)later. Clinton is a perfect example. Did you believe Juanita Broddrick eg? Or any of the others, Paula Jones?
alp227
(32,018 posts)Regarding Paula Jones though, I have never seen anything that would make her questionable. And Bill Clinton admitted under oath to having an extramarital relationship with Gennifer Flowers. Basically, Clinton sex scandals were evaluated and investigated non stop throughout the late '90s, so we should know who's telling the truth and who's out for a witch hunt.
And yes, anyone can accuse anyone of rape. But I don't get it. What people consider "real rape victims" have such a hard time being believed, why would anyone willingly lie about being raped, to gain sympathy? What's wrong with creating a culture where rape victims are respected and believed instead of immediately doubted? I think creating a skeptical environment around rape accusations hurts the many rape victims far more than preventing the few false accusations.
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)There are people who will do anything for money.
A real victim won't lie. But someone who has something to gain, eg, my friend knew a woman in WV who was having an affair with a high profile politician. After a while, I guess he got nervous, he broke it off. She was furious and told my friend she was going to accuse him of sexual assault to 'teach him a lesson'. She did, she went to the DA and my friend and her husband felt they needed to tell him what they knew. They did but prosecutors sometimes like to have their cases fall apart especially when it will make them pretty famous.
THEY received threats for telling the truth. As far as I know, I don't believe it went to trial, but his career was ruined anyhow. She was not a real rape victim. She lied about it.
As for Broddrick, her excuse for waiting was that she was afraid. Many people believed her. I did not just for the record.
I did not believe Paula Jones either. She certainly was questionable. And Clinton never admitted to the claims she made, all she wanted was money, so to end the entire disaster they agreed to pay her off.
Think about it. If Jones had been a real victim, would she have dropped the case for money?
There was no trial re Jones, she didn't want it, she wanted money. And the Far Right used her. So her claims were never tested in court.
alp227
(32,018 posts)A Prairie Home Companion...but found this New York Daily News (yes I know a tabloid) story with some pretty damning evidence implying a pattern of sexually predatory behavior on Cosby's part.
And when the man behind Fat Albert needed cash disbursed to his flock of single female friends hey, hey, hey Scotti became the conduit for payments of up to $2,000 a month.
Cosby, while denying paternity, paid out more than $100,000 to Thompson over the years after their 1974 affair began. Scotti told The News that he believes Cosby was sleeping with all the women who received money.
Once there, Leslie claimed Cosby got naked before getting sexual despite her lack of interest. When she backed off, Cosby chased her out of the room.
Right there is the M.O. of sexual predators, luring their prey with all sorts of nice things in exchange for sexual favors. Often, the predators buy their victims' silence with a boatload of money. It's pretty sickening that a man playing the "perfect dad" on America's favorite show of the '80s seemed to live in a completely 360 degree opposite in real life.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)who have absolutely nothing to gain from exposing their personal tragedy to public view.
And because of the statute of limitations, he may never face any trial.
The court of public opinion may be the only court he ever faces -- and yes, for most of us he's been found guilty.
And he's helped to condemn himself. Did you hear the audio of his comedy routine in the 70's, where he joked about drugging women with Spanish Fly in order to have sex with them?
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)You accuse the women of being on the bandwagon, etc but say is he guilty of anything? Sounds like a position to me. Thirty women isn't a bandwagon. its a tidal wave.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)against him.
GeorgeGist
(25,319 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)its sensitivity.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Chemisse
(30,809 posts)It was like making jokes about 9/11.
lpbk2713
(42,753 posts)Normally one would think about it before saying something
so utterly stupid. Especially to a crowd of people.
Miles Archer
(18,837 posts)...that he thinks "Dr. Cliff Huxtable" is invincible.
We shall see.
lpbk2713
(42,753 posts)I by no means offer that as an excuse, just a possible explanation.
IMO Cosby should get no free pass.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)And I would imagine that a goodly number of people who would still go to a Bill Cosby concert after all that has gone down are most likely exactly in that narrow subset.
Beringia
(4,316 posts)but he will not go to court because of statute of limitations
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Three new women have stepped forward with sexual allegations against Bill Cosby.
They join a growing list of women who claim that they were drugged and assaulted by the legendary comedian.
The first to speak at a Los Angeles press conference called by attorney Gloria Allred on Wednesday was Linda Kirkpatrick, who was 25 at the time of the alleged incident. She was matched up against Cosby in a tennis tournament. He offered her and her partner tickets to his show, provided they beat him in the match.
http://www.people.com/article/three-new-women-allege-assault-bill-cosby-gloria-allred
http://www.cnn.com/2015/01/09/opinions/drexler-bill-cosby-phylicia-rashad/
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)The victim may feel that she/he is to blame for what happened.
The victim may feel embarrassed about what happened.
The victim may believe that the justice system is uncooperative, inefficient, or victim-blaming.
The victim may not want the perpetrator to get in trouble.
The victim may not want her/his family to find out.
The victim may not recognize that she/he was raped.
The victim may have been threatened by the perpetrator.
The victim may fear retaliation by the perpetrator if she/he was to report.
The victim may fear that she/he will not be believed.
The victim may have already had a bad experience with the police.
The victim may know someone who reported and had a bad experience with the police.
The victims friends and/or family may not support reporting.
The victims friends and/or family are telling the victim it was not rape.
There may be cultural considerations that lead the victim to avoid the police at all costs.
Beringia
(4,316 posts)and are encouraged by others who have spoken out.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)he was scheduled not so long ago to have a show again. something happened, and that's when the rape allegations suddenly came up.
What happened?
Beringia
(4,316 posts)I think this all happened to very young women who had entertainment related jobs or he was considered a mentor or to help in their careers.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Something most of them probably thought would never happen, given Cosby's power and reputation.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)seems to me the only thing that has is that he's being accused of rape 20-30 years after the fact.
and all at once, suddenly. things that make you go 'hmm'.
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)NJCher
(35,658 posts)as outlined above, common sense just tells you that people who don't know each other and who are from all parts of the country and who have a similar story...there's prob'ly some truth there.
So the more women who come out, the more likely it is that others will feel confident enough to tell their own experience.
I'm pretty sure you're not a woman. This would be easier for you to understand if you were.
As far as DU goes and marching in lockstep and all that, why would it not be easier to say there are are a couple different camps, one of which is called "he probably did it." The others would be "he didn't do it" and then the "he did it" camp.
Cher
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)activism, including women's activism.
NJCher
(35,658 posts)Boomer here.
Cher
politicman
(710 posts)You use the number or 27-30 different women as some sort of confirmation that Cosby is a rapist by saying that in your opinion the sheer number of women alleging the same thing must mean its true.
What about the flip side of the numbers game, you have 27-30 different women that now allege something, and out of that big number, none of those women went to the cops?
Really? Such a big number of women who would obviously all have different personalities, some weak, some strong, and none of them went to the cops even long after they were not around Cosby and his influence anymore?
Tell you what, lets just go by your method for dealing with allegations from now on, lets just label anyone with anything as long as we can get enough people to allege the same thing, who needs trials and convictions, lets just overhaul our justice system and replace it with the numbers game.
BTW, if I wanted to label you something really bad, whats the threshold number of people that I need to get to make an allegation before you will convince yourself that you are what I am trying to label you?
NJCher
(35,658 posts)You're distorting what I said, but that's OK. Happens often enough here. I'm starting to think a lot of the posters here would do well to take a reading comprehension course.
You really missed my point. My point is there's a category for "probably." Not so black and white, as your post raves on about. That was the whole point! "Probably!" Sheesh!
And there's a big difference in this situation because there will be no trials. That also is a significant point that you seem to have missed.
Cher
politicman
(710 posts)I don't miss the point, what I am saying is that you can have 1000 women allege the very same thing about Cosby and every single one of them have the exact same story, but it doesn't change anything, the only time I will believe Cosby raped these women is when he is found guilty in a court of law.
And as you said, there will be no trial because the women didn't speak up for 30 years, so if they really were raped by Cosby, then they have no one else to blame for not being believed but themselves.
This is victim blaming, this is a hard cold fact, that all 30 of these women had every opportunity for the last 30 years to report it and they didn't.
Imagine, 30 years has passed, after 10600 days and nights, these women still remember the details clear enough to know that they were raped by Cosby? Really?
NJCher
(35,658 posts)Know what? I think your next lifetime should be as a woman. You just don't get context at all.
Your position is like all those republicans who just think poor people should go out and get a job and pull themselves up by their bootstraps. Yessirreee jim bob, it's just that simple.
Useless to try to point anything out to you, but enjoy your next lifetime!
And yes, you did miss my point. And you still don't get it, but guess what--I don't care. You're entitled to be willfully ignorant. Go right ahead; enjoy yourself.
Cher
politicman
(710 posts)So tell me then, should I just believe these women that allege Cosby raped them 30 years ago because there are 27 or so of them?
Should I label and think of Cosby as a rapist on the word of these women simply because they say it without the evidence ever needing to be tested?
Because if that's all that's required to believe these women are telling the truth and Cosby is a rapist, then we start getting into the numbers game of how many women need to allege rape against a guy for him to be labelled as a rapist.
1 allegation from one woman enough to meet that threshold? Does there need o be 5 allegations from 5 woman? Does there need to be a certain threshold?
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)pnwmom
(108,977 posts)finally feel safe -- and they know they're probably paving the way for other women.
And you should keep up . . . not all of the 30 claims (and counting) are 20-30 years after the fact. I'm hoping there will be a trial on a more recent case, to help vindicate all the other women.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)feel safe confronting him.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)So there's that.
And the women feel safe because they know that now, finally, people are believing them -- and not him. His is the reputation that's being damaged, not theirs.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)know what, but suddenly, the accusations started coming out.
so either the women suddenly got gumption for no apparent reason, and they took his career down -- which is the reason I've seen for the cancellations and terminations... i.e. the women were more powerful than cosby...
or someone else cancelled the show, and the accusations came out subsequently.
I don't pretend I know, but there's something off about this story of women who were silent for 30-40 years and suddenly found their voices because cosby just suddenly lost his power.
maybe he never had so much power in the first place. very few entertainers do.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Cosby has been going around for years with his holier-than-thou persona, castigating young black men for not measuring up to his standards; and several months ago a comedian, on stage, called him on it -- and referred to the 2005 civil rape case that was joined by several women.
In 2005, he was able to bury it. But in 2014, it rose up again. That many more victims have finally reached a point in their lives where they can deal with what happened to them and they want closure.
And then a tape from the 70's was unearthed, a recording of a comedy routine in which he described giving Spanish Fly to women to make them want to have sex. He used to get a lot of laughs from it. But 2014 is not 1964. Times have changed, and so has society's reaction to the charges these women have been making.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)pnwmom
(108,977 posts)and dozens of women came forward to confirm he had drugged and sexually assaulted them.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)And the University of Massachusetts and the Berklee College of Music have both cut ties with him.
http://www.buzzfeed.com/kateaurthur/janice-dickinson-says-bill-cosby-raped-her#.jtkRW6MwYZ
NBC Has Killed Its Bill Cosby Project
UPDATE: After mounting public pressure, and a rash of renewed and new criminal accusations against Cosby, NBC has dumped the developing sitcom it had once touted while TV Land has pulled video clips of The Cosby Show off its website. On Tuesday, Janice Dickinson said Cosby had raped her in 1982.
http://www.bostonglobe.com/metro/2014/11/26/coakley-urges-umass-amherst-cut-ties-bill-cosby/BuR0zHe2yBW65hHIWTUmJO/story.html
The University of Massachusetts Amherst severed its ties Wednesday to alumnus Bill Cosby, joining a growing number of colleges to distance themselves from the entertainer amid accusations he sexually assaulted more than a dozen women.
Cosby, who received a masters and a doctorate in education from the college, was an honorary co-chairman of the schools ongoing $300 million fund-raising campaign. He and his wife, Camille, donated several hundred thousand dollars to the school, and the comedian was frequently cited in the past as one of the universitys most notable alumni.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)talking about their rapes 20 or 30 years ago?
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Americans have far less tolerance for that sort of behavior now than they did then. And also, in the meantime, he had the chance to molest many more women, and the accumulation of claims -- not a handful, not a dozen, but dozens -- finally was overwhelming.
That plus his comedy routine of the 70's on audiotape. What was perceived as funny then is not funny now. Hearing that tape in the context of the publicity about the woman's claims helped convinced many people that he was guilty.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)I was an adult female in the 70s; I know what life for women was like then; I wouldn't have been afraid to accuse cosby of rape.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)You can't know how you would have reacted if you had been. You can only speculate.
I am very close to a young woman who was raped ten years ago. She's in therapy and still struggling, still having episodes of PTSD (which I have witnessed). I won't be surprised if she's never able to face the man who hurt her, though I wish she would.
The research shows that the large majority of women who are raped never come forward. This isn't just the case with Cosby -- it's true in general. They are too traumatized and just want to put the incident behind them. And, in the case of the Cosby victims, because of his high status, they were even more afraid than other women that no one would believe them.
And you keep ignoring the fact that a woman DID file suit in 2005, and she was backed up by the testimony of multiple other women. And Cosby was able to bury the whole thing and the media helped him.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)Bill Cosby Reteaming With NBC for New Family Comedy (1/14)
http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/bill-cosby-reteaming-nbc-new-673219
NBC reaches a deal on new Bill Cosby comedy
http://insidetv.ew.com/2014/08/06/nbc-bill-cosby/
NBC just announced that Bill Cosby will likely be returning to prime time next fall
http://www.slate.com/blogs/browbeat/2014/01/22/bill_cosby_returning_to_nbc_for_new_sitcom_his_timing_could_not_be_better.html
When exactly did this non-hiring begin, and why?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Do you have any theories?
chervilant
(8,267 posts)shows a publication date of JULY, 2014. Your second link shows a publication date of AUGUST, 2014. Your third link shows a publication date of SEPTEMBER, 2014. The media focus on the Cosby rape allegations intensified in NOVEMBER, 2014. You might do your own research to determine how "credible" are the accusations of the more than 25 different women who've come forward. However, you are unlikely to find many people who still believe Cosby is "innocent until proven guilty."
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)chervilant
(8,267 posts)You honestly don't know? Cosby's sexual assaults became fodder for the M$M. Who knows why now? I say, it's about damned time.
braddy
(3,585 posts)the police report filed in 2000 for the 1998 incident, the police report in 2005 for the 2004 drugging/rape that he settled out of court on, and the claim of a 2008 assault by a woman who is currently 24 years old.
Beringia
(4,316 posts)Do you have info on who filed the police reports in 2000 and 2008? I have read about the one case that was settled in court.
http://cognoscenti.wbur.org/2014/11/24/bill-cosby-eileen-mcnamara
The one woman who did go to authorities about Cosby was Andrea Constand, a former director of operations for Temple Universitys womens basketball team and a college basketball star herself. She told police in 2005 that Cosby had drugged and raped her in his Pennsylvania home the year before. When prosecutors failed to charge him, citing insufficient evidence to meet the standard of proof required for conviction in criminal court, Constand filed a civil lawsuit for more than $150,000 in damages, saying Cosbys actions had caused her to suffer severe emotional distress, humiliation, embarrassment and financial loss. They settled the case out of court, with a provision that prohibits her from disclosing the terms.
braddy
(3,585 posts)Goins came forward recently claiming a 2008 drugging/groping/masturbation assault.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)How anyone can persist in believing he's innocent is beyond me.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Response to Miles Archer (Original post)
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MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)"I dare you to catch me!"
DLevine
(1,788 posts)He's also a rich and powerful man, which is why he's gotten away with it for so long. He is laughing at us.
Initech
(100,063 posts)Chemisse
(30,809 posts)Yes, the throngs of accusers are convincing; some are very convincing. It is highly likely that this man is a serial rapist with a very specific mode of operation.
But it is wrong to convict someone in the press. There is a reason why we have the criminal court system, with its laws and procedures and protections. And there is a reason for the statute of limitations.
He should have been brought up on charges, repeatedly it seems, and had a jury determine the matter of his guilt. He should have been held accountable and he should have had the right to defend himself in a court of law.
But not one single one of these women had the courage or conviction to go to the authorities for justice? And now - instead - they are throwing out allegations from the safety of their comfortable lives? No need for that troublesome trip to the police station, the vaginal swab, the embarrassment, the aura of disbelief. And no need to go to court and face the defendant (who, remember has the right to face his accuser). Yes it is hard to go through, and maybe a few would have had to do it for authorities to finally take it seriously. But that is the way we do it in this country. And how many young women would have been spared this experience if he had been convicted of just one?
gollygee
(22,336 posts)A conviction would be a sentence, and obviously that won't happen. That doesn't mean people should ignore 30 women telling remarkably similar stories and pretend it isn't very likely something happened to them.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)And since he escaped prosecution based on the statute of limitations, it is up to the public to draw its own conclusions.
You are showing a remarkable lack of understanding of the pain that these women went through -- and of the reasons they would have had for not coming forward. As it was, a number of them DID come forward in 2005, but the case was then settled, and legally buried. They probably thought he would never face justice -- even in the Court of Public Opinion.
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)never brought suit.
not because of the statute of limitation: BECAUSE THEY NEVER BROUGHT SUIT.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)joined the suit and provided their own testimony.
And then he settled, and the lawsuit was buried, so people like you never heard about it.
Chemisse
(30,809 posts)Where was THEIR understanding of the pain other women would feel if they didn't report this AT THE TIME? I find that unconscionable.
And yes, we can - and do - draw our own conclusions. I am just expressing my discomfort with the way all this happened, and with the inability of Cosby to have his day in court.
I am surprised that people are embracing this mode of 'conviction.'
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Even the women who were giving testimony in the 2005 case (which was settled) couldn't benefit personally because of the statute. They were just trying to help the woman who could.
Cosby could have had his day in court -- in civil court. But he chose to settle the case with the Canadian woman instead. And to have it sealed.
NJCher
(35,658 posts)quite lengthy, but can't recall where at the moment, where one of them did go after him way back in the beginning and he counter sued and drove her into bankruptcy or something similar. She lost everything.
This was how he demonstrated to everyone how he would deal with them. Who's going to go up against that? You have to have major resources to do that, and most people don't have the $$ to wage a sustained legal battle against someone with his financial war chest.
Later, evidence came out that indicated she was telling the truth, so in effect, Cosby used the tools of power to shut down the truth. The man is ruthless.
If I can recall the article, I'll be back to post it.
Cher
braddy
(3,585 posts)You might be thinking of the woman who tried to black mail him in the 1980s as his daughter, and ended up in prison.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)that the judge made an error by not instructing the jury that if she believed he was her father, then that could contribute to a finding of not guilty.
braddy
(3,585 posts)NEW YORK The federal appeals court that overturned the conviction of a woman imprisoned for trying to extort $40 million from Bill Cosby reversed itself Monday and restored her conviction.
The 2nd U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals decided that an improper instruction given to the jury was not sufficient to overturn the extortion conviction of Autumn Jackson.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)braddy
(3,585 posts)Chemisse
(30,809 posts)if you go to the police and report a rape. Did any one of these women do this??
Perhaps they were filing a lawsuit?
HockeyMom
(14,337 posts)Sick.
LostOne4Ever
(9,288 posts)Cha
(297,154 posts)Ino
(3,366 posts)pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I don't know. Honestly at this point anything this dude does, publicly, is in bad taste. Short of hiding under a rock, it's impossible not to go "eewwwww" every time he opens his mouth.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)Cosby*, you will always have an asterix after your name.
*Scumbag
Skittles
(153,150 posts)I am VERY good at reading people
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)I was fooled by that Good-Guy Jello Pudding Pop schtick in the 80s.
Kalidurga
(14,177 posts)Or possibly a threat.
PeteSelman
(1,508 posts)I think Cosby is an absolute monster but that was a good line. He pretty much had to do that.
NJCher
(35,658 posts)I can spot it. Used to be one of those PR people, and I know the tactics.
When the protesters sounded off at his last performance, he directed security to let them speak before they got thrown out.
Makes him look "tolerant." Magnanimous.
Meanwhile, he hires private detectives to dig up the dirt on these women. This not only gives him additional leverage, it scares others from coming forward.
Maybe you're easily amused? I didn't think the remark was clever in the least. In fact, the PR guy probably smacked his forehead because all it did was cause a major uproar in the press, reminding everyone of exactly what the PR flack is being paid to smooth over.
Cher
PeteSelman
(1,508 posts)And I don't think the line was an all timer. I chuckled and moved on.
davidpdx
(22,000 posts)The only thing I can say for sure is the joke was in poor taste. Whether he did it or not will be decided in his legacy after he dies.