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Michelle Obama foregoes a headscarf and sparks a backlash in Saudi Arabia (Original Post) Kingofalldems Jan 2015 OP
Good for her Beaverhausen Jan 2015 #1
Exactly. Kingofalldems Jan 2015 #3
+1 R B Garr Jan 2015 #72
+1 nt hifiguy Jan 2015 #6
I bet my life on it...yes, MY LIFE NoJusticeNoPeace Jan 2015 #52
+1 treestar Jan 2015 #56
Exactly. nt raouldukelives Jan 2015 #82
"In photographs from the official events, other foreign female guests are also shown not wearing winter is coming Jan 2015 #2
this fine line d_r Jan 2015 #4
In this case the culture is pretty much all patriarchal bullshit, all of the time. Arugula Latte Jan 2015 #13
no argument d_r Jan 2015 #15
Too bad should didn't SamKnause Jan 2015 #5
Is there supposed to be a video link? Dont call me Shirley Jan 2015 #7
+1000 catbyte Jan 2015 #64
At the link...but here's a Photo: KoKo Jan 2015 #79
Good for Michelle! mnhtnbb Jan 2015 #8
i dont see those men wearing PANTS when they visit here. elehhhhna Jan 2015 #26
Good for her!! Coventina Jan 2015 #9
Had she worn the headscarf the Right would attack her, but since she didn't, Damansarajaya Jan 2015 #10
Right on, Michelle. Arugula Latte Jan 2015 #11
You mean attack Michelle as this INdemo Jan 2015 #90
Way to go, Michelle. Terra Alta Jan 2015 #12
Good for her. Autumn Jan 2015 #14
Good for her. I'm sure it was a calculated omission. panader0 Jan 2015 #16
I expect she wore the hijab in Indonesia, because as far as I know, wearing it is optional Aristus Jan 2015 #17
Don't you mean "jiqabs off"? George II Jan 2015 #46
My thoughts precisely. It's about coercion. Michelle and most American women are against it. JDPriestly Jan 2015 #74
Rightwing heads are exploding as we speak. MohRokTah Jan 2015 #18
She's no lame duck, either. nt msanthrope Jan 2015 #78
Good for her Tom Ripley Jan 2015 #19
yes Liberal_in_LA Jan 2015 #65
It's interesting that she had the choice dhol82 Jan 2015 #20
A head scarf is not required of non-Saudi non-Muslim women tammywammy Jan 2015 #22
Wow dhol82 Jan 2015 #23
We don't do business with Iran, so I don't know any women that have been there. n/t tammywammy Jan 2015 #24
Well, dhol82 Jan 2015 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author crim son Jan 2015 #85
I don't mean to be rude Aerows Jan 2015 #40
Hi dhol82 Jan 2015 #55
Hi Aerows Jan 2015 #84
Ummm dhol82 Feb 2015 #105
I think it's a political statement of American independence. Kablooie Jan 2015 #42
Good point, both are closed countries. Rex Jan 2015 #63
I love you, Michelle! Brigid Jan 2015 #21
I hear they even let her drive the Presidential limo while texting and eating a burger NightWatcher Jan 2015 #25
Coolest First Lady in a long time. progressoid Jan 2015 #27
So now the rightwingers have to take the Saudi/Muslim's side on headscarves? arcane1 Jan 2015 #28
~n|m underpants Jan 2015 #30
She is not a Saudi and if they don't like it who cares? Botany Jan 2015 #31
+1,000,000 Trajan Jan 2015 #61
Good nt riderinthestorm Jan 2015 #32
love her Skittles Jan 2015 #33
Won't get much traction attacking her for not being sensitive to Muslims. SolutionisSolidarity Jan 2015 #34
Flotus keepin' it real! Tarheel_Dem Jan 2015 #35
I would support her choice either way. LuvNewcastle Jan 2015 #36
It's suddenly fashionable for people in the ME Aerows Jan 2015 #38
Who cares? Aerows Jan 2015 #37
I hope this will hold when she doesn't cover her hair in meeting with the Pope.... CTyankee Jan 2015 #43
no kidding Aerows Jan 2015 #44
Good for Her! jalan48 Jan 2015 #39
It had to be a deliberate choice. Kablooie Jan 2015 #41
She did the right thing, good for her. nt Zorra Jan 2015 #45
Good for her. littlemissmartypants Jan 2015 #47
Was Bushie there to give one last kiss? Roland99 Jan 2015 #48
I think the Saudi punishment for that is fifty lashes on the back with a cane . . . another_liberal Jan 2015 #49
Damned if she did, damned if she didn't packman Jan 2015 #50
It wasn't news when CONDI RICE did it ! GreatGazoo Jan 2015 #51
+1 lunasun Jan 2015 #60
Thank you for... 3catwoman3 Jan 2015 #66
+2 flamingdem Jan 2015 #89
Much ado about nothing treestar Jan 2015 #53
good for her! samsingh Jan 2015 #54
Next she is gonna do something crazy like say drinking water is healthy NoJusticeNoPeace Jan 2015 #57
On that note... Spitfire of ATJ Jan 2015 #58
Even better hifiguy Jan 2015 #59
Yes that is what SA leaders worry about, not that women are virtual slaves in SA Rex Jan 2015 #62
Here's a pic.. "leading by example..".. Cha Jan 2015 #67
Good for her. The men were going to ignore her Ilsa Jan 2015 #68
I'm surprised she would do that... Dr. Strange Jan 2015 #69
Sounds like a material conflict Orrex Jan 2015 #93
This thread is starting to make me uncomfortable. Dr. Strange Jan 2015 #96
Is it getting under your skein? Orrex Jan 2015 #97
Of course not. Who told you that? Dr. Strange Jan 2015 #98
No one told me. Orrex Jan 2015 #99
That doesn't surprise me. You're totally full of sheet. Dr. Strange Jan 2015 #100
I refuse to acknowledge blanket accusations like that. Orrex Jan 2015 #101
Take it easy. Dr. Strange Jan 2015 #104
I hope that the Secret Service lets her drive the limo, too! AnnieBW Jan 2015 #70
hell yeah!! e-cigdub Jan 2015 #71
Good for her ohheckyeah Jan 2015 #73
Trolls. GeorgeGist Jan 2015 #75
I am in awe. One very simple sartorial choice and right wing heads explode with internal conflict. Pacifist Patriot Jan 2015 #76
I think MO just said "bless your hearts" to Saudi Arabia and our rightwing. nt msanthrope Jan 2015 #77
Pivotal moment in history! wolfie001 Jan 2015 #80
The right would have attacked her at any rate. Did any of the bushies ever take any of their ladies jwirr Jan 2015 #81
The RWNJs have no ground upon which to attack Michelle about this. Here's why... Triana Jan 2015 #83
No Doubt.... cynzke Jan 2015 #91
Good for her! OverBurn Jan 2015 #86
The writer of the article was slanting the event. LiberalFighter Jan 2015 #87
I just saw the "receiving" line delete_bush Jan 2015 #88
Photos of Laura bush and Angela Merkel without scarves mainer Jan 2015 #92
We should of attacked Saudi Arabia after 9/11! B Calm Jan 2015 #94
At least she didn't draw a cartoon of Mohammed oberliner Jan 2015 #95
Good greif. Are these not the same people are afraid of Sharia Law? dballance Jan 2015 #102
I guess the next time a foreign leader comes to visit this country we will want them to take off any jwirr Jan 2015 #103

treestar

(82,383 posts)
56. +1
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 08:44 PM
Jan 2015

They most certainly would, as they did when Obama bowed as they do in Japan while in Japan. Add to that more hints the Obamas must be Muslims.

winter is coming

(11,785 posts)
2. "In photographs from the official events, other foreign female guests are also shown not wearing
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 05:58 PM
Jan 2015

headscarves."

Which is something Fox News will almost assuredly "forget" to mention.

SamKnause

(13,088 posts)
5. Too bad should didn't
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 06:04 PM
Jan 2015

ride through town straddling a Harley with a tube top and hot pants on.

I am so sick of all this shit !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dont call me Shirley

(10,998 posts)
7. Is there supposed to be a video link?
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 06:10 PM
Jan 2015

Some males, who believe they have the right to own women, need to get over their pompous
dick-selves.

NO single human being is more special and deserving than another no matter what their circumstance. We are all born onto this earth. We are all deserving of the earths resources. We are all deserving of dignity, self-determination and respect.

 

Damansarajaya

(625 posts)
10. Had she worn the headscarf the Right would attack her, but since she didn't,
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 06:17 PM
Jan 2015

they'll still attack her.

Haters gonna hate. They hate us because they ain't us.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
11. Right on, Michelle.
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 06:17 PM
Jan 2015

We wouldn't expect a Saudi to come here and go bare-headed, so anyone who has a problem with this needs to chill the f@#$ out.

Muhammed will just have to get over it, as well.

Terra Alta

(5,158 posts)
12. Way to go, Michelle.
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 06:17 PM
Jan 2015

This is 2015, women should not be subject to ancient patriarchal rules anymore. But yes, I'm sure the RW will find some reason to attack her for this, it never fails. She can't do anything right in their eyes.

Aristus

(66,294 posts)
17. I expect she wore the hijab in Indonesia, because as far as I know, wearing it is optional
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 06:21 PM
Jan 2015

for Indonesian women. Wearing it as a sign of respect on Michelle Obama's part would be appropriate in that case. Since the hijab, or niqab really, is mandatory for women in Saudi Arabia, she did well by not validating it by wearing one herself.

Hats off to our President and First Lady!

 

MohRokTah

(15,429 posts)
18. Rightwing heads are exploding as we speak.
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 06:26 PM
Jan 2015

They want to attack her, but then she tweaked the noses of fundamentalist Islamists and they want to attack them, too.

dhol82

(9,352 posts)
20. It's interesting that she had the choice
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 06:37 PM
Jan 2015

I was visiting Iran in November and would not have been allowed across the border if I had not had my head covered and the rest of me suitably dressed. It's interesting that there are some allowances for heads of state with spouse in Saudi Arabia.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
22. A head scarf is not required of non-Saudi non-Muslim women
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 06:49 PM
Jan 2015

I work for a company that does business in Saudi Arabia. I know quite a few women that have gone there on business and they didn't wear a scarf.

dhol82

(9,352 posts)
29. Well,
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 07:10 PM
Jan 2015

all I know is that the instruction I was given was that it was necessary to be covered, head and body, appropriately, by the time we reached the border or I would not be allowed into the country even though I had a valid visa. Did not notice any women without a head covering during the 8 days I was in the country.

Actually, at one of the holy shrines I visited, there was a local woman who got all pissy with a woman in my group whose headscarf had slipped. The local was quite insistent about the horror of her hair showing.


Response to dhol82 (Reply #29)

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
40. I don't mean to be rude
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 08:10 PM
Jan 2015

to the person you replied to, but obviously, they have absolutely no idea what they are talking about. I agree with you, and it is unfortunate that many people have never gone further than their front door, and think their mailbox is a cultural expedition.

Thanks for speaking up. It gets tiring to hear from the "I don't know but I'm going to act like I do" set constantly.

dhol82

(9,352 posts)
55. Hi
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 08:44 PM
Jan 2015

I'm the person she replied to. I was making a comment about head scarves and proper attire because I had just been in Iran and the customs there were obviously different.

My mailbox has seen mail from over 60 countries around the world. How about you?

Hugs.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
84. Hi
Wed Jan 28, 2015, 03:10 PM
Jan 2015

I'm not going to sit here and pretend that you didn't say exactly what you said upthread, and are now trying to be condescending about it.

Conversations work both ways and claiming that someone doesn't know what they are talking about (which I did, too, to you after you said it to another person) doesn't exactly facilitate dialogue. I did the "here's a dose of your own medicine" reply.

Doesn't feel good to get summarily dismissed, does it?

dhol82

(9,352 posts)
105. Ummm
Mon Feb 2, 2015, 08:12 PM
Feb 2015

Dont understand what you are talking about. I replied to another poster with a question about why there were such differences in my experience. Why you got snarky about it was curious. I had a perfectly reasonable private discussion with the other poster. Not sure where you are going with this. Don't get why you think I was being dismissive.

Kablooie

(18,612 posts)
42. I think it's a political statement of American independence.
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 08:13 PM
Jan 2015

It is a trip about politics so America wants to show that they don't kowtow.

She has covered her head in the past to be polite when she was simply a guest.

(And I'll bet you won't see Obama kissing any of the guys like Bush used to do.)

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
63. Good point, both are closed countries.
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 09:44 PM
Jan 2015

But I think the difference is SA allows non-Muslims from other countries some lee-way, whereas Iran does not allow any lee-way and will punish anyone (foreign or domestic) that does not toe their religious laws.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
25. I hear they even let her drive the Presidential limo while texting and eating a burger
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 07:04 PM
Jan 2015

I would love to see pics of that.

Botany

(70,447 posts)
31. She is not a Saudi and if they don't like it who cares?
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 07:19 PM
Jan 2015

BTW I bet you in private or in rare public instances thousands of Saudi women
were thrilled to see Michelle standing up for a woman's right.

 

Trajan

(19,089 posts)
61. +1,000,000
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 09:33 PM
Jan 2015

The subjugation of women in the kingdom is a current subject in Muslim countries ... especially amongst the women ... Surely there are many there who are quietly applauding ....

34. Won't get much traction attacking her for not being sensitive to Muslims.
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 07:42 PM
Jan 2015

That goes against the crypto-Muslim story-line.

LuvNewcastle

(16,835 posts)
36. I would support her choice either way.
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 07:59 PM
Jan 2015

I just think it's her right to do what she thinks is best in this situation.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
38. It's suddenly fashionable for people in the ME
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 08:05 PM
Jan 2015

to tell Americans what to do.

They can muck out their own stalls first, and take the beam out of their own eye.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
37. Who cares?
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 08:03 PM
Jan 2015

Last I checked, Michelle Obama is an American and she can wear any damn thing she wants to wear. Everybody in the Middle East, including Israel, suddenly thinks they can have a say in our politics and our people.

Tend to your own business, we are Americans.

Kablooie

(18,612 posts)
41. It had to be a deliberate choice.
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 08:12 PM
Jan 2015

And probably not just by Michelle alone.
These are carefully staged photo ops so it must be a White House decision for Michelle not to cover her head.

Probably it is meant to show that Americans will not be constrained by foreign traditions that they don't agree with.
It's a political statement.

The situations where she did cover her head in the past were probably when she was clearly a guest so she would do it to be polite.

littlemissmartypants

(22,593 posts)
47. Good for her.
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 08:18 PM
Jan 2015

Everybody knows it would have just mussed up her hair.

I love you, Michelle!

And I love feminist justice.

 

another_liberal

(8,821 posts)
49. I think the Saudi punishment for that is fifty lashes on the back with a cane . . .
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 08:28 PM
Jan 2015

Or maybe it's a hundred? Administered in front of a public audience, of course.

Hey! They've got a whole lot of oil, right?

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
62. Yes that is what SA leaders worry about, not that women are virtual slaves in SA
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 09:37 PM
Jan 2015

not that their methods of punishment are no different than ISIS. Not the fact that they have many wealthy groups that support ISIS.

NO...the fact that a women did not wear an article of clothing on her head. THAT is what is important in the here and now.

BUT religions are GOOD for The People or so I am told. Frankly I am skeptical about that one.

Cha

(296,870 posts)
67. Here's a pic.. "leading by example.."..
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 11:30 PM
Jan 2015

World News Tonight ✔ @WNTonight
Follow
Leaving her head uncovered in Saudi Arabia, First Lady Michelle Obama leads by example: http://abcn.ws/1zV0uvm
11:58 AM - 27 Jan 2015 627 Retweets 480 favorites

http://theobamadiary.com/2015/01/27/a-tweet-or-two-220/

I thought it was taboo? Thank you for the OP, KoaDems

AnnieBW

(10,413 posts)
70. I hope that the Secret Service lets her drive the limo, too!
Wed Jan 28, 2015, 12:21 AM
Jan 2015

That would really stick it to the religious zealots in Saudi!

 

e-cigdub

(40 posts)
71. hell yeah!!
Wed Jan 28, 2015, 12:37 AM
Jan 2015

i love how shes so strong!! shes not bending over to bunch of sexist pigs who think there superior to women. but i swear if she did wear a scarf people would accuse her of being a muslim.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
76. I am in awe. One very simple sartorial choice and right wing heads explode with internal conflict.
Wed Jan 28, 2015, 08:50 AM
Jan 2015

And I thought I couldn't adore this woman any more.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
81. The right would have attacked her at any rate. Did any of the bushies ever take any of their ladies
Wed Jan 28, 2015, 11:51 AM
Jan 2015

with them to Saudi Arabia? Bet they did not cover their head.

cynzke

(1,254 posts)
91. No Doubt....
Thu Jan 29, 2015, 08:34 AM
Jan 2015

There were people at that time who objected as well no doubt about Laura Bush. This is just typical of the press, finding a mole hill to build up. Especially if it involves Obama. But I've read somewhere, that Obamas came to attend the former King's funeral (at a mosque) and THAT is why some objected to Mischelle not wearing a headscarf......out of respect of the circumstance.

delete_bush

(1,712 posts)
88. I just saw the "receiving" line
Wed Jan 28, 2015, 11:50 PM
Jan 2015

where the Saudi's shook Obama's hand and completely ignored Michelle.

I'm really disgusted that the President attended this event. The Saudi Royal family are ALL a bunch of rancid, disgusting, low class, misogynist pieces of conservative garbage. I would much prefer we sever our relationship with these worthless scum, deny them passage to the U.S., and let the chips fall where they may.

These filthy pigs need to go away, the sooner the better. Wrap them in bacon and feed them to the dogs.

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
102. Good greif. Are these not the same people are afraid of Sharia Law?
Thu Jan 29, 2015, 01:28 PM
Jan 2015

How exactly does the right-wing media square being against Sharia law yet criticizing Michelle Obama for not following it?

Yes, you can say hypocrites.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
103. I guess the next time a foreign leader comes to visit this country we will want them to take off any
Thu Jan 29, 2015, 01:49 PM
Jan 2015

religious symbols they are wearing and put a cross around their neck. This whole thing is ridiculous. Freedom of religion means just that - freedom from forced religious practices. Since when are visiting leaders expected to adopt the practices of the religion of the country they visit. In fact since the USA does not have a national religion - what should they wear?

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