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HuckleB

(35,773 posts)
Fri Mar 13, 2015, 03:24 PM Mar 2015

Michigan Referee's Death Prompts Calls for Tougher Laws

http://www.usnews.com/news/sports/articles/2015/03/12/michigan-referees-death-prompts-calls-for-tougher-laws

"Attacks on Michigan referees so alarmed Jim Dworman, an accomplished lawyer who also officiates high school basketball and football games, that he contacted his lawmaker two years ago about toughening penalties for such actions.

"People just weren't that interested," he said.

Everything changed with a single punch in a men's recreational soccer game near Detroit last summer. Referee John Bieniewicz, 44, was killed by the blow from player Bassel Saad. The 37-year-old pleaded guilty to involuntary manslaughter and will be sentenced Friday to up to 15 years in prison.

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While statistics on the number of attacks on officials is limited, referees nationwide report such incidents are on the rise.

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More on the murder story, specifically...
http://www.latimes.com/sports/sportsnow/la-sp-sn-soccer-referee-murder-20150313-story.html

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This is why I always make it a point to thank the refs before and after games, whether I'm playing or coaching, or my kid is playing.

It's a game, and it's about having fun and getting exercise. If you have to take it beyond that, then you need another hobby.

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Michigan Referee's Death Prompts Calls for Tougher Laws (Original Post) HuckleB Mar 2015 OP
Hmm. I'm puzzled. HuckleB Mar 2015 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Mar 2015 #2
It's discussed in the article. HuckleB Mar 2015 #3
YouTube has dozens of such incidents Doctor_J Mar 2015 #4
Some people are just, I don't know, something. HuckleB Mar 2015 #5

Response to HuckleB (Original post)

HuckleB

(35,773 posts)
5. Some people are just, I don't know, something.
Sat Mar 14, 2015, 12:28 AM
Mar 2015

I coach my kid's rec league U-9 soccer team, and last Fall we played against a team with a coach who was screaming from the top of his lungs the entire game. The parent I hoodwinked into acting as flag ref came with his hands on his ears, because the guy was screaming that way three feet from him as he tried to do his job during the game. Many of our parents were astounded by the noise, and they sat on the other side of the field. Our kids were clearly anxious and distracted by it. It seemed to knock take them out of the game. But, the fact was his screaming was aimed at his players. Oh, he did go after the ref once, but the ref, a high school kid was in the right (one of our guys was off side, but the ball had been kicked so far down that he wasn't going to get to it before the other team's goalie, and it's not called off side in that situation), pointed it out and calmly told him to keep his comments for after the game. Oh, and the guy jumped up screaming, "Yeah!" Again, at the top of his lungs, when one of our kids missed a penalty kick.

I had to keep it to myself, but it was the one game I left happy that we'd won. We won all but one game, with a draw or two, but I never gave a crap. We have a bunch of kids who could easily play competitive soccer, but whose parents want them to have lives. They have fun, and that's all that matters. They had the same smiles on their faces the one game they lost, as well as on the draws. It's really not that big a deal to them... unless the parents make it a big deal.

What scares me is the possibility of that going exponential as my kid gets older.

Refs have very tough jobs, and the fact remains that we need them. Why so many people fail to understand that is beyond me.

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