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trumad

(41,692 posts)
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 07:32 PM Mar 2015

5 years probation for a Gang Rape---Man this is fucked up!

SANFORD — A 16-year-old former Winter Springs High School football player today pleaded guilty to gang rape and was placed on probation for five years.

He is the first of five co-defendants to enter a plea or go to trial in the highly-charged case. According to prosecution records, he did the least harm to the 16-year-old girl, quickly stopping when she told him, "No."

He along with four others team members were arrested after the girl emerged from a patch of woods near the school Nov. 13, in tears, telling a friend that several high school boys had gang raped her.

The suspects told police either they had not taken part or that the sex was consensual.

The defendant who entered his plea today was one of three to be charged as juveniles and faced a maximum sentence of being confined to a juvenile facility until age 19.

Today's plea was a surprise. The teenager, who lives in Sanford, was scheduled to appear in court tomorrow, but attorneys moved his hearing up a day.
http://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/breaking-news/os-winter-springs-high-rape-plea-20150316-story.html

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5 years probation for a Gang Rape---Man this is fucked up! (Original Post) trumad Mar 2015 OP
Fucked up is right. Laurian Mar 2015 #1
He is charged as a juvenile (15 at commission) and this extends supervision past juvenile Yo_Mama Mar 2015 #24
If the girl is being gang raped, does she have to tell "NO" to each attacker individually? LisaL Mar 2015 #48
It's almost like different rules apply for football players (nt) Nye Bevan Mar 2015 #2
I don't think football had anything to do with this. trumad Mar 2015 #3
The article refers to him as a former football player. He was and is a juvenile. Shrike47 Mar 2015 #4
I was thinking the same thing. I hope he made a deal to testify against the others. Sarcastica Mar 2015 #14
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2015 #5
What the fuck is this shit right here? Brickbat Mar 2015 #6
The same loser. He fantasizes all day about hating black people and posts it here. arcane1 Mar 2015 #7
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2015 #11
Gone now! B Calm Mar 2015 #8
Just scrape it off your shoe. cyberswede Mar 2015 #10
These are minors... gerogie2 Mar 2015 #9
BULLSHIT!!! They knew exactly what they were doing was wrong Beaverhausen Mar 2015 #12
You're an emotional person gerogie2 Mar 2015 #13
Where does it say he will get counseling? Beaverhausen Mar 2015 #16
It says the guy stopped when she told him to. Calista241 Mar 2015 #17
Stopping when the woman says "no" might work in a date situation. LisaL Mar 2015 #54
My guess is that Jenoch Mar 2015 #96
What? Laurian Mar 2015 #15
I would say hold him till he's 21 or so - at the least - and monitor him closely. nomorenomore08 Mar 2015 #18
Maximum sentence would be detention until 19. Yo_Mama Mar 2015 #26
Very true. n/t nomorenomore08 Mar 2015 #27
Not if he were to be tried as an adult. LisaL Mar 2015 #50
To direct file in Florida the perp must be at least 16 at the time of the offense, right? Yo_Mama Mar 2015 #65
She recorded part of the incident on video, telling the suspects NO. LisaL Mar 2015 #67
I am not questioning that the girl was sexually assaulted by a group of boys. She was. Yo_Mama Mar 2015 #73
I am thinking prosecutor has DNA evidence on the two charged as adults, but not on the others? LisaL Mar 2015 #93
More emotional trap clap gerogie2 Mar 2015 #19
FOR NO REASON??? gollygee Mar 2015 #21
And that is why rape is so common and rapists rarely prosecuted. BainsBane Mar 2015 #92
No. I am a retired woman who experienced sexual assault while in college. Laurian Mar 2015 #22
Don't let it bother you. Jamastiene Mar 2015 #45
He was banned, Laurian BainsBane Mar 2015 #100
Good to know. I was pretty stunned by his attitude and Laurian Mar 2015 #102
The guy did participate in a gang rape. That's not exactly "no reason." n/t nomorenomore08 Mar 2015 #28
Did he? Egnever Mar 2015 #31
stop what...sticking it in? trumad Mar 2015 #33
Seems neither of us knows Egnever Mar 2015 #34
He admitted to participating in a gang rape. trumad Mar 2015 #35
No we know he took a plea deal. Egnever Mar 2015 #37
He pled guilty to a gang rape. trumad Mar 2015 #40
He took a deal. Egnever Mar 2015 #43
Did he plead guilty? trumad Mar 2015 #46
Good lord Egnever Mar 2015 #51
Yep...I knew you'd pull that card. trumad Mar 2015 #55
Aren't you clever! Egnever Mar 2015 #59
While I understand what you are saying ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2015 #64
He pled guilty to being involved with a gang rape. trumad Mar 2015 #70
Okay. n/t 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2015 #74
For no fucking reason!!! trumad Mar 2015 #30
Rape is "no reason" to you. Jamastiene Mar 2015 #44
+1 nomorenomore08 Mar 2015 #87
Jury Results - Leave it, 2-5 Lancero Mar 2015 #62
do you still have the results and could you post it, if you do. I would like to read the alert Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2015 #79
Wasn't the first who sent it in, just got the notification that it'd been alerted on previously. Lancero Mar 2015 #80
okay, thanks. eom. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2015 #81
What precisely leads you to believe his sentencing is predicated on "no reason?" You seem emotional. LanternWaste Mar 2015 #75
Violating a girl in a gang rape is not "no reason" BainsBane Mar 2015 #94
Send ALERT to ADMINS... A-Schwarzenegger Mar 2015 #95
That rape apologist was banned by Skinner. cyberswede Mar 2015 #97
OMG, thank goodness! BainsBane Mar 2015 #98
a little ray of sunshine, with all this rape acceptance, jokes, 11 yr old girls, gang raped 16 yr ol seabeyond Mar 2015 #99
Excellent. A-Schwarzenegger Mar 2015 #105
+1000 smirkymonkey Mar 2015 #25
Absolutely agree with you, Laurian. Laffy Kat Mar 2015 #66
Shit, even at *12* I'm pretty sure I would've known better than to join my "friends" nomorenomore08 Mar 2015 #88
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2015 #20
Post removed Post removed Mar 2015 #23
What would be appropriate? Egnever Mar 2015 #29
A couple of years in jail! trumad Mar 2015 #32
How about 30 years in jail? Comrade Grumpy Mar 2015 #36
Trying minors as adults is cruel and unusal. gerogie2 Mar 2015 #38
Raping a 16 year old girl is beyond cruel.... trumad Mar 2015 #41
and deserves the death penalty, in my opinion. NM_Birder Mar 2015 #84
Knock it off... trumad Mar 2015 #85
Agreed Egnever Mar 2015 #42
So you did something worse than raping a 16 year old girl? trumad Mar 2015 #47
Try harder! Egnever Mar 2015 #49
You compare stunts to rape? Really? Rex Mar 2015 #56
dudes been arguing up and down the thread trumad Mar 2015 #58
I'm probably on ignore. Rex Mar 2015 #91
Average time served for rape is 5 years Egnever Mar 2015 #39
Very, very picky. LisaL Mar 2015 #52
I real punishment? Probation is not really restitution for raping a woman Rex Mar 2015 #53
once again, proof that females simply do not count--all hail the damned football niyad Mar 2015 #57
Yep, trumad Thespian2 Mar 2015 #60
I am a rape survivor and I am appalled that these boys are not going to jail. hrmjustin Mar 2015 #61
If this same 15 year old had murdered someone Oklahoma_Liberal Mar 2015 #63
How can it get any more lenient? He didn't get any jail time. LisaL Mar 2015 #68
I think you're confusing "suspect" and "wish validation." LanternWaste Mar 2015 #76
This sentence mercuryblues Mar 2015 #69
Awesome post. . trumad Mar 2015 #71
thank you mercuryblues Mar 2015 #72
I'm completely flummoxed about the did not cause as much harm... trumad Mar 2015 #78
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2015 #77
Would need to know a lot more but I can see how that would be "acceptable". NCTraveler Mar 2015 #82
He needs to spend at least a year or tow in a detention center... trumad Mar 2015 #83
I don't think it is insane, but I also don't disagree with your assessment. NCTraveler Mar 2015 #86
"Without help, it will just generate future victims of his." nomorenomore08 Mar 2015 #89
I almost had an actual response to this. flvegan Mar 2015 #90
It won't be long get the red out Mar 2015 #101
Sanford, Florida?...Isn't this the same place Zimmerman killed Trayvon Martin whathehell Mar 2015 #103
Unreal. H2O Man Mar 2015 #104

Laurian

(2,593 posts)
1. Fucked up is right.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 07:43 PM
Mar 2015

Like Steubenville never happened. Change is a long time coming....jocks still skate.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
24. He is charged as a juvenile (15 at commission) and this extends supervision past juvenile
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 08:25 PM
Mar 2015

limits.

Supposedly he stopped when the girl told him to stop. It's probably justified.

LisaL

(44,967 posts)
48. If the girl is being gang raped, does she have to tell "NO" to each attacker individually?
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 09:55 PM
Mar 2015

He couldn't figure it otherwise?

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
4. The article refers to him as a former football player. He was and is a juvenile.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 07:51 PM
Mar 2015

He is now a potential witness against the other four. It all makes sense to me.

 

Sarcastica

(95 posts)
14. I was thinking the same thing. I hope he made a deal to testify against the others.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 08:11 PM
Mar 2015

His testimony can go along way should the others try to say the sex was consensual.

Hopefully, the prosecution made the deal in concert with the victim.

Response to trumad (Original post)

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
7. The same loser. He fantasizes all day about hating black people and posts it here.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 08:00 PM
Mar 2015

Because only a true superior intellect would spend all their waking moments thinking about what they hate most

Response to arcane1 (Reply #7)

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
10. Just scrape it off your shoe.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 08:02 PM
Mar 2015

The dude spends waaaay too much time trying to disrupt here. Most of his shit goes *poof* before anyone can read it. Sad, really.

 

gerogie2

(450 posts)
9. These are minors...
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 08:02 PM
Mar 2015

I don't subscribe to the lock 'em up and throw away the key for teenagers. Their minds are still developing and they should be given a chance at reform.

 

gerogie2

(450 posts)
13. You're an emotional person
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 08:11 PM
Mar 2015

Thankfully the judge took everything into account and handed down an appropriate sentence for a minor. What makes you think probation and counseling won't be effective rather then spending $50k per year warehousing the child?

Calista241

(5,585 posts)
17. It says the guy stopped when she told him to.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 08:13 PM
Mar 2015

And more than likely, the prosecutor secured his testimony against the other perps.

LisaL

(44,967 posts)
54. Stopping when the woman says "no" might work in a date situation.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 10:04 PM
Mar 2015

But in a gang rape situation? He couldn't figure out it wasn't a good idea to start whatever it is he was doing?

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
96. My guess is that
Wed Mar 18, 2015, 01:28 AM
Mar 2015

during the investigation it was discovered that this perp actually did stop when told no and the victim corroborated. They needed one of them to testify against the others. It is likely they then took his statement and shared it with the victim and she must have agreed with it or they would not have given the deal to him. I think he should at least have to do many hours of community service as well, but I don't know what tge Florida laws are.

Laurian

(2,593 posts)
15. What?
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 08:12 PM
Mar 2015

Should the victim just say, "oh, that's okay, you're still developing"? What about her trauma. Sorry, 16 is plenty old enough to know not to rape.

Nobody suggested he be locked up and the key thrown away, but there should be some real consequences for his actions.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
18. I would say hold him till he's 21 or so - at the least - and monitor him closely.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 08:17 PM
Mar 2015

Even then, he's still a potential risk to others.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
26. Maximum sentence would be detention until 19.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 08:29 PM
Mar 2015

So this deal actually provides longer supervision.

Also, a rapist that stops when so instructed by the victim is perhaps not so twisted as you appear to be assuming. One can see how prosecutor and judge might perceive that to be a relevant fact about assessing his degree of danger to the public at this time and rehabilitative potential.

It's shocking, he was participating with the group. I grant you that. He does not deserve to walk and he hasn't.

LisaL

(44,967 posts)
50. Not if he were to be tried as an adult.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 09:58 PM
Mar 2015

I don't exactly understand what DA is doing here. He offered 3 of the accused very lenient plea deals. Including a supposed mastermind (different guy from the one that accepted a deal).
The other two he plans to try as adults (even though they are not yet 18). I don't understand this logic here. Shouldn't mastermind, at the very least, be tried as an adult?

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
65. To direct file in Florida the perp must be at least 16 at the time of the offense, right?
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 11:24 PM
Mar 2015

This one wasn't. I think the judge would have had to approve the transfer or perhaps indictment. Both perhaps unlikely if he stopped. For some serious crimes it is non-discretionary, but I think the 15 year old (now 16) was destined to stay in juvenile court.

For the others, I am not sure why. They all seem to have been older.

It may be due to weakness in evidence/testimony. It seems like the prosecutor is trying to get them to plead guilty by using the threat of direct file against two of the older ones, and charging the two he thinks he can really convict as as adults.

This may have started as a consensual encounter between the girl and her friend, with the the friend having told the other boys to show up, and then proceeded to get wild. But it may be one of those things that is difficult in front of jury, especially with young defendants, and potentially very traumatic to the victim.

Just the fact that this one stopped when she told him "No" raises a doubt as to what he thought it was. You have to prove intent - intent to rape, to assault.

LisaL

(44,967 posts)
67. She recorded part of the incident on video, telling the suspects NO.
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 12:50 AM
Mar 2015

"The girl's video, recorded in two segments, does not show the sex acts, but its audio captured her telling the boys, "No," and saying she wanted to return to school."
http://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/breaking-news/os-gang-rape-winter-springs-high-20150120-story.html

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
73. I am not questioning that the girl was sexually assaulted by a group of boys. She was.
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 08:12 AM
Mar 2015

It's a terrible story. I was trying to address what may be the prosecutor's strategy.

LisaL

(44,967 posts)
93. I am thinking prosecutor has DNA evidence on the two charged as adults, but not on the others?
Wed Mar 18, 2015, 12:34 AM
Mar 2015

Otherwise I can't understand his logic.

 

gerogie2

(450 posts)
19. More emotional trap clap
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 08:20 PM
Mar 2015

I believe in reform for people under the age of 21. You must be republican that wants to lock up minors at a cost of $50k per year for no reason.

Laurian

(2,593 posts)
22. No. I am a retired woman who experienced sexual assault while in college.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 08:24 PM
Mar 2015

To flippantly call me a Republican is really, really low.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
45. Don't let it bother you.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 09:51 PM
Mar 2015

That person has a really messed up sense of right and wrong. Rape is not "no reason" as they claimed. Rape is a heinous crime.

Laurian

(2,593 posts)
102. Good to know. I was pretty stunned by his attitude and
Wed Mar 18, 2015, 12:05 PM
Mar 2015

just had to get away from that thread. Thanks for the update.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
34. Seems neither of us knows
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 09:04 PM
Mar 2015

Pretty silly to sentence someone to years in jail when you don't even know what part he played.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
51. Good lord
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 10:00 PM
Mar 2015

What clownish responses. Enjoy getting your rage on you clearly cant discuss this rationally.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
55. Yep...I knew you'd pull that card.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 10:05 PM
Mar 2015

You won't answer the question because the answer destroys your whole defense of the little shmuck who participated in the rape of a 16 year old girl.

So I'll answer for you. He pled guilty to the crime.

Goodbye.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
64. While I understand what you are saying ...
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 11:00 PM
Mar 2015

Pleading guilty to a crime does not mean you are guilty of that crime.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
70. He pled guilty to being involved with a gang rape.
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 07:14 AM
Mar 2015

He was there..let it happen...and kept quiet until he was caught.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
44. Rape is "no reason" to you.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 09:49 PM
Mar 2015

I got news for you. Rape is a heinous crime. He committed a crime. Let him do his time, if you can quit coddling him long enough.

Lancero

(3,001 posts)
62. Jury Results - Leave it, 2-5
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 10:51 PM
Mar 2015

Sad state of affairs that a jury left this rape apologist crap stand.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
79. do you still have the results and could you post it, if you do. I would like to read the alert
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 10:27 AM
Mar 2015

message and juror's comments. Thanks.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
75. What precisely leads you to believe his sentencing is predicated on "no reason?" You seem emotional.
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 08:38 AM
Mar 2015

What precisely leads you to believe his sentencing is predicated on "no reason?"

You seem both emotional and irrational, regardless of whether you're a republican or not...

BainsBane

(53,010 posts)
94. Violating a girl in a gang rape is not "no reason"
Wed Mar 18, 2015, 12:38 AM
Mar 2015

and while you may think the life of that girl and all this man's future victims not worth $50k a year, the majority of Democratic voters are actually women who imagine their lives to be worth something. To call someone a Republican for wanting to see a rapist prosecuted is nonsensical. Amazingly, the GOP is not the party of women's rights, and your views of rape far more closely align with theirs than does the other poster you insulted.

"Emotional clap trap": Calling rape "no reason" is hardly based on reason or free from emotion. Quite the opposite. The statement requires an intense level of negative emotion.

25 percent of women in this country are raped, and only 3 percent of rapists ever do jail time. Seeing that as a problem is not "emotional clap trap." Rather, it is a civil rights issue based on the idea of women as citizens and human beings whose lives matter.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
97. That rape apologist was banned by Skinner.
Wed Mar 18, 2015, 11:27 AM
Mar 2015


MIR Team (Skinner) banned gerogie2

Mail Message
Reason:
Previously banned rape apologist.

http://www.democraticunderground.com?com=profile&uid=310233&sub=trans

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BainsBane

(53,010 posts)
98. OMG, thank goodness!
Wed Mar 18, 2015, 11:30 AM
Mar 2015

First thing I did when I signed on was to check his status and he was still active. So glad Skinner acted.
Thanks to everyone who sent the admin alerts.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
99. a little ray of sunshine, with all this rape acceptance, jokes, 11 yr old girls, gang raped 16 yr ol
Wed Mar 18, 2015, 11:40 AM
Mar 2015

yea

Laffy Kat

(16,366 posts)
66. Absolutely agree with you, Laurian.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 11:38 PM
Mar 2015

This shit is NOT going to stop unless the law begins to take it seriously and hand down appropriate penalties. This is about the girl. Period. Hopefully, she has input into the rapists' sentencing, albeit confidential input for the sake of her privacy and protection.

And BTW, I have two boys, 16 & 21, and you'd better believe their frontal lobes are developed enough to know rape is WRONG.


nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
88. Shit, even at *12* I'm pretty sure I would've known better than to join my "friends"
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 11:28 PM
Mar 2015

in gang-raping someone.

Response to gerogie2 (Reply #9)

Response to trumad (Original post)

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
32. A couple of years in jail!
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 09:00 PM
Mar 2015

Poor girl has a lifetime of having to deal with this horror. Certainly a couple of years in jail would be sufficient for this little turd.

 

Comrade Grumpy

(13,184 posts)
36. How about 30 years in jail?
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 09:12 PM
Mar 2015

That's what two other minors in the case who are being tried as adults are facing.

Two other minors are looking at being held until they are 19. A year or two.

I guess the juvenile justice system is a picky, choosy kind of thing.

 

gerogie2

(450 posts)
38. Trying minors as adults is cruel and unusal.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 09:20 PM
Mar 2015

I'm sorry I have worked with kids that did armed robberies that turned their life around and became productive members of societies with beautiful families. Destroying a minors life for an immature and implosive act is not helpful to society. IMHO.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
42. Agreed
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 09:33 PM
Mar 2015

I don't know enough about the circumstances to make a judgement what is appropriate in this case. I do know I did stupid shit when I was young, I am lucky to be alive today with some of the stunts I pulled and even luckier that I never got anyone else hurt. I cant imagine being punished today still for the mistakes I made when I was a kid 30 years ago.

My heart goes out to the girl to be sure and I hope she gets whatever help she can to deal with what happened.



 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
56. You compare stunts to rape? Really?
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 10:07 PM
Mar 2015

How does doing stupid shit and raping a women even fall into the same realm with you? I hope you mean stuff like racing cars drunk or something of that nature.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
91. I'm probably on ignore.
Wed Mar 18, 2015, 12:13 AM
Mar 2015

Rape is like stunts. You read it here on a progressive forum first. NOT FR or stormfront. Democratic Underground. You know who else pretends such vile shit is just stunts? Rush Limpballs. Maybe this is just a big prank to said poster. Just disgusting.

STUNTS.

LisaL

(44,967 posts)
52. Very, very picky.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 10:01 PM
Mar 2015

What gives here?
Two charged as adults. The other three offered lenient plea deals as juveniles, including the guy who according to the OP is accused of masterminding the whole thing.
Doesn't add up to me.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
53. I real punishment? Probation is not really restitution for raping a woman
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 10:04 PM
Mar 2015

is it? What do you think?

Thespian2

(2,741 posts)
60. Yep, trumad
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 10:33 PM
Mar 2015

these bastards did a very wrong attack on a female. In Florida. Where the authorities don't give one shit about human beings who are not them. After all, she is just a female, and all Republicans know that being a female is detrimental to your health. Why, after all should a female be concerned if she is raped by a group of ignorant bastards. If she should become pregnant and have a child, Rick Santorum will gladly adopt the child and support it through to adulthood.

Personal opinion? Hang them up by their balls.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
61. I am a rape survivor and I am appalled that these boys are not going to jail.
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 10:44 PM
Mar 2015

The court is saying a big fuck you and get over it to the victim.

This is what rape culture looks like.

 

Oklahoma_Liberal

(69 posts)
63. If this same 15 year old had murdered someone
Mon Mar 16, 2015, 10:51 PM
Mar 2015

I suspect some of these same DUers crying for harsher punishment would be whining for leniency. Funny, that.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
76. I think you're confusing "suspect" and "wish validation."
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 08:40 AM
Mar 2015

"I suspect some of these same DUers..."

I think you're confusing "suspect" and "wish validation."

mercuryblues

(14,519 posts)
69. This sentence
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 07:12 AM
Mar 2015

has very deep roots in misogyny. Women have been called sluts, whores, vamps and more. They have been degraded to the point where they are systematically not considered to have the same value as men. If they are beaten and raped, what were they doing there. If they were drugged and raped, why did she trust them. If she had a few drinks and was raped, she shouldn't have been drinking. Everything said is to mitigate a rapists criminal responsibility. Then people are surprised when rapists get nothing more than a slap on their wrists with a white glove.

Even the defense that when she said no, he stopped raping her is being used to defend his heinous act. Did he stop the others? Did he say NO way when the ring leader hatched the plan. Did he call the police? No. Even afterwards he did not go to the police and confess. He continued on, as nothing happened until the police arrested him. He accepted a deal that benefits him, after the fact, after they got caught. YAY! But there is still a young woman who was raped and she must simply learn how to "deal with it."

When women say that men need to take a stand against rape, they get blasted as hating men. Because you know not *all men* are rapists. Of course not all men are rapists. *Some* men truly do combat rape culture. But in all seriousness how many men take a stand and against the use of words like whore, slut, bitch and every other derogatory term used to describe women in an effort to diminish their worth? Just in the last week or so the use of the word whore has been justified on this board at least 3X's. Words like that directly contribute to light sentences for rape. Even if they are used to describe something or someone else. The underlying meaning and context is still there. It still devalues a woman's humanity. To the point where rape test kits are rotting in storage by the 100,000's of thousands. To the point where police say things like "call the police we can't unrape you" To the point where some police rape women. To the point where an SVU cop attempts to rape a woman all his punishment is losing his vacation and demoted.

Still *some* people refuse to believe how using derogatory terms for females and their anatomy has any negative outcome. They were just kidding, quoting an article. Toughen up you bitches. You take things too seriously. I am truly sorry that I can't laugh at your joking around and ignore it. My personal safety depends on fighting it.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
71. Awesome post. .
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 07:16 AM
Mar 2015

Some above are making this kid out to be innocent because he didn't continue the assault...the conveniently leave out everything else.

mercuryblues

(14,519 posts)
72. thank you
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 07:33 AM
Mar 2015

Just about everyone here laughs at the "trickle down" economic theory. Some fail to grasp the same for a woman's safety. The true change starts at the grass roots and works their way up the system. Even if all people don't agree with this, the change in culture would be substantial. No longer will rape apologist feel comfortable placing the blame on the victim. No longer will criminals be able to have their actions minimized. Giving judges and prosecutors room to give such blatantly light sentences.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
78. I'm completely flummoxed about the did not cause as much harm...
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 09:03 AM
Mar 2015

reason as to why the kid only got probation. That girl is harmed for life because of what this kid did and his pack of jackasses.

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NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
82. Would need to know a lot more but I can see how that would be "acceptable".
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 11:44 AM
Mar 2015

Five years is one third of his current life. It will also mark his record. If the other "boys", including the ring-leader decide to go to trial, I am hoping there is an agreement in place for this person to testify against the others. It appears two of the older "boys" have yet to decide their direction within the system. I am also hoping there is some form of counseling that goes along with his sentence.

What do you think his sentence should be? You have stated that it is fucked up that a fifteen year old is sentenced to five years probation without stating what isn't fucked up. Every bit of it sounds fucked up to me.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
83. He needs to spend at least a year or tow in a detention center...
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 01:15 PM
Mar 2015

Probation only for participating in a gang bang rape is insane.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
86. I don't think it is insane, but I also don't disagree with your assessment.
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 02:14 PM
Mar 2015

I don't think they are all that far off. I would be completely behind the detention center idea if I know more about the detention center or if our punitive system was fundamentally changed. I see know way, without serious counseling and rehab in a detention center, he would come out anything more than a stunted adult with worse issues than when he went in. I am not in total disagreement with you. I would just like to see him helped. The thought of helping him might anger some, but without help, it will just generate future victims of his.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
89. "Without help, it will just generate future victims of his."
Tue Mar 17, 2015, 11:34 PM
Mar 2015

My more optimistic side wholeheartedly agrees with this. But there's also the possibility he'll re-offend even with "help."

Either way, at 16 there's probably more hope of rehabilitating him than there would be at, say, 21.

flvegan

(64,402 posts)
90. I almost had an actual response to this.
Wed Mar 18, 2015, 12:04 AM
Mar 2015

Then said, nevermind. I'm giving up suffering fools gladly for Lent. Or something.

whathehell

(29,023 posts)
103. Sanford, Florida?...Isn't this the same place Zimmerman killed Trayvon Martin
Wed Mar 18, 2015, 12:14 PM
Mar 2015

and got away with it?

It must be one horrible, right wing place!

H2O Man

(73,476 posts)
104. Unreal.
Wed Mar 18, 2015, 01:00 PM
Mar 2015

I find the report in the OP, as well as a few of the responses here, to be troubling.

First, rape is a serious crime. It is an assault on one's person-hood: body and mind. It damages the victim, their family and friends, the fabric of their community.

The young man in question didn't simply make a small mistake or do something stupid -- and it really is a teenager's job to make mistakes, and do stupid things, from time to time. Were it otherwise, what challenges could parents and school teachers look forward to? The teens' ability to mix insight and intelligence, with a few cup fulls of stupidity, never ceases to amaze me.

I've raised my children -- two boys and two girls -- who are all above average intelligence. To various extents, each provided me with some mighty complex challenges. Lots of nieces and nephews. In social work, I dealt with hundreds of kids.

In that experience, I've never met a kid who did not know right from wrong, especially in the context of damaging another person. Rape and gang rape are not things that one makes an honest mistake in doing.

I don't know how many times I've heard a kid attempt to justify, for example, stealing a car for an afternoon by saying, "Yeah, I knew it was wrong. But it seemed like a fun idea, and besides, no one got hurt."

We know that the part of the brain most closely connected with grasping future consequences doesn't fully develop, until around age 24. But that part that knows right from wrong surely has.

In my opinion, that sentence is terrible. What's more, the same type of thinking that the court used in reaching it, can be found in some of the responses to the OP. That's a shame.

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