EARLIER I HAD POSTED SOMETHING TO PROVE THAT I HAD A WIFE AND WE WERE

[diabeticman]

This discussion thread was locked as off-topic by NYC_SKP (a host of the General Discussion forum).

REAL!


I DELETED AS ORDERED



WHY THE FREAK IS IT SO IMPORTANT THAT I AM BELIEVED? BECAUSE I CAME HERE LOOKING FOR HELP AND I SHOULDN'T BE CALLED A LIAR!


WE CANNOT SELL IT! WE WOULD LOSE TOO MUCH MONEY AND NEVER BE ABLE TO BUY ANOTHER PLACE! IF MY WIFE AND I OWN THIS PLACE NO ONE SHOULD TELL US IF WE CAN OR CANNOT HAVE PETS!


IT SEEMS OTHERS THINK WE SHOULD JUST OTHERS WIN WELL I WANT TO FIGHT FOR THE RIGHT TO LIVE IN THE AREA I GREW UP AND HAVE THE ONE (1) THINK THAT WOULD MAKE IT A HOME IN MY WIFE'S EYES!

I WILL NEVER TROUBLE YOU PEOPLE AGAIN FOR ADVISE!

I WOULD ASK THOSE WHO SAW ACTUAL PROOF THAT MY WIFE EXSISTED TELL PEOPLE SHE IS REAL BUT THAT IS PROBABLY NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN!

[Texasgal]

1. People here CANNOT help you.

If you don't like what's being offered, then don't ask. It's that simple.

[FSogol]

2. As ordered? Or as recommended?

You are yelling at anonymous people in the internet. You seem to not get along with anyone who disagrees with what you want. Maybe some self introspection is in order. Sorry, SELF-INTROSPECTION! Good luck.

[In_The_Wind]

3. Who the hell " ORDERED " you to do something like that?

[trumad]

4. I ORDER YOU TO DELETE THIS OP!

THE POWER OF TRUMAD COMPELS YOU!

[Nye Bevan]

5. I'm not sure who's bothering you

but I suspect that this is exactly the reaction they are hoping for. Best thing to do is to self-delete this and your other emotional responses and put whoever is provoking you on your Ignore list.

[PeaceNikki]

6. Really, dude? "Ordered"?

FFS, those of us who asked you take it down did it out of concern. WTF kind of reaction to US is this?

You know what? Fuck it, do whatever the fuck you want, pal. You clearly have no idea when people ARE trying to help you. So, fuck it.

[NightWatcher]

7. Stop trying so hard to get something out of this place. It's an online political discussion board

You're always trying to get something out of it to improve your situation, or advice on how to deal with your condo board and your cat...

We've all got problems and none/few try to solve them here. Talk about politics or cat videos in the Lounge.
That is what this place is for. Hell, go to the Chronic Illness group if you want to share with others in similar situations.

You are trying to get more from this place than was intended by its creator and users.

[Codeine]

8. Dude, that's how condos work.

So you can't have a cat -- you'll live. Move on or move out, but grunting and moaning on a political discussion board is useless.

[riderinthestorm]

9. Get the note from the Dr saying your wife needs the cat as a therapy animal

you've been given advice on a solution many, many, many times but you refuse to just do the easiest thing.

Then you come to DU to continue to whine and complain.

No wonder people don't believe you and get fed up. You're bringing it on yourself.

[DemocratSinceBirth]

10. I am feeling a lack of empathy for the seminal poster's dilemma

I hope and pray he finds a satisfactory solution to his problem.

[SheilaT]

11. Hmmm. You own a place and you can't have pets?

I'm guessing you're in a condo, and they suddenly changed the rules on you well after you bought. Or were those rules already in place? If the former, too bad you weren't able to keep the pet allowance in place. If the latter, well, I'll restrain comment but I'm constantly amazed at the people who never read the fine print. Or think the rules don't apply to them.

[Orrex]

12. Your posting style tends to come across as hyperbolic and over-dramatic.

That doesn't mean your posts are untrue; it simply means that, as written, they seem a bit over-the-top.

Since you have posted many times asking for help, advice, or commiseration, it shouldn't be surprising that some people have begun to suspect you of exaggeration and/or fabrication to get attention.

You might recall that I recently doubted a story you'd posted about a robbery/hostage situation in my own town. You were kind enough to provide further detail via PM, but before you clarified the story, I was ready to call 100% bullshit on it.


So perhaps it would be worthwhile to consider how your posts are perceived in the aggregate, and maybe you could modify your posting style to seem less hyper-intense.


My 2₵

[DemocratSinceBirth]

14. I like drama ...

[NYC_SKP]

13. Dear diabeticman. We wish you well but need to lock this thread.

Be strong and good luck in working out a solution with the HOA.

Best regards,

NYC_SKP