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Nasty Jack

(350 posts)
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 12:29 AM Jun 2015

Duggar Statements You Just Won't Believe

Jim Bob Duggar and his wife Michelle will say and do just about anything to keep from admitting their son Josh is a pervert. Here are some statements that evolved from their interview on Fox News that were compiled by SheKnows.com:

Michelle Duggar insists that Josh's fondling of his sisters were over the clothes like, somehow, this doesn't count?

When Jim Bob shared the molestations with church members he says the same thing was happening in other families with the implication it is widespread. Therefore his conclusion that what Josh did is no big deal.

Jim Bob could not accept the fact that a 15-year-old should know better than to do what Josh did, exclaiming, "He was a juvenile. Not an adult."

Claiming they were devastated to make it look like they were the victims and then trying to make a case that they had done all they could as parents. But critics responded, "Talking to your friends is not everything you can do."

And one of the dumbest comments I have ever heard coming from an adult's mouth, "As parents, we're not mandatory reporters." As if that completely relieved them from disclosing this to the authorities.

Michelle Duggar still thinks her son Josh is the victim in all this saying, "He knew it was wrong... they didn't even realize it was improper touch." That's about as dumb as the former father's comment.

Jim Bob did go to the police, who indicated later that he only told the cop about one molestation, something the father explained by accusing the police officer of saying that because he had not reported the assault afterward.

And finally when asked if they worried about the safety of their daughter when their brother returned home from supposed but failed counseling, "They were adamant that while safeguards stayed in place, they no longer worried about their daughters."

This whole scenario reads like a Keystone Cops movie but there is no humor in the fact that the Duggars took advantage of their religious and political positions to cover up a degenerate son's sexual deviation.

Nasty Jack
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Duggar Statements You Just Won't Believe (Original Post) Nasty Jack Jun 2015 OP
I do believe it Tree-Hugger Jun 2015 #1
Agreed and it happens too many times within families and it gets covered just as in this case. Thinkingabout Jun 2015 #2
Doing it once is "experimentation" XemaSab Jun 2015 #3
After puberty I think it's hard to call it experimentation. joshcryer Jun 2015 #5
No. It was ALWAYS Sexual Assault. LeftOfWest Jun 2015 #7
The whole bunch make me sick. SoapBox Jun 2015 #4
The Duggars believe that females are to LibDemAlways Jun 2015 #6
Pickles greymattermom Jun 2015 #8
what makes me so mad pugetres Jun 2015 #9
Even money says it's a generational thing. hobbit709 Jun 2015 #10
People need to stop being surprised, and start assuming it's true of other fundies. phantom power Jun 2015 #11
Cognitive dissonence Viva_Daddy Jun 2015 #12
My friend told me that everyone in his church loved and respected her because she has a PHD. Snotcicles Jun 2015 #13

Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
1. I do believe it
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 01:09 AM
Jun 2015

The moral crisis in this country is not that gays are gaining equality or that Caitlyn Jenner is on a cover. The moral crisis is that child molesters are being protected, defended, and applauded.

These people are spiritually ill. They are degrading to themselves, their family, and society. They are all fucking predators.

Thinkingabout

(30,058 posts)
2. Agreed and it happens too many times within families and it gets covered just as in this case.
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 01:35 AM
Jun 2015

Also, Michele still says nasty things about others.

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
6. The Duggars believe that females are to
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 03:37 AM
Jun 2015

blame for their molestation. After their son molested their daughters, they installed locks on the girls' bedroom door and had them wear streetclothes to bed. No more pajamas or nightgowns, which might cause a boy to have thoughts he "could not righteously fulfill" as they put it. On one episode the mother freaked out when her four-year-old daughter ran outside in a sleeveless dress and in another came unglued when her daughter held her boyfriend's hand while praying. These people have incredibly fucked up ideas.

 

pugetres

(507 posts)
9. what makes me so mad
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 06:48 AM
Jun 2015

about the whole situation is the fact that so many kids have known the utter despair of childhood sexual abuse. And, so many have kept secrets because although we know that our parents would protect us if they knew, we couldn't tell our parents because we knew that our families would be torn apart. And, maybe that what just as bad to us.

The thought of having the people that are supposed to protect you giving shelter to the person that they should be protecting you from is mind numbing.

They knew. But, they still exposed their most vulnerable children to a predator.

They knew.

hobbit709

(41,694 posts)
10. Even money says it's a generational thing.
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 06:52 AM
Jun 2015

My wife worked with homeless and abused kids for 32 years. The more fundy the family, the more likely all forms of abuse and usually two or more generations worth at that.

phantom power

(25,966 posts)
11. People need to stop being surprised, and start assuming it's true of other fundies.
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 10:55 AM
Jun 2015

Misogyny and abuse are baked into the DNA of fundamentalist religions. Expect that it's happening, whether it's come to light or not.

Viva_Daddy

(785 posts)
12. Cognitive dissonence
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 11:19 AM
Jun 2015

Instead of being horrified to discover that molestation was "not unusual" in his church, Jim Bob used it as an excuse for his son. Childhood curiosity is one thing, but molesting sleeping children is NOT normal.

 

Snotcicles

(9,089 posts)
13. My friend told me that everyone in his church loved and respected her because she has a PHD.
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 11:27 AM
Jun 2015

A, Pentecostal Hare Doo.

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