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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsIf Jenner can be a woman while still sporting a penis, why can't Rachel Dolezal be African American?
sorry to be so blunt, but just sayin'
Whether Jenner will feel complete as a woman while possessing a penis is a question only she can answer.
The NAACP was cool with Dolezal. Why is white culture freaking out?
brooklynite
(93,626 posts)Has she had her skin color changed permanently?
MosheFeingold
(3,051 posts)People will be saying they are really a different race than they were born and get tattooed or dyed (or bleached) or whatnot. Heck, there is Mengele-worthy means of changing eye color already. I am sure with enough money there is a doctor somewhere that will do this.
My joke has been Michael Jackson was WAY ahead of this trend. He turned himself into a white woman!
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)Race is a human construct based largely on morphological features. But genetically, it's basically impossible define "race."
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)there are distinct genetic patterns depending on one's decent. Y chromosomes and mitochondrial DNA tend to be associated with certain races or at least regions of the world.
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)It would depend on what you define as race. Are the Basque people a race? Nationality is not race per se. French, Spanish, Portuguese, and Italians were at one more or less, the same race. I don't know, its tricky but there sure is a cultural and at least to some degree biological tendency towards race.
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Android3.14
(5,402 posts)Race is a cultural construct.
http://bigthink.com/words-of-wisdom/bill-nye-theres-no-such-thing-as-race
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)I'm just not interested in beating my head against a brick wall tonight is all, and it seemed like that conversation was going that way.
Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)Relethford the Author of The Fundamentals of Biological Anthropology notes race as - a group of individuals that share some biological characteristics. They differ from other groups according to these characteristics.
So, Bill Nye should be worrying about Rault's Law and STP and not worry about genetics.
Android3.14
(5,402 posts)members of a race may not share all characteristics.
For example, President Obama is biracial, yet still identifies himself African American. It is painfully obvious that the definition of race, as with the definition of homosexual, is changeable over time and within cultures.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)Like the concept of "species," it is a classification we find convenient as humans. But it doesn't actually exist as a discreet thing. We're all a collection of alleles.
Android3.14
(5,402 posts)That's beautiful.
JustAnotherGen
(31,630 posts)My Father (whose beautiful soul is in heaven) was black - my mother is still alive and white.
Rachel has two white parents.
TBH - It's pretty insulting to imply that she has had my same life experiences, family experience etc. etc.
Here it comes - 'bi-racial kids are fucked up because this white woman who tans a lot and wears a wig is fucked up'.
SHE IS NOT ONE OF US. .
Yes - I was ^ yelling ^ - because I'm insulted. Her parents didn't get run off the road when her mother was close to full term with her older brother - Mine did. That's the reality for REAL mixed race families in the late 1960's / early 1970's in Kentucky.
I'm not driving into every. single. fucking. experience. I've had.
But please - knock it off.
This was 'settled' to white Americans satisfaction led when a black man with a white mother entered the White House.
At no time ever have all the bigots in this piece of shit inherently racist country EVER accepted him as white -
Except when they want to be little bigoted snots.
Find another analogy - she doesn't have the life experience of a bi-racial person -
Comparing her to us - it's just fucking bullshit. And you know it is. You know it.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)but the idea that we can neqtly categorize people into races based on DNA is simply false.
I'd say race in America is more about lived experience than exclusively DNA. The fact is that very many of us have very muddled genetic ancestry.
JustAnotherGen
(31,630 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)Sex refers to male and female, gender refers to masculine and feminine.
whathehell
(28,938 posts)Android3.14
(5,402 posts)There is gender (XX or XY), and then there is gender identity. Jenner's gender is male (XY); her gender identity is woman.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)Last edited Wed Jun 17, 2015, 04:12 PM - Edit history (1)
A man who, for example, has his pelvis severely injured in a bombing, has no testicles of permitted remaining is still a man. Right?
whathehell
(28,938 posts)for the last millennium or so. It's only recently that some scientists are now making distinctions -- Everyone does
not agree that "gender" is all in the brain.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)Wow. I do not have the biological parts to make me female, a woman, it is only in my brain so not real?
Again, wow.
whathehell
(28,938 posts)but there is always the matter of the gender one was born into and lived.
Besides, it's not only the sex organs that make one gender differ from the other -- It's facial features, musculature,
hormones, etc.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)hair sprouts. I've more muscles than many women my age also.
Guess I'm no longer a woman, then.
whathehell
(28,938 posts)I have more lines and my face is not as firm as it once was, but it hasn't 'coarsened' and
I have no additional hair at all.
RobinA
(9,862 posts)Two X chromosomes make a person a female. Add or subtract body parts, homones, facial features, XX equals female.
Unless you are a bird, and then XY equals female.
whathehell
(28,938 posts)but I don't think I'm the person you want to be talking to.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)Snobblevitch
(1,958 posts)The removal of reproductive organs does not change your gender/sex. (Not to mention chomosomes, even though those do not change with gender reassignment surgery.)
whathehell
(28,938 posts)uppityperson
(115,674 posts)xx chromosomes. Is that correct?
Snobblevitch
(1,958 posts)The parts that females are born with that males are not born with is what makes them female and vice versa. There are things that can be done to reverse this using hormones and surgical procedures, but unless a woman suddenly grew a post-menopausal penis and scrotum, she's still a she.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)Unless he were to grow a penis and scrotum, you'd still call him "she"? Unless she grew a vagina and labia, you would call her " him"?
Are you saying your genitals are what make you a gender?
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)parts he was born with that "makes him male". So, is he male?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026847018#post150
Snobblevitch
(1,958 posts)who has a hysterectomy is still a woman after the operation.
Zorra
(27,670 posts)information.
Snobblevitch
(1,958 posts)hysterectomy is no longer a woman. Wow.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)who continue their perceived gender identity of female, yes.
Snobblevitch
(1,958 posts)uppityperson
(115,674 posts)"The removal of reproductive organs does not change your gender/sex."
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6848724
The parts that females are born with that males are not born with is what makes them female and vice versa. There are things that can be done to reverse this using hormones and surgical procedures, but unless a woman suddenly grew a post-menopausal penis and scrotum, she's still a she.
Snobblevitch
(1,958 posts)that a woman who has had a hysterectomy is still a woman. I was not referring to gender reasignment surgery. Any other intrepretation of my comments is not what I intended.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)LostOne4Ever
(9,262 posts)[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]It's only recently that some scientists are now think it might be a globe--Everyone does not agree that the earth is "a globe."[/font]
whathehell
(28,938 posts)but whatever floats your boat.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)they understood the concept of transgendered persons.
I'll just point in the general direction of Greece and if the person wants to be more enlightened they can actually read about it. Or, you know, even the Old Testament addressed it, and not with the "burn them at the stake" interpretation that is so prevalent in Puritanical culture that continues to pervade and pervert our society.
Response to whathehell (Reply #87)
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whathehell
(28,938 posts)countryjake
(8,554 posts)Just because it isn't listed here, doesn't mean it's ok. If you post anything which is obviously disruptive, malicious, or repugnant to this community, its members, or its values, you risk being in violation of these Terms of Service.
On Tue Jun 16, 2015, 04:18 PM an alert was sent on the following post:
Using the word "thinking" is another mistake you keep using...
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what's with the rude personal insults?
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whathehell
(28,938 posts)I really appreciate your support.
countryjake
(8,554 posts)I will never understand the unthinking callousness with which some people go about smearing and deliberately hurting members who were born into this world slightly different than themselves.
Matariki
(18,775 posts)Gender is a social concept, which has traditionally been aligned with biological sex but is increasingly being accepted as separate from biology. I guess it's really down to societal perception and acceptance of what is 'normal' and permissible and what is 'crazy' and not permissible.
pnwmom
(108,914 posts)Both are also social constructs.
HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)Zorra
(27,670 posts)gollygee
(22,336 posts)MineralMan
(146,116 posts)You should consider self-deleting this. It's transphobic.
myrna minx
(22,772 posts)ismnotwasm
(41,885 posts)Just sayin'
whathehell
(28,938 posts)that is, by the way, being asked in other places, and no, not "right wing" places.
The alert on her OP was a huge 7 to 0 fail, so I'm guessing a lot of DUers are not bothered by it.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Then either I'm in the wrong place or there is something else going on here that has clearly escaped me.
whathehell
(28,938 posts)forthemiddle
(1,371 posts)Shouldn't we be having a discussion that the rest of America is having?
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)I suggest you read this link..http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=termsofservice
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)Not on jury but here are the comments.
ALERTER'S COMMENTS
just sayin'
You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Tue Jun 16, 2015, 01:46 PM, and the Jury voted 2-5 to LEAVE IT.
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Explanation: fair question, I guess.
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Explanation: hiding this POS just sayin' . To begin with penis or no Caitlyn is a woman, Rachel is white. Bit of a difference in those two things.
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Explanation: Perhaps a penetrating remark, but I'm lost in the forest of illogic.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Skittles
(152,918 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)gleeful RW "Ha ha ha, we've got those liberals now, transgender people are fake just like this white woman pretending to be black ha ha ha."
It's demeaning, and seeing it here makes me ill, sad and frankly, questioning why the fuck people perpetuating that meme are here. Hell, maybe I don't belong here if that is acceptable.
Skittles
(152,918 posts)people who JUST.DON'T.GET.IT........we just have to keep fighting them - seriously, if they think a comment like that is OK, they are BIGOTS
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)I thought it was self explanatory, but I should have taken my own advice and made the alert message more clear.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)could take a look at that damn post and wouldn't even need an explanation as to why it was garbage.
Not your fault, it's the fault of the 5 that let it stand and the 1 that posted it to begin with.
whathehell
(28,938 posts)I wasn't on the jury either.
HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)but I stand by my opinion.
HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)rarely concern me.
HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)You might want to try it.
HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)as well.
HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)False teeth?...No, mine would bite you on the ass.
HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)My sympathy to Chicago
whathehell
(28,938 posts)since you're exactly the type I was happy to leave.
ismnotwasm
(41,885 posts)While Gender is fluid, with gender characteristics blending into one another, along with biological sex 'conditions' such as AIS, societal imposed norms are all heterosexist. Either females or males may be Trans.
Race shouldn't have started to matter to humans at all, but it did and does. For the third time in these threads I'll ask, if a dark complected Black person went around claiming they were white, how do you think that would work out?
whathehell
(28,938 posts)I have no idea and who is to say "gender is fluid" and race is not?..These are relatively NEW phenomenon
and I'd say it's a tad early for non-scholars to be claiming expertise and adopting rigid attitudes.
ismnotwasm
(41,885 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)Oh, excuse me...Do all the 'cool kids" know what that means?
Gawd -- How gauche and rude. I'm really surprised and disappointed in you. I thought you were better than this.
Clearly, I was wrong.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)is any defense this poster can hide behind.
whathehell
(28,938 posts)Again, the OP was asking a question -- I don't know why that's such a big problem for you and some others here.
Skittles
(152,918 posts)there are plenty of people on DU who DO.NOT.F***ING.GET.IT.
whathehell
(28,938 posts)one a lot of people on DU, me included, do not share,
Even if "not getting it" is what's going on here, that doesn't automatically make the unenlightened "bigots" or "transphobes".
Transgenderism doesn't exactly have the benefit of being an ancient, well-researched phenomenon.
Skittles
(152,918 posts)if you diminish trans folk by insinuating they are just like this gal who is claiming to be black, YOU'RE A BIGOT
L0oniX
(31,493 posts)Skittles
(152,918 posts)OMG the idea this has to be explained on a PROGRESSIVE BOARD is VERY disturbing
irisblue
(32,791 posts)On Wed Jun 17, 2015, 10:17 AM an alert was sent on the following post:
NO IT ISN'T
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6848825
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whathehell
(28,938 posts)and if you continue to diminish and insult me and others here who believe in
open inquiry, YOU'RE A FASCIST.
Skittles
(152,918 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)Skittles
(152,918 posts)in the mind of ANYONE with critical thinking skills
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6852665
countryjake
(8,554 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)but fascism can be represented by more than one thing.
polly7
(20,582 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)Sorry, I really did not recognize it as such.
countryjake
(8,554 posts)Why don't you ask Skinner what his opinion is on gender identity?
Aerows
(39,961 posts)BACK UP THE TRUCK.
It has been recorded and documented since human civilization has been documented.
Let me point to any assortment of Greek works, or hey, let's look at Native American beliefs closer here to home.
Assyrians, Egyptians, Hebrews (you know that thing called the Old Testament?), yeah, not one of them mentioned it, and no, even in the Old Testament it isn't exactly "burn them at the stake, heathens!" either.
You are woefully misinformed. I highly recommend that you update your reading list. I don't have enough *time* to provide all the links I would need to give you that absolutely, categorically and fully refutes that statement.
whathehell
(28,938 posts)because you are clearly confused.
What you are pointing out is the existence of transgenders throughout history -- I never denied their existence
and I certainly NEVER argued that anyone should be "burned at the stake"
What I said, was that it has not been long RESEARCHED -- you know, via with the scientific method?
We have eons and scores of "beliefs" stemming from earliest recorded time. That doesn't mean they
were scientifically researched. Get it now?
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)It's about listening to others and learning.
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/16/opinion/rachel-dolezals-harmful-masquerade.html
whathehell
(28,938 posts)and I am talking about people of color, like MSNBC's Melissa Harris-Perry for one,
who are responding to the Dolezar case, you would find that the trans-racial question
is still being discussed, with no "correct" or final word on its legitimacy yet established.
Firstl of all, you might recall that the NAACP itself issued a statement supporting Rachel Dolezar.
It seems they were more concerned with her work than with her self-identification.
If you watched Melissa Harris-Perry's televised interview with Ms. Dolezar last night, you would have learned that
Ms. Harris-Perry is sympathetic to Ms. Dolezar. Her disclosure to Chris Hayes that she is "fighting
with my friends", gives further evidence that the matter is still "under discussion", making final
conclusions at this point, premature.
My personal opinion of Ms. Dolezar is that she is emotionally disturbed, but that is irrelevant.
My problem here is with all those who are insisting on closing the discussion at such an early juncture.
Excuse me, but as progressives, are we not supposed keep open minds? I find the angry demand to shut
down the entire discussion disturbing and very much at odds with those values.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)Critical thinking considers a weak argument and rejects it. I saw that interview. Yes, I saw some sympathy from Melissa Harris-Perry toward a troubled individual. I didn't see her pushing the notion that 'trans-racial' is a legitimate concept. An argument that suggests that race is a vague or fuzzy abstraction can be considered and rejected. Tamara Winfrey Harris addresses this in her New York Times opinion piece:
'In the days since this story broke, many people have been quick to point out that race is merely a social construct as if that fact changes the very real impact of race on the lives of minorities. The persistence of systemic racism means there are penalties for blackness in America.
Black women real ones live at the nexus of that oppression and enduring sexism. The gender pay gap is steeper for them. They are more likely than their white counterparts to live in poverty, to be victims of domestic homicide and sexual assault. If Tyisha Miller and Rekia Boyd, black women who were victims of extrajudicial violence, had been able to slide into whiteness for just a moment they might still be alive. (Perplexingly, Ms. Dolezal told Matt Lauer that her decision to identify as black was a matter of survival. That is rich, indeed.) But racial oppression is not as easy to shrug off as racial advantage. This is partly because America has spent centuries ensuring that certain people can never be white.
Being able to shift ones race is a privilege. Ms. Dolezals masquerade illustrates that however much she may empathize with African-Americans, she is not one, because black people in America cannot shed their race. We cannot proclaim the black race a nebulous concept, while strictly policing whiteness and the privileges of that identity. I will accept Ms. Dolezal as black like me only when society can accept me as white like her.'
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/16/opinion/rachel-dolezals-harmful-masquerade.html?_r=0
whathehell
(28,938 posts)It's not yet even a week.
In any case, as my post mentioned, my personal opinion is that Dolezar is a disturbed individual.
That being said, a progressive site should be OPEN to discussion, especially when the subject
is as recent as this one is.
I must also mention the obvious, and that is the fact that there are SO many things you've characterized as Dolezar's
"white privilege" and her lack of experience with Black oppression that also apply to MEN transitioning
to femaleness regarding their "male privilege" and their LACK of experience of female oppression,
that you'd have difficulty arguing against the point, and, sorry, but I've heard people of color making this same
comparison and asking the same question as the OP.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)I don't want to shut down discussion. It can get to be a pretty emotional topic. But I agree with you on this particular point - I think fair and open discussion is great.
Have a good day.
whathehell
(28,938 posts)such a nice surprise.
You have a good day as well.
Android3.14
(5,402 posts)But a satisfactory answer is elusive at best. There is no litigation on which to rely, no definitions, many counter examples, and far too much kneejerk namecalling.
You are right that many people on DU "do not get it", but if it is that obvious, then it should be easy to explain.
Yet an explanation is complex and vague, therefore the answer is anything but obvious.
Insulting those asking as transphobes and bigots is unhelpful.
Skittles
(152,918 posts)Fox News and the Dicussionist, absolutely
and these "innocent questions" and "inquiries".......aw never mind
Android3.14
(5,402 posts)Your implication there is some ulterior motive is simply an avoidance of addressing the question.
I sympathize with your suspicion. In general, I'm convinced that many posters are sockpuppets working for specific parties, candidates and corporate interests. But I also recognize that my paranoia is a lousy rhetorical tactic.
So please, make me understand why it is okay for someone to be transgender but not trans racial.
If there is insufficient reason, the result isn't that we should treat transgender people poorly, but that we should possibly treat trans racial people with the same respect and people will have to accept something they found uncomfortable a few years ago. If the reason is good, then we move on and heap ridicule and abuse on people who claim they are a different race, such as our African American President (who is actually biracial).
Skittles
(152,918 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)and discussed. It's odd that some people don't even want it discussed. What are they afraid of?
whathehell
(28,938 posts)and I'm amazed, not to mention disheartened, at what appears to be fearful resistance to its discussion here.
What are they afraid of, indeed? I have no idea, but I do know it's best to FACE your fears instead
of trying to shut down all mention of them.
Skittles
(152,918 posts)I am just DISGUSTED at the insinuation trans folk have the same motivations as that gal.
The serious lack of recommends shows me MOST PEOPLE HERE GET IT.
Ilsa
(61,656 posts)Afraid of being overpowered and raped. Or if she had to get a cosigner to borrow money because she was the wrong gender. I wonder if anyone she worked with openly speculated about it being her time of the month because she was in a bad mood. Or if she ever considered that she might die while giving birth, or if she would be treated with hostility because she had an abortion.
I understand that Caitlyn identifies as being a woman. I also think she's been a privileged white man for most of her life.
uhnope
(6,419 posts)might have something to do with it
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)"Identify" vs are, that it isn't really real. Please read, learn, and drop the scarequotes.
Ilsa
(61,656 posts)I think there is a lot Jenner has missed out on over the decades, both good and traumatic by not being a woman. A lot has changed for women during his lifetime. And I also think he enjoyed the privileges of being a white man during that time too. That is why I typed that word with quotes.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)Ilsa
(61,656 posts)Her as male since I first saw her in the Olympics when I was in high school. I've used the correct ones in other posts.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)polly7
(20,582 posts)It was probably very hard for her all these years. I imagine she did and does have a lot of pride in what she accomplished, ie. the Olympic records, as a person, but we're all able to accomplish things (most of us, not that great!) even while going through internal hell. I admire her bravery, she's facing such bigotry and ridicule - who on earth would choose to subject themselves to that if it weren't for something absolutely vital to her well-being?
Ilsa
(61,656 posts)doesn't mean it wasn't there or she didn't gain financial security from it. We all make choices and trade-offs. I have no doubt her life has been an emotional and psychological struggle. I hope she can be happy now.
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Ilsa
(61,656 posts)For PR and TV money. It's too personal.
MosheFeingold
(3,051 posts)So I can totally see it.
For that matter, I can't see anyone watching the Kardashians, but they do.
Check back in in about 5 years and Jenner will grasp at another 15 minutes of fame by "becoming a man again."
(Scare quotes ON PURPOSE.)
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)How much money would it take for you to fake being transgender? Think about what you said. I mean, really. I wouldn't put my worst enemy through the internal turmoil. On top of that, people are not nice. The transphobia and hatred directed toward the transgender community often comes in the form of actual murder and even in some cases having medical personnel refuse to treat life threatening injuries in car accidents and in other situations.
What is your price? How much money would it take for you go through all that?
No one would go through all that for money. I don't care for the Kardashians either, but I don't believe she is coming out as transgender for money. There would be no point. It's not like she is hurting for money.
Algernon Moncrieff
(5,780 posts)On Tue Jun 16, 2015, 03:35 PM an alert was sent on the following post:
I wonder if Jenner has ever been
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Transgender bigotry rears its ugly head. Claiming she is not a woman because she hasn't had to live with these fears is crap.
You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Tue Jun 16, 2015, 03:46 PM, and the Jury voted 1-6 to LEAVE IT.
Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: "Transgender bigotry"?? Sorry I don't get it either. A boy with a penis can call himself a girl, but a white woman cannot call herself a black woman? It's a very confusing time. I realize I'm in the minority here, but I say let it stay.
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Transphobic nonsense.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
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Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
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Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: I don't see this as bigotry, and I think it's a discussion that needs to take place. For example, if Bruce can self identify as Caitlyn, why cannot Rachel Dolezal self identify as African American? Ilsa's point is not unreasonable: Bruce Jenner has led most of adult life as a famous white male athlete. I think the post should stand.
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Aerows
(39,961 posts)and bigotry was let stand.
Ilsa
(61,656 posts)I stated facts about women where one-third are raped in their lifetimes and the fear and trauma and healing that occurs for 1/3 of the female population. Only half of pregnancies are planned. How many women in the unplanned group consider abortion and how to safely get it? Or do they wish they'd miscarry? Or do they resign themselves to this and carry on?
Jenner missed out on a lot of big things that are a part of our culture of most women's lives. And I hope it's all rainbows for her going forward. Yet she identifies as a woman and we accept that. Why can't a person who has spent a part of their lives in the African American culture say they identify with it? Maybe she shouldn't if she wasn't treated as a Black woman. I think it's a worthwhile discussion, whether it's gender or race.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)I was responding to the fact that the OP did not get hidden.
The OP did not, and brought it up in a way that had so many dog whistles it's a wonder the dogs in my neighborhood aren't barking.
EDIT: Oh I see that someone tried to have your post hidden.
Who the fuck let the OP stand is what I want to know!?
Ilsa
(61,656 posts)the big issue and why this is emotional for people. Gender, culture, perceptions, choices.
Action_Patrol
(845 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)familiar with.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)but the bigotry is right there under the surface, quietly lurking.
If I'm "making the right noises" but have bigotry under the surface, quietly lurking, I'd sure appreciate being confronted on it.
I thought the OP was heinous for a number of reasons. It's difficult to get nuance from people's posts, but the OP was pretty much a 2x4.
That said, even people that believe themselves to be open-minded can have blind spots. Sometimes huge, gaping ones. Addressing them with the person is the way to go provided it isn't blatantly mean spirited as the OP was.
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)I get your point, but it's not quiet at all any more. People know they can outright be as bigoted as they want and get away with it. It's disgusting.
Chemisse
(30,783 posts)These are questions many of us have about changing identities and what it all means.
The more we can talk about these ideas and wrestle towards understanding, the better off we all will be going forward.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)of a thread, now it appears that it has morphed into something different, I guess ... post that spawned sub threads.
I vociferously object to the dog whistle style of the O(riginal) P(ost). It plays into too many RW memes that have been circulating everywhere - gleeful posts of "Oh look liberals call that man a woman and now they object to a white woman claiming to be black HA HA HA" when there is an ocean of difference.
1. RD knew she was white, because she sued Howard University for discrimination against her for being white. She's also a serial liar, fabricating police reports that she was being targeted racially, all of them not passing the smell test. That harms those that are legitimately victims of hate crimes.
2. Jenner has always been female. Gender identity issues affect 1:2000 people. It has been around since civilization. If you want some citations, I'll offer them, but suffice to say, it has been documented since society could be documented. That is different than race, and certainly different from lying repeatedly and making up false stories that you were targeted by race for harassment.
Hope that clears some of it up for you, but to be honest, I'm just sickened by the whole right wing "Ha ha ha, we've got those liberals now, transgender people are fake just like this white woman pretending to be black ha ha ha."
To see this shit on DU makes me ill.
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)was the OP allowed to stand, because it was littered with RW bullshit memes.
THAT'S what I want to know.
MohRokTah
(15,429 posts)The OP is hateful to both African Americans and transgender people, IMO.
The whole comparison is, and I really think that's by design.
MohRokTah
(15,429 posts)That it made it's way here is revealing, IMO.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)are the names of people pushing the meme here.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)Codeine
(25,586 posts)I'm old, white, and male and I'm STILL not as bigoted as that person. Ugh.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)On the internet for transgender people.
Skittles
(152,918 posts)STAY AND FIGHT THESE TRANSPHOBIC PIECES OF SHIT
Zorra
(27,670 posts)by them for years.
This board is most definitely crawling with homophobes and transphobes.
Skittles
(152,918 posts)it is seriously fucking SAD, the DUers who claim to not know the difference - IT IS BIGOTRY!!!!!!
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)Maybe they will come out themselves in this thread, so I can put them on permanent ignore, never having to see their drivel again.
whathehell
(28,938 posts)Ilsa
(61,656 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)joeybee12
(56,177 posts)Ever think about those who identify, those poor and not privileged people who are trans and because of who they are have been picked on all their lives?
Ilsa
(61,656 posts)Their options are limited and few. Their actual choices can be heartbreaking. And some people are so selfish that they don't want their group insurance or medicaid to pay for reassignment surgery or transition therapy.
LostOne4Ever
(9,262 posts)Last edited Tue Jun 16, 2015, 08:28 PM - Edit history (1)
[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]Or that people who expressed the slightest transgender interest can't be LEGALLY discriminated against? Or that you can't be legally EVICTED simply for being trans?
Or that they can't be harassed at work? Or that you can't die from undergoing the operations they do? AND YOU THINK TRANSPEOPLE DON'T GET TREATED WITH HOSTILITY?![/font]
- Over half of all LGBTQ murders are committed against transwomen. Murder rate for trans people is 1/12.
- Over 41% of all trans people have ATTEMPTED suicide
- Just trying to get a job outs you during the background check
- Transpeople can be legally FIRED and EVICTED just for being trans in some states
- Transpeople can who are homeless (because they were legally evicted) can be denied access to homeless shelters
- Transpeople have been killed just for being telling someone they were trans
- Over 21% of transpeople get incarcerated and transpeople of color have a 47% chance
- Once in jail transpeople are often thrown in with the sex they DON't identify with and are sexually assaulted (1/3)
- To avoid sexual assault those that are NOT thrown in with the general population are put in solidary confinement...something used for punishment and often called torture.
- The AVERAGE lifespan for a transwoman is only 30-32years of age.
- Nearly half Transpeople who go to the police for help often are mistreated just for asking for help.
[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]No, YOU and the jury that let your remarks stand don't understand anything. Least of all privilege, especially given your transphobic remarks.
http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/05/cissexism-in-the-world/
http://everydayfeminism.com/2014/01/transmisogyny/
http://everydayfeminism.com/2014/11/misconceptions-trans-ally-understand/[/font]
edit: Jury please see http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6848619
ismnotwasm
(41,885 posts)Ilsa
(61,656 posts)Specific group. She was. One is rooted in genetics. The other was rooted in a cultural preference.
I never said transgendered people faced no discrimination or fear of persecution. I understand that he is a she. I don't care if she has a penis or vagina unlike the disgusting OP. I'm happy she has found her way out and wish she had been able to do it sooner, like some other people I've known, who were much happier after their transition.
I'll forgive you for your viciousness and namecalling which I could have alerted on. I've witnessed white male privilege and both racial and gender discrimination for almost sixty years.
LostOne4Ever
(9,262 posts)[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]Assuming the jury does decide to hide, it would be a worthy hide.
You were trying to undermine her gender. The comments about rape, periods, and pregnancy all show that, and the comment about her having been "a privileged white man for most of her life" prove it beyond doubt.
There was no sincere wish to look at the privileges she has benefited from. No mention of how she would have gotten support and financial backing she needed to become an olympian, where a black man might not be so lucky. No mention of how women athletes don't have the same opportunities that male athletes have.
No, you chose to focus on things that call her gender into question. Not to mention there was no reason or need to bring up the privileges she may or may not have experienced in the first place. It was totally offtopic and out of the blue. Not a word about Rachel Dolezal and why the comparison was apt or not.
And you thought the OP was so disgusting that you didn't say a thing? But instead called out Ms Jenner instead? Not one word against the OP in your reply to them, but boy were you quick to criticize Ms. Jenner for....what? Existing?
No, I don't buy it. I won't be intimidated and I would be proud of the hide.[/font]
polly7
(20,582 posts)LostOne4Ever
(9,262 posts)[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]And then for there to be people on DU attacking a trans woman on DU (if any a place that should be supportive of trans issues) is almost too much to bare.
That is why I won't play nice w/ these posters anymore.[/font]
misterhighwasted
(9,148 posts)Can't say it better than you did.
JaneyVee
(19,877 posts)LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Confusing bluntness and adolescent petulance is the first mistake. Just sayin', part two...
Johonny
(20,610 posts)and many studies suggest it has real biological genetic underpinnings. Racial dysphoria can't make such claims to date. Indeed human concept of "Race" is more a logical construct than a solid genetic term.
This appears to be a rather small subset issue for one woman than a huge issue that may effect 1:2000 or more human beings.
Ilsa
(61,656 posts)Clarifying post for me. The biological science is behind this now, not just cultural issues.
AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)It is kinda the US identity...everyone tries to assimulate into US cultures f4om other cultures. My parents, for example. Because of my father's assimilated so hard he became a Cubs fan, an affliction he passed to me.
My dad called himself American. The second he opened h8s mouth you knew he was not born here. But American he became.
She essentially assimilated into African American culture.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)I can master Swahili. I can dress like a native, eat local foods, cook with local ingredients with traditional spices, read best-selling African novels and totally assimilate into the culture of Kenya.
Ain't one bit of that will justify me sewing box braids to my head, hitting the spay-tan booth, and calling myself black. I could almost certainly call myself a Kenyan without anybody saying otherwise, but black? Nuh-uh. I don't get to steal that most basic identity.
AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)Some Indian dude comes to the US, becomes a success, buys a big house and a country club membership, marries a local, wears Ralph Lauren clothes....is stealing Amercan culture.
Got it.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)I can't steal their racial identity. I can become part of their culture, but I don't get to call myself black. The Indian dude certainly becomes American -- he doesn't become white.
AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)You are who you are, biological machinery be damned.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)But then not all Kenyans are black. Though it is more complex in that white Africans are leftover from colonialism. Whereas in the US it is more a case of immigration by individuals.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)You can subsume the culture, but it doesn't change basic identity.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)polly7
(20,582 posts)There's no 'can be', it's what she is. She is already a complete woman, no matter what body parts she may or may not have.
uhnope
(6,419 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)If one is truly what one "feels" themselves to be, why should it stop at gender?
uhnope
(6,419 posts)but that's the Internet I guess
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Your oppression and self-styled martyrdom will be given all the credibility they indeed, warrant... I'm guessing that's the internet too.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)freshwest
(53,661 posts)Last edited Wed Jun 17, 2015, 07:55 PM - Edit history (1)
and do this? What's up?You're free to post any opinion piece you choose and don't need my or anyone else's okay. But you are offending a lot of people with real life problems dealing with being POC and differently percieved that Putin is currently oppressing.
You edited or deleted before when I told you before it was not a good idea. I think you should delete this as it serves no useful purpose.
Rachel played both sides of this for her own profit and could pass as either race with tanning lotion and a hair perm. Her actions are that of a grifter, not a person who is confused.
Jenner may have been confused, but only by being denied what her mind is telling her. People adapt to survive when they don't fit what others think they should be. The birth certificate said male. Her mind and heart said female.
A black person can't change their color no more than a white person can become black by wishful thinking. The struggles Jenner has gone through were life-long, but you deal with what life gave you. This Wiki entry, which is edited, shows Jenner is considering losing that penis:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caitlyn_Jenner
I have a FTM BNL. The surgery is terrible. The doctors told him, after years of counseling, that in the last trimester of pregnancy his mother made too much testosterone and that effected his identity, but it was much too late to affect his body.
Whether people accept it or not, if you know someone well, you know it's not a fad or choice. We all knew something was up. He was not only into women, but he was hyper masculine in all of his interests. He wasn't doing that to please anyone, it caused him a lot of conflict and anger as people treated him like a freak. He knew he was not a woman, but there he was, stuck.
He gained no advantage from this situation, in fact the whole thing cost a fortune to go through it. Some people cannot afford it and end up in limbo.
He, like Jenner, took some time to figure out what was going on, and thought he was a lesbian but came to accept that wasn't what he was. He didn't want anyone to make love to him as a woman. There was not one feminine thing about him his entire life. But it is easier for a woman to wear men's clothes than the other way around.
What Rachel did was a choice, and she changed her choice of race when it advantaged her. It was choice proven by her actions, suing Howard University as a white person for discriminationg against whites. She rode on the backlash against affirmative action and played the reverse racism card.
There is a world of difference in these two individuals.
IMO, it's NOOB what is going in these people's lives until they start to affect others. Jenner got divorced when it was apparent that sex as it had been was no longer desireable (and now says he regards himself as an asexual person) and most likely was not enjoying sex for some time.
Gay men married and fathered children to escape the stigma of being gay have not been unknown. But Jenner is not gay. My BNL decided he was not a lesbian. It was not who he really was or felt like. And he had no problem finding women who wanted him before or after the transformation.
Bottom line is that Rachel, when she was identifying as black, it advantaged her.
It did /does not advantage Jenner. I consider the juxaposition of the two situations similar to RW talking points, illogical and dishonest. Don't fall for this.
There have been black people who have lightened their skin. Contrary what I read here at DU about Michael Jackson, the reason he had his skin lighened was not from a desire to 'be white,' but because of a skin condition where patches of skin lost their ability to use melanin and so he was black with white patches on his face.
His skin could not longer utilize melanin to match the rest. I've seen this with black people who have had burns. It's noticeable as in stare worthy noticeable.
He wasn't trying to 'be white,' he was suffering from a disease. Jenner was suffering a disorder where he felt he was in the wrong body. The changes didn't make them more popular or give them anything they could not have had otherwise.
When a woman loses estrogen as her dominant hormone level and her natural supply of testosterone increases in proportion, she may grow hair where it never was, and suffer from male-pattern baldness. Another cause for this effect are diseases or disorders around the ovary or uterus. She is not a happy camper because her body isn't working the way society or she herself wants it to act.
Neither was Jenner nor Jackson's doing what was easier for them.
But Rachel was playing both sides of the fence and making black people look foolish with her rantings, then began lying about her family. She did what helped her whenever it helped her, playing white or black.
She found an easy mark in the black community, as they have accepted people of all hues and races, because they are the default race according to some whites. Not being 'white enough,' is a real term for some white folks.
It's all a very personal matter. I'm disappointed in you and you know how I have defended you on DU.
JustAnotherGen
(31,630 posts)MohRokTah
(15,429 posts)pipoman
(16,038 posts)The same science that says the woman isn't black says Jenner isn't a woman.
polly7
(20,582 posts)Last edited Tue Jun 16, 2015, 08:25 PM - Edit history (1)
What about very, very young children who know they are girls and not boys as their physical traits indicate, or vice versa? Ask a parent of these children if they're 'choosing' it.
What happens when your son tells you hes really a girl
http://www.macleans.ca/society/health/what-happens-when-your-son-tells-you-hes-really-a-girl/
pipoman
(16,038 posts)Nor stating anyone is choosing...physiologically..scientifically... Jenner will be a male until she dies...XY=male
polly7
(20,582 posts)markpkessinger (6,177 posts)
42. Not so . . .
Biological sex is physical, but 'gender' encompasses not only biological sex, but also hormonal composition and intrinsic, psychological gender identity. For most people (although not all), their biological sex is fairly discrete. When it comes to hormonal composition, we all have both 'male' and 'female' hormones, and the precise mixture of the twp varies from person to person. AS for psychological gender identity, again, for most of us, it is consistent with our biological sex. But for some, there is a conflict between their gender identity and their biological sex.
There is, however, no such thing as intrinsic racial identity. The very concept of 'race' is entirely socially constructed by our surrounding culture, and to the extent one even has a racial identity, it is one that is externally imposed on a person by his or her culture. We are identified as belonging to one race or another primarily by how we are physically perceived by the surrounding culture. Ms. Dolezal's real offense lay in the fact that she appropriated the outward trappings of a culturally constructed identity which was not authentically her own. What a transgendered person does in adopting the outward appearance of the gender he or she identifies with is to express his or her intrinsic, authentic gender identity. Ms. Doleaal had the option to revert to her white identity at any time, if she had chosen to, simply by shedding the outward appearance of being African American. A transgendered person, however, does not shed his or her intrinsic identity when he or she or she sheds the appearance of the opposite sex.
Android3.14
(5,402 posts)A quick search shows that gender and gender identity are the terms we need to define. When I use the term gender, I mean XX and XY chromosomes. With gender identity, I mean the way a person presents himself, herself or theirself to society.
Race, like gender identity, is more fluid than gender/biological sex.
polly7
(20,582 posts)I thought it was a great post, so brought it over from another thread to reply to someone with.
How someone presents themselves to society has nothing to do with how they personally and psychologically identify. There's a great post in this thread that shows how many transgender people commit suicide, lose jobs, are discriminated against in every way, bullied, murdered - of course it makes sense for those without support to identify who they know they are inside 'differently' to society.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6847692
I don't use XX and XY to determine gender, simply because, as another poster in this thread said "it involves a lot more than chromosomes, of which there are a lot more biological options than XY or XX, and an infinite variety of ways those chromosomes are physically expressed."
This is an interesting read I saw yesterday:
The Transgender Brain
Or Its all in your head no, really!
http://transascity.org/the-transgender-brain/
And, some quick links I found on studies being done:
Transsexual differences caught on brain scan:
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn20032-transsexual-differences-caught-on-brain-scan.html#.VYF_xflVhBd
BU researchers find biological basis for transgender identity:
http://dailyfreepress.com/2015/02/18/bu-researchers-find-biological-basis-for-transgender-identity/
It's been shown over and over that even very young children know they are not who their body says they are externally.
What happens when your son tells you hes really a girl
http://www.macleans.ca/society/health/what-happens-when-your-son-tells-you-hes-really-a-girl/
I'm just trying to learn more about all of this but it's obvious to me, trans men and women are not putting themselves out there for ridicule, scorn, discrimination and hate because they're experimenting, trying to take advantage of being seen as another gender, tired of their own bodies ........ or whatever other garbage people accuse them of doing. It's very real, with life or death consequences. I'm not sure why anyone would want to minimize it with some of the stupidity and bigotry seen even here on this forum.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6850280
Android3.14
(5,402 posts)You are using the term gender in the way others use gender identity. The presence of an XX or XY chromosome determines gender. Other factors, some also genetic, determine gender identity.
You stated, "How someone presents themselves to society has nothing to do with how they personally and psychologically identify."
I would bet money that Caitlyn Jenner would disagree.
polly7
(20,582 posts)I posted what I believe, and some links that have helped me understand.
Here's another great post:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6852244
Why would Caitlyn Jenner disagree with that comment of mine that you quoted? She spent decades presenting herself to society as something she wasn't, and it was probably torturous for her. Do you believe that all those transgender people struggling in a world filled with bigotry towards them are actually all able to present themselves to their families, workplace, society in general, in the way they wish to? I wish they could ........ the statistics posted here in this thread don't bear that out, though.
Android3.14
(5,402 posts)If Caitlyn did not identify as a woman, she would never have presented herself to society as one. Therefore, how she presents herself to society had everything to do with how they personally and psychologically identify.
Posting links has little to do with defining terms. Until we can agree on what gender, gender identity, race and whether race even exists genetically, the discomfort you feel about someone who appears white while claiming to be black is simple prejudice just as some people may feel discomfort when a person with an XY chromosome presents herself as a woman are prejudiced.
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Race is not biologically detectable - there is no test for it.
Federal inspector: "Coach, you spent all of your athletic scholarships on the football team. You are supposed to reserve X per cent of your scholarships for women's athletics."
Football coach: "I am in compliance. My whole offensive line identifies as female."
polly7
(20,582 posts)What if it were your child struggling with it, would you support him/her living a life true to themselves, or deny it and perhaps watch them slide deeper and deeper into hopelessness and possible suicide? Please read this before you make any more jokes:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6847692
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
oh wait that's not funny
1939
(1,683 posts)Just a slippery slope of everyone being able to "declare" what they are.
It could be sexual or racial.
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)KamaAina
(78,249 posts)cali
(114,904 posts)Rachel A. Dolezal, who stepped down Monday as president of the Spokane, Wash., chapter of the N.A.A.C.P., could have been a powerful ally to African-Americans. The participation of white allies has always been important to anti-racism work. By most accounts, she is educated about black cultures and an advocate for black causes. But empathy evolved into impersonation. And Ms. Dolezals subterfuge, made easier by the legacy of racism in America, undermines the very people she claims to support.j
<snip>
Some people have pointed to this strange case as an illustration that race is malleable. I submit that Ms. Dolezal is a reminder that it is not. Racial identity cannot be fluid as long as the definition of whiteness is fixed. And historically, the path to whiteness has been extremely narrow.
The one-drop rule, which, for much of American history, legally defined as black anyone with a black ancestor, was used to keep black people from adopting whiteness. Ironically, it has made it easier for Ms. Dolezal to claim blackness without others questioning the assertion. If they are not themselves of a similar hue to Ms. Dolezal, many black people watching her story unfold can recognize in her features a cousin, parent or grandparent. African-Americans vary in appearance from light-skinned to coal black, straight- to curly-haired, keen- to broad-featured, and every possible combination in between.
<snip>
In the days since this story broke, many people have been quick to point out that race is merely a social construct as if that fact changes the very real impact of race on the lives of minorities. The persistence of systemic racism means there are penalties for blackness in America.
<snip>
Being able to shift ones race is a privilege. Ms. Dolezals masquerade illustrates that however much she may empathize with African-Americans, she is not one, because black people in America cannot shed their race. We cannot proclaim the black race a nebulous concept, while strictly policing whiteness and the privileges of that identity. I will accept Ms. Dolezal as black like me only when society can accept me as white like her.
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/16/opinion/rachel-dolezals-harmful-masquerade.html
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Puzzledtraveller
(5,937 posts)so it is not unique to a group of people, so if a person changes their gender identity, physically or otherwise they are not usurping an entire racial identity from that group that is not theirs. That's just my own opinion, or how I see it.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)Not just quickly sweep away something that is very new to a lot of people. I don't see this as a phobia or hateful thing, maybe it was an honest question. I don't know what's in the OP's heart.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)It can be discussed without being worded like that. People are not defined by their body parts, and that's really insensitive to transgender people. There are tons of reasons why someone might not choose to or be able to have that surgery, and it's just nobody's business.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)if I'm on the wrong damn forum.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)LostOne4Ever
(9,262 posts)lovemydog
(11,833 posts)I hear you loud and clear.
philosslayer
(3,076 posts)This is a discussion forum. And the post has obviously generated considerable discussion. Is DU so delicate that controversial issues can't be discussed?
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)That's why.
philosslayer
(3,076 posts)PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Logical
(22,457 posts)uppityperson
(115,674 posts)awfulness of "sporting a penis" bit? Was the alerter not clear enough in explaining? Or do they think "sporting a penis" is a fine description of what makes something a man?
I would like to hear why they voted that way.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6847710
Skittles
(152,918 posts)BIGOTS!!!
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)Clear enough?
uhnope
(6,419 posts)Expecting any African American to be speaking for all of the black community is an essentially racist notion. So why put that on Dolezal? She never said that.
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)and she's had like 10 different versions of her backstory, which are probably all wrong...Why would anybody trust a woman who has spent more years of her life deceiving everyone instead of being true to herself?
If she really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really wants to help out the Af'Ram Community, there's no reason why she can't do it as a white woman...Believe it or not, there are some white folks out there who have dedicated their lives to helping Black Americans, and they were able to do it without rejecting their own ethnicity...
MosheFeingold
(3,051 posts)It's really a weird situation. Her brothers were black, her husband black, and her kids black. She went to Howard and was, by all accounts, a very good artist drawing African/African American subjects. She earned a degree in African American studies (I think) and was, also by all accounts, very good at her job at the NAACP.
It's just a really weird deal and makes me wonder if she is "trans-racial" or is she guilty of "Stolen Privilege" -- that is, seeking the legal/financial benefits of being black, while having a white upbringing.
Chemisse
(30,783 posts)I don't really appreciate Caitlyn Jenner defining being a woman as giggling with girlfriends, showing off boobs, and painting her nails, all while never having had to face the decades of cultural consequences of being a woman.
I'm not really worked up about it, but I do see a parallel to the Dolezal situation.
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)1. Completely hid her past life as a male and reinvented a new backstory where she's been female her entire life, and 2. Rose up through the ranks to be president of the regional NOW chapter, *then* you might be on to something...
Chemisse
(30,783 posts)gaspee
(3,231 posts)I have a sister who is a pathological liar - and not what people like to call a pathological liar - one that has actually been diagnosed by more than one professional.
My mother and I watched this story together and we both looked at each other and said at the same time - WENDY! -- that's my sister, obviously.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)And just wrong on so many levels. Really?
Lizzie Poppet
(10,164 posts)...seems pretty fucking obvious to me.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)because I *know* it would get hidden. You nailed it, though, in a far nicer and succinct way than I would have.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)If it gets hidden, I'll copy, paste and repost. Hopefully, another poster would do the same after I get hidden. And so on.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I just can't believe a jury let that OP fucking stand.
And 7-0. Something is not right in DU-land today, or maybe I'm just on the wrong forum.
ETA: I completely agree with LizziePoppet, and wholeheartedly FUCKING DISAGREE with the OP (Original, top thread post, that's what it used to mean), their premise, and the insinuations - if I somehow lead anybody to believe that I thought it was okay, please allow me to vehemently disabuse all of that notion.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)You were crystal clear in the direction of your well-deserved frustration, and I completely agree with your sentiments.
I'll let ignorance (lack of relevant knowledge) off the hook. Stupid though, well... stupid is just enough knowledge to push buttons. And I'm certain OP is pushing buttons for jollies.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)but I confused someone upthread, so I didn't want to make the same mistake twice and give the impression that I hitched my boat to the Titanic of fail that was the OP.
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)There are some people who are playing along like oh, it's a legitimate question, blah blah blah, but no. Those of us who know it when we see it know they doing it to push buttons, just like Juror #1 above. Both the OP and Juror #1 are as transparent as polished cast acrylic. They can try to play ignorant, but the fact that they worded their comments they way they did shows they are pushing people's buttons. They know what they are doing. We do too.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)uppityperson
(115,674 posts)ALERTER'S COMMENTS
just sayin'
You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Tue Jun 16, 2015, 01:46 PM, and the Jury voted 2-5 to LEAVE IT.
Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Hurtful, rude and insensitive.
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: fair question, I guess.
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: hiding this POS just sayin' . To begin with penis or no Caitlyn is a woman, Rachel is white. Bit of a difference in those two things.
Juror #7 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Perhaps a penetrating remark, but I'm lost in the forest of illogic.
bunnies
(15,859 posts)Wonder if they'll be big enough to join the OP in the ignorant bigots club.
tabasco
(22,974 posts)Please explain.
bunnies
(15,859 posts)No further explanation is needed. Seriously.
tabasco
(22,974 posts)Perhaps you can direct me to a post # with a good explanation of why the OP was "hateful."
Race and gender. Typically considered immutable physical characteristics. But transgender and trans-racial both involve the human brain moreso than body parts or skin color. I believe the comparison is fair and a question about the differences between the two conditions is not necessarily hateful.
Of course, I have no information on the OP's intent, but IMO, the post on its face does not appear to be hateful.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)10
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6847111
15
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6847146
18
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6847168
58
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6847366
174
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6847924
The difference between being forced to live a lie and choosing to do so is huge
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Last edited Tue Jun 16, 2015, 09:11 PM - Edit history (1)
It has no basis in biology whatsoever, there is no test for it, you cannot tell race from DNA or genetics.
Sex is also not the physical binary we treat it as -- there are a lot more biological options than XY or XX, and an infinite variety of ways those chromosomes are physically expressed.
This argument cannot legitimately be made into "it's all about biology."
polly7
(20,582 posts)JustAnotherGen
(31,630 posts)Rachel Dolezal did not grow up with a black parent. Her grandparents weren't. Her great grandparents weren't.
She was a blonde haired light eyed little girl in American in the 1970's and 1980's with TWO white parents and with that. . .
She can't speak to the experiences of growing up black in the Reagan Era in the United States of Amerikkka. That man -he hated us. Just hated us.
Talk all you want as a white person about us Rach - do what you want.
But that doesn't mean any black or black with a white BIOLOGICAL parent American has to take her seriously.
We don't have to because we know better than her. *nose stuck up in the air* <-- Not at you - at her. She ought to be ashamed of herself for insulting all of the women who gave birth or adopted children that looked nothing like them and raised them to be happy whole adults without pretending to be black, Asian, Asian Indian, Central American, etc. etc.
If anything - she's making the argument to me that perhaps when two white people pro-create - well - their children are going to have problems. I mean - it's okay but they shouldn't have children because its too hard on the children
^That's something I heard growing up quite a bit in the 1970's and 1980's in Amerikka. It's funny - one girl J.M. - her parents taught her that - she's a total loser now and I'm not.^ She has no excuses as she started out in the same town as me, with the same education - she just chose to not be exceptional. Maybe it was her upbringing?
You can check out the AA Group - yesterday she pretty much said a non black person can't really be the mother to a black child - it wouldn't work. Bull shit. I call bullshit. And she's already fucked her brothers up for life with that bullshit. She's going to turn them into bigots against white people. You just wait.
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Hestia
(3,818 posts)zoology, physiological, etc. We are told that we are to rationally, scientifically look at the world and when people do, they are screamed at for being hateful and bigoted.
We live in a Duality on many many levels and for 90% +/- of those who identify with their gonads*, male = sperm, female = ovaries/egg, and the reproduction implications that result from that. That is the way it is for flowers, trees, lions, and so on and so forth. We can't both be expected to look at the larger world in some aspects and then narrow it in others, which is some ways is completely rejecting the Nature we live in. See the confusion?
The implications are, if the broader world accepts and redefines gender, narrowing it into fluidity, then we cannot do on other levels. Everything is then open to interpretation. Micro, macro.
Who is it that gets to choose these things anyway?
*gonad - noun, Anatomy
a sex gland in which gametes are produced; an ovary or testis.
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)... may I suggest you read the following piece called Understanding Gender
https://www.genderspectrum.org/quick-links/understanding-gender/
Western culture has come to view gender as a binary concept, with two rigidly fixed options: male or female, both grounded in a persons physical anatomy. When a child is born, a quick glance between the legs determines the gender label that the child will carry for life. But even if gender is to be restricted to basic biology, a binary concept still fails to capture the rich variation that exists. Rather than just two distinct boxes, biological gender occurs across a continuum of possibilities. This spectrum of anatomical variations by itself should be enough to disregard the simplistic notions of a binary gender system.
But beyond anatomy, there are multiple domains defining gender. In turn, these domains can be independently characterized across a range of possibilities. Instead of the static, binary model produced through a solely physical understanding of gender, a far richer tapestry of biology, gender expression, and gender identity intersect in a multidimensional array of possibilities. Quite simply, the gender spectrum represents a more nuanced, and ultimately truly authentic model of human gender.
polly7
(20,582 posts)Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)You can tell us your gender and we'll refuse to address you as that gender from here on out, ALWAYS making a point to refuse to address you as that gender. After a while, trust me, you'll get sick of that shit. THAT is why it is hateful. Transgender people do not deserve that kind of disrespect.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)I didn't get anything back, either. I guess if it is alerted on and juried, there is no further response.
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)and I get a message just saying a jury let it stand. Ok, so someone else alerted first, but it doesn't give the jury results and comments. Just because someone wasn't the first to alert something shouldn't mean we are not allowed to see what the results were for the first person to alert.
Autumn
(44,686 posts)That it was left is disturbing.
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)and I'm more than happy to slap it down here in one decisive stroke
Aerows
(39,961 posts)is a disgrace to DU. I'm shocked I can't hear dogs barking as I speak it had so damn many dog whistles.
It plays right into all the RW memes.
Response to uppityperson (Reply #38)
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geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)Thank you for reminding me why.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)MohRokTah
(15,429 posts)Wow, insulting to both African Americans AND transgendered people all in a very small OP.
Congratulations.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)fucked up that it was allowed to stand. Enough dog whistles that we shouldn't be able to hear for all the barks.
Dyedinthewoolliberal
(15,463 posts)IBTL
MohRokTah
(15,429 posts)The bigotry of both the OP and the jury makes me want to
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)I was not on the jury, did alert though.
ALERTER'S COMMENTS
just sayin'
You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Tue Jun 16, 2015, 01:46 PM, and the Jury voted 2-5 to LEAVE IT.
Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Hurtful, rude and insensitive.
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: fair question, I guess.
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: hiding this POS just sayin' . To begin with penis or no Caitlyn is a woman, Rachel is white. Bit of a difference in those two things.
Juror #7 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Perhaps a penetrating remark, but I'm lost in the forest of illogic.
Autumn
(44,686 posts)MohRokTah
(15,429 posts)Still, too many bigots on one jury.
zappaman
(20,605 posts)AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service
On Tue Jun 16, 2015, 05:22 PM an alert was sent on the following post:
Okay, five bigots on a jury instead of six.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6847444
REASON FOR ALERT
This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.
ALERTER'S COMMENTS
This poster is calling other DU posters bigots because he/she doesn't like their jury votes. This is definitely rude and violates CS.
You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Tue Jun 16, 2015, 05:25 PM, and the Jury voted 3-4 to LEAVE IT.
Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: It is kind of meta. But it does not name anyone as no one knows who the jurors are.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Awwww....did a bigot get there feewings hurted? I bet I could guess who.
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #7 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.
uppityperson
(115,674 posts)Thank you for leaving this one, guess some take exception act bluntly being called out
zappaman
(20,605 posts)uppityperson
(115,674 posts)Dyedinthewoolliberal
(15,463 posts)again
whathehell
(28,938 posts)and neither do I.
When did we all start getting so afraid, of QUESTIONS??
handmade34
(22,753 posts)whathehell
(28,938 posts)handmade34
(22,753 posts)to emphasize your point
obviously, I didn't do it well
this issue has really struck nerves and I believe a robust discussion is needed (w/o the hate would be optimal)
we have multi levels of perception, awareness, opinion and education here and open discussion can be extremely beneficial for some
too often I see topics that deserve discussion turn into hate fests, because of strong opinion, instead of opportunities to inform, teach, make aware, enlighten, etc
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)I'm only asking questions after all.
Just using this to illustrate that some questions are not honest questions, are leading, and biased.
blogslut
(37,948 posts)Transgender makes no sense to you so you reach for the straws.
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)It's not a matter of choice with trans people, I am so sick of seeing this idiotic meme here.
Your op is disgusting and should have been hidden.
damnedifIknow
(3,183 posts)She is harming nobody and just trying to live her life. Much more important things to worry about IMO.
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)She could have embraced AA culture without co opting it.
damnedifIknow
(3,183 posts)Was going to edit to make that clear but this will do.
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)winter is coming
(11,785 posts)City Lights
(25,171 posts)Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)Lil Missy
(17,865 posts)And, it's NOT the white culture freaking out. It's the African American culture who are most upset with this.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)Whole lotta white privilege going on... Well, I've decided I'm gonna go ahead and be white now. Imma need your support, emotionally and financially. Takes alot of money to bleach the skin and buy all that straight hair.
I expect you all who support Rachael's blackness to support MY whiteness. I'm quite happy that I mad the decision to be white. A BIG weight off my shoulders. Soo, lets get that fund started up soon, kay? Soon as I get about fifty thou, I'm willing to go on ahead and let Rach have my blackness.
ecstatic
(32,532 posts)People see seem to be pro/anti RD 50/50%, regardless of race.
uhnope
(6,419 posts)uppityperson
(115,674 posts)Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)uhnope
(6,419 posts)rachel dolezal aclu, first result: http://fox13now.com/2015/06/12/race-of-rachel-dolezal-head-of-spokane-naacp-comes-under-question/
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)You keep using the wrong acronym.
uhnope
(6,419 posts)LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Not yours, it would seem. Keep digging in though... your intransigence is more entertaining than that of the Duck Dynasty fellas.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)"Excuse me officer, my internal presentation is that of a white person."
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Maybe black people could start wearing that on a button or on t-shirts and not get gunned down or assaulted.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)lovemydog
(11,833 posts)You rock bravenak.
There's a whole lot of arrogance going on with white people trying to tell black people to let a white person be black.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)Comrade Grumpy
(13,184 posts)bravenak
(34,648 posts)morningfog
(18,115 posts)Utter bullshit.
Skittles
(152,918 posts)love how they try to hide it under the "aren't they alike" bullshit meme
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Skittles
(152,918 posts)not at ALL
misterhighwasted
(9,148 posts)Too dumb of a question for DU.
Umm, Gee why can't an apple be a truck?? Duh.
ileus
(15,396 posts)Spazito
(49,523 posts)JI7
(89,150 posts)lpbk2713
(42,674 posts)I've had a penis for quite a while ... but I don't ever recall sporting it.
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)to wear a top hat and tuxedo and just walk into a crowded room and whip it out and start dancing Fred Astaire style with it in your hand just waving it all in the air while you do some fancy footwork and all kinds of fancy tricks with the top hat while you are at it? Because, that's what popped into my head when I saw the OP's wording. It was such a silly way to word it that my brain just fried on the spot and I started picturing a dude in a top hat and tux just dancing...ahem, with himself.
BeanMusical
(4,389 posts)You're killing me!
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)BeanMusical
(4,389 posts)BeanMusical
(4,389 posts)And your dick is dusty too.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)uppityperson
(115,674 posts)http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/03/21/beyond-the-battlefield-afghanistan-genital-injuries_n_1335356.html
Amid the bloody carnage, all the skin was ripped from his penis and his testicles were gone....
LostOne4Ever
(9,262 posts)LostOne4Ever
(9,262 posts)[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]Trans people have been shown to have brains resembling the sex they identify with.
There is no such feature with regards to race.
And calling her a woman "sporting a penis" is just bigoted.[/font]
Matariki
(18,775 posts)the idea is kind of offensive.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)Not sure why it would be offensive to discuss facts, these differences are minute, but still detectable, and shouldn't affect the way we treat either sex, as being equal in ability.
LostOne4Ever
(9,262 posts)[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]I was busy upthread and didn't see this till now![/font]
Number23
(24,544 posts)I knew I'd be completely disgusted.
B Calm
(28,762 posts)AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)If she was perveived as white, that is on Howard, not her.
Solly Mack
(90,729 posts)Codeine
(25,586 posts)Kaitlin Jenner has always been, biologically, on some level a woman. The presence or absence of a cock has exactly fuck-all to do with it. There was a biological reality that didn't line up with whatever dangly bits were flopping about downstairs.
There's no biological confusion on this lady's part, no chemicals in her head that make her black inside. She is not "trans black" because there is no such damned thing.
uhnope
(6,419 posts)Codeine
(25,586 posts)That's why you can't be transracial, ferfuxsake. There's nothing inside that biologically makes you know you're black even when you're skin is the color of uncooked biscuit dough.
Kaitlin Jenner knew even while living as as Bruce that she was really a woman, because that was her gender. Her sex (the dong) meant nothing, because her internal biology didn't line up with that.
There's no issue of 'internal race", because there isn't such a thing.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)WHITE?
She complained of anti white bias against her, then she complained about anti black bias against her. The woman is full of shit. Period.
People who never bother to defend actual black woman are going out of their damn way to defend this black woman; of course she is actually a white woman so it makes complete sense. Any white person defending this and trying to convince black people to accept this white woman as black is a fucking hypocrit and probably a racist to boot.
No white America. We do not have to let this white lady ge black until we get to be white if we want.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)Holy shit. That sums it up in in fucking sentence. Thank you for putting it as succinctly as that.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)Codeine
(25,586 posts)Just a musical troglodyte!
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Not the inside. Gender identity works the other way.
Matariki
(18,775 posts)Not a confrontation, but I'm curious about the science you're referring to. That's not something I've heard of. I've always taken gender to be a social construct - and respect a person's right to self identification.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)that part is fluid in that gender expression is dependent on the larger culture.
Gender Identity appears to be biological. If you woke up tomorrow, still being you, but with the secondary and primary characteristics of the opposite sex, you would suffer a great dysphoria the current sex of your body. Your brain and body would be mismatched.
Matariki
(18,775 posts)however I'm interested in a link for any scientific studies around what Codeine said regarding Kaitlin Jenner being "biologically, on some level a woman". How is she biologically a woman? Chromosomes? Hormones? etc.
I'm looking for references to links or books or papers vs. opinions.
Also I've seen conflicting studies on there being brain differences between genders - and frankly my feminist self bristles at the idea as it seems like an excuse for sexism.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)http://www.academia.edu/7346016/What_s_in_a_Gender_Studies_of_Brain_Structure_Find_Evidence_for_Neurological_Basis_of_Transgender_Identity
http://www.medicaldaily.com/brain-mapping-gender-identity-what-makes-boy-girl-247122
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/hope-relationships/201402/brain-differences-between-genders
For the other side, here's a TERFer.
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/07/opinion/sunday/what-makes-a-woman.html
seaglass
(8,170 posts)because it is not sourced, it was not credible to me. Looking forward to reading the rest.
TexasBushwhacker
(20,010 posts)Dolezal is living a lie by pretending to be black. Jenner was living a lie PRETENDING TO BE A MAN. Dolezal would have liked to continue to pretend to be black. Jenner struggled for decades pretending to be a man. Of course there's the male body that he was stuck with, which is a lot harder to change than getting a spray tan and a wig.
Although Jenner hasn't discussed it, it's entirely possible that, in terms of partners, she still prefers women. She's been married to 3 of them! Gender and sexuality are different things.
Putting myself in Caitlyn's place, I think about what it would be like if I woke up one morning with a penis. WTF! And everyone I knew thought I was a man. As confusing as things were, I might try my best to make a go of it with my male body. I'm attracted to women, so it seems like the logical thing to do. I might even try to be extra manly and make use of my strong male body by being an athlete! But as much as I tried I would know I was living a lie. I still loved my wife. Would she still love me, knowing I was a woman? Would my children accept me?
BTW, I have a trans male cousin.
AgingAmerican
(12,958 posts)Sienna86
(2,147 posts)Unless this young woman has a DNA test, who among us can challenge her. Although her parents have "light" colored skin, who knows what her ancestral genetic heritage is? How "African" does she need to be to qualify in the public eye?
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)lovemydog
(11,833 posts)Codeine
(25,586 posts)Has a white person ever typed or spoken those words while not making us all look like fucking idiots? Right up there with "I'm not racist, but. . ."
The OP should be ashamed for posting this, the jury should be ashamed for letting it stand, and everyone who defended it should give themselves a stern talking-to in the mirror.
Jester Messiah
(4,711 posts)Prism
(5,815 posts)Gender is an immutable inborn characteristic.
Race is a social construct.
White culture seems largely confused (and weirdly entertained) and a little pissed with her lying.
Fortunately, most white people (but, sadly, not all) seem to be hanging back to see what the African American community has to say about it. Which I think is the appropriate approach.
smiley
(1,432 posts)I see nothing wrong with Ms. Dolezal identifying herself as an AA. If she always felt like she was black, then what's wrong with taking the necessary steps to look more like a black woman?
I also think you have a very relevant comparison. However, maybe you should've chosen your words differently. Seems you may have offended a few people here. Good luck with this one!
99Forever
(14,524 posts)MannyGoldstein
(34,589 posts)whatever people need to do to be comfortable in their own skin is OK, as long as it doesn't actually harm others.
Chemisse
(30,783 posts)And maybe that is the difference between the two situations.
Matariki
(18,775 posts)Does identifying with and passing oneself off as a member of a group that is struggling with inequality and marginalization harm that group, specifically when the person doing it is actually a member of a 'privileged' group?
The consensus seems to be that a white person claiming to be black does harm to black people. There is a certain segment of feminists who express a similar view that people who were raised with male privilege identifying as women are harming feminism by perpetuating gender stereotypes and commandeering the issues. Those type of feminists get called names and get 'no platformed'.
Interesting times. One wonders why people simply asking these question causes such an emotional backlash.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I'm a lesbian.
Do you think I am jolly and happy with the idea of women that aren't lesbians pretending to be lesbians for ignominy and to be "racy"?
Do you think it doesn't offend the fuck out of me when lesbians are portrayed as "just playing around until they find the right man"?
I DO most certainly know how that feels.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)or heterosexual isn't a lesbian trying to fit in?
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)when the question is turned right back, doesn't it?
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Nor do I understand why the OP thinks it's OK to put this kind of garbage on DU.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)We're all guilty of it somewhere, this is the day for transphobic bigotry to shine.
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)I am horribly prejudiced about Evangelical Christians, for instance. But I would hope that if I said something about EC's as a group that was as ugly as what this OP said about trans women, someone would alert & a jury would smack me down. (OK, well, not on DU maybe since I'm probably not the only bigoted-against-ECs-person around here...) I get that bigotry abounds, here and everytwhere, I'm just appalled that so many bigoted people ended up on that jury.
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NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)Take your transphobic bullshit elsewhere.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)You are one of the most unpleasant, nasty, bigoted people on this whole damned board!
Transphobic fucking bullshit of the highest fucking order.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)has posted her sexist, transphobic and homophobic views repeatedly, and yet is still here.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)Behind the Aegis
(53,789 posts)DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Gah.
RandySF
(57,163 posts)She is whatever she needs to be to get ahead at any given time.
Nevernose
(13,081 posts)It's her trying to pass herself off as the voice of black people, another white person trying to tell black people how to better themselves.
There's plenty of room for white people in the civil rights movement: John Brown, freedom riders, the founders of the NAACP. But they were honest about who they were and were not lying to advance their personal careers and agendas.
NobodyHere
(2,810 posts)DonCoquixote
(13,615 posts)the whole sex change operation takes a year of various procedures and therapies.if it is done too quick, you could easily kill the patient. The TG I know nearly died because the doctors did the "removal" (it's actually not a removal), and the result was a mess that I cannot describe on a pg 13 forum.
sub.theory
(652 posts)One camp thinks someone white would have to be insane to want to be black. It's inconceivable. There must be something wrong with them.
The other camp thinks black culture is too special to be shared with white people. They don't belong and need to go away.
Both are, imo, a form of racism.
You are completely correct that race has no genetic basis. It's entirely a social construct. Why so many people are losing their minds over this shows how obsessed our nation is with that concept, though.
Matariki
(18,775 posts)"I have fought for many of my 68 years against efforts to put women our brains, our hearts, our bodies, even our moods into tidy boxes, to reduce us to hoary stereotypes. Suddenly, I find that many of the people I think of as being on my side people who proudly call themselves progressive and fervently support the human need for self-determination are buying into the notion that minor differences in male and female brains lead to major forks in the road and that some sort of gendered destiny is encoded in us.
"Thats the kind of nonsense that was used to repress women for centuries. But the desire to support people like Ms. Jenner and their journey toward their truest selves has strangely and unwittingly brought it back.
"People who havent lived their whole lives as women, whether Ms. Jenner or Mr. Summers, shouldnt get to define us. Thats something men have been doing for much too long. And as much as I recognize and endorse the right of men to throw off the mantle of maleness, they cannot stake their claim to dignity as transgender people by trampling on mine as a woman."
I'm not endorsing Burkett's opinion, nor do I completely disagree with her. But I do think that the conversation about gender should not one sided. Older generations of feminists have worked hard to deconstruct the idea of gender and what it 'means to be a woman' and should not marginalized and made to shut up. Honestly I'm baffled that there's a fight between people whose common goal is to deconstruct gender, but I wish folks would let the conversation happen, because that's how things (and people) change and evolve.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)You put in a lot of TERF, "womyn born womyn" buzzwords into your post. Not to mention you seem to want to ignore the growing body of evidence that there is a biological basis in the brain for, at the very least, gender identity. Are we supposed to just ignore that?
LostOne4Ever
(9,262 posts)[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]We aren't supposed to see the transantagonistic remarks for what they are because a supposed progressive wrote them.
They want to destroy the gender binary and replace it with a single box that is even more restrictive than the binary we had before; and one that just so happens to have no room for transpeople. One that denies transpeople their experiences and realities.
Thankfully intersectional feminist are trying to counter this bull
http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/05/feminist-phrases-marginalize-trans-women/
http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/06/rachel-dolezal-not-transracial/[/font]
polly7
(20,582 posts)lives as their true self, doesn't mean they are any less qualified to be involved in discussing that gender to which they belong - whether you don't understand it, or not. Many, as Caitlyn Jenner appears to have done, have suffered for decades hiding, and experiencing all the psychological torture that must involve. I can't even imagine it. How is she trying to define women simply by being brave enough to finally show the world who she really is?
LostOne4Ever
(9,262 posts)[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]Ms Jenner is getting criticized for the way she chooses looks and dresses....something some people claim to oppose but apparently not when it comes to transwomen.
That article is a hit piece. But I guess when it is attacking transwomen it is okay to post bigoted propaganda.[/font]
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)without trying to denigrate trans people. It is highly unfortunate that transphobes are using this comparison to delegitimize trans people because it makes the issue of transraciality impossible to discuss or explore.
I do think some people could possibly experience psychological trauma that would make them believe that they were transracial. Not sure if Rachel Dolezal is one of them. It is possible, however unlikely it appears.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)thing, don't try to make it a thing, its not going to happen.
People can and have appropriated and/or assimilated the cultures and subcultures around them, there is nothing wrong with that, but that doesn't make them "transracial", that makes them human.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)The people acting like we shouldn't make it a thing don't see the comments on social media or from black celebrities.
A good portion of this country already believe it's a thing
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)stereotypically wouldn't necessarily be considered a part of it. However, that is good old fashioned assimilation and/or appropriation.
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)elias7
(3,974 posts)we are not bigots. We genuinely do not quite understand what I guess most of you seem so certain of. instead of getting all Sean hannity on us, why not take the time to explain your understanding of the issue. Help me understand how genetics and gender differ, how a lifetime of being bathed in estrogen, walking in a female body, being treated like a woman, does not necessarily define your gender as female. This is new to many here. But the quality of most liberals and progressives I know is that they are Open Minded. So stop acting like a$$es and lets have a real discussion, teach, rather than pounding us as bigots and being on the wrong site for not having the knowledge you have.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)you want reinforcement of your own prejudices.
Why the fuck should we be expected to do your research for you?
ON EDIT: Here's something simple you can do, don't post about what you don't know about.
elias7
(3,974 posts)I have no prejudice in this matter, I merely seek to understand without being hammered by someone who has prejudged me. I don't expect you to do research for me, i have done some reading, but am still not an expert like many seem to be here.
You tell me to "Don't post about what you don't know about"? I Know plenty about people asking honest questions and being pissed on for not having received the memo on how a progressive thinker is supposed to think about an issue. I never posted an opinion about transgender or racial identification, but if you need to snark, please continue.
This place ain't the same anymore.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)and you want to defend that shit?
What the fuck.
You are right, this place isn't the same anymore, too much tolerance of fucking bigots. Worthless pieces of shit who stink up this board with their fucking filth.
Change has come
(2,372 posts)I think you should apologize for the Sean Hannity remark. Just because YOU don't see the bigotry doesn't mean it isn't bigotry.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)The best way to educate people and spread acceptance and tolerance is to:
First, call anyone with an opinion that you consider to be less evolved than yours a bigot, hateful, piece of shit scumbag, too STUPID to precisely adopt your opinion. Really, preferably, all vicious insults should be in all caps.
Second, hurl outrageous accusations of an ulterior motive and let them know that you're onto them and their (insert obscure hate group) agenda.
There are more steps if you truly want to enlighten them as to how much better the world would be if we could at least learn to accept each other and respect our differences, but these will suffice if you simply want to increase the level of tolerance on the planet.
I know it sounds bad at first, but we can't learn to love each other without decimating the character of one another.
Change has come
(2,372 posts)Also, do you agree the people on this thread are "all Sean hannity" and "a$$es"?
That doesn't sound very loving to me.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)in the OP and some of the posts (arguing each side) offensive. That's not an excuse to accuse everybody trying to talk, learn, FORM an opinion on the subject of being a STUPID BIGOT. People don't know how to frame it, or what to think about Rachel's professed identity. Some try to give her the benefit of the doubt, some don't. Fine.
People are using Caitlyn's story as a frame of reference because people are finally truly believing these women. That's great!
Now Rachel comes along and they want to support her, too, without TRULY understanding the plight of either woman, but wanting to make an effort to understand.
I understand that some people on the right are trying to say: see, this is as stupid as the Jenner thing... and that's ridiculous and hateful.
I understand that some on the left are saying: why can't we support people who identify as a different gender and a different race? And I understand that some people take issue with that and think, COME ON, that doesn't even make any sense. But, I don't think viscous attacks are helping them understand why.
Everyone is tolerant and accepting to those they find easy to tolerate and accept. A little snark is one thing, but the all out character assassinations of fellow liberals are way over the top, imo.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)elias7
(3,974 posts)The rationale for not accepting Dolezal's identifying as black is purely social...until society would accept me, a black person, identifying as white, I will not accept a white person identifying as black. if a black person identifies as white, and I imagine some do, my accepting or not accepting of that identification does not nullify that identification. It just means I'm a bigot. But if I reject a white person identifying as a black, I can nullify that identification. And if you don't agree with me, you're a bigot.
Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)Uterui don't make you female.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)having a brain doesn't make some people use it, either.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)that transgendered identity is nothing new. Let me point to Greece, even the Old Testament addresses it.
I'm stating this because I am sure I will likely get locked out of this thread because some in this thread have gone around the bend with the transphobia, and it appalls me to see this shit on DU.
You are not using science or history if you do not see the difference between the two - you are letting bigotry and ignorance be your guide.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)And there is no reason whatsoever for you to be locked out of this thread. I appreciate hearing what you have to say. I'm sure many others here do as well.
Change has come
(2,372 posts)Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)City Lights
(25,171 posts)DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)countryjake
(8,554 posts)lovemydog
(11,833 posts)and makes everyone dumber.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)That is all.
akbacchus_BC
(5,700 posts)she is not. There is no comparison. The NAACP did not know she was white, so give that line a rest.
I know she did good work but misrepsenting your race is not credible.
How on earth is Rachel able to portray what she went through as a black american when she lived a life as a privileged white American girl?
If only the supporters of Rachel can understand what slavery is, then tell me that Rachel can identify with that.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)merrily
(45,251 posts)Last edited Wed Jun 17, 2015, 08:47 AM - Edit history (1)
alert.
JustAnotherGen
(31,630 posts)merrily
(45,251 posts)FYI: I thought I had edited that post within minutes after I made it because I was not sure I had used a proper term. Now that your post drew my attention back to it, I saw that the edit had not gone through, so I changed it. I didn't change the meaning, though.
City Lights
(25,171 posts)This place sometimes leaves me scratching my head.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)Omnith
(171 posts)She can be transracial.
MrScorpio
(73,610 posts)How can a white woman turn herself into a black person?
Can an outwardly looking black person make themselves fully "white" in this country?
akbacchus_BC
(5,700 posts)Lying to be black is not credible. Do you have any idea what blacks went through during slavery? Guess not, hence your question. Gawd, educate yourself and if you want a paraphrase of what blacks went through during slavery, get a copy of Roots and knock yourself it. You can even get a copy of being black in America. Jenner is not an issue and there is no comparison.
It boggles my mind that some people on here minimise the audacity of a white person trying to be black!
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)Transphobic bullshit.
Skittles
(152,918 posts)yup
BeanMusical
(4,389 posts)Totally agree!
merrily
(45,251 posts)working for them, why is she out of a job today?
It's about how you are born to identify vs how you choose to identify. Being born over six feet tall with a penis over years ago was not a choice Jenner made. Dolezal knows she is white, but consciously chose to identify as "black." And she also consciously chose to be white when she sued over alleged discrimination against white people.
"Sporting" a penis is a lie. Moreover, the penis is irrelevant, except for the anguish it has caused Jenner. My guess is that, in another year or two, the penis will not be there. She has already begun the steps that she must take for surgery.
This OP is beyond disgusting in its insensitivity and its disregard of facts. And for what?
Snow Leopard
(348 posts)is freaking out? She is just a massive liar is all, and an interesting news story, forgoing all that white privilege floating around.
yuiyoshida
(41,736 posts)(He is Vietnamese), that if he ate enough Japanese food, would he become Japanese? I told him I don't think it works that way.
Spazito
(49,523 posts)Thanks to the jury for hiding the other hideous OP.
countryjake
(8,554 posts)On Wed Jun 17, 2015, 02:32 PM an alert was sent on the following post:
Jenner, "Stop Hating Your Body", & Mixed Messages of US Society
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026853459
REASON FOR ALERT
This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.
ALERTER'S COMMENTS
This OP is an appalling, ugly attack on trans gendered people. This is not the first ugly post, here is another one:
"If Caitlin Jenner can be celebrated for getting his freak on then where do you draw the line?"
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6850872
From the terms of service:
Do not post bigotry based on someone's race or ethnic origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, religion or lack thereof, disability, or other comparable personal characteristic.
Please hide this OP.
JURY RESULTS
You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Wed Jun 17, 2015, 02:45 PM, and the Jury voted 4-3 to HIDE IT.
Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: I think this poster needs to stop this ridiculous ride he's on. But I don't see a hide.
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: It's to the point of trolling now. Person needs to be educated.
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Transphobes, STOP HATING! I am ashamed of the blatant bigotry that has once again permeated our DU community. The LGBT members here are continually demeaned and insulted, with little recourse. Yesterday's thread by this very same poster is proof of that. Skinner, please do something positive to show that everyone is truly welcome here, no matter what their sexual orientation or gender identity may be.
Juror #7 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.
Spazito
(49,523 posts)VERY disappointing but thank goodness 4 members understood.
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)That was disappointing.
countryjake
(8,554 posts)I was also called to participate in failed juries within this thread, yesterday.
Hateful bigotry often makes our jury pool a nasty game for transphobes, homophobes, and prejudice of all stripes.
I'm more ashamed than disappointed to see it. It makes our community suffer.
Spazito
(49,523 posts)"I'm more ashamed than disappointed to see it. It makes our community suffer."
obliviously
(1,635 posts)Let them be transracial or transsexual, I could care less if people want to change species if they could, what business is it to anyone?
booley
(3,855 posts)Jenner didn't say some person who wasn't' her father was her father.
Jenner didn't' pretend that she didn't' used to identify as male
Jenner didn't' claim to have experiences that she didn't' really have
I think a lot of the Dolezal thing is that she did fool so many for so long. Her lies weren't' seen as outrageous until after the fact. Not to mention I have noticed a lot of minorities are sensitive about white people appropriating stuff for their own benefit.
But I think the worst thing about this is it's quite possible Dolezal did good in her role as president for the NAACP. But that doesn't' even matter now because it's all marred by her lies. There are already too many who will tell you racism is made up and now they can point to Dolezal as if she was representative of anything.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)to disclose her pre-transition life to her employer or anyone else for that matter. We know about Jenner's pre-transition life because she's famous. But, if she weren't, I don't think it would be her duty to disclose her past. Also, I'd be more than happy for a transwoman who did not disclose her past to head a woman's organization.
LexVegas
(5,999 posts)Skittles
(152,918 posts)just not this particular shit; the jury finally got it right
krawhitham
(4,634 posts)In a 2009 Coeur dAlene Press story, Dolezal briefly spoke about her ethnicity. The article was about how Dolezal felt like the target of racism after finding the noose at her home, and she mentioned spending a lot of time in Mississippi so when I saw that rope, I knew what it was.
Im trans-racial, my sons trans-racial, my roommate is African American, Dolezal told the Press
http://www.buzzfeed.com/jimdalrympleii/heres-how-black-naacp-leader-rachel-dolezal-was-outted-as-a