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KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 02:59 PM Oct 2015

Christian marriage adviser: Use ‘fear and dread’ to control your wife — as God intended

The Onion? Nope.

http://www.rawstory.com/2015/10/christian-marriage-adviser-use-fear-and-dread-to-control-your-wife-as-god-intended/

Responding to comments from a men’s rights activist on a posting about finding enjoyment in sex with a wife who grudgingly agrees, the host of a website providing tips on proper Biblical “gender roles” agreed that keeping a woman in a constant state of fear is an appropriate way to control her actions.

Pointing to a column he wrote on “Female dread,” Rollo Tomassi explained that Christian men go about seeking sex with women all wrong by trying to “diffuse sexual anxiety and tension.” Instead, Tomassi said husbands should make their wives “unintentionally uncomfortable” in order to achieve “the rough, hard-core, make-up sex you never thought you’d have.”...

Solomon lamented the fact that he believes that most Christian husbands fear their wives.

“Men show their wives they are either afraid to lose them (be alone) or afraid of the prospect of divorce and the financial or child custody repercussions that it may bring, ” he wrote.


Dreads? Like reggae fans have?
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Christian marriage adviser: Use ‘fear and dread’ to control your wife — as God intended (Original Post) KamaAina Oct 2015 OP
Batshit Insanity is the new norm. hifiguy Oct 2015 #1
Creepy Oneironaut Oct 2015 #2
I think he needs to be in jail because I think he has bkkyosemite Oct 2015 #3
 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
1. Batshit Insanity is the new norm.
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 03:03 PM
Oct 2015

This society is in far deeper trouble than most people are willing to admit.

bkkyosemite

(5,792 posts)
3. I think he needs to be in jail because I think he has
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 03:42 PM
Oct 2015

done something perhaps illegal.........what a violent and controlling mind...authorities should take a look at this guys past and history.

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