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mahatmakanejeeves

(57,284 posts)
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 04:40 PM Oct 2015

Stranded by airline, a disabled D.C. activist crawled off his flight. But the humiliation was far fr

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Stranded by airline, a disabled D.C. activist crawled off his flight. But the humiliation was far from over.

By Michael E. Miller October 28 at 4:34 AM

D’Arcee Neal dutifully waited for a wheelchair. ... He had just flown five hours from San Francisco to his hometown of Washington without a bathroom break because his cerebral palsy prevented him from using the United Airlines toilets. Then he had waited the usual 15 minutes for the plane to empty before someone could help him exit in a special narrowly built wheelchair. But the wheelchair never came.
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Until finally, he could wait no longer. As stunned flight attendants looked on, 29-year-old Neal fell to the floor and proceeded to drag himself roughly 50 feet to the airplane’s door, where his own wheelchair was waiting for him.
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What you probably haven’t heard, however, is what happened afterward: the ignorance, the Internet comments, the wild accusations and the humiliation of crawling on one’s hands in public — relived over and over online. .... The first thing you should know about Neal is that his life has been pretty darn tough. The D.C. native is African American, openly gay and disabled — a triple minority.
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But when his story hit the media, Neal was baffled to see commenters blaming him for the episode. Some said he was engaged in a publicity stunt. Many suggested he was out for money. ... “This person may wanted to get attention for his agenda!” wrote one person, who also insinuated that Neal lied about what happened. ... “How much money are you looking for,” wrote another. “How funny you need to go to the bathroom when plane lands and everyone is looking to run off the plane.” (Note that Neal insists he waited until the plane was empty.)
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Stranded by airline, a disabled D.C. activist crawled off his flight. But the humiliation was far fr (Original Post) mahatmakanejeeves Oct 2015 OP
The guy took control of the situation and exposed airline ableism loyalsister Oct 2015 #1
Online people can really suck mythology Oct 2015 #2
A disability post from someone besides me?! KamaAina Oct 2015 #3

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
1. The guy took control of the situation and exposed airline ableism
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 04:45 PM
Oct 2015

as these folks did back before the ADA to prevent the shit he just went through.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
2. Online people can really suck
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 04:51 PM
Oct 2015

There's no chance of having to look somebody in the eyes much less get punched in the face.

But it also saddens me that none of the passengers thought to stay to help him. On a much much smaller level I can relate as I volunteer with a special Olympics gymnastics program and we have a hell of a hard time trying to get more than a couple of volunteers each week and with anywhere from 6 to 10 athletes we often have trouble keeping all of of them engaged and fully supervised.

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