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Omaha Steve

(99,503 posts)
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 08:58 PM Oct 2015

I changed my avatar





Probably for the last time. It is the dementia ribbon magnet.


I'm handing out homework. In the next week or so, try to see the film "Still Alice". The trailer is below. I finally got up the nerve to see it today. Alice has a rare for of Alzheimer's. Not the same as my FTD. I watched it alone and it hit hard. Kindred spirits on some things.

Several DUers noticed I was struggling late last week through the weekend with a fever, meds, and FTD combined. It wasn't pretty, but this time I didn't get a lock.

When you have 20 minutes watch this:


OS

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I changed my avatar (Original Post) Omaha Steve Oct 2015 OP
Still Alice was a great movie and I am giving you a rec for your new avatar! nt LostOne4Ever Oct 2015 #1
That was a GREAT movie! cal04 Oct 2015 #2
Download this to your PC Omaha Steve Oct 2015 #4
Thank you cal04 Oct 2015 #5
:) Skittles Oct 2015 #6
Love you OS! peacebird Oct 2015 #3
or how about this one Skittles Oct 2015 #7
K&R fbc Oct 2015 #8
Love You Man... WillyT Oct 2015 #9
k and r for you, your avatar and the movie. niyad Oct 2015 #10
Love and good thoughts to you, Steve. mountain grammy Oct 2015 #11
how do I pinebox Oct 2015 #12
Time for more hugs... madfloridian Oct 2015 #13
K&R. My father suffered for several years prior to his passing, bullwinkle428 Oct 2015 #14
Oh man... BeanMusical Oct 2015 #15
With problems, you still do more than most healthy posters. You sure are a hero to me. merrily Oct 2015 #16
Ditto to this...... a kennedy Oct 2015 #19
Double Ditto. leftyladyfrommo Oct 2015 #20
Triple Ditto.... Triana Oct 2015 #21
Hardly know you, but still love you! n/t Admiral Loinpresser Oct 2015 #17
That is already on my list of movies to see. kcr Oct 2015 #18
Thank you Omaha Steve. lonestarnot Oct 2015 #22
Steve, you're always in my thoughts. marym625 Oct 2015 #23
Much better Omaha Steve Oct 2015 #24
good marym625 Oct 2015 #25
Dammit Omaha Steve, well done portlander23 Oct 2015 #26
I had no idea postatomic Oct 2015 #27
My old avatar was a different photo of Robin than yours Omaha Steve Oct 2015 #29
I still miss Robin. Greatly postatomic Oct 2015 #30
Thank you, Omaha Steve... MrMickeysMom Oct 2015 #28
Great movie but so sad Beaverhausen Oct 2015 #31
A great day but Marta caught the bug I had Omaha Steve Oct 2015 #32

cal04

(41,505 posts)
2. That was a GREAT movie!
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 09:03 PM
Oct 2015

Love the Avatar. Can I get one
My mom has dementia and I live with her
I love her and I'm glad I'm getting this time with her.

Skittles

(153,113 posts)
6. :)
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 10:07 PM
Oct 2015


check it out Omaha Steve - in 15 years on DU I have never used an avatar

now I have one in honor of Omaha Steve

bullwinkle428

(20,628 posts)
14. K&R. My father suffered for several years prior to his passing,
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 11:39 PM
Oct 2015

and am still trying to bring myself to a point where I can watch the film. Maybe a selfish fear of perhaps having to face the same thing myself some day.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
16. With problems, you still do more than most healthy posters. You sure are a hero to me.
Thu Oct 29, 2015, 01:20 AM
Oct 2015


Love and good wishes to you and Marta.

marym625

(17,997 posts)
23. Steve, you're always in my thoughts.
Thu Oct 29, 2015, 05:52 PM
Oct 2015

I've seen the movie. Killed me. My mom has severe, fast moving dementia. She taught English at the local college. The similarities with Alice were frightening. I wholeheartedly believe my father had FTD, now that I'm aware of it.

:hugs: I hope you are feeling a little better today

postatomic

(1,771 posts)
27. I had no idea
Thu Oct 29, 2015, 09:54 PM
Oct 2015

It gives me pause. I think we all lose sight of the fact that there are real people behind these words.

Will take on my homework assignment. Had seen the title 'Still Alice' but didn't know what it was about.

A few years ago I came across some work by Bex Finch. At the time it really hit me. Hard. I think it was because I saw a little of myself in her father. Not sure if you would want to look at her work, but if you do......

http://www.fractionmagazine.com/bex-finch

http://www.bexfinch.com/dad/

I'm so glad that there are people here that are looking after you.

Omaha Steve

(99,503 posts)
29. My old avatar was a different photo of Robin than yours
Thu Oct 29, 2015, 10:13 PM
Oct 2015

I've got private thoughts from so many DUers since I told everybody about my FTD back in March. I'm a lucky guy.

Edit to add: I'm reading about her dad now.

OS

postatomic

(1,771 posts)
30. I still miss Robin. Greatly
Thu Oct 29, 2015, 10:26 PM
Oct 2015

Yes, you are a very lucky guy. I've always said that the true measure of "wealth" is what you get from giving. It isn't about money or things. You are also a very wealthy man.

Omaha Steve

(99,503 posts)
32. A great day but Marta caught the bug I had
Fri Oct 30, 2015, 03:37 PM
Oct 2015

We have a sick granddaughter too.

My best friend's mom had a stroke early yesterday morning. Tests today show it was minor and she will go home after some therapy in a few day as long as she stays this good.

OS
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