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TexasTowelie

(112,075 posts)
1. The ten year period is correct under most circumstances.
Thu Oct 29, 2015, 11:34 PM
Oct 2015

However if she is caring for a child 16 or younger or a disabled child then the length of marriage is waived. See page 6:

https://www.ssa.gov/pubs/EN-05-10084.pdf

DLevine

(1,788 posts)
8. Ten years only applies if you are divorced,
Fri Oct 30, 2015, 06:54 AM
Oct 2015

collecting from a deceased ex-spouse. Otherwise, I believe it's 9 months.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
10. Here is what I know
Fri Oct 30, 2015, 07:07 AM
Oct 2015

A good friend of mind lost his wife a couple years back from lung cancer. They'd been together for years but didn't marry until right before she found out she had lung cancer. She lived a couple years before she finally succumbed to the disease. a couple years later my friend became disabled due to a back injury and when he went to apply for SSDI they signed him up on his wifes SS and he began drawing a check almost immediately. After his application was accepted he was then switched to his SS. But he drew SSDI from his late wifes SS and it was almost instantaneous in his getting a SSDI check

At the most from the time they married and when he started drawing SSDI from her SS was no more than 3, maybe 4 years. This is the state of Oklahoma if that matters.

I never knew a happier couple in my life. Now he is having all kinds of health issues and no one save for myself and another friend he has no one. Only thing he has going for him is he has the VA for healthcare.

tech3149

(4,452 posts)
2. I take it you haven't applied yet?
Thu Oct 29, 2015, 11:36 PM
Oct 2015

I should be getting my first payment next month, so it's pretty clear in my mind. In filling out the forms beyond reporting marital status you are also asked about previous marriages. This also includes date of wedding and divorce.
It just so happens that Thom Hartmann had a representative from Social Security Works and the topic was covered. So I believe your wife, as is usually the case, is right.

GP6971

(31,133 posts)
4. I applied a couple of months ago. I have my official telephone interview
Thu Oct 29, 2015, 11:43 PM
Oct 2015

next month and my first check is due in January

tech3149

(4,452 posts)
5. I did the application online
Thu Oct 29, 2015, 11:51 PM
Oct 2015

Mabey that's why I remember the point. That and having to go dig through the paperwork to refresh my memory.

Tanuki

(14,917 posts)
7. No, the 10-year rule only applies to the eligibilty of someone who is divorced
Fri Oct 30, 2015, 12:00 AM
Oct 2015

to collect benefits earned by a deceased former spouse. And as it says in the link cited by another poster, if the surviving divorced spouse is caring for minor children, other rules will apply.
Couples in ordinary circumstances who meet the age and length of employment criteria need only have been married for 9 months to qualify for survivor benefits, and even that can be waived under certain conditions:
http://socialsecurityhop.com/en/handbook/04/0404-exception-to-nine-month-duration-of-marriage-requirement

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