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NRaleighLiberal

(60,013 posts)
Fri Oct 30, 2015, 11:15 AM Oct 2015

When just the ups and downs of life override politics. Just a very brief few words, a short share

This week we are experiencing the highest of highs, and lowest of lows.

We found out earlier this week that our daughter is about to get married - as in tomorrow. She and we are close, but not geographically - she is 3000 miles away, so we will be joyful for her from a distance. Because....

we also found out that my wife's sister is nearing her long battle with brain cancer. I just booked my wife on a flight tomorrow so she can find her peace and closure, and help the family through.

Things are really rough around here at DU. No doubt politics does influence many of our lives in many ways, so I certainly in no way belittle the real impact of our choices.

But every now and then I am reminded that personal joy and/or tragedy sweep politics into a very distant place. Sometimes in things I read here from some of you - and, when it is personal for me - like now.

Peace to all of you, no matter where you stand on all that is currently being played out. I feel like a dishcloth that has been completely wrung out; exhausted, emotionally wrecked. Going to go take my dogs for a long walk and look at the autumn foliage.

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When just the ups and downs of life override politics. Just a very brief few words, a short share (Original Post) NRaleighLiberal Oct 2015 OP
And peace to you , my friend sailfla Oct 2015 #1
Sadness and Joy intersecting. Stinky The Clown Oct 2015 #2
As we all know, DU ain't real life... SidDithers Oct 2015 #3
Oh, my dear NRL... CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2015 #4
... 2naSalit Oct 2015 #5
Thinking of you. Solly Mack Oct 2015 #6
I feel for you. ohheckyeah Oct 2015 #7
Sending best wishes your way. femmocrat Oct 2015 #8
Time to take care of the home front. We and our political jwirr Oct 2015 #9

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,560 posts)
4. Oh, my dear NRL...
Fri Oct 30, 2015, 12:03 PM
Oct 2015

My heart goes out to you during this trial...

I hope your sister-in-law goes gently, with your wife by her side...

And joy to your daughter and her fiance!

You and your family are in my thoughts...

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
7. I feel for you.
Fri Oct 30, 2015, 01:37 PM
Oct 2015

If there wasn't good things to help balance the bad, life would be unbearable.

Grief is exhausting - take good care of yourselves.

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
8. Sending best wishes your way.
Fri Oct 30, 2015, 02:20 PM
Oct 2015

Sorry you will miss your daughter's wedding, but congratulations to her and her fiancé.

Very sad news about your sister-in-law.

At times like these, there is nothing one can do but wait and lean on each other.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
9. Time to take care of the home front. We and our political
Fri Oct 30, 2015, 02:22 PM
Oct 2015

problems will be here when you get back.

Take care.

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