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He had NINE kids??? (Original Post) Photographer Feb 2016 OP
Fucker was in Duggar territory. nt valerief Feb 2016 #1
He was on the mini-Duggar track. kairos12 Feb 2016 #2
He was a devout and old-fashioned Roman Catholic. potone Feb 2016 #3
And 28 grandkids. nt pinboy3niner Feb 2016 #4
I understand, but everyone is different. I was furious Santorum had six. But hey, we're humans. Gregorian Feb 2016 #5
Earth will alright ffr Feb 2016 #30
Ethel Kennedy had at least six of them by caesarean, which would be medically inadvisable NOW. LeftyMom Feb 2016 #48
Italian, Catholic. Enough said. n/t Avalux Feb 2016 #6
Two words: Opus Dei meow2u3 Feb 2016 #7
Just about the same as LiberalElite Feb 2016 #12
Yep. Plus Scalia was Opus Dei. Avalux Feb 2016 #15
Yep. More Catholic than the Pope - LiberalElite Feb 2016 #16
Plus, a wife wasn't allowed to say no to her husband meow2u3 Feb 2016 #37
Exactly, I had an uncle who was a true believer Warpy Feb 2016 #33
Why is having 9 kids sick? NobodyHere Feb 2016 #8
Let us just say it is unusual and... Photographer Feb 2016 #9
Unusual is synonymous with sick? Marengo Feb 2016 #45
It wasn't unusual for his age and religion. Kittycat Feb 2016 #53
I'll swap you consciousness please. Gregorian Feb 2016 #39
Yes. It isn't what each person does, but that there's so dang many of us. MH1 Feb 2016 #42
It IS what each person does, times billions. Gregorian Feb 2016 #44
Yes, but I think your answer is overly optimistic. MH1 Feb 2016 #56
Absolutely. I completely agree. Gregorian Feb 2016 #58
It shows a disregard for the health of his wife, and by extension his children. LeftyMom Feb 2016 #49
He was Opus Dei, litterally more Catholic than the Pope. Odin2005 Feb 2016 #10
There's plenty of more substantive things to criticize him about. Renew Deal Feb 2016 #11
Please let us have our fun for a while...nt LiberalElite Feb 2016 #13
Many more things. Photographer Feb 2016 #14
Yes, THANK you! elleng Feb 2016 #28
He had nine kids so there wouldn't be any tie votes. Music Man Feb 2016 #17
OMG you win. You win every prize imaginable tonight! :) n/t phylny Feb 2016 #19
DUzy! and welcome to DU. hifiguy Feb 2016 #21
Not THAT is a great way to start out at DU! What a DUzy. Welcome welcome welcome. n/t JonLeibowitz Feb 2016 #27
Ok. that is funny! neverforget Feb 2016 #35
Can we satart a GoFundMe drive to get all offspring & progeny spayed and neutered? Arugula Latte Feb 2016 #18
Which vet clinic will we use? meow2u3 Feb 2016 #38
My parents had 8 kids. cyberswede Feb 2016 #20
I wouldn't take this too seriously... Marengo Feb 2016 #47
How many kids exactly does it take to get to "sick motherfucker" territory? (nt) Nye Bevan Feb 2016 #22
no wonder he was such a turd maggot olddots Feb 2016 #23
What number of kids TeddyR Feb 2016 #26
And, whats the deal about that? A lot of older people had large families. When I was growing up Waldorf Feb 2016 #24
From the Washington Post... alp227 Feb 2016 #25
hmmm DJ13 Feb 2016 #29
he was true catholic demtenjeep Feb 2016 #31
So that means most American Catholics are going to hell. Manifestor_of_Light Feb 2016 #32
I wonder if it was conservative catholism? We're not the GOP applegrove Feb 2016 #34
I am pretty sure he supported them all and raised them to adulthood along with his wife so CBGLuthier Feb 2016 #36
My own parents, and my wife's parents were Catholic that way... hunter Feb 2016 #40
Nove bambini DFW Feb 2016 #41
In Italian, he was known as Il Reproduce. n/t Efilroft Sul Feb 2016 #43
and he wanted more SoLeftIAmRight Feb 2016 #46
Stephen Colbert comes from a family of 11 kids rusty fender Feb 2016 #50
Good old "Vatican Roulette".. annabanana Feb 2016 #51
Damn! What a fucker! Kip Humphrey Feb 2016 #52
Pro-choice includes the right to choose how many children to have jg10003 Feb 2016 #54
You think no one on DU is from a large family? CBHagman Feb 2016 #55
he did not have 9 kids, his wife did.... Betty88 Feb 2016 #57
Colbert was the 11th kid in his family... lame54 Feb 2016 #59
It's the poor man's opera. Octafish Feb 2016 #60
Who cares how many kids he and his wife had? SickOfTheOnePct Feb 2016 #61
what bothers me more is that he wasn't pro-choice about other peoples' reproductive lives. Warren DeMontague Feb 2016 #62

Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
5. I understand, but everyone is different. I was furious Santorum had six. But hey, we're humans.
Sat Feb 13, 2016, 07:14 PM
Feb 2016

because when I start doing that, I harbor resentment against Dick Gregory and his ten; Robert F Kennedy who I think had more than ten? I have none. I can't imagine making breakfast for 8 people, let alone anything else. I love solitude invaded by noise of my own choice.

I've ranted and raved on this forum for years, and earth will let us know if we're doing the right thing or not. I'm supposed to be outside on a walk!!

ffr

(22,669 posts)
30. Earth will alright
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 02:39 AM
Feb 2016

From today. What makes this interesting news is that scientific organizations that study fresh water supplies having been saying the humans will run into shortages by 2045. I take that to mean it's going to get really bad by 2030. Looks like Earth is knocking on our door with something to tell us.

More than half the world suffers from 'severe' water scarcity, scientists say


-nola.com

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
48. Ethel Kennedy had at least six of them by caesarean, which would be medically inadvisable NOW.
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 02:31 PM
Feb 2016

Building a big Catholic family takes a disregard for the health of the mother.

meow2u3

(24,761 posts)
37. Plus, a wife wasn't allowed to say no to her husband
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 03:27 AM
Feb 2016

Opus Dei is a cult that denies what it's really doing--even to the Pope!

Warpy

(111,245 posts)
33. Exactly, I had an uncle who was a true believer
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 02:48 AM
Feb 2016

and he produced ten kids until his poor wife talked her doctor into a hysterectomy, over the objections of the parish priest.

The fertility rate then dropped like a rock in the next generation.

 

Marengo

(3,477 posts)
45. Unusual is synonymous with sick?
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 11:49 AM
Feb 2016

You have yet to adequately explain why you used the work "sick".

Kittycat

(10,493 posts)
53. It wasn't unusual for his age and religion.
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 02:46 PM
Feb 2016

Absolutely NOT a fan of him, and I can't imagine life with more than the two I have, but I won't knock a 79 year old for having 9. It was far more common back then.

My grandparents weren't particularly religious at all when I was young, and they birthed 6, 5 survived (one passed at age 4) and they adopted one more at age 13. It's just the way it was back then. its not like today where we're just settling down around our 30's.

Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
39. I'll swap you consciousness please.
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 10:05 AM
Feb 2016

I dearly wish I didn't know the answer to that. It has plagued me for 45 years. If you don't know, you don't want to know. Be grateful.

The answer: because it is the very kernel of all ecological problems we face. Not the corporations, but multiplicity of users. Your eyes see it, but your brain doesn't want to accept the truth.

MH1

(17,600 posts)
42. Yes. It isn't what each person does, but that there's so dang many of us.
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 10:54 AM
Feb 2016

For the most part.

Whether or not I recycle a particular item,or drive a Prius vs a Hummer, has a vanishingly minuscule effect on the problem, directly speaking.

Of course, that I choose to recycle, drive a Prius and take public transportation can encourage others to do the same, so there is a ripple effect that is positive and makes it better than not doing it. (Slows the bleeding slightly.) But until we get the population to a sustainable number, individual actions won't do the job.

(I'm not in favor of rapid drastic depopulation. I just think that decision will be taken out of humanity's hands at some point, and I don't want to be around then, I don't think. I would much rather humanity took voluntary steps to avoid it.)

Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
44. It IS what each person does, times billions.
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 11:35 AM
Feb 2016

Of course what I do individually, as one, does not make any measurable difference. However, billions of single actions do add up, and that's exactly what we see. One car drives out of a garage, yet millions of cars all do the same. That's millions of cars; not just single individuals now, but seas of them.

There is no other way of solving the situation other than individually. Each person having fewer children than required for growth.

There is no magic answer which will allow billions of people to do what they want, and still fix the mess population has caused. It will only happen when each person decides to change.

Multiplicity is a bottom up situation which can only be solved through bottom up responsibility.

MH1

(17,600 posts)
56. Yes, but I think your answer is overly optimistic.
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 03:44 PM
Feb 2016

Your answer seems to assume that there is some lifestyle that we could all live, whereby the sum of our impacts would be sustainable, even at the current population or around 9 billion, where we will be soon.

I do not believe that is true.

I can't point to any mathematical calculation that proves it, but I know a bunch of people feel the carrying capacity of the earth is much less than 7 billion.

Also, if that magical lifestyle exists, it would take a whole lot of mindset changes among people who can afford to do whatever the hell they please. I don't see that happening.

I do agree that those of us who "get it" should do what we can, for reasons like you're saying, BUT I feel very strongly that that alone will not be sufficient.

The other thing is the "quiverfull" paradox. They people who don't get it are spawning more, so guess what.

Sigh.

(Or, shorter version: MH1 is even more depressingly pessimistic than Gregorian.)

Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
58. Absolutely. I completely agree.
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 04:39 PM
Feb 2016

Oh, you can't be more cynical then me. I've been in a state of disbelief since 1972. It was an epiphany which I would have rather not had.

I was thinking about carrying capacity after posting my reply. My thought was, "Well if everyone were to be living within nature's equilibrium, there would be a lot less than 7 billion". There would probably be much less than a billion. I've spent most of a lifetime focused on this, sadly. I've owned farms. I have walked my properties wondering just how many people could be supported. We have such a limited amount of fresh water. And in a natural environment, it doesn't take much to mess it up. One person upstream.

What we've done is supercharge our species. By the use of petroleum, mostly, we have pushed the natural equilibrium away from where it normally resides. There is no way a billion people could live on this planet. I don't remember how many native Americans were here, but I've heard a few hundred million. And they were living on Turtle Island, which is all of the Americas and northern lands.

Like a friend says, I'm a sentinel. A few of us are. I've had to be strapped down to watch. It has been like pulling teeth, all while most people are blissfully unaware of it. So now I just watch, like a sentinel.

The good thing is, on this forum I have found several kindred spirits. Life does throw difficult things at us. The longer I live the more I feel that we all try to understand each other. I see no other alternative in terms of actually accomplishing big solutions. From a life of rage, to one of understanding. That's at least what I'm trying to do.

I've had some correspondence with Paul Ehrlich over the years, and it does help to see how much he is still distraught by this. We are not alone in our concern, even if it does seem to be a topic without voices. It's to primal to condemn. Life gives us dilemmas.






LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
49. It shows a disregard for the health of his wife, and by extension his children.
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 02:38 PM
Feb 2016

Even for the healthiest of women pregnancy is tough on the body. Most medical bodies suggest that women space their pregnancies by 2-3 years to allow them to fully recover before conceiving again, reducing that spacing increases the risk to both mother and child in subsequent pregnancies.

And of course a career like his wasn't exactly conducive to being an equal partner in child-rearing, even if he wasn't the sort of Neanderthal he was, so it's a safe assumption his poor wife had to manage NINE children without any significant help on his part, while being nearly continually pregnant.

elleng

(130,865 posts)
28. Yes, THANK you!
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 02:34 AM
Feb 2016

I MET him once, years ago, late '70's, he and I and another took a cab from O'Hare airport to downtown Chicago and we chatted, he asked for my resume, never heard from him after that. He was human, like it or not.

 

Marengo

(3,477 posts)
47. I wouldn't take this too seriously...
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 01:04 PM
Feb 2016

This one, the OP, seems to like to "hit all the rights notes", if you know what I mean.

Waldorf

(654 posts)
24. And, whats the deal about that? A lot of older people had large families. When I was growing up
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 01:57 AM
Feb 2016

there were a couple neighbors down the street. They each had 8 kids (one had 5 boys and 3 girls, the other the opposite). I have three brothers, I guess I'm in the difficult to understand category.

alp227

(32,018 posts)
25. From the Washington Post...
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 02:27 AM
Feb 2016
“We didn’t set out to have nine children,” Justice Scalia told Lesley Stahl on the CBS show “60 Minutes.” “We’re just old-fashioned Catholics, playing what used to be known as ‘Vatican Roulette.’?”


https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/supreme-court-justice-antonin-scalia-dies-at-79/2016/02/13/effe8184-a62f-11e3-a5fa-55f0c77bf39c_story.html
 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
32. So that means most American Catholics are going to hell.
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 02:45 AM
Feb 2016

98% to be exact. I believe that's the figure I read in a study asking Catholic women how many of them had used birth control, not Vatican roulette, in their lives.

applegrove

(118,622 posts)
34. I wonder if it was conservative catholism? We're not the GOP
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 02:54 AM
Feb 2016

afraid of JF Kennedy being owned by the pope?

CBGLuthier

(12,723 posts)
36. I am pretty sure he supported them all and raised them to adulthood along with his wife so
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 03:21 AM
Feb 2016

what business is it of yours or anyone's.

hunter

(38,310 posts)
40. My own parents, and my wife's parents were Catholic that way...
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 10:41 AM
Feb 2016

... but then they looked around at the world of the 'seventies and decided birth control, and teaching their kids about birth control, was a pretty good idea.

But they already had a big mess o' kids, enough to make them admirable in the eyes of more conservative church members. None of my siblings, none of my wife's siblings have had a big mess o' kids

You know, the 'seventies were probably the last stop on the train to hell. Humanity chose to stay aboard the train, shoveling more coal into the engines, faster, faster faster!

Here in the U.S.A. we tossed aside Jimmy Carter for Ronald Reagan and the devil has been partying ever since.

jg10003

(976 posts)
54. Pro-choice includes the right to choose how many children to have
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 02:48 PM
Feb 2016

I didn't like the guy, but this criticism is unfair and out of bounds. How many children someone has is no ones business.

CBHagman

(16,984 posts)
55. You think no one on DU is from a large family?
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 02:50 PM
Feb 2016

Do you think no one on DU has friends or relatives who came from families with many children?

And why choose John Lennon, who represents peace and life, as an avatar and then post such a gratuitously nasty message?

Betty88

(717 posts)
57. he did not have 9 kids, his wife did....
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 03:52 PM
Feb 2016

I really hate when some guy says I had so many kids grandkids etc. No you hung out while your wife had the kids. Pass a watermelon and we can talk

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
62. what bothers me more is that he wasn't pro-choice about other peoples' reproductive lives.
Sun Feb 14, 2016, 07:33 PM
Feb 2016

I'm not sure why I'm supposed to be outraged or even care how many kids he had.

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