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VP Biden's open letter to the young woman raped by the swimmer had me in tears. (Original Post) nolabear Jun 2016 OP
Beautiful, moving letter... Spazito Jun 2016 #1
I'm glad I have some tissues nearby leftynyc Jun 2016 #2
Biden's letter in full from BuzzFeed csziggy Jun 2016 #3
Thank you. I hope so too. I appreciate the positive thoughts! nolabear Jun 2016 #8
bloody brilliant! Blue_Tires Jun 2016 #12
As usual... hamsterjill Jun 2016 #4
Yup, he's a good Joe KamaAina Jun 2016 #5
Beautiful. cyndensco Jun 2016 #6
k and r....nt Stuart G Jun 2016 #7
Oh, Joe, that was awesome and so moving. lark Jun 2016 #9
There were two rapes Geronimoe Jun 2016 #10
True dat. nolabear Jun 2016 #13
kick Blue_Tires Jun 2016 #11
What a beautiful, articulate letter ailsagirl Jun 2016 #14
"Why did he think he had license to rape?" passiveporcupine Jun 2016 #15
Kicked and recommended. WheelWalker Jun 2016 #16
And yet HRC lancer78 Jun 2016 #17
VP Joe Biden is a good Man. The kind of man and politician we call all be proud of. NoMoreRepugs Jun 2016 #18
Good man. yardwork Jun 2016 #19
ask anital hill about this 'good, good man'.... sorry to Gabi Hayes Jun 2016 #20
Outstanding KT2000 Jun 2016 #21
Thank You, Mr. Vice-President. DinahMoeHum Jun 2016 #22
Wow, I have a new-found respect and admiration for Joe Biden. smirkymonkey Jun 2016 #23
He was my #2 pick in 08 awoke_in_2003 Jun 2016 #24
Damn you, Joe Biden... Dorian Gray Jun 2016 #25
Wow. Just wow. AwakeAtLast Jun 2016 #26
 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
2. I'm glad I have some tissues nearby
Thu Jun 9, 2016, 03:12 PM
Jun 2016

That was a moving letter from somebody for whom violence against women has always been a major issue.

csziggy

(34,131 posts)
3. Biden's letter in full from BuzzFeed
Thu Jun 9, 2016, 03:13 PM
Jun 2016
Here is Biden’s letter in full:

An Open Letter to a Courageous Young Woman

I do not know your name — but your words are forever seared on my soul. Words that should be required reading for men and women of all ages.

Words that I wish with all of my heart you never had to write.

I am in awe of your courage for speaking out — for so clearly naming the wrongs that were done to you and so passionately asserting your equal claim to human dignity.

And I am filled with furious anger — both that this happened to you and that our culture is still so broken that you were ever put in the position of defending your own worth.

It must have been wrenching — to relive what he did to you all over again. But you did it anyway, in the hope that your strength might prevent this crime from happening to someone else. Your bravery is breathtaking.

You are a warrior — with a solid steel spine.

I do not know your name — but I know that a lot of people failed you that terrible January night and in the months that followed.

Anyone at that party who saw that you were incapacitated yet looked the other way and did not offer assistance. Anyone who dismissed what happened to you as “just another crazy night.” Anyone who asked “what did you expect would happen when you drank that much?” or thought you must have brought it on yourself.

You were failed by a culture on our college campuses where one in five women is sexually assaulted — year after year after year. A culture that promotes passivity. That encourages young men and women on campuses to simply turn a blind eye.

The statistics on college sexual assault haven’t gone down in the past two decades. It’s obscene, and it’s a failure that lies at all our feet.

And you were failed by anyone who dared to question this one clear and simple truth: Sex without consent is rape. Period. It is a crime.

I do not know your name — but thanks to you, I know that heroes ride bicycles.

Those two men who saw what was happening to you — who took it upon themselves to step in — they did what they instinctually knew to be right.

They did not say “It’s none of my business.”

They did not worry about the social or safety implications of intervening, or about what their peers might think.

Those two men epitomize what it means to be a responsible bystander.

To do otherwise — to see an assault about to take place and do nothing to intervene — makes you part of the problem.

Like I tell college students all over this country — it’s on us. All of us.

We all have a responsibility to stop the scourge of violence against women once and for all.

I do not know your name — but I see your unconquerable spirit.

I see the limitless potential of an incredibly talented young woman — full of possibility. I see the shoulders on which our dreams for the future rest.

I see you.

You will never be defined by what the defendant’s father callously termed “20 minutes of action.”

His son will be.

I join your global chorus of supporters, because we can never say enough to survivors: I believe you. It is not your fault.

What you endured is never, never, never, NEVER a woman’s fault.

And while the justice system has spoken in your particular case, the nation is not satisfied.

And that is why we will continue to speak out.

We will speak to change the culture on our college campuses — a culture that continues to ask the wrong questions: What were you wearing?

Why were you there? What did you say? How much did you drink?

Instead of asking: Why did he think he had license to rape?

We will speak out against those who seek to engage in plausible deniability. Those who know that this is happening, but don’t want to get involved. Who believe that this ugly crime is “complicated.”

We will speak of you — you who remain anonymous not only to protect your identity, but because you so eloquently represent “every woman.”

We will make lighthouses of ourselves, as you did — and shine.

Your story has already changed lives.

You have helped change the culture.

You have shaken untold thousands out of the torpor and indifference towards sexual violence that allows this problem to continue.

Your words will help people you have never met and never will.

You have given them the strength they need to fight.

And so, I believe, you will save lives.

I do not know your name — but I will never forget you.

The millions who have been touched by your story will never forget you.

And if everyone who shared your letter on social media, or who had a private conversation in their own homes with their daughters and sons, draws upon the passion, the outrage, and the commitment they feel right now the next time there is a choice between intervening and walking away — then I believe you will have helped to change the world for the better.

https://www.buzzfeed.com/tomnamako/joe-biden-writes-an-open-letter-to-stanford-survivor?utm_term=.goRmg9waQ#.nsKNQjJE7

lark

(23,065 posts)
9. Oh, Joe, that was awesome and so moving.
Thu Jun 9, 2016, 04:04 PM
Jun 2016

I have tears in my eyes right now. I hope he's right and that this wakes people up and that they will stand up and stop some of these tragedies.

I hope Brock's nights are filled with nightmares and his day full of people glaring at him and snubbing him. He (and his dad) are awful people who skirted judgement because the judge was a jock at the same school. For shame, Brock and judge!

 

Geronimoe

(1,539 posts)
10. There were two rapes
Thu Jun 9, 2016, 04:06 PM
Jun 2016

First the Stanford student who had sex with victim when she was unconscious.

The 2nd rape, mental and psychological, from the judge who's sentencing allowed the rapist to be free after 3 months prison term.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
15. "Why did he think he had license to rape?"
Thu Jun 9, 2016, 04:22 PM
Jun 2016

Drinking too much does not excuse your actions. Alcohol just removes your inhibitions so the real 'you' is revealed.

What in our society today is giving our males the idea that they have a right to sex, and a license to rape?

 

lancer78

(1,495 posts)
17. And yet HRC
Thu Jun 9, 2016, 04:41 PM
Jun 2016

wants to compromise on Abortion as long as the woman's life is not in danger.

Does this mean that she will NOT include exceptions for rape or incest?

If the radical right had their way, my cousin would have had to carry her rapists baby.

NoMoreRepugs

(9,372 posts)
18. VP Joe Biden is a good Man. The kind of man and politician we call all be proud of.
Thu Jun 9, 2016, 05:00 PM
Jun 2016

I challenge Republicans to name one of their own who can measure up to him - just one.

I have a pretty strong heart, so despite being almost 67 I have time to wait.............

 

Gabi Hayes

(28,795 posts)
20. ask anital hill about this 'good, good man'.... sorry to
Thu Jun 9, 2016, 05:19 PM
Jun 2016

pee in this sweet punchbowl of approbation, but just dip into "Strange Justice" and refresh your memories about Biden's role in destroying her reputation, caving in to Thomas' managers/repubs and allowing the hearings to stop EXACTLY on the brink of testimony that would not only have forestalled the nomination, but should have garnered Thomas a perjury rap.

jesus

or, more succinctly, this:


Anita Hill, the woman who accused Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas of sexual harassment, on Thursday said that as chairman of the Senate Judiciary Committee, Vice President Joe Biden did a "terrible job" overseeing Thomas' confirmation hearings in 1991.

Hill said on HuffPost Live that Biden failed to call witnesses and experts to testify who could have shed light on the sexual harassment claims made about Thomas.

“I think he did two things that were a disservice to me, that were a disservice more importantly to the public," Hill said. "There were three women who were ready and waiting and and subpoenaed to be giving testimony about similar behavior that they had experienced or witnessed. He failed to call them."

Reacting to Hill's comments, a Biden spokesperson said, "The Vice President continues to wish nothing but the best for Anita Hill."

Watch the interview via HuffPost Live:


http://talkingpointsmemo.com/livewire/anita-hill-clarence-thomas-biden-hearing
 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
23. Wow, I have a new-found respect and admiration for Joe Biden.
Thu Jun 9, 2016, 06:47 PM
Jun 2016

What a powerful letter and a kind gesture.

Dorian Gray

(13,479 posts)
25. Damn you, Joe Biden...
Thu Jun 9, 2016, 07:39 PM
Jun 2016

You went ahead and made me cry.


Beautiful letter to a beautiful shining survivor of sexual assault.

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