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“Gun Didn’t Kill My Boy..I did" (Original Post) busterbrown Jul 2016 OP
Really sad. Had there been no gun present, no accident, and no dead son. What is so hard about Jitter65 Jul 2016 #1
Going to a gun range without a gun sounds boring. ileus Jul 2016 #21
This statement strikes me as very odd. 3catwoman3 Jul 2016 #2
nothing odd about it Skittles Jul 2016 #5
I do get that mechanism. What I don't get... 3catwoman3 Jul 2016 #16
Well, in a less insane world... Jerry442 Jul 2016 #79
Even those who consider themselves "responsible " gun owners are a lapse away from a tragedy. Hoyt Jul 2016 #3
I grew up on a ranch out west Drahthaardogs Jul 2016 #4
"Give guns all the respect they deserved" and "family fun" are not mutually incompatible. Eleanors38 Jul 2016 #33
I disagree. Drahthaardogs Jul 2016 #34
We learned early on a gun was not a "toy." But still, having fun Eleanors38 Jul 2016 #42
I would rather watch golf on tv than hunt from a stand Drahthaardogs Jul 2016 #87
"stand" can include just standing on the ground... Eleanors38 Jul 2016 #91
No, this is not whitetail hunting. Drahthaardogs Jul 2016 #95
Clinging to religion to make it easier to cling to his guns. thesquanderer Jul 2016 #6
I think their gun worship is their religion kimbutgar Jul 2016 #32
I commented upthread a bit that, IMO, the... 3catwoman3 Jul 2016 #37
They were at a range and the father did something extremely stupid REP Jul 2016 #7
Uh, right. Act_of_Reparation Jul 2016 #19
Did he have a gun in both hands? louis-t Jul 2016 #29
And it looks like you're ascribing intent instead of reading. Act_of_Reparation Jul 2016 #35
We're all sinners. Jerry442 Jul 2016 #81
I see nothing in either of your posts in this subthread... Chan790 Jul 2016 #86
I've had hot casings go down my shirt front and get stuck in my bra obamanut2012 Jul 2016 #47
Yes, yes, yes, very fascinating. Act_of_Reparation Jul 2016 #59
lololololololololololololol obamanut2012 Jul 2016 #89
Anyone who lacks that minimal self control should not shoot REP Jul 2016 #60
Oh hot brass can hurt sarisataka Jul 2016 #69
I wasn't wearing body armor REP Jul 2016 #80
Ive had brass(hundreds) rain down on me Separation Jul 2016 #68
Why I'm in favor of total confiscation of guns, SheilaT Jul 2016 #8
Well said. Vinca Jul 2016 #9
It's "oddly unpopular" because that would be effectively a ban on hunting. Odin2005 Jul 2016 #10
Yup madokie Jul 2016 #11
Fine, let people keep one or two guns -- lever or bolt action -- AT HOME for hunting. Thing is, Hoyt Jul 2016 #12
Your crass condecension is noted. Odin2005 Jul 2016 #64
I bet you have guns for more than hunting. Most gunners do not Hoyt Jul 2016 #66
Idiot. Hassin Bin Sober Jul 2016 #13
The guy that shot his daughter through the closet door louis-t Jul 2016 #31
A dead child due to an "operating error?" mountain grammy Jul 2016 #14
He's taking responsibility for shooting his son, and people are mad about his wording? Brickbat Jul 2016 #15
You're always supposed to blame the gun. ileus Jul 2016 #22
Some people are never satisfied, I guess. Brickbat Jul 2016 #23
Well, since he's absolving the role of the gun in the accident, it's more than just "wording" Gormy Cuss Jul 2016 #25
I'd pretend it's about the wording too. LanternWaste Jul 2016 #28
well done, LanternWaste Skittles Jul 2016 #65
I'm sure Wayne salutes him for defending the gun at all costs. ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jul 2016 #17
Perfectly stated.. busterbrown Jul 2016 #18
He is not incorrect Matrosov Jul 2016 #20
If it were me stage left Jul 2016 #24
Me too obamanut2012 Jul 2016 #48
Shoulda said: "Gun didn't kill my boy. My love affair with guns killed my boy." Iggo Jul 2016 #26
Carelessness leads to accidental death. Kang Colby Jul 2016 #27
The CompassionCrowd suddenly isn't so compassionate. Eleanors38 Jul 2016 #38
I've noticed. Kang Colby Jul 2016 #39
You continue to compare guns to swimming. How silly is that? nt Logical Jul 2016 #93
I'm just using logic. n/t Kang Colby Jul 2016 #94
The gun lovers are fine with it. A normal day. nt Logical Jul 2016 #92
People Control, Not Gun Control Sancho Jul 2016 #30
How would this incident sarisataka Jul 2016 #40
Do you mean would accidents ever happen? Sancho Jul 2016 #46
Help, if you wish: The poor father is right. He engaged in unsafe actions... Eleanors38 Jul 2016 #36
I am confused by the opposition sarisataka Jul 2016 #41
I am not. Compassion is measured by their vitriole. Some deaths are more equal than others. Eleanors38 Jul 2016 #43
The primary purpose of a gun is to kill. The primary purpose of a car is not. randome Jul 2016 #45
+ 1 stage left Jul 2016 #61
The purpose of the object sarisataka Jul 2016 #67
But the odds of that negligence rise enormously when a gun is anywhere near a loved one. randome Jul 2016 #73
He was standing behind his dad sarisataka Jul 2016 #75
That doesn't change the fact that 'operating' a gun increases the odds of an accidental shooting. randome Jul 2016 #76
operating' a gun increases the odds of an accidental shooting. sarisataka Jul 2016 #78
Bah. beevul Jul 2016 #71
You can parse the language all you want but you cannot stop accidental shootings. randome Jul 2016 #74
I do think it was criminally unsafe REP Jul 2016 #63
Sad for his family Catherine Vincent Jul 2016 #44
If a drunk driver said "Beer didn't kill my son, I did" Lee-Lee Jul 2016 #49
A major danger to a family is an adult member who owns a gun Kaleva Jul 2016 #50
When is the trial? benld74 Jul 2016 #51
Both killed the unfortunate boy. no_hypocrisy Jul 2016 #52
Gofundme campaign ghostsinthemachine Jul 2016 #53
After he sells his guns. Iggo Jul 2016 #55
I imagine stage left Jul 2016 #62
Guns are more important than people. Iggo Jul 2016 #70
Their goal was $10K TexasBushwhacker Jul 2016 #57
Yep... probably a lot came directly busterbrown Jul 2016 #58
Shows you how easy things can go wrong BeyondGeography Jul 2016 #54
Yes, you did. And you killed him using a gun. BlueStater Jul 2016 #56
He is also a gun nut newbie. Three years? Really? JanMichael Jul 2016 #72
"The casing bounced off a wall and fell into the back of his shirt, the sheriff's office said." spirald Jul 2016 #77
this man loves his guns more than his kids or the son he killed with a gun MariaThinks Jul 2016 #82
He still thinks guns keep his family safe. (n/t) Iggo Jul 2016 #84
Douchebag to the end - even after he killed his son jpak Jul 2016 #83
So...how would his son have accidentally died if he hadn't had the gun? Generic Brad Jul 2016 #85
Best comment award...On my thread. busterbrown Jul 2016 #88
Eagar & willing to sacrifice both his son & himself to the gun gods. baldguy Jul 2016 #90
 

Jitter65

(3,089 posts)
1. Really sad. Had there been no gun present, no accident, and no dead son. What is so hard about
Mon Jul 4, 2016, 11:22 PM
Jul 2016

understanding that?

ileus

(15,396 posts)
21. Going to a gun range without a gun sounds boring.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 01:03 PM
Jul 2016

Lot's of folks get hot brass down the shirt....few people try and retrieve it with the pistol in hand.


3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
2. This statement strikes me as very odd.
Mon Jul 4, 2016, 11:24 PM
Jul 2016

"Every round in the gun is your responsibility. When it fires you need to stand to account for it it. That's what I've spent the last two days doing, accounting for my operating error."

Accounting for his operating error"

I guess I'm not much help here.

Skittles

(153,138 posts)
5. nothing odd about it
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 12:57 AM
Jul 2016

he's NRA-indoctrinated and not even the death of his own son will give him any pause - for people like him, the gun / availability of the gun is NEVER the problem

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
16. I do get that mechanism. What I don't get...
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 11:32 AM
Jul 2016

...is the susceptibility to such indoctrination. I cannot even remotely imagine myself being able to be so brainwashed about something that could kill either of my children. I cannot understand the so-called "honor killings" either.

And don't even get me started on the "thankfully, we will see him again" line of thinking. That always seems to me like a way to not have to fully confront your grief.

Jerry442

(1,265 posts)
79. Well, in a less insane world...
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 06:20 PM
Jul 2016

...this would be the rambling speech of a man in shock at the center of a horrible tragedy that he hasn't been able to fully process yet. I'd give him the benefit of a doubt.

But yeah, it does sound like he's reading from a script prepared by the NRA.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
3. Even those who consider themselves "responsible " gun owners are a lapse away from a tragedy.
Mon Jul 4, 2016, 11:29 PM
Jul 2016

Yet they continue their bad habit, sick hobby, or whatever they call it. Worse, they introduce their kids into the gun culture with pride to carry on the tradition. This dad's love of guns killed his son.

Know that doesn't help. But coddling or emphatizing with these gun folks won't help the next time, either.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
4. I grew up on a ranch out west
Mon Jul 4, 2016, 11:35 PM
Jul 2016

And guns were part of life, but like a tractor, you gave it all the respect it deserved. Why the hell do people think these are tools for family fun? They are not.

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
33. "Give guns all the respect they deserved" and "family fun" are not mutually incompatible.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 02:27 PM
Jul 2016

Tens of millions of gun-owners can easioy reconcile the two outlooks, and do so without killing anyone.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
34. I disagree.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 02:30 PM
Jul 2016

When it quits being a tool and starts being a toy the wrong message is sent. And on edit

I won't hunt with most people who I imagine consider themselves safe and knowledgeable. I for one will not hunt with anyone who insists on cartridge in their rifle chamber. But I will also not hunt we both anyone who uses a semi auto rifle.

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
42. We learned early on a gun was not a "toy." But still, having fun
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 02:56 PM
Jul 2016

within the rubric of the shorting sports is still a safe and enjoyable past time.

I appreciate the precaution of not chambering a round on a hunt until (presumably) you are in a safe and stable stand or on station. It doesn't matter to me if someone is using a semi-auto rifle. My concern is being in the same vicinity the with someone who doesn't know how to use a firearm, most notably the one he/she is carrying.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
87. I would rather watch golf on tv than hunt from a stand
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 10:13 PM
Jul 2016

I grew up out west. We hunted for real. Packed in. Carried animals out on a back pack. Siwashed overnight to get an elk. Why the hell would you need to chamber a round sitting in a tree stand?

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
91. "stand" can include just standing on the ground...
Thu Jul 7, 2016, 02:50 PM
Jul 2016

Much of my hunting is determining wind direction and likely deer routes, then getting into position for an interception, which can be sitting next to cacti and mesquite, or standing in a motte of oaks. More fun and tiring is "still hunting," whereby you walk through moderately brushed/treed land 3 steps at a time, freeze, and take 3+ minutes to turn your head, then proceed another 3 steps. Repeat. Generally, it takes an hour to cover 150 yards. I have gotten both whitetails and axis in this manner. You must have a chambered round when still hunting as you may happen upon an animal quite close to you, and you don't want the noise of chambering to bust you. If you use a tower stand (I have used them only to scout), you access the structure with an unloaded rifle, then load.

On some of our less-than "real hunts," we drag field-dressed deer to a pick-up point, but no one in the Hill Country wants to artificially duplicate the expense of using pack animals and spike camps (maybe a few tourists ).

Have you ever tried still-hunting elk? Is it a oft-used method where you hunt?

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
95. No, this is not whitetail hunting.
Thu Jul 7, 2016, 07:10 PM
Jul 2016

You get up high, spot, and stalk them. You can also try to ambush in a meadow. Elk cover a lot of ground. They are migratory animals. They don't have a home territory and move with the seasons and weather. I suppose if it is a really hot fall and they are still way up in the black timber you could try that method.

I am the pack animal most of the time. A good frame pack is worth its weight in gold.

thesquanderer

(11,982 posts)
6. Clinging to religion to make it easier to cling to his guns.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 01:27 AM
Jul 2016
The incident has not changed his views of guns..."It's just a great loss but thankfully we'll see him someday."


Speechless.

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
37. I commented upthread a bit that, IMO, the...
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 02:36 PM
Jul 2016

"...thankfully we'll see him someday" line of thinking is a mechanism for not having to fully deal with one's grief. I cannot think of any spiritual outlook I could rationally hold that would keep me from feeling absolutely shredded if one of my sons died.

REP

(21,691 posts)
7. They were at a range and the father did something extremely stupid
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 01:33 AM
Jul 2016

This wasn't a kid getting at an unsecured gun; this was an adult disobeying every safety rule at a gun range. A casing flew up and down the back of his shirt, and he reached for it with the hand holding a loaded gun and pulled the trigger. He could have killed himself or another shooter at the range, and he did manage to kill his child. At a range, all guns are to be kept pointing downrange; this incident illustrates why. The gun didn't malfunction and it was out at an appropriate place but it was being handled by an absolute moron. His son is dead, leaving his family with a lifetime of grief and has subjected other people at the range not only to danger but to a horrible incident. He should be charged with manslaughter or reckless endangerment at the minimum.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
19. Uh, right.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 12:50 PM
Jul 2016

The guy had burning brass caught in his shirt. Under the circumstances, it would have taken an enormous force of will to set the weapon to safe, place it on the ground facing downrange, and then proceed to remove the scalding metal from his blistering skin.

Plenty of not-absolute-morons make stupid decisions every day.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
35. And it looks like you're ascribing intent instead of reading.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 02:34 PM
Jul 2016

To address your first point: The body's response to pain is rapid and largely autonomic. The primary concern is removing the aversive stimuli as quickly as possible, not necessarily what one is holding in one's hands.

To address your second point: no, I am not making excuses for him. I am debunking the myth that there are "responsible gun owners" who always follow the rules and "morons" who accidentally shoot people. Everyone makes mistakes. Every gun owner is "responsible"... until they're not.

Jerry442

(1,265 posts)
81. We're all sinners.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 06:32 PM
Jul 2016

If you don't have that mindset while dealing with stuff that can bite you, it's inevitable that it will.

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
86. I see nothing in either of your posts in this subthread...
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 09:51 PM
Jul 2016

to justify not charging the father with manslaughter...that is, preventable accidental homicide. He accidentally killed someone while engaged in unsafe conduct with a dangerous tool.

Plenty of drivers are responsible too until they accidentally drop their cell phone while driving and run over a 4th grader. Nobody disputes that's vehicular manslaughter.

obamanut2012

(26,049 posts)
47. I've had hot casings go down my shirt front and get stuck in my bra
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 03:14 PM
Jul 2016

NO WAY did I reach in with my gun hand, or any hand, until the gun was set down pointing down range.

If you can't handle hot casings popping off your face or down your shirt without killing someone, stay the hell off my range.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
59. Yes, yes, yes, very fascinating.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 04:11 PM
Jul 2016

Something happened to you one time and you zigged instead of zagged. Congratulations.

Seeing as, however, that on a long enough timeline, mistakes are bound to happen no matter who we are talking about, you'll have to excuse me if I have about as much faith in you as a gun owner as the guy in the OP. As I said, everyone is responsible until they're not.

REP

(21,691 posts)
60. Anyone who lacks that minimal self control should not shoot
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 04:14 PM
Jul 2016

Ever had a hot casing go down your shirt? I have. It takes a second to put the pistol down. The pain from the hot casing is nothing compared to the pain of a gun shot or killing someone due to idiocy. Anyone unwilling to put up with a moment's discomfort (hot brass doesn't even really hurt that much in the scheme of things) to put down a pistol to prevent a shooting accident or death has NO business shooting.

sarisataka

(18,539 posts)
69. Oh hot brass can hurt
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 04:59 PM
Jul 2016

A lot. I am told the scars are still visible on the back of my neck. It is quite difficult to grab a hot shell casing that is underneath the body armor.

Even so I was still able to maintain control of my gun and handle it safely.

REP

(21,691 posts)
80. I wasn't wearing body armor
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 06:32 PM
Jul 2016

which I'm sure prolongs the contact and ouch. And while my pain scale has been moved up a few notches, I wouldn't describe it as enjoyable but as you said, it's quite possible to take the short moment to act with safety and responsibility for your sake and the sake of everyone around you. Hot brass hurts less than a gun shot wound and far, far less than taking someone's life through stupidity.

Tailgating and stupidity at the range are two things that really piss me off.

Separation

(1,975 posts)
68. Ive had brass(hundreds) rain down on me
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 04:56 PM
Jul 2016

It is not a pleasant experience. Having a LMG, an automatic rifle, hell any rifle going off just to the left of you and you are the guaranteed recipiant of a hot brass shower. It all comes down to mind over matter (more importantly training) not to go waving your rifle/pistol around grabbing for it.

You own every round that comes out of that firearm. He broke Rule #1 of firearm safety. Never point your weapon at anything you do not intend to shoot.

Should he be charged? Not up to me, but Im a little bit harsh on people who break those rules.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
8. Why I'm in favor of total confiscation of guns,
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 02:20 AM
Jul 2016

which is oddly unpopular in many places.

If this man had not had a gun his son would still be alive. Is that so hard to understand? The real tragedy here is that the son was killed, not the father.

Every time we have another mass shooting in this country it's still not enough to come to genuine gun control. I do think that if every single day, every single gun death were front page news, within a few months even the most die-hard gun apologists would finally get it.

It would also help if each and every gun injury and maiming were also front page news, because those numbers are even greater than the gun deaths. I'd also encourage graphic photographs, so that people would understand just how devastating guns are to the human body. I honestly think that if we'd have seen the victims of Sandy Hook, we'd have had genuinely effective gun control by now.

But instead we have wishy-washy apologies for guns, no real presentation of the actual damage that guns do, and almost no showing of the human cost.

I've had it with the defense of the current state of gun ownership. I just want to say to each and every gun owner, as well as each and every person who defends the status quo, that you are saying you are perfectly okay with your child, your spouse, your parent, your best friend being murdered or permanently disabled by a gun. Because if we do not take away all the guns this toll will continue.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
10. It's "oddly unpopular" because that would be effectively a ban on hunting.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 08:48 AM
Jul 2016

The idea of which I am sure makes all the big city people who look down on us "dumb hicks" here in Flyover Country absolutely giddy.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
11. Yup
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 08:57 AM
Jul 2016

my brothers 400 plus acres that are run over with feral hogs wouldn't be worth two shits if all the hunting was stopped. right now no one is hunting them there but there sure is a need for someone to start. They are simply tearing up the place.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
12. Fine, let people keep one or two guns -- lever or bolt action -- AT HOME for hunting. Thing is,
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 10:27 AM
Jul 2016

most guns sold/acquired today are not used for hunting (game anyway).

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
66. I bet you have guns for more than hunting. Most gunners do not
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 04:45 PM
Jul 2016

hunt except once every couple of years. Yet, they have a gun safe, sometimes two, sometimes more full of the dang things. I think the record admitted by gunners on this site is 5, but I suspect some have more, especially those who profit from lethal weapons.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,318 posts)
13. Idiot.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 10:42 AM
Jul 2016

"The incident has not changed his views of guns, he said. He still intends to keep them in the home and use them for self-defense of his home and family"


Yeah, keep "defending" your family.

louis-t

(23,284 posts)
31. The guy that shot his daughter through the closet door
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 02:12 PM
Jul 2016

said the same thing. He killed her. Thought she was a burglar. The last thing she said was "Daddy, I love you". Then she died. He still claims he's gonna keep his guns cuz he has to perteck his family. In either case, the gun will probably never 'perteck' anyone. It has already fulfilled its purpose. It has killed someone innocent.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
25. Well, since he's absolving the role of the gun in the accident, it's more than just "wording"
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 01:39 PM
Jul 2016

It's good that he accepts responsibility for his son's death, peculiar that he felt the need to dismiss the role of place and tool used. Had he killed his son while he was driving drunk, would he be so quick to state that alcohol had nothing to do with it?

Sadly, his statement comes across as valuing his weapons more than the life of his child. Even though I find it sad that he's ignoring the elephant in the room, people who are grieving often are irrational. I don't think he deserves to have this media attention with his name attached.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
28. I'd pretend it's about the wording too.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 01:59 PM
Jul 2016

I'd pretend it's about the wording too, as it better suits the narrative. Not that anyone gets upset with the wording in regards to parents who leave their infants in the car for hours, or fail to prevent alligators from doing what alligators do. In those specific cases, we're upset about the carelessness... in this case, it's the merely the wording.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
17. I'm sure Wayne salutes him for defending the gun at all costs.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 11:38 AM
Jul 2016

Maybe he'll even send him a check for burial expenses, or some flowers.

 

Matrosov

(1,098 posts)
20. He is not incorrect
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 12:55 PM
Jul 2016

If he had backed over his son with his car, it would still be his carelessness to blame.

The exception would be if he had backed over his son because the car malfunctioned somehow. However, in this case the gun didn't malfunction, the father was careless with it to the extreme.

 

Kang Colby

(1,941 posts)
39. I've noticed.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 02:41 PM
Jul 2016

Yet, according to the CDC more young children die in non-boating drowning accidents than accidental shootings.

Yet for some only emotion prevails, not logic.

Sancho

(9,067 posts)
30. People Control, Not Gun Control
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 02:08 PM
Jul 2016

This is my generic response to gun threads where people are shot and killed by the dumb or criminal possession of guns. For the record, I grew up in the South and on military bases. I was taught about firearms as a child, and I grew up hunting, was a member of the NRA, and I still own guns. In the 70’s, I dropped out of the NRA because they become more radical and less interested in safety and training. Some personal experiences where people I know were involved in shootings caused me to realize that anyone could obtain and posses a gun no matter how illogical it was for them to have a gun. Also, easy access to more powerful guns, guns in the hands of children, and guns that weren’t secured are out of control in our society. As such, here’s what I now think ought to be the requirements to possess a gun. I’m not debating the legal language, I just think it’s the reasonable way to stop the shootings. Notice, none of this restricts the type of guns sold. This is aimed at the people who shoot others, because it’s clear that they should never have had a gun.

1.) Anyone in possession of a gun (whether they own it or not) should have a regularly renewed license. If you want to call it a permit, certificate, or something else that's fine.
2.) To get a license, you should have a background check, and be examined by a professional for emotional and mental stability appropriate for gun possession. It might be appropriate to require that examination to be accompanied by references from family, friends, employers, etc. This check is not to subject you to a mental health diagnosis, just check on your superficial and apparent gun-worthyness.
3.) To get the license, you should be required to take a safety course and pass a test appropriate to the type of gun you want to use.
4.) To get a license, you should be over 21. Under 21, you could only use a gun under direct supervision of a licensed person and after obtaining a learner’s license. Your license might be restricted if you have children or criminals or other unsafe people living in your home. (If you want to argue 18 or 25 or some other age, fine. 21 makes sense to me.)
5.) If you possess a gun, you would have to carry a liability insurance policy specifically for gun ownership - and likely you would have to provide proof of appropriate storage, security, and whatever statistical reasons that emerge that would drive the costs and ability to get insurance.
6.) You could not purchase a gun or ammunition without a license, and purchases would have a waiting period.
7.) If you possess a gun without a license, you go to jail, the gun is impounded, and a judge will have to let you go (just like a DUI).
8.) No one should carry an unsecured gun (except in a locked case, unloaded) when outside of home. Guns should be secure when transporting to a shooting event without demonstrating a special need. Their license should indicate training and special carry circumstances beyond recreational shooting (security guard, etc.). If you are carrying your gun while under the influence of drugs or alcohol, you lose your gun and license.
9.) If you buy, sell, give away, or inherit a gun, your license information should be recorded.
10.) If you accidentally discharge your gun, commit a crime, get referred by a mental health professional, are served a restraining order, etc., you should lose your license and guns until reinstated by a serious relicensing process.

Most of you know that a license is no big deal. Besides a driver’s license you need a license to fish, operate a boat, or many other activities. I realize these differ by state, but that is not a reason to let anyone without a bit of sense pack a semiautomatic weapon in public, on the roads, and in schools. I think we need to make it much harder for some people to have guns.

Sancho

(9,067 posts)
46. Do you mean would accidents ever happen?
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 03:08 PM
Jul 2016

Maybe.

Chances are that better training, better safety systems, and fewer distractions would make a difference.

All we have is the article's description of the incident. In my experience, for many years we taught children and teenagers gun safety at shooting ranges. Typically with those shooters, we used single-shot, short 22s. Nothing more distracting than kids. For that reason, you supervise kids - then do your own shooting separately. Don't mix the two. My license requires children to be supervised, not co-shooters.

If you are practicing with a semi-auto (particularly pistols), you are taught to expect cartridge ejections. That's likely a training issue. We don't know the details, but chances are very great that the shooter(s) were under-trained and over-armed. I'm sure I would never "reach" with a gun in hand, but I'd have put it down on the bench pointing out before adjusting my glasses or anything else. Training should be part of a license.

Insurance companies might have had something to say about the construction of the range. I don't live all that far from that range, and you can see all sorts of dangerous range practices here. A better one may have had one shooter per station for exactly those accident reasons. Insurance should be part of a license.

Without more details, it's hard to say.

My license is to prevent dangerous people (and situations) from easy or casual possession of guns. The higher the bar, the fewer number of deaths and shootings. Nothing is foolproof, but right now it's crazy out there.

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
36. Help, if you wish: The poor father is right. He engaged in unsafe actions...
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 02:34 PM
Jul 2016

...the death of his son is the result. If you want prosecution, then advance that as a course of action.

But in the end it was the Father's actions which resulted in his son's death.

I hope this helped.

sarisataka

(18,539 posts)
41. I am confused by the opposition
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 02:56 PM
Jul 2016

To his admission. He was indeed responsible. Do people actually want him to say "it wasn't my fault, it was the gun" (or maybe that the gun 'went off')
Imagine the outrage if a driver killed someone and said 'not my fault. I was not looking with I ran the person over so it's the car to blame'

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
45. The primary purpose of a gun is to kill. The primary purpose of a car is not.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 03:07 PM
Jul 2016

There are more than two possible statements to come from the father: one is "I was stupid in keeping a gun near the people I love the most because they are more often used to kill innocent people instead of imaginary villains. I know that now."
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sarisataka

(18,539 posts)
67. The purpose of the object
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 04:56 PM
Jul 2016

Is totally irrelevant. It does not matter if the object was built to kill, trim trees, transport people or decorate birthday cakes, if the negligence of the user results in a person's death, they are dead.

It is the user's negligence that causes the death and the victim is not less because the object was designed for anything else.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
73. But the odds of that negligence rise enormously when a gun is anywhere near a loved one.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 05:47 PM
Jul 2016

Just as the odds rise when using a chainsaw in proximity to a loved one. There is a reason people stand BEHIND the person using the chainsaw. You can say that the son should have been standing BEHIND his father and that's a fair point. But that is not how people act around guns. It's not reality.
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sarisataka

(18,539 posts)
75. He was standing behind his dad
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 05:55 PM
Jul 2016

It was the father's negligence and violating every rule of safety and common sense with a dangerous item that caused the death.

If the chainsaw operator turned and thrust the saw at a companion in horseplay, would anyy resulting injury be blamed on the saw, as a dangerous item, or the operator who handled it carelessly.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
76. That doesn't change the fact that 'operating' a gun increases the odds of an accidental shooting.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 06:02 PM
Jul 2016

A gun cannot be controlled simply because it is so easy to set off. A chainsaw has built-in safety features to prevent accidents, such as loosening the trigger to immediately stop it.

You can't do anything to stop a bullet from its path. What you just described about 'thrusting' a chainsaw at someone sounds more like attempted murder.

Guns don't kill people. I agree with that. But they make it much easier for someone to do that.
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sarisataka

(18,539 posts)
78. operating' a gun increases the odds of an accidental shooting.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 06:14 PM
Jul 2016

Is like saying operating a stove increases the chance of being burned. It is a simple identification of risk. Once a risk is identified then behaviors must follow to reduce the risk. In this case such behaviors were not followed.

There is one, and only one, way to set off a gun.
Pull the trigger.
If that is done the gun will fire. As you correctly note the bullet cannot be recalled there for the behaviour must be in place prior to pulling the trigger.

:uns per se do not kill people. However it is almost a 100% certainty of serious injury or death from a gunshot wound. Therefore it is necessary to have some of the strictest safety procedures when handling a gun and appropriate severe penalties for those who violate such procedures. As I said elsewhere I believe the father should be charged and his admission of fault entered into evidence.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
71. Bah.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 05:26 PM
Jul 2016
The primary purpose of a gun is to kill.


So tired of this. The primary purpose of a civilian legal firearm in America, is to accurately propel a projectile at a a target of the users choosing.


No more, no less.
 

randome

(34,845 posts)
74. You can parse the language all you want but you cannot stop accidental shootings.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 05:52 PM
Jul 2016

That's reality. There is a reason we have safety laws, as with seat belts, child-safety seats, etc. Fatalities rose until the government was forced to step in and mandate safety conditions.

The only reason that doesn't occur with gun ownership is our country's sick fascination with them.
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REP

(21,691 posts)
63. I do think it was criminally unsafe
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 04:34 PM
Jul 2016

Range 101 is keep all weapons pointed downrange at all times. Anyone who has been at a range has had hot brass go where it shouldn't; it takes a second to set the gun down. His actions endangered everyone at the range and killed his son.

Dangerous and reckless behavior at a range really pisses me off; this horrible story is a worst-case scenario of why.

Catherine Vincent

(34,486 posts)
44. Sad for his family
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 03:02 PM
Jul 2016

Poor kid. Once the shock wears off, his father will need some serious meds to help him sleep.

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
49. If a drunk driver said "Beer didn't kill my son, I did"
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 03:21 PM
Jul 2016

In a situation where a drunk driving accident killed his son would anyone dispute that.

no_hypocrisy

(46,057 posts)
52. Both killed the unfortunate boy.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 03:28 PM
Jul 2016

Weapons are inherently dangerous. In the same league as dynamite.

Weapons are dangerous on an elevated level when mishandled.

Even with gun safety and in the protection of a shooting range, the weapon remained dangerous to human safety and/or life.

BeyondGeography

(39,367 posts)
54. Shows you how easy things can go wrong
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 03:31 PM
Jul 2016

Basically a reflex action by the father and he accidentally kills his son. I feel for the guy, even if I think his idea of family bonding is nuts. Good argument for me next time my Florida-man brother tries to get me to the shooting range.

JanMichael

(24,881 posts)
72. He is also a gun nut newbie. Three years? Really?
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 05:40 PM
Jul 2016

He is 60 something and now he gets into guns and kills his son.

Good job douchebag.

spirald

(63 posts)
77. "The casing bounced off a wall and fell into the back of his shirt, the sheriff's office said."
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 06:04 PM
Jul 2016

Yes, semi-automatics eject extremely hot shell casings at a high velocity, because the ejection and reload is powered by the recoil of the shot. The brass can cause 2nd degree blistering burns if it gets lodged somewhere. Occasionally, the ejection velocity is fast enough to break the skin and cause a bleeding injury.

This is not an issue with bolt-action rifles, where shell casing ejection and reload is powered by hand. The casing pretty much drops to the ground and has time to transfer heat to the barrel before getting ejected.

Since semi-automatics reload automatically after each shot, it is almost certain that you will be holding a loaded, ready-to-fire weapon while your burning hot shell casing is flying through the air. When at a gun range firing semi-automatic weapons, anyone within several feet to your right will be dealing with your hot brass projectiles, while likely operating a tool that can allow a distracted individual to kill someone.

Many gun aficionados do in fact relish the rain of hot brass at the gun range as an integral part of the sport, presumably because that kind of thing is what happens on a military battlefield. Those folks can handle the distraction and the risk of burns and other injuries, and may even brag about their scars as badges of honor. There are lots of arguments out there as to the etiquette surrounding givers and receivers of hot brass at the range, but this is not the kind of environment that is consistent with "a culture of safety".

Semi-automatic weapons have distinct functional elements that greatly increase their risk of causing unintentional injury or death over manual-reloading weapons. The presence of hot brass flying around is sufficient to turn a relatively safe recreational shooting environment into a high risk zone, not to mention that you usually need to be diligent enough to -unload- the gun (by clearing the chamber) after firing it vs. taking action to load it before you use it.

It is understandable for families to want to teach their children how to safely use firearms. This is very doable.

Teaching people how to maintain line-of-fire and finger-on-trigger discipline when a hot piece of metal gets lodged next to their skin and they are undergoing a second degree burn is another story. Teaching them how to do this when they are operating a semi-auto (which is by definition always loaded and ready to fire when in active use) is insane.

This is yet another reason why semi-autos need to be more strictly regulated that manual-reloading firearms. We don't let people with a regular driver's license drive an 18-wheeler, because there are aspects of the vehicle that bring much higher risk. We don't let them drive kids in a school bus because of the risk.

Users of semi-autos need to be licensed to a higher standard. Untrained people may be able to follow basic rules applicable to all guns such as don't ever point a gun at anything you don't want to destroy, and keep your finger off the trigger until you're ready to destroy something. On the other hand, they do not have the discipline to react calmly when being actively burned. They do not have the foresight to ensure that their ejected casings are not endangering themselves or anyone. They do not have the diligence to wear appropriate clothing in a hot brass zone- things that are basic standards for a metal shop to keep people safe. They do not have the diligence to make sure that they remove the automatically-loaded cartridge from the chamber when they are done using it, and store the weapon in a hardened location.

If you don't secure your 18 wheeler properly and it rolls down the hill and takes out someone's house you will lose your commercial license. If you slack on semi-automatic safety or you aren't aware enough to avoid risky situations where you kill people you shouldn't be allowed to use one.

MariaThinks

(2,495 posts)
82. this man loves his guns more than his kids or the son he killed with a gun
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 07:34 PM
Jul 2016

his words are horrible and the irony that the guns keep his family safe are completely lost on this killer.

busterbrown

(8,515 posts)
88. Best comment award...On my thread.
Wed Jul 6, 2016, 12:55 AM
Jul 2016

Tell me the bar you drink at and I’ll call with my credit card...and I tip!

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