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mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 09:21 AM Aug 2016

White Male Privilege Is Why We Laugh At Lochte And Vilify Douglas


Gymnast Gabby Douglas “disrespected” her entire country by not putting her hand on her heart and smiling enough during the Olympics. Swimmer Ryan Lochte is a “kid” who deserves “a break” for allegedly destroying property and lying about a traumatic robbery.

If you were wondering what white, male privilege looks like, this is it.


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Douglas, who is just 20 years old, failed to put her hand on her heart during the national anthem, and did not style her hair and/or face to every individual’s liking. For those “crimes,” she was widely criticized for being “disprespectful,” “unpatriotic” and “un-American,” and called words that we’d rather not repeat in this piece. Lochte and friends reportedly defiled a gas station restroom, fought with a security officer, lied to national news sources, and may have filed a false police report. And the four of them get to be framed as talented “kids” (reminder: Lochte is 32) having one debaucherous night of fun.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/ryan-lochte-gabby-douglas-and-white-male-privilege-in-action_us_57b5e76de4b034dc73262f93






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If Ryan Lochte lied about that robbery, how can we ever believe any man's allegations of robbery? 🤔

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Gabby Douglas was destroyed for hand placement. He pisses on a business and blames a country, and people are making excuses. #LochteGate

2:11 PM - 18 Aug 2016



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White Male Privilege Is Why We Laugh At Lochte And Vilify Douglas (Original Post) mercuryblues Aug 2016 OP
It is outrageous how Gabby was treated. femmocrat Aug 2016 #1
I thought the same as well when I saw it. N/t roamer65 Aug 2016 #161
Did you ever notice... WinstonSmith4740 Aug 2016 #173
The law states that you should your hand over your heart for the anthem whopis01 Aug 2016 #193
I agree. WinstonSmith4740 Aug 2016 #210
No more outrageous than typical Republican fake outrage... Beartracks Aug 2016 #187
OKAY?????? whistler162 Aug 2016 #2
Well sort of I guess whatthehey Aug 2016 #3
I'm seeing more people making excuses for Lochte right now than I saw attacking Gabby D. Liberal_Stalwart71 Aug 2016 #65
Is Ryan Lochte the Donald Trump of the Olympics ? OnDoutside Aug 2016 #4
Yes malaise Aug 2016 #10
I must have a malise mind then .... ;) OnDoutside Aug 2016 #56
I actually said he must be a Trump voter:hi: malaise Aug 2016 #122
Sounds like he has plenty of potential True Dough Aug 2016 #33
One we watched and the other we were told about days after the fact. Igel Aug 2016 #5
+1. Thread can end right here. NuclearDem Aug 2016 #12
You do realize Douglas won the all around in 2012 right? mythology Aug 2016 #13
She's also written at least one book, possibly two - I can't remember. She was on the winning Squinch Aug 2016 #123
I think most of what you've written here True Dough Aug 2016 #50
no past achievements? mercuryblues Aug 2016 #58
+1000. nt awoke_in_2003 Aug 2016 #112
American culture and it's dying majority heaven05 Aug 2016 #108
+2,000,000!!!!!! Liberal_Stalwart71 Aug 2016 #138
+1000000. Plus all these excuse for a 30 year old man - what does this say to the world ? Person 2713 Aug 2016 #6
Had they been African American awoke_in_2003 Aug 2016 #113
By whom? DUers? Garden variety Racists? R. Daneel Olivaw Aug 2016 #150
Probably at least 1/2 of MSM would take that tack if not those words. RW press certainly would. Ford_Prefect Aug 2016 #192
+++1000 heaven05 Aug 2016 #199
Assumptions aside, do you have any proof? R. Daneel Olivaw Aug 2016 #212
I was very surprised to see so many DUers earnestly defending Lochte (nt) Nye Bevan Aug 2016 #7
Glad I Wasn't Among Them ProfessorGAC Aug 2016 #42
Not demanding his head <> defending him. nt Dreamer Tatum Aug 2016 #55
Was watching last night Bobbie Jo Aug 2016 #8
Phelps was cracking up laughing during one of his medal ceremonies milestogo Aug 2016 #23
I saw that too. JoePhilly Aug 2016 #30
Boys will be boys. nt NCTraveler Aug 2016 #9
That's exactly the attitude that defines this. sarae Aug 2016 #83
+1 One of the most pathetic justifications. nt. NCTraveler Aug 2016 #90
They're not even remotely the same situation. NuclearDem Aug 2016 #11
Right--one was a crime, and the other was a trivial breach of protocol Orrex Aug 2016 #174
Well, and one was a cut-and-dried case of trolls responding in real time NuclearDem Aug 2016 #176
Actually, I'd say that's a fair assessment Orrex Aug 2016 #179
An aside: LWolf Aug 2016 #14
Indeed lib87 Aug 2016 #15
So, white privilege is people not hating Lochte enough? Taitertots Aug 2016 #16
No it is disparate reactions to societal "transgressions" BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #20
In the media? The2ndWheel Aug 2016 #25
How about this analysis BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #35
What do those links have to do with the media giving The2ndWheel Aug 2016 #45
or this mercuryblues Aug 2016 #66
What media called him a kid? The2ndWheel Aug 2016 #85
Excused in the media as a 'youthful prank'?? B2G Aug 2016 #28
See post 25 - the OP is about white privilege BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #36
I assume you meant #35, and B2G Aug 2016 #48
Yes 35 BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #67
The Sporting News, for one: Saviolo Aug 2016 #59
Can you show us the media that are referring to this as a "youthful prank"? Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #31
The OP is about white privilege - see post 25 BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #37
So the media never called it a youthful prank. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #43
So you naturally missed the point. BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #44
How can it be about white privilege when everyone is ripping on Lochte? Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #47
They are only ripping him after they found out he and his companions lied. BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #73
Well, yeah. Nobody is going to rip someone who claimed to have just been robbed. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #76
"They should have just shut their mouths and went to bed." BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #79
I'm not excusing their behavior. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #82
So committing a crime is okay? BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #87
When did I say that? Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #89
You do know what they did, right? BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #95
When did I make excuses for them? Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #98
Really? BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #100
What you quoted wasn't an excuse, genius. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #102
you are REALLY reaching Skittles Aug 2016 #127
But the media was quick to accept it BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #134
You do realize crime is a bit of a problem in Rio? tritsofme Aug 2016 #144
Every single city on this planet has a "problem". BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #148
The crime problem in Rio is a legitimate news story, it's not pretend. tritsofme Aug 2016 #153
"Lochte took advantage of this to frame his lie." BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #156
So what you're saying happened melman Aug 2016 #54
All sorts of examples have appeared in this thread. BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #81
No melman Aug 2016 #88
Read my post again BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #99
lol @ salve melman Aug 2016 #117
What's obvious BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #135
exactly right bravenak Aug 2016 #168
All sorts of excuses to make it appear as white privilege R. Daneel Olivaw Aug 2016 #213
All sorts of denial about it being just that. BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #214
Opinions vary... R. Daneel Olivaw Aug 2016 #219
lapse in judgement mercuryblues Aug 2016 #60
And there you have an example BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #75
Wow, one whole example! Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #78
Keep reading the thread as other examples are added BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #84
Sorry that the premise of the OP does not match with reality. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #91
it proves OP's point heaven05 Aug 2016 #115
Meanwhile everyone else is calling Lochte out. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #116
lockte and the others heaven05 Aug 2016 #119
Nah, they can keep their medals. What they did had nothing to do with their events. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #121
2 men stood up on a podium silent BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #136
Two wrongs don't make a right. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #141
The point is BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #142
The two things you are comparing were also a half century apart. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #146
Yet these types of disparate responses continue. BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #152
Again, 99.9% of the responses regarding Lochte are that he is a lying asshole. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #155
Only after he was outed. BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #157
But you must admit Chitown Kev Aug 2016 #162
I went to a college BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #164
I read a lot of sports blogs Chitown Kev Aug 2016 #177
hard to rip someone as a lying asshole until it is shown they lied Grey Lemercier Aug 2016 #189
OFFS BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #194
Every American city is incredibly dangerous and violent? melman Aug 2016 #195
I guess you missed the data I posted BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #197
there is NOTHING remotely close to Rio in the USA, NOTHING Grey Lemercier Aug 2016 #204
How silly BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #205
nope, I completely stand by the entirety of my post Grey Lemercier Aug 2016 #206
Of course you would. BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #207
you simply are applying a sort of reverse American exceptionalism Grey Lemercier Aug 2016 #208
Kind of like Lance Armstrong who you might agree is not black and Rilgin Aug 2016 #182
How is that any different from a racist saying B2G Aug 2016 #118
hey, not just racist heaven05 Aug 2016 #120
What if I don't care about either instance...as I do...while white? R. Daneel Olivaw Aug 2016 #151
It could simply be a recognition of a disproportional response rather than hate. LanternWaste Aug 2016 #39
"Disproportionate response" = not enough hate for Lochte Taitertots Aug 2016 #57
more like mercuryblues Aug 2016 #64
The majority think Lochte is a moron for his actions and that the Douglas incident was nothing. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #69
lockte and others heaven05 Aug 2016 #110
As always awoke_in_2003 Aug 2016 #114
YES!! White guys behaving badly = "kids"; innocent 12-year old black kid playing with a toy gun... Liberal_Stalwart71 Aug 2016 #17
more like mercuryblues Aug 2016 #86
NO! If you're over 18, you are an adult, not a kid. You know the difference between right and Liberal_Stalwart71 Aug 2016 #137
Just who is this "we"? I have a TON of issue with Lochte and NONE with Gabby (or the Shot Putters). jmg257 Aug 2016 #18
First of all, it was some jackholes on Twitter B2G Aug 2016 #19
D'oh Solomon Aug 2016 #22
D'oh what? B2G Aug 2016 #24
+1 melman Aug 2016 #26
exactly Fast Walker 52 Aug 2016 #52
There is at least one of every kind of asshole on twitter (yes, that includes me) jack_krass Aug 2016 #185
Who is making excuses for Lochte? The2ndWheel Aug 2016 #21
Whoops there it is Person 2713 Aug 2016 #109
There it is. It can't get any plainer than that. nt MrScorpio Aug 2016 #27
And they sit around wondering why,,,,,,, Cryptoad Aug 2016 #29
I've been overseas 8 times and nobody has ever treated me like an asshole. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #32
Most will not treat u like an Ahole Cryptoad Aug 2016 #38
Are you the spokesperson for what the world thinks? R. Daneel Olivaw Aug 2016 #154
No,,,, Cryptoad Aug 2016 #158
No shit. Iggo Aug 2016 #34
The story of my life :) jack_krass Aug 2016 #183
Has anyone plcdude Aug 2016 #40
What the hell? cpwm17 Aug 2016 #41
Rachel Maddow broke into her show to basically say these clowns.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Aug 2016 #46
Pretty much no one has villified Gabby Douglas oberliner Aug 2016 #49
The Gabby Douglas situation was trending on Facebook, so yeah, a bullwinkle428 Aug 2016 #62
The big deal was in response to a very small number of comments oberliner Aug 2016 #68
First, I never saw anyone chastise Gabby about her hand placement Fast Walker 52 Aug 2016 #51
There was PLENTY of Harassment of Gabby..... LovingA2andMI Aug 2016 #61
There was a huge outpouring of support and love directed at her in response to the Twitter/FB trolls oberliner Aug 2016 #71
Yes, I missed it... I don't know why athletes pay attention to such assholes Fast Walker 52 Aug 2016 #124
Try reading your own article. Rilgin Aug 2016 #191
Thank you but Reading is a Skill Us Black Folks Have.... LovingA2andMI Aug 2016 #202
You do know, I did not know your race or gender. I just read the article you posted. Rilgin Aug 2016 #215
So.... LovingA2andMI Aug 2016 #216
I have no idea what point you are making about your signature line. Rilgin Aug 2016 #217
it's smearing white people Skittles Aug 2016 #128
You have it wrong. R. Daneel Olivaw Aug 2016 #165
I see no evidence that Lochte is getting treated well by the media or social media. Vattel Aug 2016 #53
I never vilified Douglas or jumped to Lochte's defense... Buckeye_Democrat Aug 2016 #63
This place is getting too crazy for me with the identity politics. Ace Rothstein Aug 2016 #92
Everyone thinks Lochte behaved like a dick. Throd Aug 2016 #70
The only people with that combo of opinions treestar Aug 2016 #72
This article is idiotic oberliner Aug 2016 #74
It's straight out of Bizarro World melman Aug 2016 #96
This article is 50% correct. Takket Aug 2016 #77
Mario Andrata: "Let's give these kids a break." oberliner Aug 2016 #93
"There Is No Sin Below The Equator" DinahMoeHum Aug 2016 #80
Every situation has to placate the identity politics crew. romanic Aug 2016 #94
How RW a talking point. BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #101
Put away the purity test. romanic Aug 2016 #103
Are you on the right site? BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #106
Yeah I am. romanic Aug 2016 #125
This message was self-deleted by its author MichiganVote Aug 2016 #129
we are on the LEFT SITE Skittles Aug 2016 #132
No "left site" should call discussion of perceptions of racial disparity "identity politics". BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #133
One would think the liberal position would be judging people individually on their own merits NuclearDem Aug 2016 #139
it's just pitiful Skittles Aug 2016 #140
No one is "trash(ing) white guys in general" BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #145
bullshit Skittles Aug 2016 #147
Yet there are white people on DU who don't see it as that at all BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #149
AND THEY DON'T REPRESENT MOST WHITE PEOPLE Skittles Aug 2016 #159
And you do? BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #160
Poor white folks. bravenak Aug 2016 #169
"since it is not EVERY SINGLE WHITE PERSON on earth who is racist" NuclearDem Aug 2016 #172
Here melman Aug 2016 #190
This message was self-deleted by its author MichiganVote Aug 2016 #131
Nothing like cherry picking events to portray your own version of reality.... jack_krass Aug 2016 #97
typical heaven05 Aug 2016 #104
Yes, Cherry picking.... jack_krass Aug 2016 #180
I think that the only people that were offended Chitown Kev Aug 2016 #105
This message was self-deleted by its author closeupready Aug 2016 #107
exactly niyad Aug 2016 #111
who the FUCK is laughing at Lochte? Skittles Aug 2016 #126
no it is making you look silly mercuryblues Aug 2016 #163
memes? melman Aug 2016 #166
oh FFS mercuryblues Aug 2016 #171
she was raked over the coals by a few idiots, but the vast majority of social media lifted her up Takket Aug 2016 #175
He committed an actual crime BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #196
not with a better result mercuryblues Aug 2016 #198
Looks like the NY Post didn't get the memo melman Aug 2016 #209
Poor Gabby does something most americans would do workinclasszero Aug 2016 #130
yeah that would be terrible, if anybody was actually saying that Takket Aug 2016 #143
With Lochte, people don't have all the information davidn3600 Aug 2016 #167
I just wonder who that "we" shit is anyway. tonyt53 Aug 2016 #170
Sports and patriotism HassleCat Aug 2016 #178
False premise: That there is one "we" here. JackRiddler Aug 2016 #181
Whose laughing? Everyone I know says he's a jackass for this 7962 Aug 2016 #184
or... Javaman Aug 2016 #186
Hah! Double standard much? calimary Aug 2016 #188
Again, that "we". Iggo Aug 2016 #200
I wonder why the author is vilifying Douglas. AngryAmish Aug 2016 #201
The author and the mouse in her pocket. Iggo Aug 2016 #218
"We." LOL SMC22307 Aug 2016 #203
You are trying too hard Egnever Aug 2016 #211

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
1. It is outrageous how Gabby was treated.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 09:26 AM
Aug 2016

Last edited Fri Aug 19, 2016, 08:08 PM - Edit history (1)

I saw the medal ceremony for shot put and neither Crouser nor Kovacs put his hand on his heart. Where is the outrage?

WinstonSmith4740

(3,056 posts)
173. Did you ever notice...
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:06 PM
Aug 2016

Not putting your hand over your heart was never an issue until Obama did it. I remember being taught you put your hand over your heart for the pledge, and stood during the anthem.

whopis01

(3,510 posts)
193. The law states that you should your hand over your heart for the anthem
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:19 AM
Aug 2016
https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/36/301


Personally I find it ridiculous that there is a law saying what you are supposed to do during the playing of the anthem. But it does exist.

WinstonSmith4740

(3,056 posts)
210. I agree.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 02:15 PM
Aug 2016

The law is ridiculous. It looks like it was written in 1931, which kind of speaks to my point. Law or not, I really don't remember anyone putting their hands over their hearts for the anthem until the right wing went apeshit because Obama didn't do it. I'm sure we've all seen the pictures of Bush & other prominent Republicans without the "hand over heart" pose during the anthem. At the time, it prompted this reply:

Modern custom does not require a hand over the heart, said Anne Garside, director of communication for the Maryland Historical Society, home of the original manuscript of the Star-Spangled Banner . "I think the bottom line is that you show respect with your demeanor," she said. "Whether you put your hand over your heart, hold your hat at shoulder level or waist level, is really in this day and age irrelevant."

She pointed out that "the tune of the Star-Spangled Banner was originally a drinking song. If they can put the words to the tune of a rousing drinking song, to quibble over whether you put your hand over your heart is really ridiculous."

Beartracks

(12,809 posts)
187. No more outrageous than typical Republican fake outrage...
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 12:36 AM
Aug 2016

... directed at any Democrat -- or person of color who is naturally assumed to be "not like us" -- who fails some invisible, incidental, spontaneous litmus test of "patriotism."

Forgot your flag pin, or didn't have enough flags around your podium, or saluted while holding a coffee cup, or didn't salute when ignorant Republicans thought you SHOULD have been saluting, or served in the military but then had the audacity to run for office ... AND you happen to be a Democrat... OR you happen to be black (which Republicans assume means you're probably a Democrat) -- and you have obviously Just. Committed. Treason!!!!1111!!1!!



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whistler162

(11,155 posts)
2. OKAY??????
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 09:28 AM
Aug 2016

Just goes to show why you should pay attention to real people and not some twit that tweets!

The difference between Gabby Douglas and Ryan Lochte is one has a promising future and the other pissed their future away at a gas station!

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
3. Well sort of I guess
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 09:37 AM
Aug 2016

Very few had any problem with Douglas but racist loons. There are plenty of them of course, but they're the only ones. Most folks as far as I can tell, once the story became known, didn't find Lochte funny, but irresponsible, dishonest and stupid.

OnDoutside

(19,953 posts)
4. Is Ryan Lochte the Donald Trump of the Olympics ?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 09:42 AM
Aug 2016

1) Full of his own importance .... check
2) Makes up outlandish stories which hurt others ... check
3) Runs away and lets others holding the steaming bag of shite ... check

Igel

(35,300 posts)
5. One we watched and the other we were told about days after the fact.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 09:42 AM
Aug 2016

One's a parvenue with no following based on past achievements and the other has string of past wins that a lot of people know about and even had a "reality show" made about him.

The first thing that a lot of people knew about Douglas was what they saw and heard about the US national anthem. First impressions and all that.


One was an action that was perceived against "us" and the other, if accepted, an action against "them." Had Douglas not "saluted" during the Brazil national anthem I really think few people in the US would care. The reaction towards Douglas or Lochte says a lot about primary, secondary, an tertiary group loyalties and disaffection.

Stereotypes matter, as well. For many, Lochte's a privileged white boy and gets judged immediately against that stereotype; he's the "them" that's against some people's "us". For many, Douglas is just a black girl, one of "us" who had an trivial but understandable lapse, for others she's "them" disrespecting "us"--follow-up for some from '68 Mexico, follow-up for some from BLM protests or personal experience. (Remember, many stereotypes have some basis in fact. Some of the "facts" may be 100 years old, or based on 1% of the population, but with confirmation bias in play that doesn't matter.) And for those who steal offense, "girl" is justified by the indirect speech also reflected in "white boy". Get one, get the other.

Because of us-versus-them thinking and entrenched stereotypes, Lochte's and Douglas' actions play radically different among different US subpopulations, and the difference in perception outside the US in general is probably going to be striking.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
13. You do realize Douglas won the all around in 2012 right?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:15 AM
Aug 2016

She's not exactly unaccomplished. The people who had a problem with Douglas are idiots (and a lot of then are racist I imagine) as hands down is perfectly acceptable. Lochte on the other hand, committed multiple actual crimes.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
123. She's also written at least one book, possibly two - I can't remember. She was on the winning
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 03:25 PM
Aug 2016

US World Chapmpion teams in 2011 and 2015, won gold at the 2016 America's Cup.

There's a Barbie of her because little girls find her so inspiring.

And she's only 20.

But, hey. She's just an unknown who gave a bad first impression.

Can you believe the shit they're saying in this thread?

True Dough

(17,301 posts)
50. I think most of what you've written here
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:19 AM
Aug 2016

is well thought out and on the mark.

I'm grateful to be able to come to a discussion forum where racism and "white privilege" are acknowledged as real things, at least by some. I used to frequent a forum where almost anything declared racist, or even questioned as such (including Trump) was laughed off.

We view life through various lenses. Sometimes we are oblivious to how those lenses affect our interpretations of events and how we perceive others. It is a useful exercise to pause and analyse why we react the way we do.

mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
58. no past achievements?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:51 AM
Aug 2016

She is 20 years old and has 3 gold medals. Two movies about her and several books. She has been on several different brands of Kellogg's cereal and a just released reality show. Not to mention her slew of other medals and awards. She didn't just pop up out of nowhere and win her 1st gold. Because gymnastics is a different sport, she will most likely be aged out by the next Olympics. Most gymnasts usually only get to compete in 1 Olympics.

What she has not done is vandalize a gas station and cover it up by lying to the police with a false claim of being robbed, then get on national TV and talk about it.

What you did there was minimize her accomplishments in favor of pumping up 30 year old, Lochte's achievements as more important.
Then used that as an excuse as to why he was treated differently.

Then completely ignored a post about the 2 men, Crouser and Kovacs, who won a gold and silver in the shot put throws, who also did not put their hands over their heart, with no news stories or backlash.
 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
108. American culture and it's dying majority
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 02:03 PM
Aug 2016

has never taken to heart AA, so bullshit and all that on your post.....I don't feel anything anymore when I hear the national anthem. It has never stood for minority, pursuit of happines, liberty and especially.....LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!! People are so willing to ignore history past and recent in favor of some emotional moment that is supposed to be observed with the winning of some bauble that make our country look good. When Simeone and the rest come back here, they are still subject to living, driving, shopping while black in this culture. The moment will pass, history and present american bigotry and racism is in our faces and won't ever be over.

Person 2713

(3,263 posts)
6. +1000000. Plus all these excuse for a 30 year old man - what does this say to the world ?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 09:48 AM
Aug 2016

How many claim Rio should apologize ?, or Brazil is a sore loser -wth?
That's of course in addition to the stark national differences here in reaction when it is a white athlete
Imagine 4 nonwhites in the same situation
guaranteed we would be seeing the tape 24/7 and hear how they disgraced our nation and referred to by hateful terms and

Ford_Prefect

(7,886 posts)
192. Probably at least 1/2 of MSM would take that tack if not those words. RW press certainly would.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:45 AM
Aug 2016

It's part of the grand scheme of repeating cultural stereotypes as a means of dumbing down the news and reinforcing cultural divisions.
Like a Wonder Bread ad it makes the world appear to be recognizable to the target audience. It simplifies the complexities and variations in life and people using the easily repeated lies of who is safe and who is not safe to be near.

 

R. Daneel Olivaw

(12,606 posts)
212. Assumptions aside, do you have any proof?
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 02:29 PM
Aug 2016

RW media is an echo chamber of hate and bigotry, but we already know that.

ProfessorGAC

(64,995 posts)
42. Glad I Wasn't Among Them
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:07 AM
Aug 2016

He's a 30 year punk kid. Too old to still be a kid, and the punk thing isn't attractive at any age.

Now, from the video i saw, a gun actually was involved, but it wasn't a robbery. It was a security guy reacting to a bunch of guys acting like tools.

Bobbie Jo

(14,341 posts)
8. Was watching last night
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 09:55 AM
Aug 2016

The shot put medal ceremony, and NEITHER of the two Americans put their hand over their heart during the national anthem.

Of course this went by unnoticed. Two white men, nothing to see here....

Personally, I couldn't care less that these young men didn't assume the "proper position," but where is the outrage??

Blatant.


milestogo

(16,829 posts)
23. Phelps was cracking up laughing during one of his medal ceremonies
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:43 AM
Aug 2016

Nobody got mad at him, they just asked to be let in on the joke.

sarae

(3,284 posts)
83. That's exactly the attitude that defines this.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:14 PM
Aug 2016

It's also the general attitude towards this election every time Donald Trump does something offensive. He gets away with everything because "that's our Crazy Donald! Boys will be boys", while Hillary is pilloried for being less than perfect.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
176. Well, and one was a cut-and-dried case of trolls responding in real time
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:37 PM
Aug 2016

while the other initially started as an earnest act of national solidarity, which then turned to anger and disgust when it was discovered we had been lied to as a cover for absolutely vile behavior.

Orrex

(63,202 posts)
179. Actually, I'd say that's a fair assessment
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:48 PM
Aug 2016

I'm still seeing a "he's just a kid" vibe on social media, but you're right about the real-time trolls.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
14. An aside:
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:21 AM
Aug 2016

I caught a couple of medal ceremonies last night...American gold...none of them had their hands on their hearts.

lib87

(535 posts)
15. Indeed
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:22 AM
Aug 2016

I've enjoyed people getting called out on this defending of thug lochte and his gang terrorizing that gas station.

 

Taitertots

(7,745 posts)
16. So, white privilege is people not hating Lochte enough?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:26 AM
Aug 2016

If this is the sum of your grievances, then your grievances are unworthy of further consideration.

It's just wah wah wah, other people don't hate Lochte as much as I do.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
20. No it is disparate reactions to societal "transgressions"
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:36 AM
Aug 2016

And the value assigned to the "transgression". A literal crime committed by a young white male is excused in the media as a "youthful prank" where a POC would be called a "thug", "savage", or someone possessing an "urban pathology" (latest buzz term out there).

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
35. How about this analysis
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:00 AM
Aug 2016
https://mic.com/articles/105198/9-photos-of-white-people-rioting-put-the-ferguson-demonstrations-in-perspective#.Ol9vHyWeY

http://www.cnn.com/2014/11/20/opinion/kohn-ferguson-protests/

If you need to ask then you might never get it. When this story first broke, the pervasive sentiment in the media and right here on DU was that crime was rampant there and so the lie was believable. In general, POC are never given any benefit of the doubt.

mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
66. or this
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:39 PM
Aug 2016
The general reaction to what has been dubbed #LochteGate was initial confusion, a lot of spot-on jokes, and eventually a measured dose of criticism and a plea from Rio 2016 spokesman Mario Andrada to “give these kids a break” because “sometimes you take actions that you later regret.”

Douglas, who is just 20 years old, failed to put her hand on her heart during the national anthem, and did not style her hair and/or face to every individual’s liking. For those “crimes,” she was widely criticized for being “disprespectful,” “unpatriotic” and “un-American,” and called words that we’d rather not repeat in this piece. Lochte and friends reportedly defiled a gas station restroom, fought with a security officer, lied to national news sources, and may have filed a false police report. And the four of them get to be framed as talented “kids” (reminder: Lochte is 32) having one debaucherous night of fun.

http://www.joy105.com/twitter-fans-call-out-ryan-lochte-white-privilege-actions-in-rio-vs-gabby-douglas-hand-over-heart-incident/



One of those kids is 32 years old
 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
48. I assume you meant #35, and
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:17 AM
Aug 2016

neither of those references have anything to do with the Lochte situation.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
67. Yes 35
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:41 PM
Aug 2016

and it has to do with the OP subject and what I posted in #20 - "disparate reactions" and this case is just the latest.

Saviolo

(3,280 posts)
59. The Sporting News, for one:
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:57 AM
Aug 2016

Excuses his lying based on the fact that it's just what Americans do:

So Ryan Lochte lied. Sort of.

At the very least, he appears to have stretched the truth a bit. He allegedly fabricated a story — or half a story — to get himself and his U.S. teammates out of a bad situation and cover up a stupid mistake.

RELATED VIDEO

So what?

Most of us are liars, too. Most of us do it every day. We either tell outright lies or exaggerate a situation or stretch the truth. It’s become the American way.

Like Lochte, we lie to cover up mistakes or to make up for something we said or did that offended someone or didn’t go over so well. We distort the truth by supporting or sharing someone else’s lie. And then we lie about the lie.


He points to the fact that the two major party nominees for president are both huge liars:

Hillary Clinton has a long track record of lying. She’s made a career out of it. She even lies about her lies. She’s a master fabricator who excels at spinning stories to cover up her scandals and questionable judgment. It’s how she became one of the nation’s most powerful politicians. And she might just lie her way all the way to the White House. If she does, she will become the second most celebrated liar in presidential history — second only to her husband.

Donald Trump is no better. He also has told lie after lie while running for President, changing his opinion and spinning his hateful rhetoric depending on how the political winds shift. He excels at half-truths, gross exaggeration and media manipulation. That’s been his political strategy — say or tweet something outrageous, stupid and offensive, and then when he gets caught, lie about it or accuse his critics of being “so dishonest.” If he’s elected, he will have done it by pulling the wool over the eyes of most of the electorate.


And then with torturous logic:

Look, lying is wrong. Everyone knows that. Most of us were taught that from a young age.

But that doesn’t stop us. We lie anyway.

So why are we taking Ryan Lochte to task for spinning the truth?

He’s just one of us. Just another in a long line of American liars. He learned from the best.

Maybe his tall tale created an international incident and tainted the Rio Olympics, but hey, if you’re going to lie, why not make it a whopper. Why not create an Olympic-size scandal? Rio was a mess to begin with. What’s one more lie added to the mix?


Of course, this only focuses on the fact that he lied about the mugging and says nothing about the actual vandalism, etc...

(Article here if you feel like torturing yourself: http://www.sportingnews.com/athletics/news/rio-olympics-2016-ryan-lochte-lie-story-fabrication-robbery-police/1ut5nvvb6ytdx1lc7e8rmbqag4)

Ace Rothstein

(3,160 posts)
31. Can you show us the media that are referring to this as a "youthful prank"?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:53 AM
Aug 2016

All of the media that I've come across are ripping Lochte a new one.

Ace Rothstein

(3,160 posts)
47. How can it be about white privilege when everyone is ripping on Lochte?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:16 AM
Aug 2016

All the media did initially was report on Lochte's original claims. They had many questions about the incident with very few answers received.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
73. They are only ripping him after they found out he and his companions lied.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:55 PM
Aug 2016

The initial reporting tended to give validity to the assertions previously made about the venue city Just google "Rio Olympics crime" and all sorts of media reports surface that sets the stage. And you even have this for example (which was pretty much how most of the big outlets reported the incident, filling column inches with other "crimes&quot -

http://www.usatoday.com/story/sports/columnist/brennan/2016/08/14/rio-olympics-ryan-lochte-robbery-security-police-reaction/88733148/

Even a so-called progressive site blamed the oligarchs of Rio rather than these hoods - http://www.progressive.org/news/2016/08/188907/crimes-big-and-small-rio-olympics

Ace Rothstein

(3,160 posts)
76. Well, yeah. Nobody is going to rip someone who claimed to have just been robbed.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:57 PM
Aug 2016

Lots of people get robbed in Rio, a few people associated with the Olympics already have been.

The whole thing was just stupid from Lochte and friends. They should have just shut their mouths and went to bed. I don't know why they lied. They weren't going to get their money back. This was something that would obviously be investigated and they were figured out to be liars quite easily.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
79. "They should have just shut their mouths and went to bed."
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:08 PM
Aug 2016

Bingo. You just illustrated the point of the OP. It was essentially no big deal that they vandalized a gas station while drunk.

I went to UMASS in the late '70s/early '80s and watched similar behavior (vandalizing by young white males) with literally 10s of thousands of dollars in damage to the elevators in the dorm after flooding the floor with the fire hose and throwing furniture up and down the halls while in a drunken rage. It was chalked up as "letting off steam" and no one was ever arrested.

Ace Rothstein

(3,160 posts)
82. I'm not excusing their behavior.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:14 PM
Aug 2016

Nothing would have come of the situation if they would have done as I said. The gas station was happy with the money they received and didn't file a police report. These morons telling a lie is what exposed their bad behavior.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
95. You do know what they did, right?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:33 PM
Aug 2016

Last I heard, damaging someone's property is a crime. But see, you are doing exactly what this thread is talking about.

Ace Rothstein

(3,160 posts)
98. When did I make excuses for them?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:39 PM
Aug 2016

All I said is that they are idiots for lying about what they did. They doubled down on stupid when they decided to make up their robbery story.

Skittles

(153,147 posts)
127. you are REALLY reaching
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 03:51 PM
Aug 2016

it was initially reported as a ROBBERY

Lochte and his companions have been TRASHED since the truth came out, and RIGHTFULLY SO

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
134. But the media was quick to accept it
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 04:53 PM
Aug 2016

because they spent several years trashing the country.

There's no "reach" given the interesting statistic that Brazil is home to the largest of the African diaspora in the world.

tritsofme

(17,376 posts)
144. You do realize crime is a bit of a problem in Rio?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 06:54 PM
Aug 2016

The story of the robbery was plausible...that's why it was initially accepted.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
148. Every single city on this planet has a "problem".
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 07:04 PM
Aug 2016

It is the nature of jamming many millions together in a relatively small area. You had a similar build-up stories about crime before the London Olympics. But just as "the media" went wild with Beijing and the smog and other issues in 2008, so too did you see the dire stories about Rio. Meanwhile the athletes went about their business competing.

tritsofme

(17,376 posts)
153. The crime problem in Rio is a legitimate news story, it's not pretend.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 07:20 PM
Aug 2016

Lochte took advantage of this to frame his lie. His fabricated story sounded plausible, I don't understand why you think he should have been "ripped" prior to being exposed..

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
156. "Lochte took advantage of this to frame his lie."
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 07:34 PM
Aug 2016

And that is what this whole thread is about. He was given the benefit of the doubt where had this happened to someone like his team mate Simone Manuel, would she have been believed unequivocally?

You might immediate assume "yes". But centuries of observing past practices and the numbers of dead unarmed black people, would establish otherwise.

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
88. No
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:16 PM
Aug 2016

No examples of the term 'youthful prank' being used have appeared in the thread. That is what you said happened, and it did not.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
99. Read my post again
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:40 PM
Aug 2016

and find where I reference anything other than an example of the OP's topic of "white privilege". I even later give examples of "disparate" responses to similar behaviors between groups. But it's obvious that you want to salve your insistence that the concept doesn't exist.

mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
60. lapse in judgement
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:07 PM
Aug 2016
https://twitter.com/ABC/status/766466242261778432/photo/1



On a radio interview, I heard the USOC described how wonderful the athletes are and how we should focus on that instead of just 1 incident out of their lives.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
84. Keep reading the thread as other examples are added
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:14 PM
Aug 2016

and keep changing those goal posts to satisfy the denial. And as a note, for you to reach out and take it as a personal affront to yourself rather than accept that there are those who do embrace white privilege, seems curious.

Ace Rothstein

(3,160 posts)
91. Sorry that the premise of the OP does not match with reality.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:22 PM
Aug 2016

Very few people ripped Douglas and very few people are making excuses for Lochte.

And the goalpost was "youthful prank". The goalpost is still there.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
115. it proves OP's point
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 02:18 PM
Aug 2016

one example based in a reality that white kids and idiots like lockte get a pass, with words like "mistake", ect ect when he is actually a thug.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
119. lockte and the others
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 02:54 PM
Aug 2016

Last edited Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:01 AM - Edit history (1)

are thugs....period. They should lose their medals and be sent home in shame. They have provided the world with a perfect example of american privilege related to skin color. If these had been black athletes, 24/7, videos and searches into their backgrounds for any other indiscretions, along with thug urbanite thrown around as an incitement, how shameful to the american ideal they are ect. ect....... and would be on their way home sans medals PERIOD!!!! No matter what excuses you're dredging up in defense of these thuggish clowns, OP is correct.

Ace Rothstein

(3,160 posts)
121. Nah, they can keep their medals. What they did had nothing to do with their events.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 03:01 PM
Aug 2016

I wouldn't have any issue with them being left off the Olympic team going forward though.

I also never made any excuses for these guys. They behaved badly and deserve all the shame they are receiving which is why the OP is wrong.

Ace Rothstein

(3,160 posts)
141. Two wrongs don't make a right.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 06:23 PM
Aug 2016

Smith and Carlos should NOT have been stripped of their medals. The USOC should have left the games when they were.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
152. Yet these types of disparate responses continue.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 07:19 PM
Aug 2016
http://www.si.com/tennis/2015/07/14/serena-williams-body-image-wta-tennis

It is the constant barrage of negativity, loathing, and accusations for seemingly innocuous things - as was noted in this OP regarding Gabby Douglas, that is generally hurled at clearly superior athletes of color.

Ace Rothstein

(3,160 posts)
155. Again, 99.9% of the responses regarding Lochte are that he is a lying asshole.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 07:33 PM
Aug 2016

And that he embarrassed not only himself but his country as well.

Chitown Kev

(2,197 posts)
162. But you must admit
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 08:02 PM
Aug 2016

the Brazilian police (and Rio's police especially) do have a bit of a reputation for corruption and there are other crimes that HAVE taken place at these Olympic Games.

The story was initially plausible (even though I had my doubts...no police report, Lochte kept his cell phone, etc.).

No doubt, Lochte is using white privilege, here.

He is also being pretty roundly condemned on social media as a lying, stupid asshole.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
164. I went to a college
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 08:20 PM
Aug 2016

(UMASS/Amherst) with 25,000 students and only 400 blacks. I have seen what it gets like when there are drunken parties - and no, it's not just "frat parties". And the fact that early on in the "story", it was mentioned that they had been out partying, yet that still raised few red flags, and one might ask "why"? Yet let young black adults "party" and the accusations of "wilding" would have started immediately.

There have been quadrennial stories about the "parties" in and outside of the Olympic Village. But it seems this incident fed into the hyper-negative reporting about the city in general, which was suddenly transformed from the exotic "Girl from Ipanema" and bawdy "Carnivale" personas, to a somewhat distorted cesspool of crime "reality". Nothing has really changed about the city or that country except when this particular interaction occurred during a major international event, yet it will apparently become an excuse for all sorts of things apparently.

Chitown Kev

(2,197 posts)
177. I read a lot of sports blogs
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:44 PM
Aug 2016

where Lochte is basically being read the riot act (for the most part) and even early in the story before the lies came to the forefront, a lot of people speculated that there was something that was going unsaid (mainly that the group of swimmers were trying to buy prostitutes)

And to be fair, there have been a couple of other instances of crime against Olympians that have made the press...this simply became a high profile one because they were Americans...

A lot of people also wondered why would Lochte tell his mother without filing a police report and knew damn well that his mother can't hold water.

 

Grey Lemercier

(1,429 posts)
189. hard to rip someone as a lying asshole until it is shown they lied
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 02:00 AM
Aug 2016

I might add that you seem to lack knowledge on just how incredibly dangerous and violent almost every major Brasilian city is. I have been all over Brasil multiple times and Rio itself is levels beyond most other mega cities on the planet in terms of danger. I suggest you talk to actual Brasilians for enlightenment. Ask them about "lost bullets". We had one come through a window of a multi-million pound 11th floor flat during a party in Impanema. Posh neighbourhoods in Brasil do not insulate you from the tragic violence.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
194. OFFS
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:43 AM
Aug 2016
You seem to lack knowledge on how incredibly dangerous and violent every American city is. THIS country, where guns are legal and illegal guns are in proliferation.



Brazil essentially matches the rate of our own nation's capital.

This happened just a couple miles from where I live. I shouldn't have to list the homicide rates in the major U.S. cities that is oft-posted about here on DU, let alone tick off all the people caught in the crossfire.

I suggest you talk to some Americans and maybe open your eyes to our hypocrisy.
 

melman

(7,681 posts)
195. Every American city is incredibly dangerous and violent?
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:57 AM
Aug 2016

Every one of them? That's a ridiculous assertion.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
197. I guess you missed the data I posted
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 07:21 AM
Aug 2016

There's plenty of data out there. EVERY city in the world is "dangerous", and in the U.S., moreso because of our gun laws. Those who are born and raised in cities learn where to go and where not to go. But despite that, many are unlucky.

I live in a huge tourist city (Philadelphia) and as I drove home from work yesterday by Independence Hall, stuck behind a double-decker tourist bus and a "Ride the Ducks" filled with more tourists, just 3 blocks away, this happened overnight.

Welcome to America, in the birthplace of America.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
205. How silly
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 12:39 PM
Aug 2016

There is NOTHING "remotely close to Philadelphia in Brazil. NOTHING". See how that works?

The U.S. does not have tropical cities except in Hawai'i, so you will not see the poor jammed in "shanties" up and down mountains or open areas except in the warmer climes like California -



They are instead living in the subways that many of us use.



Or under bridges -

?w=625

So I suggest you take your fucking "finger wagging" elsewhere.

 

Grey Lemercier

(1,429 posts)
208. you simply are applying a sort of reverse American exceptionalism
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 01:12 PM
Aug 2016

There are no US cities where express kidnappings (taken at gunpoint from street or car to atm for forced withdrawl) are as common as they are in most every large Brasilian city. In Porto Allegre I have a dear friend who I have visited 4 times, in 3 cities, and she, like millions, lives in a middle class area (Class B in Brasilian nomenclature) and every single complex in her neighbourhood has gates and guards and yet still so many are robbed at gunpoint if they get out of their car too long when entering. I repeat, talk to average Brasilians, they will confirm what I posit. I have yet to meet one whose lives (either directly or via extended familial or friendship networks) has not been touched by potentially lethal situational violence. On my mother' side (Anglo/Bajan) I have relatives who moved decades ago to Florianopolis, in Santa Catarina state, which is arguably the most LGBTQ friendly of all Brasilian areas, very touristy, and the same applies there, although not to same level as a Rio, a Sao Paulo, a Natal, or a Salvador. It is simple another world compared to the US.

Rilgin

(787 posts)
182. Kind of like Lance Armstrong who you might agree is not black and
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:05 PM
Aug 2016

Here is a list of athletes stripped of olympic medals. You will note that it does not seem limited to only black athletes.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_stripped_Olympic_medals

With respect to the two stories and this OP. Yes someone reports that they were robbed to the media they are usually believed and usually torn to shreds when it turns out their story is not true. This seems independent of race and seems to be happening. And in any talked about event, there are people who have varying opinions on the event some paid and some with their own axe to grind. This OP is trying to present a picture that is just not true as to whether the dominant theme with respect to lacte is minor rather than ripping him one.

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
118. How is that any different from a racist saying
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 02:50 PM
Aug 2016

that one black kid commits a crime, so all black kids are thugs?

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
120. hey, not just racist
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 03:00 PM
Aug 2016

say stupid shit like that. OP is correct, this culture has come up with a litany of excuses ready made for white transgressors of the law, and just a couple for percieved 'thugs' who are brown skinned. I stoppedd being fooled about equality of races when it comes to american culture and attitudes of the dying majority a long time ago.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
39. It could simply be a recognition of a disproportional response rather than hate.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:04 AM
Aug 2016

It could simply be a recognition of a disproportional response rather than hate. However, I do realize we often deny consideration to that which we are unwilling to see... it's seems to be human nature to better stoke our little biases.

 

Taitertots

(7,745 posts)
57. "Disproportionate response" = not enough hate for Lochte
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:49 AM
Aug 2016

or are you suggesting that there is too much hate toward Gabby Douglas?

Or some combination of the two.

mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
64. more like
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:30 PM
Aug 2016

an over reaction for a minor perceived offense for Douglas and Lochtes actual crime explained away as a lapse in judgment.

2 white shot put winners did not have their hands over their heart, no reaction. At all.

The Lochte incident is creating a huge scandal between the US and Brazil, some lapse in judgement.

Ace Rothstein

(3,160 posts)
69. The majority think Lochte is a moron for his actions and that the Douglas incident was nothing.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:45 PM
Aug 2016

You're really blowing this out of proportion.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
110. lockte and others
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 02:10 PM
Aug 2016

are thugs and exhibited suburban thug mentality toward Brazillians. They should lose their medals and be sent home in shame.

 

Liberal_Stalwart71

(20,450 posts)
17. YES!! White guys behaving badly = "kids"; innocent 12-year old black kid playing with a toy gun...
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:31 AM
Aug 2016

"MAN"!!!

Again, if we look at our images of blacks continue to have an impact on how blacks are treated, double standards notwithstanding, I'm hoping that people will come to understand psychological racism.

mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
86. more like
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:15 PM
Aug 2016

32 old white man is called a kid. His mates were 26, 21 and 20 years old. Some kids. Even though I would call the 20 and 21 year olds young men.

 

Liberal_Stalwart71

(20,450 posts)
137. NO! If you're over 18, you are an adult, not a kid. You know the difference between right and
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 05:45 PM
Aug 2016

wrong.

No more excuses!

jmg257

(11,996 posts)
18. Just who is this "we"? I have a TON of issue with Lochte and NONE with Gabby (or the Shot Putters).
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:33 AM
Aug 2016

And I am a white male.


Who just happens have gown up when no one put their hands on their hearts during the national Anthem - it is not a pledge, or an oath after all. And as far as I know, making an 'offical' false statement has always been a crime.

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
19. First of all, it was some jackholes on Twitter
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:34 AM
Aug 2016

criticizing Gabby. If you get your public pulse from Twitter, you need to rethink your sources. The media and most of America adores her.

And how is it white privilege to be internationally humiliated, indicted, fined, and basically have to flee the country in disgrace? Not to mention the millions that will surely be lost on endorsements. You can also rest assured that bans are coming as well.

All of the above happened swiftly and they are universally reviled at this point.

How is that white privilege?

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
26. +1
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:45 AM
Aug 2016

The premise of this article is made up nonsense. The idea that the Lochte situation is be laughed off is just not even close to true.

 

jack_krass

(1,009 posts)
185. There is at least one of every kind of asshole on twitter (yes, that includes me)
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:13 PM
Aug 2016

That makes it the PERFECT place to go looking for outrage bait, which is EXACTLY what this author was after.

The2ndWheel

(7,947 posts)
21. Who is making excuses for Lochte?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:39 AM
Aug 2016

Did Rio spokesman Mario Andrada have anything to say about Douglas? The Lochte story is bigger than the Douglas one anyway, one that is an actual story, one that actually prompts a spokesman to come out and say whatever bullshit spokespeople are paid to come up with. Nobody but people on twitter care if Douglas puts her hand on her heart.

Nobody will remember Douglas not putting her hand on her heart, and Lochte will continue to be a joke for years, as he already has been for years. People have been calling him stupid for basically as long as we've known his name. He will now always be the guy that made up a story to get out of being a drunk dumbass with his friends at the Olympics. He will be the only one of the bunch remembered too, as the other guys will be forgotten. Nobody can probably even name them off the top of their heads today.

Ace Rothstein

(3,160 posts)
32. I've been overseas 8 times and nobody has ever treated me like an asshole.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:55 AM
Aug 2016

In fact when I went to the Netherlands, a group thought my friend and I were British. When they found out we were American, they bought us a round of beers then we proceeded to hang out with them for the rest of the night.

Cryptoad

(8,254 posts)
158. No,,,,
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 07:46 PM
Aug 2016

,,,,,only a shared observation from working and living overseas for over a decade. No need for you being rude.

Iggo

(47,549 posts)
34. No shit.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:59 AM
Aug 2016

I learned a while back, if everyone thinks I'm an asshole, I just might be an asshole.

 

cpwm17

(3,829 posts)
41. What the hell?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:05 AM
Aug 2016

Lochte is big news. Gabby Douglas is about about some nuts on the internet. You're way off.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
46. Rachel Maddow broke into her show to basically say these clowns....
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:16 AM
Aug 2016

.....had fostered an international incident.

I haven't heard a peep about Gabby on MSNBTrump all week.

Stop making stuff up. No one is defending this asshole. Laughing at him sure....to deflect the embarrassment he has wrought.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
49. Pretty much no one has villified Gabby Douglas
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:18 AM
Aug 2016

The vast vast vast majority of comments about Gabby Douglas have been extremely positive and supportive.

bullwinkle428

(20,629 posts)
62. The Gabby Douglas situation was trending on Facebook, so yeah, a
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:10 PM
Aug 2016

significant number of people were making a big deal of it.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
68. The big deal was in response to a very small number of comments
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:42 PM
Aug 2016

There was a much greater outpouring of support for her than anything negative.

She has gotten pretty much nothing but love, admiration, and respect from everyone but a few Twitter/Facebook trolls.

Lochte, on the other hand, is a national embarrassment and has been treated as such, pretty much universally.

 

Fast Walker 52

(7,723 posts)
51. First, I never saw anyone chastise Gabby about her hand placement
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:21 AM
Aug 2016

Second, clearly only fucking assholes would do that, and this article is smearing all white males ridiculously.

LovingA2andMI

(7,006 posts)
61. There was PLENTY of Harassment of Gabby.....
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:09 PM
Aug 2016

Obviously, you missed that....

RIO DE JANEIRO (AP) — The hope for one last trip to the Olympic medal podium gone when she stalled early in her routine during the uneven bars final on Sunday, Gabby Douglas decided to take a stand of a different kind.

Against the online criticism that's dogged the 2012 Olympic champion seemingly from the moment the gold medal was draped around her neck four years ago. Against the backlash on everything from her hair to her attitude. Against the bullying on social media that's left her staring down at her phone in disbelief too many times to count.

Douglas is over it. All of it.

Yes, her comeback didn't end quite the way she envisioned. Yet Douglas isn't second-guessing her decision even though she'll leave Rio with "only" a team gold, pushing her total to three spanning two games.

"In my head I pictured it a little bit differently," she said after finishing seventh in the uneven bars final. "You want to picture yourself being on top and doing amazing gymnastics."

At times Douglas did. She was second to teammate Simone Biles at the 2015 world championships and validated national team coordinator Martha Karolyi's choice to bring her to Rio by putting up the third-highest score in the all-around during qualifying before helping send Karolyi into retirement with a dominant performance in the team final.

The trouble with Douglas, however, is that gymnastics is typically only part of the story.

A small but vocal portion of Twitter lashed out when she was the only member of the "Final Five" to not place her hand over her heart during the playing of "The Star Spangled Banner." It grew louder during the all-around final when cameras caught her quietly sitting while the rest of Team USA cheered on Biles and Aly Raisman to a one-two finish.

"I apologize if that made me seem to be really mad in the stands," Douglas said. "I was supporting Aly. I will always will support them and respect them. I don't want anyone to take it as jealous or I wanted attention. Never. I support them and I'm sorry I wasn't showing it."

It followed a familiar pattern that's followed Douglas around since London, when she oddly found herself having to defend her hair minutes after becoming the first African-American woman to win the Olympic title.

"When they talk about my hair or not putting my hand over my heart or being very salty in the stands, really criticizing me ... for me it was really hurtful," Douglas said.

She later added: "Did I choose my hair texture? No. I'm grateful for having this hair on my head. When you read that hurtful stuff you're like 'OK, wow.'"

While Douglas tried to block it out, it hasn't been easy. She became a sensation in 2012, had her life story made into a TV movie, switched coaches three times and became the focal part of "Douglas Family Gold," a reality TV series executive produced in part by herself and her mother that focused on Douglas' bid to become the first repeat Olympic champion in nearly 50 years.

In a way, her final performance on the Olympic stage mimicked the last few years. She lost momentum early in her set and could have bailed. Instead she powered through it and nailed her dismount. Her score of 15.066 wasn't near the top three but she walked off the podium with a hug from coach Christian Gallardo and a smile.

"I wanted to finish on a stronger note," she said. "But fighting through that routine, you know what I was like, 'I'm just fighting through.'"

Perhaps for the last time as a competitor. Douglas will be a fixture on the post-Olympic barnstorming tour but is in no hurry to discuss her long-term future. She'll move from Columbus, Ohio — where she's been training the last two years — to be with her family in Los Angeles. It's been a long and occasionally bumpy ride. She's fine if it stops.

"When you go through a lot and you have so many difficulties and people against you sometimes, it kind of just determines your character," she said. "Are you going to stand or are you going to crumble? I have no regrets coming back for a second Olympic team. It's been an amazing experience. It's been teaching me a lot.

http://www.nbc26.com/sports/olympics/rio-2016/gabby-douglas-hurt-by-twitter-harassment"


 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
71. There was a huge outpouring of support and love directed at her in response to the Twitter/FB trolls
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:46 PM
Aug 2016

The morons who tweeted negative stuff about Gabby were attacked and shamed for their comments across social media and beyond.

Love4GabbyUSA become a popular hashtag.

She got major love from the MSM and numerous celebrities and other athletes.

Lochte has not and will not receive any such support (nor does he deserve to).

 

Fast Walker 52

(7,723 posts)
124. Yes, I missed it... I don't know why athletes pay attention to such assholes
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 03:30 PM
Aug 2016

Was it anyone in person or just on twitter? If the latter, they should really stay off twitter, or not read comments!

Rilgin

(787 posts)
191. Try reading your own article.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 03:23 AM
Aug 2016

In quotes "a small (EMPHASIS ON THIS WORD) but vocal portion of twitter". The problem with this whole thread is you are trying to read the word small, small but vocal, and twitter out of this and imply that all of mainstream society, all of the media, all white people have been endlessly dogging her.

Like all of twitter and most of online including this site, you find trolls and flamefests. On the other hand the Lochte story is all over the media. You will still find a small but vocal portion of the internet (emphais added) defending him but most of mainstream society, most of the media, and most white people are not defending him.

At the same time, his offense should be looked at proportionate to the crime of perjury and obstruction of justice. Further, I am not sure of the facts. It would only be an actual crime if he lied to authorities. It is not a crime to lie to the press and the american public. If a crime he should be punished, if not a crime he should be shamed but either way its not something that calls for the death penalty or life imprisonment. Because he is a celebrity and the issue is in the press now, he will receive quite a lot of shaming probably disproportionate to the actual crime or offense he committed. Because some things are not about race. Some things are about press need for sensationalism with celebrities.

LovingA2andMI

(7,006 posts)
202. Thank you but Reading is a Skill Us Black Folks Have....
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 10:38 AM
Aug 2016

Excelled in such, since the days of being deleted books and a right to an education - during the days of Slavery. #FYI....

Meanwhile, apologying for Ryan Locthe "Privilege" while Gabby Douglas WAS HARASSED for straight up BS similar to not placing her hand over her heart during a National Anthem that was NEVER meant for African-Americans and Her Hair Texture - is SO NOT A GOOD LOOK.

#FYI -- Again!

Rilgin

(787 posts)
215. You do know, I did not know your race or gender. I just read the article you posted.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 03:21 PM
Aug 2016

I did not know your race or gender and frankly still do not. I did read your article that you posted to prove your point that Gabby Douglas was harassed. Since you posted an AP story, I assume you were saying the harassment was universal and widespread by the media and much of American society. I read your article because it was not an internet post but an AP article so would seem germain to the thread. However, it said the opposite of what you were alleging. It only said that a "SMALL BUT VOCAL" number of twitter people criticized her.

I was in the mountains when both events occurred. However, currently, all I see is one story in the news and discussion. It is all about him and will be in the future. I currently see nothing criticizing her although I believe everyone on this thread that a "SMALL BUT VOCAL" twitter posters went after her for stupid stuff the first day. Since I was not connected, I have no idea how harassed she was. However, I did read your article saying it was a 'SMALL BUT VOCAL" number of twitter users. I am sure some idiots on right wing radio too. However, that was not your point or the reason you posted your article and is the problem with this thread. You posted this articl to try to proved that American Society used her race against her. The AP article said no such thing. It said a 'SMALL BUT VOCAL" number of twitter users. In the US a small but vocal number of people post all manner of stupid stuff on every subject imaginable especially about celebrities.

The problem with this thread is the assumption that all stupid stuff is about race, kind of like you thinking my post about your article related to some magical knowledge I have about your race or gender rather than reading an article that proves the opposite of your general argument.




LovingA2andMI

(7,006 posts)
216. So....
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 03:55 PM
Aug 2016

You try and justify your bias. TOTAL FAIL....Moment In Time....

"The problem with this thread is the assumption that all stupid stuff is about race, kind of like you thinking my post about your article related to some magical knowledge I have about your race or gender rather than reading an article that proves the opposite of your general argument."

Here, We Will Make It A Bit More Clear For Ya. Keyword: "Urban" Blog.

I.E. = We Are African-American....

Rilgin

(787 posts)
217. I have no idea what point you are making about your signature line.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:11 PM
Aug 2016

Besides not even understanding why you directed me to your signature line, I do not understand why you try to make this about a claim of my bias on an anonymous web site. Are you claiming that I know you outside of the internet or that my eyesight travels through the internet to determine your race or gender to address an article you posted which does not do what you said it does

Again the article that YOU posted does not criticize her itself. It also does not say the criticism was widespread. It says it was a small but vocal number of twitter users. The article could be wrong and every single American could have harassed her rather than a small but vocal number of people. I actually read the article because since it was being discussed on DU, I was curious how much harassment she was getting. However, reading the article seemed to indicate the opposite, that it was not widespread criticism.

Anyhow, enjoy yourself. And yes everyone who thinks you have a logical problem with an argument you post on the internet is biased and has a magical ability to know your race and gender. Seemingly, you are always right and everyone who responds to you unless nodding vigorously with your point is biased against you. Once again, despite kind of being interested in this thread, I regret both reading and posting. Its given me a sick feeling.

Skittles

(153,147 posts)
128. it's smearing white people
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 03:53 PM
Aug 2016

we're all privileged assholes, don'tcha know

this meme has become very tiresome

 

Vattel

(9,289 posts)
53. I see no evidence that Lochte is getting treated well by the media or social media.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:29 AM
Aug 2016

He has justifiably got plenty of criticism.

And yes, there are many assholes who use Twitter, and the stupid criticism of Douglas by some of those assholes illustrates that well-known fact.

To turn this into a white male privilege thing is really a stretch.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
63. I never vilified Douglas or jumped to Lochte's defense...
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:24 PM
Aug 2016

... when the supposed robbery story broke out.

After being on this site awhile, it's starting to make sense to me why some white people are leery of the Democratic party. I imagine that Appalachian people are wondering about that privilege they're receiving too.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
72. The only people with that combo of opinions
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:46 PM
Aug 2016

are probably Donald's base.

I could not give a hoot about the hand on chest thing. And I do not see how the girl was "destroyed." Young people these days use such extreme language.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
74. This article is idiotic
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 12:55 PM
Aug 2016

The response to Ryan Lochte is not what white, male privilege looks like.

Almost no one is saying the things that the OP claims, and almost everyone is saying the exact opposite (i.e. that Lochte is a national embarrassment).

Gabby Douglas has received an outpouring of love and support on social media, in the mainstream press, from athletes, from celebrities, and from bloggers who have rightfully jumped on the idiots who gave Gabby flack for stupid reasons.

Lochte has received an outpouring of criticism and indignation for his behavior. He has quite literally become a national joke, who will be losing millions of dollars worth of endorsements, while Gabby appears on cereal boxes and has dolls being made in her image (both of which are totally deserved).

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
96. It's straight out of Bizarro World
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:33 PM
Aug 2016

What the OP claims is happening is demonstrably not happening, but people will just keep insisting that is because they want it to be so.

Takket

(21,558 posts)
77. This article is 50% correct.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:00 PM
Aug 2016

The Douglas situation is disgusting. she has been treated awfully.

But to say Lochte is somehow skating by on white privilege is simply not true. They cherry picked an NPR article with a quote from a Rio spokesperson. Good on them for pointing out that stupid comment, but the idea that youthful indiscretion is how this is being painted in the public eye is simply not the truth. Been listening to many sports talk shows discussing this issue and everyone is pointing out that Lochte is 32 and, frankly, an idiot. I have heard him described as a "disgrace" for embarrassing the country he is supposed to represent.

And NO ONE is "laughing" about all this.

Here is an editorial saying Lochte "embarrasses America"

http://www.sandiegouniontribune.com/news/2016/aug/18/how-ryan-lochte-embarrasses-america/

Here is one saying Lochte is a showcase for "showcase for the Ugly American"

http://www.miamiherald.com/sports/olympics/article96582797.html

If anyone can find an opinion piece of editorial out there from a reputable news source saying we should just "laugh at this" or "boys will be boys", feel free to post it here.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
93. Mario Andrata: "Let's give these kids a break."
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:25 PM
Aug 2016
The police clarification comes as the case has generated new and conflicting details — and, particularly in Brazil, accusations online that Lochte is a liar. But even as new details emerged in recent days, Rio 2016 spokesman Mario Andrada downplayed the case's significance at a briefing Thursday morning.

"Let's give these kids a break. Sometimes you take actions that you later regret. They are magnificent athletes," Andrada said. "Lochte is one of the best swimmers of all times. They had fun. They made a mistake. It's part of life. Life goes on. Let's go."

http://www.npr.org/sections/thetorch/2016/08/18/490491448/rio-official-on-lochtegate-lets-give-these-kids-a-break

DinahMoeHum

(21,783 posts)
80. "There Is No Sin Below The Equator"
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:08 PM
Aug 2016

Dave Zirin stated this European/American attitude re Brazil on today's broadcast of Democracy Now:

http://www.democracynow.org/2016/8/19/dave_zirin_brazilians_are_fed_up

(snip)
to have Ryan Lochte and friends literally and figuratively urinate all over . . . and also be the kind of stereotype of the ugly American who believes there is no sin below the equator, who exploits people’s biggest stereotypes about Rio and crime, and attempts to leverage the fact that they’re wealthy and white and Olympians and could somehow just blame it on the brown people, get on a plane and go home, what it manages to do is touch every nerve in Brazilian society right now and create a kind of bizarre unity of Brazilians, who are saying, "Wait a minute, we deserve a lot better than this for the effort that we have put in to staging these Games under unendurable circumstances."
(snip)

That expression is also a chapter in his book Brazil's Dance With The Devil

romanic

(2,841 posts)
103. Put away the purity test.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:47 PM
Aug 2016

I don't see anyone except a few media folks "laughing" at Lochte and the other guys for thier stupid lie. This article is bullshit meant to stir the pot of discussions that fizzle and go nowhere.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
106. Are you on the right site?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:53 PM
Aug 2016

That term is clearly used by RW hoods who prefer a Eurocentric world and don't value diversity.

romanic

(2,841 posts)
125. Yeah I am.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 03:47 PM
Aug 2016

Is there a list of terms not allowed here? Please show me, im sure you have plenty of free time on your hands.

Response to BumRushDaShow (Reply #106)

Skittles

(153,147 posts)
132. we are on the LEFT SITE
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 04:19 PM
Aug 2016

the one that expects examples that REFLECT REALITY

that OP is WAYYYYY off in its assessment

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
139. One would think the liberal position would be judging people individually on their own merits
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 06:14 PM
Aug 2016

and not arbitrarily defining people based on something they have no control over.

I think there's a word for that latter position...

Skittles

(153,147 posts)
140. it's just pitiful
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 06:20 PM
Aug 2016

some racist losers trash Gabby, and somehow that is used to trash white guys in general

yes there is a word for that: STEREOTYPING

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
145. No one is "trash(ing) white guys in general"
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 06:57 PM
Aug 2016

If you feel that discussion about those who engage in certain expressions of privilege when caught participating in raucous behavior, hits home, then yes you are being trashed. If not, then why contort yourself to force-fit this discussion to mean you?

It's one of those "if the shoe fits, wear it". If it don't fit, then we must acquit.

Skittles

(153,147 posts)
147. bullshit
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 07:02 PM
Aug 2016

it happens all the time on DU - white people are trashed in general for a what racist assholes do and say - it is STEREOTYPING

who exactly is the WE in the article's title? That article is CRAP

THIS ONE reflects reality

https://www.washingtonpost.com/sports/olympics/ryan-lochte-a-champion-swimmer-caught-in-a-riptide-of-self-absorption/2016/08/18/673d9bdc-6540-11e6-96c0-37533479f3f5_story.html

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
149. Yet there are white people on DU who don't see it as that at all
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 07:08 PM
Aug 2016

Again - if the shoe fits, wear it. If "you" (or one) are (is) not engaged in the type of behavior being described, then it is not "you" (or one) who is the problem.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
169. Poor white folks.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 09:23 PM
Aug 2016

Always stereotyped. So oppressed. Glad to see you defending the poor stereotyped white folks. No need to clean up white privilege or racism since it is not EVERY SINGLE WHITE PERSON on earth who is racist. Best to just ignore it so as to not offend those poor oppressed white folks.

I LAUGH and LAUGH at this DESPERATE defense of white supremacy every time I read an IMPASSIONED post about how oppressed white folks are by being stereotyped, and the fact that we cannot mention that they do the most stereotyping of any folks on EARTH. shhh. better not mention it. Might upset you. Because NOT ALL OF THEM do the most stereotyping.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
172. "since it is not EVERY SINGLE WHITE PERSON on earth who is racist"
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:03 PM
Aug 2016

"And some I assume are good people."

Response to romanic (Reply #103)

 

jack_krass

(1,009 posts)
97. Nothing like cherry picking events to portray your own version of reality....
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:35 PM
Aug 2016

Objectively:

-Lots of people condemned Lochte, (rightly so)

-Very few people "vilified" Douglass, almost every news feed, tweet, and post I've seen defended her from the one or two Yahoo's who did criticiZed her.

You are trying to invert these objecitve realities to push whatever agenda it is your trying to push (all white men are evil?), But it's a pitiful failure, and I see right through it.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
104. typical
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:48 PM
Aug 2016

but you are right.....one has brown skin and the others are bearers of white skin. Instant fucking privilege and a pass for behavior. America never took AA to heart, so why the big blowup about the placing of a hand. To the so-called "cherrypicking" by a poster.....please, your motives are showing.....

 

jack_krass

(1,009 posts)
180. Yes, Cherry picking....
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:52 PM
Aug 2016

A common tactic among those who thrive on perpetual manufactured social outrage. In this case:

A) Find one or two racist anonymous internet trolls dissing Gabby

B) interpreting this as "everybody is condemning Gabby"

C) and therefore all white men are evil.

Rinse lather repeat

Chitown Kev

(2,197 posts)
105. I think that the only people that were offended
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 01:51 PM
Aug 2016

by Gabby Douglas were out and out racists and they were LOUD and posted frequently spamming the bullshit.

Ryan Lochte is already seem as being a bit of a dumb ass and most people (from what I have seen) have been condemning him...there is no universal (white v. black) reaction to these things...granted that the white privilege issues in play do need to be discussed but there s no universal "white vs. black reaction" to this.

Response to mercuryblues (Original post)

Skittles

(153,147 posts)
126. who the FUCK is laughing at Lochte?
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 03:48 PM
Aug 2016

in a previous post I said he is a DISGRACE to himself AND his country - STOP ACTING LIKE ALL WHITE PEOPLE ARE EVIL - IT MAKES YOU LOOK SILLY

mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
163. no it is making you look silly
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 08:09 PM
Aug 2016

because that is not what is being said. Douglas doesn't put her hand over her heart she was called disrespectful, un-patriotic and so on.

as for lochte he gets funny memes for a crime and causing an international kerfuffle..

http://coed.com/2016/08/18/ryan-lochte-memes-funny-photos-best-images-tweets-jokes/

http://uproxx.com/sports/ryan-lochte-robbery-rio-olympics-2016/3/

mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
171. oh FFS
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 09:38 PM
Aug 2016

Yes, he is being laughed at for breaking the law, lying and creating an international incident. While Gabby was called vile names. You see that is exactly the point. Laughing and mocking him, not called unpatriotic, not disrespectful, not angry, not militant and so on; while Douglas was raked over the coals.

Are you aware that 2 shot put medals winners did not put their hand over their heart while the anthem was played? Nothing said

Takket

(21,558 posts)
175. she was raked over the coals by a few idiots, but the vast majority of social media lifted her up
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:36 PM
Aug 2016

Last edited Fri Aug 19, 2016, 11:16 PM - Edit history (1)

http://sports.yahoo.com/news/how-social-media-outpouring-lifted-up-gabby-douglas-during-olympics-034705395.html

Meanwhile Lochte is widely being regraded as a disgrace to America.

your assertion that Lochte is coming out of this with a better result that Douglas because of white privilege is simply not true.

BumRushDaShow

(128,844 posts)
196. He committed an actual crime
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 07:08 AM
Aug 2016

along with his compatriots - destroying property. And that should have the negative response.

Meanwhile, she did not commit any legal infraction unless you believe that there are fascist laws in place that require Ms. Douglas to cover her heart with her hand or style her hair according to white beauty standards. And because of the proliferation and magnification of "social media", something that millennials like her utilize as "their media", then the pain was swift and direct. The so-called "few idiots" banked on the nature of social media having their views "go viral", and that initial pain is hard to throw, despite the eventual "lifting up" on self-same media. The problem being that "traditional media" continues to be slow to condemn what should never have been considered an "infraction" in our society. It is not unlike the ugliness thrown out there about the Williams sisters and their physiques. Disparate responses.

mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
198. not with a better result
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 07:37 AM
Aug 2016

people are joking about crimes he committed which created an international incident. While Douglas was bullied for not putting her hand over her heart. It is the reaction to the different scenarios.

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
209. Looks like the NY Post didn't get the memo
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 01:16 PM
Aug 2016

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If the New York Post is calling him the Ugly American, then you know your premise is BS.


And it is.

 

workinclasszero

(28,270 posts)
130. Poor Gabby does something most americans would do
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 04:00 PM
Aug 2016

inadvertently and is vilified by white racist radio and republicans.

White blond drunk out of his mind frat boy destroys someones property in a foreign country while repping the USA.
Lies about it and slanders that country and its people and....

Hey boys will be boys you know?

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
167. With Lochte, people don't have all the information
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 08:58 PM
Aug 2016

For the first 24 hours, there was reports he was the victim of a robbery. Then we don't know what to believe. The news is cycling.

Gabby is being attacked mostly by internet trolls on social media.

Im sorry but this is not the same situation.

 

HassleCat

(6,409 posts)
178. Sports and patriotism
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:46 PM
Aug 2016

I know some sports fans who seem to believe sports, particularly football, are somehow patriotic, and being a rabid football fan is just like serving in the military.

 

JackRiddler

(24,979 posts)
181. False premise: That there is one "we" here.
Fri Aug 19, 2016, 10:54 PM
Aug 2016

I certainly would never criticize anyone for failing to meet some fanatic standard of participation in meaningless nationalist rituals, let alone a young black woman. She can sit down during the national anthem for all I care, I certainly have done the same.

The false premise is that the same group vilifies Douglas but makes excuses for the Drunken Swimteam Rowdies. I say these are two separate groups of respondents. The Douglas attackers are stupid concern trolls and a minority.

As for making excuses for the rowdy men, whatever. They were stupid, but they really complicated things with their lies. That was their main transgression by far. They should have just taken the rap up front.

But is it a national embarrassment? Hardly. They don't represent all Americans, no one does and that shouldn't be the role of athletes who actually compete as individuals.

Drunken men being stupid vandals breaking a bathroom door when they want to piss -- all too common and not to be excused. But if they had not made up a vile story about Brazilian muggers, if they had spent their night in jail and then left, it would have been forgivable and totally forgettable. That's where they attempted to make use of their white American privilege. IN this case, for a change, it backfired!

calimary

(81,212 posts)
188. Hah! Double standard much?
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 01:40 AM
Aug 2016

What a stupid nitpick to sling at her.

Meanwhile he's a frickin' hoodlum acting like a spoiled frat boy out making drunken mischief with his equally rowdy younger teammates. And THEY wind up creating an international incident, pissing in public not only on the exterior walls of a local gas station bit on the reputation of the entire US Olympic team. And hers is the greater offense?

"Boys will be boys"??? Well, MAYBE... IF they're 8 or 9 years old or some such. NO excuse for 20-somethings and a 32-year-old - especially one with 6.2 million bucks in bigtime commercial endorsements and his own black Rolls Royce parked outside.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
203. "We." LOL
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 11:18 AM
Aug 2016

I couldn't care less about the hand placement (or the hair), and think Lochte and his little buddies should be nailed to the wall.

If people need assholes on social media to further their belief system (like FUX viewers lapping up the propaganda), so be it. But attributing what a few assholes say to a group as a whole is pretty fucking dumb.

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