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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsShould students be required to recite the Pledge of Allegiance & hold hand over heart?
Fox News is all over this story, so please excuse the source. I'm more interested in people's opinions here. Do you think it should be mandatory for students to participate in the Pledge of Allegiance, and should holding their hand over their heart be encouraged? Should children be able to excuse themselves from reciting the pledge, rather than having parents sign a waiver?
It read: I understand my rights as a parent and I request that my child, noted above, be excused from reciting the Pledge of Allegiance. This request includes standing and placing his/her right hand over his/her heart.
My niece brought this home from school today What is happening to our country?!? he said in (a Facebook) post.
Brienens sister-in-law returned the form with her daughter, writing the following in response: This is the dumbest thing I have ever read and I am so ashamed of this.
http://myfox8.com/2016/08/22/florida-school-sends-home-pledge-of-allegiance-waiver/
Glorfindel
(9,726 posts)The thing was silly enough before "under God" was added to it, an addition I remember very well indeed. It's nothing but secular idolatry, and no one should be required to recite it.
unblock
(52,196 posts)it's an obvious violation of free speech.
it actually has nothing to do with the "under god" part, which didn't get put in until 1954 (although that would be its own problem as well).
the pledge is a pledge to a *flag*, symbol, thus presenting a problem for jehovah's witnesses.
villager
(26,001 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)What effect does it really have? Things said by rote do not mean we are really believing them.
relayerbob
(6,544 posts)I stopped in the 7th grade in protest of the Vietnam War (I lived on a military base) and never was challenged once. I'm sick of chickenhawks trying to force feed their brand of hypocrisy down everyone's throats. Likely I would've been in more trouble when I tore that note up and threw it in the trash can, had someone tried to pull that crap on me
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)As a standard practice in primary schools, it seems benign at worst; and allowing for an opt-out seems an appropriate reponse (though I predicate this on the original Pledge rather than the new & improved, tastes great, less filling Pledge edited to more effectively smack the dirty, godless Commies down).
Angry Dragon
(36,693 posts)it was dropped after the Nazis used it in their pledge
tonyt53
(5,737 posts)Those two words "under God" were added for political reasons as this country was still recovering from WWII and entering the Cold War with the USSR. If that "Florida man" doesn't understand that, then he didn't learn much in school. What is happening to our country is that people have had enough of the religions of others being pushed upon them. I am a Christian and find the actions of people like that guy to be messed up.
I was flipping channels a few nights ago and on one of the church channels were a couple of guys talking about how religion shaped out country. More to the point, how Christianity was embedded in our Constitution. Those two were making stuff up and passing it along as fact. Another example of people not learning much in school. it bother me to no end how people are so concerned about children learning about God and religion in school, but neglecting to accept that it is the parents responsibility to take their kids to church and Sunday School.
The words of that guy are the dumbest thing I have ever read and I an ashamed that he lives in the US.
sinkingfeeling
(51,445 posts)gratuitous
(82,849 posts)Did Florida man think it was dumb because he knows the Supreme Court ruled on this in 1943, and he's appalled that 73 years later some school administrators still haven't figured it out? Or does he think it's dumb that some people might choose to opt out of a meaningless gesture of ersatz patriotism that's near and dear to his mean little heart?
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Ms. Toad
(34,062 posts)"I was shocked when I saw the waiver because it comes across as if schools are now promoting the opt out in some sense. Just because it's a law, doesn't make it right. Laws are passed all the time where people are unaware. My hope is that this post brings attention to people so that maybe the same policy to send out the waivers doesn't pass in another state. Sadly, our American values and traditions are whittling away...What's next? No American flags in schools?? Will future Presidents (Republican or Democrat) be forced to quit saying "God Bless America" at the end of his/her speeches?
And for those few ignorants that believe wars are fought for the right to protest the pledge, I'd like to see those people go to a VFW or American Legion meeting and when the pledge is started, stand up and tell them that...good luck with that."
(From his facebook page)
gratuitous
(82,849 posts)I just wanted to give Florida man the benefit of the doubt. It never works out.
In Florida, as I understand it, the student can be required to stand during the Pledge but cannot be required to say it.
True story: during my youngest's junior year in HS, the principal had a patriotism push. The well-meaning but really tone deaf TV production students produced a "stand and say the Pledge" video that acted out scenarios where kids were bullied and shamed if they didn't. This during a highly publicized "no bullying" campaign.
Son was horrified by the video and from that moment, refused to stand for the pledge. SO, who works at that school, and I supported his stance. SO got complaints from a few teachers but most just let him be. Once SO explained why son was doing this, they left him alone too.
Forced patriotism is not patriotism.
La Lioness Priyanka
(53,866 posts)prairierose
(2,145 posts)milestogo
(16,829 posts)and sing the Star Spangled Banner at recess.
trof
(54,256 posts)Stonepounder
(4,033 posts)while coming down a flight of stairs.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)it's intrinsically fascist. We are a free citizens, and our nation belongs to us, not us to it.
Eminent domain.
Child protective services.
Mandatory K-12 with mandatory vaccinations in order to not break the law.
Taxes.
Draft/registration.
And that's not the more extremist views on how to restrict, limit, abolish various amendments or impose confiscatory types of income and wealth taxes.
In many cases, your person, your family, your property, your income is considered to belong to "we the people," which effectively means "the state." If you disagree, nice federal marshals or FBI agents will show up with guns to enforce our freedoms.
Most of this will be decreed to be just and right given what the state does for us. Therefore, it must reason, we should owe our allegiance and fealty to the state.
Oddly, the pledge is something that isn't included in this. It's just words, not substance, and that we can object to as Really Important. Substance, not so important. We're post-enlightenment, post-modernist.
Whether you think all those restrictions and requirements are good or bad, saying that "the nation belongs to us" only works if you happen to be in the majority on a whole host of issues. For many of those, there is no actual majority.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)that only imaginary libertarian paradises would not be fascist states. When we protect children from being beaten to death by their parents, we are not protecting the state's investment in a future worker, we are protecting the child.
But, let's not argue this one, shall we--not?
LuvNewcastle
(16,844 posts)If a student does not want to do the pledge for whatever reason they wish, they should not be compelled to do so. A lot of teachers have problems with it too, and don't even mention it in class. I only had one or two teachers in public school who did the pledge. Most teachers obviously thought it was a waste of valuable class time.
cyberswede
(26,117 posts)csziggy
(34,136 posts)But being a bit shy about things and knowing that my parents wouldn't back me up, I would simply stand in the classroom with the other students and not say anything. A boy who was Jehovah's Witness made a big deal out of leaving the classroom anytime something was happening that his religion forbid. That provided some cover for someone who was literally silently objecting.
I still don't ever recite the pledge of allegiance, or sing in groups (no one would WANT me to!) or say prayers of any kind.
KG
(28,751 posts)Exilednight
(9,359 posts)Because it is proven that kids who learn cursive do better. The act of cursive writing is technically a form of art. Spacial, shape and orientation are technical aspects of art.
libdem4life
(13,877 posts)foreign language.
Not only was cursive handwriting considered archaic, I was near apoplectic when they required my son to write "papers" on the computer and to use Spell Check before submitting, thus he never had a spelling class. (California in the 90s)
Fortunately I had taught him phonics before he went to 1st grade, because that was considered archaic, as well. I think they've gone back to that, somewhat.
Then they said he needed to bring a calculator to class before he had learned basic "old fashioned" math. I remedied that, and he scored exceptionally high in math.
Oh, and he never did a book report...ever. I asked his 5th grade teacher about it and he said they just don't do that anymore. they were just so busy. He never learned the love of reading for pleasure.
Also, No Homework. WTF??? Too much time to check.
As to the Pledge, I come from a time when it was sheer respect. Not mandatory, not argued over...just respect paid for a free country. No more, no less. Kind of like waving to your neighbor. In my classroom, we did it every day...routine, not a mandate...like a prayer before the sermon, or something like that. Just what happened.
Same with homework. If nothing else, it helps interested parents to contribute to their child's education.
There was also a time when no man wore a hat inside. It was considered respectful to whatever or wherever he was. It's not a coincidence that soldiers remove their hats and place them on their hearts.
Time marches on and changes happen. Some for the better, some not.
hunter
(38,310 posts)First we were Jehovah Witnesses, then we were Quaker.
My mom got kicked out of the Witnesses because she couldn't stay out of politics.
WillowTree
(5,325 posts)July
(4,750 posts)I can't remember the case name, but IIRC, they ruled that a child may not be compelled to stand, change position, bow the head, etc.
Doesn't stop teachers and principals from either booting kids from the room, thereby singling them out, or forcing them to stand. It would take a very few minutes for these professionals to learn about the decisions made by the Supreme Court on this topic.
As you may surmise, I am against requiring those who opt out for any reason to participate in any way.
WillowTree
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WillowTree
(5,325 posts)Just to be respectful while others who choose to, do.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)But having been an Atheist 9 year old who would mumble shit like "Under Bob", I highly doubt that it's the non-pledge sayers who are causing any ruckus around this.
Dr. Strange
(25,919 posts)Do you think Bob approves of your behavior? I bet he doesn't. Your actions are, in fact, quite unBobly.
Evil Bobless heathen!
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)avebury
(10,952 posts)Imagine a President Trump. No way in hell I would stand up and recite the Pledge of Allegience under a Trump admnistration which will be Hitler V. 2.0.
Nor do I participate when someone offers a prayer at some function in the State Agency that I work for.
Separation of church and state - what on earth is that in a red state.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)why should the minority children stand or the atheist children stand respectfully for a nation that has treated them most foul? people should be respected and free to not participate in phony patriotism. This Country has work to do in respecting all citizens equally, so, I think no one should pledge until we have full equality here, anything less is jut plain rude to those who are not treated as a part of this nation.
Person 2713
(3,263 posts)Hades forbid it's true
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I would say no, it's the values enshrined in its foundational documents.
Starting with this one:
July
(4,750 posts)"respect for the ountry" is a cop-out. We supposedly have freedom of conscience. Even if we do support the ideals of the constitution, we are not compelled to psrticipate in nationalistic rituals.
trof
(54,256 posts)WillowTree
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ForgoTheConsequence
(4,868 posts)What a well thought out and reasonable position.
July
(4,750 posts)hunter
(38,310 posts)It added immensely to my reputation as a weird kid, which I was.
But whose shit-list would you rather be on?
Patriotic U.S. America, or GOD?
Life in the U.S.A. is a temporary and frequently accidental situation. But GOD is forever.
I don't remember choosing to be born in California to a religiously insane pacifist mom, but it made me very resistant to vapid and utterly empty displays of patriotism.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)kskiska
(27,045 posts)This is from a 1940 Associated Press article
Adopt New Salute in Pledge to Flag - Pittsburgh (AP)1940
Because of complaints from parents and patriotic societies that the outstretched arm salute duplicated the salute of dictator nations, Pittsburgh public school children have abandoned that gesture in pledging allegiance to the stars and stripes.
Dr. E.A. Dimmick, associate superintendent of schools, said a semi-military salute, with the right hand held to the forehead above the right eye, has been adopted as the standard form.
matt819
(10,749 posts)Do government officialsxsndvtroopscreat their oaths to protect an defend the constitution every day?
Do you repeat your marriage how's every day?
Do doctors repeat their Hippocratic oath every day?
There's no reason to repeat the pledge of allegiance every day. Or at sll, for that matter.
leftyladyfrommo
(18,868 posts)and I think we said the Pledge of Allegiance every morning before school started. I don't think we said any prayers.
I don't think it hurt me.
milestogo
(16,829 posts)Its very patriotic.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)either.
LWolf
(46,179 posts)I'm a teacher, and I do not do either. I DO, though, stand quietly. If I didn't, I'd be "counseled," and later, if I didn't shape up, written up. I don't think that should be okay, either.
BSdetect
(8,998 posts)We had to pledge allegiance for citizenship that includes a references to a superstitious (non)entity called "god". So ridiculous. This country is allowing that when its supposed to be separate church and state?
Who do they think they are fooling?
Grey
(1,581 posts)Xolodno
(6,390 posts)1. Free Speech.
2. Religion - as some religions consider this idol worship.
Aside from that, forced patriotism is so very Nazi/Stalinist. Is has no business in a free country.
JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)I actually saw this happen at a Parent-Teacher fund raising event at my kid's elementary school a few years back.
At the start, they asked all the parents to say the Pledge. So we all get up and start saying it. No big deal, right.
But then, a small group of the parents, maybe 8-10 of them up in the front ... screamed "UNDER GOD" when we all reached that part of the Pledge. It was clearly something they'd planned.
It was one of the most ridiculous things I'd ever seen a parent do in an elementary school, and I've seen lots of ridiculous parent behavior over they years.
When the pledge was over, those parents were all very very excited, and very proud of themselves.
At the same time, just loud enough for those around me to hear it ... I said, "I guess they think their all powerful God is hard of hearing."
Which resulted in a wave of giggles and chuckles that rippled forward, as people heard and repeated what I said. By the time the chuckles reached those parents, and they heard why people were laughing, their happy faces turned to angry scowls as they then scanned the crowed for the evil one who dared blaspheme.
It was a glorious evening.
Chemisse
(30,809 posts)I hope they felt ridiculous - because they were.
JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)The same parents who hate the idea of kid's "opting out" of the Pledge, are the same parents who are THRILLED that they can "opt out" their kids out of sex education classes too.
And the same fools, who generally hate public school teachers, want those same teachers to be required to teach their kids religion in science class.
Crack pots.
gopiscrap
(23,756 posts)Xolodno
(6,390 posts)A story from the Bible has Elijah taunting a bunch of prophets of Baal, telling them to pray louder, maybe your god is sleeping.
And of course, there is Christ who says, don't be a hypocrite and practice your piety in public.
JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)I think for these folks ... the Pledge ... and the UNDER GOD part ... are nothing more than public displays of piety intended to demonstrate the moral superiority of these fine upstanding Christian patriots.
True Dough
(17,302 posts)You'll want to catch the exciting conclusion!
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)But aside from that, completely omnipotent.
Buckeye_Democrat
(14,853 posts)I wish it wasn't a common practice because it's about as meaningful as flag lapels and "freedom fries."
I'm not surprised at all that FOX News would cover it. It's their typical superficial "rah rah" BS like the supposed war on Christmas.
CharlotteVale
(2,717 posts)KG
(28,751 posts)bigwillq
(72,790 posts)surrealAmerican
(11,360 posts)If it's so important to their parents, they can recite it at home.
Oneironaut
(5,492 posts)Our loyalty should be to freedom and American ideals that promote the greater good. The pledge of allegiance is soulless. I would prefer a pledge to live and die by the principles of free will, autonomy, and free speech. You would not be required to say it, however (otherwise, that would be almost comical in its hypocrisy).
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)as well.
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True Dough
(17,302 posts)were Canadian. I live north of the border.
Laffy Kat
(16,377 posts)I stopped for a while in school after the My Lia massacre photos came out. Got in trouble. They called my parents. My parents told them to leave me alone, that I was hurting.
Kali
(55,007 posts)I would have no problem if it was banned from public events altogether. right after prayers are banned. ant THAT needs to be done immediately. I don't go to school, public, or government functions to pray.
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True Dough
(17,302 posts)I don't want to be reactionary, but I do want to be sure what your intent is.
dlwickham
(3,316 posts)did they mention that?
JonathanRackham
(1,604 posts)But why is the uncle sticking his nose in?
liberal N proud
(60,334 posts)MyOwnPeace
(16,925 posts)Why do we have to do the National Anthem at the beginning of EVERY sporting event?
(INCOMING!!!!!)
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)than forcing recitation of a loyalty oath?
Short answer, no- and they can't be. Period. End of discussion.
bhikkhu
(10,715 posts)My sticking point was, first, the "under god" line. How can you go through the motions without being a hypocrite? And if the government forces you to be a hypocrite, what does that say about our alleged Freedom?
My second sticking point is the notion of heart-felt allegiance to a national entity. I do appreciate many things about our country, and objectively I wouldn't have a problem with saying we have a great country...but nevertheless I reserve the right to doubt and dissent.
I am a living being first, descendant of a long line of life that survived every challenge through millenia; then I'm a member of the human species, which has flourished for a variety of good and questionable reasons; then I belong to a particular geographically defined nation-state. The last part isn't the most important.
True Dough
(17,302 posts)Well stated!
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)There are all sorts of religious sects - most of them Christian - who object to taking oaths.
I believe it was the Jehovah's Witlesses who established the controlling precedent on religious objections to compelled oaths administered to children by the state.
No, we don't do that in this country. It is not what we are about.
ismnotwasm
(41,976 posts)roody
(10,849 posts)FXSTD
(25 posts)When I was a boy my parents forbade us from holding our hand on our heart, or says no the pledge. Now they did this for religious reasons which I do not agree with, but I'm against mandatory participation.
Nevernose
(13,081 posts)None of those kids think about what they're saying, care about what they're saying, or are doing anything other daydreaming.
The Pledge of Allegiance doesn't make anyone more allegiant. It's not like there are a bunch of 10th graders out there thinking "Death to America! Oh wait, now that I've renewed my daily vow of allegiance, I no longer feel disloyal."
Plus, loyalty oaths are authoritarian nonsense.
A much better use of that time (including our minute of silence following the pledge) would be to allow me to tell the kids an interesting story about a great American. That would inspire some patriotism, not some mindless chant.
gopiscrap
(23,756 posts)saying the pledge, specially with hand over heart breeds a sense of nationalism that is not healthy. This is how the Nazi party started, by idolatry of a piece of cloth.
JustinL
(722 posts)From Justice Jackson's opinion in West Virginia State Bd. of Educ. v Barnette, 319 U. S. 624, 640-642 (1943):
It seems trite but necessary to say that the First Amendment to our Constitution was designed to avoid these ends by avoiding these beginnings. There is no mysticism in the American concept of the State or of the nature or origin of its authority. We set up government by consent of the governed, and the Bill of Rights denies those in power any legal opportunity to coerce that consent. Authority here is to be controlled by public opinion, not public opinion by authority.
The case is made difficult not because the principles of its decision are obscure, but because the flag involved is our own. Nevertheless, we apply the limitations of the Constitution with no fear that freedom to be intellectually and spiritually diverse or even contrary will disintegrate the social organization. To believe that patriotism will not flourish if patriotic ceremonies are voluntary and spontaneous, instead of a compulsory routine, is to make an unflattering estimate of the appeal of our institutions to free minds. We can have intellectual individualism and the rich cultural diversities that we owe to exceptional minds only at the price of occasional eccentricity and abnormal attitudes. When they are so harmless to others or to the State as those we deal with here, the price is not too great. But freedom to differ is not limited to things that do not matter much. That would be a mere shadow of freedom. The test of its substance is the right to differ as to things that touch the heart of the existing order.
If there is any fixed star in our constitutional constellation, it is that no official, high or petty, can prescribe what shall be orthodox in politics, nationalism, religion, or other matters of opinion, or force citizens to confess by word or act their faith therein. If there are any circumstances which permit an exception, they do not now occur to us.
Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)to participate on their own. It shouldn't be a big deal either. Just let them not do it if they don't want to. Don't make a big fuss out of someone not doing it and move on. I didn't do it back when I was in school in the 80's and 90's. It never was an issue then. People like to make a big stink over small stuff these days.
I also think kids should be able to wear hats in school. The no hats rule is some old rule that no one understands anymore. It is supposed to be disrespectful to wear a hat. No one can explain how. Makes no sense. I think people offended by a simple baseball cap are the ones that need to change and just deal with it. People have heads and put hats on them sometimes.
brooklynite
(94,502 posts)...you shouldn't have to fill out a form to exercise your constitutional rights.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)How about the 1st Amendment?
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)ProfessorGAC
(64,995 posts)They just become parrots about it anyway. Nobody is actually paying attention to what they're saying. Been like that for decades.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)No teacher ever bothered me about it -- perhaps they assumed a religious objection. Occasionally fellow students called me out but I had very few fucks to give back then.
Cairycat
(1,706 posts)As a family who has religious objections to saying the Pledge, we instructed our children that they should not place their hand over their heart and not recite the Pledge. We told them they did not need to stand up, but they all chose to do so. Our daughter was bullied for her refusal, but our boys were not - their classmates either were respectful, tolerant, or inobservent of their difference. This was only in elementary school. In our district, the Pledge is not recited in secondary school.
In July 2002 (so note, less than a year after the attacks on the World Trade Center and other sites), we attended a Minnesota Twins game in Minneapolis. When the national anthem was played, we stood up to indicate our respect but did not place our hands on our hearts. The vast majority of people around us remained seated and continued talking through it. That told me that people often only make an issue of these patriotic displays when someone goes against the grain.
jmg257
(11,996 posts)HerrKarlMarx
(37 posts)lindysalsagal
(20,670 posts)They're here for 3 years as their fathers learn banking. None of them are Americans and none are staying.
I cringe.