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Latina shoppers harassed by ignorant piece of work (caught on tape) (Original Post) True Dough Dec 2016 OP
Asshole racist white bigots again! n/t RKP5637 Dec 2016 #1
Ugh, now I know why I don't live in KY Warpy Dec 2016 #2
I suspect most of the people on line who don't agree with her prefer not to escalate... TreasonousBastard Dec 2016 #3
Telling her to knock it off wouldn't start a riot Warpy Dec 2016 #5
Maybe, maybe not-- I have no idea what the rest of the line was like... TreasonousBastard Dec 2016 #6
My wife and I have been in that sort of situation a couple of times True Dough Dec 2016 #7
No, the best you can do is shame them into shutting up Warpy Dec 2016 #8
What a disgusting POS! brer cat Dec 2016 #4

Warpy

(111,222 posts)
2. Ugh, now I know why I don't live in KY
Wed Dec 21, 2016, 11:11 PM
Dec 2016

Sure, she's a bigoted POS. The real problem is the crowd standing around looking at their shoes instead of telling her she's out of line and to STFU before she makes an even bigger arse of herself.

There have been a handful of similar incidents here. Since we're all minorities in NM, other people have spoken up against the bigot.

That needs to be contagious, people. Yes, some of us might get hurt if they explode. However, they can't be permitted to think they're the majority. They're not.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
3. I suspect most of the people on line who don't agree with her prefer not to escalate...
Wed Dec 21, 2016, 11:31 PM
Dec 2016

the situation.

One loud, rude woman is bad enough, but a riot would be a real problem.

Warpy

(111,222 posts)
5. Telling her to knock it off wouldn't start a riot
Wed Dec 21, 2016, 11:34 PM
Dec 2016

especially if someone busted her for having her kids bring things she forgot to the supermarket checkout once in a while. You know she's done it, anyone with a handy kid has done it.

At least the mall and that specific store have both banned her from now on.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
6. Maybe, maybe not-- I have no idea what the rest of the line was like...
Wed Dec 21, 2016, 11:47 PM
Dec 2016

maybe a lot of it agreed with her.

I've been in those situations, as have many here-- sometimes it's best just to let it pass. Sometimes it's not.

True Dough

(17,296 posts)
7. My wife and I have been in that sort of situation a couple of times
Thu Dec 22, 2016, 12:23 AM
Dec 2016

In both instances we chose to approach the individual(s) being accosted and reassured them: "You are welcome here. You have the same rights as the rest of us, and we're sorry you have to put up with this sort of behavior."

The first time the loudmouth had already walked away. The second time the airhead was engaged with another bystander, who hopefully was giving him some counterpoints to consider, but there often is no winning with such bigots.

Warpy

(111,222 posts)
8. No, the best you can do is shame them into shutting up
Thu Dec 22, 2016, 12:32 AM
Dec 2016

which is why it's so troubling when bystanders refuse to, allowing the loudmouthed bigot to think s/he represents the majority.

Sorry, I won't let this stuff pass. If I think the bigot is likely tp become violent, I'll comfort the target as you did. But this shit can't go unanswered.

brer cat

(24,544 posts)
4. What a disgusting POS!
Wed Dec 21, 2016, 11:31 PM
Dec 2016

Good for JC Penney to try and find the shoppers to return their money; that gesture shows some caring. It's really sad and discouraging that no one spoke up to put her in her place.

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