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mainer

(12,022 posts)
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 12:29 PM Apr 2017

"My Mexican Husband Accused of Trafficking Our Daughter on flight"

Driving over the George Washington Bridge to pick up my husband and daughter at Newark Airport after a week’s vacation in Cancun, México to visit his family, I received a call from an official from Port Authority. This person identified himself as a sergeant and proceeded to tell me that there was an ‘incident’ on the plane that involved my husband and daughter. My heart was in my throat ― I couldn’t even bring myself to respond because my mind was racing to grasp all of the possibilities of what could have happened on the plane. My biggest fear: were they hurt? The sergeant assured me that they were both fine, but I was already in shock, and it felt as if my whole world was closing in on me.

My husband is Mexican. I am of Irish descent. Our daughter, three years old, looks like both of us: she has dark hair and almond eyes with white skin. They had traveled to Mexico to spend time with his mother, her grandmother, who they see but once a year. This was precious time, time for my daughter to connect with her father’s side of the family, and I embraced them going, while I stayed home because of work. I had never imagined what would happen upon their return.

The “incident”: another passenger on the plane, who was obviously inebriated, accused my husband of child trafficking. She claimed that my fair-skinned daughter didn’t look like her Mexican father, and stoked suspicion that he had kidnapped her. This passenger had no basis for this claim, nor any evidence to back it up.



http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/my-mexican-husband-was-accused-of-trafficking-our-daughter_us_58f4adade4b01566972250cf?k3f
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"My Mexican Husband Accused of Trafficking Our Daughter on flight" (Original Post) mainer Apr 2017 OP
I saw this on Huff...horrible. Demsrule86 Apr 2017 #1
Not the individual who made the false report? exboyfil Apr 2017 #5
I read the story. The charge was that the child didn't look like her father. Demit Apr 2017 #10
I think United behaved horribly. Demsrule86 Apr 2017 #15
Maybe United Airlines is Trump's fleet VigilantG Apr 2017 #2
that drunk motherfucker needs to get sued into poverty gopiscrap Apr 2017 #3
what you said.... dhill926 Apr 2017 #8
Obviously Part of Pizzagate.. busterbrown Apr 2017 #4
United AGAIN DFW Apr 2017 #6
I had all sorts of drama travelling internationally with my grandparents as a child Sen. Walter Sobchak Apr 2017 #7
Racism in this country is out of hand. Liberal In Texas Apr 2017 #9
This woman has never seen a Bi-Racial Child HockeyMom Apr 2017 #11
I wonder what these people sarisataka Apr 2017 #13
Stupid paranoid people see bad people everywhere mainer Apr 2017 #12
United had better do some sensitivity training pronto Vogon_Glory Apr 2017 #14

exboyfil

(17,862 posts)
5. Not the individual who made the false report?
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 12:44 PM
Apr 2017

That appears to be slander to me. Once it is reported is the airline the appropriate agent to investigate the charges. Do they ignore the charges based upon the airline's understanding of the actual situation. What if they are wrong?

How the charges were investigated was the abuse. I think we all want accusations of child abuse to be taken seriously.

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
10. I read the story. The charge was that the child didn't look like her father.
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 12:55 PM
Apr 2017

United Airlines took that charge seriously. That's the outrage.

Edited to add: It was a return flight. It would be very unusual for a child trafficker to fly a supposed kidnapped child OUT of a country only to fly her back IN again. Good grief.

VigilantG

(374 posts)
2. Maybe United Airlines is Trump's fleet
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 12:40 PM
Apr 2017

UA sure seem to be acting like many of his supporters since throughout the campaign!
There is way too much misplaced hate and fear in our world right now. With no thanks to Repugs and the selfish ultra-wealthy.

gopiscrap

(23,756 posts)
3. that drunk motherfucker needs to get sued into poverty
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 12:40 PM
Apr 2017

only then when these asshole racists lose everything will they think twice about spreading their hate, fear and intolerant shit on others

DFW

(54,349 posts)
6. United AGAIN
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 12:46 PM
Apr 2017

CBP uses ANY pretext to throw their weight around. We saw this first hand the last two times we landed at Atlanta (my wife is a German citizen who doesn't claim--or even want--a U.S. residence). Last December, she was detained due to a "fingerprint mismatch," even though she showed them the same fingers she had on her hand the last 100 times she entered the USA.

But what was United thinking to let the "suspicions (translation into English: troublemaking)" of a drunk passenger take precedence over an obviously normal parent and child traveling together? It sounds like "not beating seated passengers half to death" isn't the only new passenger protocol United needs to implement.

United needs to fire its whole management from top to bottom and let another company like Virgin America take it over.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
7. I had all sorts of drama travelling internationally with my grandparents as a child
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 12:47 PM
Apr 2017

Somewhere along the way and incomprehensibly it was decided it was less suspicious if I went through immigration by myself. I don't know if there was some moral panic about international child abduction going on at the time or not but it was genuinely bizarre that there was a barrage of questions traveling with my grandparents but remarkably few when I could barely see over the immigration officer's desk.

Liberal In Texas

(13,546 posts)
9. Racism in this country is out of hand.
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 12:51 PM
Apr 2017

And United needs to get it's act together immediately. And geeze, they had a passport, green card and a notarized letter!

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
11. This woman has never seen a Bi-Racial Child
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 01:03 PM
Apr 2017

with blue eyes, blonde hair, and mocha skinned? Maybe these kids should never travel with their African American parent either? Maybe she is a bigot who does not like mixing ethnicity's and races?

Absolutely children can be a combination of their Mom and Dad.

sarisataka

(18,600 posts)
13. I wonder what these people
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 01:22 PM
Apr 2017

Would do if they came across my cousins in law. The daughter is in her mid twenties now and as blonde hair blue eyed as you can get. She is also over 80% Lakota and regularly dances in a Jingle Dress at pow wow.

Her parents oth are obviously native...

mainer

(12,022 posts)
12. Stupid paranoid people see bad people everywhere
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 01:06 PM
Apr 2017

Remember that unfortunate math professor (of Italian descent) who was doing math equations on a flight and some dumb Barbie passenger ("math is hard!&quot thought of course he must be doing some Islamic terrorist stuff.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/rampage/wp/2016/05/07/ivy-league-economist-interrogated-for-doing-math-on-american-airlines-flight/?utm_term=.58de98d19b5b

Vogon_Glory

(9,117 posts)
14. United had better do some sensitivity training pronto
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 02:11 PM
Apr 2017

Or they'll wonder why their Latin American routes undergo a forced contraction as one irate Latin American government after another pulls their landing privileges.

I don't think that the suits upstairs have realized that bigotry has a price.

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