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joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 10:52 PM Apr 2017

My car is totalled and I have some broken ribs and bruised

Totally the other guys fault and the police ticketed him. Still doesn't take away the pain. The worst part is my cat Blue has a fever of 105 and the vet doesn't know why. Not a good day. Time for some drugs for the pain..

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My car is totalled and I have some broken ribs and bruised (Original Post) joeybee12 Apr 2017 OP
How awful. I'm just glad it wasn't worse, if that is any consolation. Tanuki Apr 2017 #1
Sending healing hugs. gademocrat7 Apr 2017 #2
Oh man, that's horrible. Take care of yourself... Barack_America Apr 2017 #3
So glad you were not seriously hurt. Time to curl up with Blue in bed applegrove Apr 2017 #4
Oh, hell. JohnnyLib2 Apr 2017 #5
Oh No!! healthnut7 Apr 2017 #6
Ouch Ouch Ouch! tavernier Apr 2017 #7
How the hell did an auto accident give your blue cat a fever? NightWatcher Apr 2017 #8
That's too many not good things all at once . Hope you heal , your cats OK and get some lunasun Apr 2017 #9
((())) 2naSalit Apr 2017 #10
Rest and heal luvMIdog Apr 2017 #11
I deeply enjoy you here, and I'm worried for you and Blue. herding cats Apr 2017 #12
That sucks. Hopefully they have good insurance. Hassin Bin Sober Apr 2017 #13
I would say bad day, I hope everything works out for you and doc03 Apr 2017 #14
So sorry to hear You're going thru this! furtheradu Apr 2017 #15
Well To Cheer You Up Tom Brady Said Fuck You To Trump's Super Bowl Win Photo Op Grassy Knoll Apr 2017 #16
:( C Moon Apr 2017 #17
Get well soon. Okay. oasis Apr 2017 #18
Feel better soon, joeybee12! calimary Apr 2017 #19
take care... spanone Apr 2017 #20
First rule... don't laugh. kyburbonkid Apr 2017 #21
I am sorry for you and Blue. Doreen Apr 2017 #22
That's really crappy ProudLib72 Apr 2017 #23
Omg eleny Apr 2017 #24
OMG I am so sorry! Lisa0825 Apr 2017 #25
:( Heartstrings Apr 2017 #26
Joeybee, I'm so sorry Hekate Apr 2017 #27
I hope you are both better as soon as possible. montana_hazeleyes Apr 2017 #28
Oh joeybee12 this is terrible news! MuseRider Apr 2017 #29
What a bummer joeybee canetoad Apr 2017 #30
I hope you and the kitty are on the mend very soon Warpy Apr 2017 #31
Poor you and poor kitteh. Laffy Kat Apr 2017 #32
!!!! AllaN01Bear Apr 2017 #33
((hugs)) to you and kitty. Starry Messenger Apr 2017 #34
Huggz and good vibes for you and Blue. TDale313 Apr 2017 #35
Well, if it helps to know that you are cared about and appreciated... 3catwoman3 Apr 2017 #36
Wishing you the best GulfCoast66 Apr 2017 #37
Once I slipped on ice and merely cracked one rib. The pain was excruciating. I couldn't tblue37 Apr 2017 #38
Oh how awful. You have my thoughts, vibes and prayers. nt joet67 Apr 2017 #39
that is too much KT2000 Apr 2017 #40
That is horrible news! thecrow Apr 2017 #41
Ooh I'm sorry! a la izquierda Apr 2017 #42
Take care of yourself malaise Apr 2017 #43
D*mn joeybee12....... a kennedy Apr 2017 #44
Take care. NCTraveler Apr 2017 #45
Hope you feel better and also your cat . Demsrule86 Apr 2017 #46
Thanks everyone. a little better this morning joeybee12 Apr 2017 #47
Glad you're feeling better and kitty is on the up and up. JHan Apr 2017 #48
Glad to hear it! Lisa0825 Apr 2017 #50
Take Care and Heal.. Stuart G Apr 2017 #49
Damn, I'm so sorry to hear this! Sh** happens, but I'm so sorry to hear it happen to you and RKP5637 Apr 2017 #51
((((((((((((JB and Blue)))))))))) sending lots of love and healing energies. hope you are both niyad Apr 2017 #52
get an attorney right away, and don't sign or agree to anything without one. with an attorney, you niyad Apr 2017 #53
wow, you did have a terrible day... Useless in FL Apr 2017 #54
I'm so sorry to hear about your accident and your cat. smirkymonkey Apr 2017 #55
Sorry to hear of your misfortune, but happy to read you and Blue are on the mend. Vinca Apr 2017 #56
Egad ProfessorPlum Apr 2017 #57

Tanuki

(14,914 posts)
1. How awful. I'm just glad it wasn't worse, if that is any consolation.
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 10:55 PM
Apr 2017

Hope you and kitteh will both be feeling better very soon.

applegrove

(118,492 posts)
4. So glad you were not seriously hurt. Time to curl up with Blue in bed
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 11:06 PM
Apr 2017

and purr yourselves into healing.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
8. How the hell did an auto accident give your blue cat a fever?
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 11:11 PM
Apr 2017

Just kidding. Hope you didn't laugh too hard. Glad you survived the strangest of days.

Might I recommend a nice strong Indica...

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
9. That's too many not good things all at once . Hope you heal , your cats OK and get some
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 11:11 PM
Apr 2017

negotiations going on payout of the car and for your injury , medical, work loss etc.
If you have to rent a car you may get reimbursed really you have to find out ahead of time.
Take care

luvMIdog

(2,533 posts)
11. Rest and heal
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 11:21 PM
Apr 2017

2 years ago I fractured my neck in a car wreck and totaled my car. It could have been much much worse. That doesn't mean it isn't a bummer. (((hugs))))

herding cats

(19,558 posts)
12. I deeply enjoy you here, and I'm worried for you and Blue.
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 11:23 PM
Apr 2017

Please, take care of both of you. If I lived closer I'd bring you some soup and offer to shuttle Blue to the vet for you. Since I live a thousand of miles away, know my thoughts and heart are with you both. Heal easily and fully, and I hope Blue isn't seriously ill.

I have a kitty with an unexplainable fever right now, too. We're some 4 hours from home at a specialist right now. I feel your stress to my core. I just lost my 22 year old kitty in February and now my Boo (13-1/2 years) is sick and no one knows what's wrong with him.

Know my thoughts are with you both tonight.

furtheradu

(1,865 posts)
15. So sorry to hear You're going thru this!
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 11:36 PM
Apr 2017

But happy it isn't worse! Try not to worry about the car, or inconveniences.. just focus on HEALING, & dear Blue. Take goood Care of YourSelf.

💙💜Bless YOU joey🐝💜💙&kittehBlue💙💜

kyburbonkid

(251 posts)
21. First rule... don't laugh.
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 11:47 PM
Apr 2017

Seriously don't. Don't sneeze, don't cough, don't move those ribs. Second find a door to sleep against. You won't be able to lay down, sit or do anything that doesn't send jolts of excruciating pain. Pain meds don't help either but they do get you comfortable in to the position you can stand to be in. Cracked ribs are the worst. When you breath, you will feel your bones grind with each breath. Inhale, exhale... And it's 8 to 10 weeks of this. I've been there. Seriously don't laugh. Don't even smile. Even a grin will set it off. Yaaayyyeeeeeowwwweeeee!

eleny

(46,166 posts)
24. Omg
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 12:03 AM
Apr 2017

Thanks for letting us know. I'll be holding you in my thoughts. And I hope your sweet kitty gets better soon. You'll be taking care of each other, I'm sure.

................ ..............

Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
25. OMG I am so sorry!
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 12:05 AM
Apr 2017

In January, I broke the cartilage in my ribs. They told me it hurts as much as a broken rib, but heals faster. It was the worst pain I have ever felt! I hope you got some good pain meds and are able to rest comfortably. I hope Blue feels better too.

Hekate

(90,556 posts)
27. Joeybee, I'm so sorry
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 12:30 AM
Apr 2017

Swift and gentle healing to you and your kitty -- and a very gentle hug, not to stress the ribs

montana_hazeleyes

(3,424 posts)
28. I hope you are both better as soon as possible.
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 12:31 AM
Apr 2017

I know you are more worried for kitty, but animals sometimes have strange symptoms but snap out of it quickly.

MuseRider

(34,095 posts)
29. Oh joeybee12 this is terrible news!
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 12:31 AM
Apr 2017

I am so sorry. I wish I was closer and could help you out. It sounds like you may have some pain for quite a while.

canetoad

(17,136 posts)
30. What a bummer joeybee
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 12:41 AM
Apr 2017

Look after yourself and your moggy. A cat's normal body temperature is 101.5, so it's not as bad as 105 for a human.

Warpy

(111,141 posts)
31. I hope you and the kitty are on the mend very soon
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 12:55 AM
Apr 2017

Normal temp for a cat is up to 102, so 105 is serious but survivable. My irascible old tomcat did that once or twice and survived to grump again.

Broken ribs are the worst, nothing much they can do about them except drugs and you can't get comfortable. First two weeks are the worst. Then I don't know if they start to get better or we just start to get used to them. Six weeks is the usual course for healing, although you might be able to forecast the weather with them later on.

I'm glad it was no worse than that.

3catwoman3

(23,947 posts)
36. Well, if it helps to know that you are cared about and appreciated...
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 01:10 AM
Apr 2017

...by someone who has never met you, please know my thought are with you and Blue.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
37. Wishing you the best
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 01:11 AM
Apr 2017

Follow the doctor's orders. And at the first sign of pneumonia get treatment. When I had broken ribs I breathe so shallow I almost got pneumonia.

And I also hope your cat recovers.

Peace

tblue37

(65,227 posts)
38. Once I slipped on ice and merely cracked one rib. The pain was excruciating. I couldn't
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 01:14 AM
Apr 2017

even breathe properly without agony. Your pain has to be a thousand times worse with more than one rib involved and with them broken rather than just cracked.

I am sorry this happened to you, and hope that you heal quickly. I hope, too, that the other guy has really good insurance for your car and your medical costs.

A cat's normal temp is 100° to 102.5°F, so that fever, though high, is not quite as terrifying as it would be in a human. I hope he gets well. One time two of my cats had fevers like that. The vet guessed West Nile. It was rampant that year and mosquitoes were bad that year, too. (West Nile gives cats fever and flu-like symptoms.)

thecrow

(5,519 posts)
41. That is horrible news!
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 06:08 AM
Apr 2017

Many broken ribs! Sick Cat! Bruises! No car!!
OMG I hope that you are well taken care of medically, and that you are feeling better soon!
Do you have anyone to help care for you, do household things, shop, take your cat to the vet, etc?
I'm thinking about you and hoping for an end to your pain and frustration.
Be well soon

a la izquierda

(11,791 posts)
42. Ooh I'm sorry!
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 06:32 AM
Apr 2017

Car accidents are always nerve wracking.

I returned from the vet a couple hours ago. Had to say goodbye to one of my dogs very unexpectedly. I hope you and your kitty heal up real soon.

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
47. Thanks everyone. a little better this morning
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 09:35 AM
Apr 2017

The hard part is getting up and down. Carrying anything is out but if I slowly lower myself I can feed the cats. I have friends feeding my feral colonies. The really good news is Blue seems much better today. I can tell her fever is down but she is still mad at me. She blames me for not feeling well.

Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
50. Glad to hear it!
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 11:53 AM
Apr 2017

When I hurt my ribs, I literally kicked the cat food bag over so it spilled on the kitchen floor and then turned the sink faucet on to a steady trickle, took my meds and got into bed, sitting upright with lots of pillows.

RKP5637

(67,086 posts)
51. Damn, I'm so sorry to hear this! Sh** happens, but I'm so sorry to hear it happen to you and
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 12:28 PM
Apr 2017

I hope Blue gets better!

niyad

(113,062 posts)
52. ((((((((((((JB and Blue)))))))))) sending lots of love and healing energies. hope you are both
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 02:23 PM
Apr 2017

better soon. and I hope your insurance co is decent.

(pity frank azar only works in southern colorado)

niyad

(113,062 posts)
53. get an attorney right away, and don't sign or agree to anything without one. with an attorney, you
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 02:38 PM
Apr 2017

refer all contacts to her/him. do not talk to the other driver's co or anything.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
55. I'm so sorry to hear about your accident and your cat.
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 04:51 PM
Apr 2017

I hope you managed to get some good drugs for the pain. Broken bones are the worst!

I hope you feel better soon!

Vinca

(50,237 posts)
56. Sorry to hear of your misfortune, but happy to read you and Blue are on the mend.
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 05:18 PM
Apr 2017

It's awful when bad things happen to good people.

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