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milestogo

(16,829 posts)
Tue May 23, 2017, 06:58 PM May 2017

Illinois 16-year-old commits suicide hours after police tried to scare him straight

The family of an Illinois 16-year-old who killed himself hours after officers confronted him about an alleged recording of a sexual encounter on his phone intends to file a lawsuit against both the school district and the police department. “I think they wanted to scare him straight,” Maureen Walgren told the Chicago Tribune. “Instead, they scared him to death.”

Her son, Corey, in January committed suicide by falling from the top of a five-story parking garage shortly after officers showed up at Naperville North High School to question him about illicit material they believed he had on his phone. They were investigating claims that he possessed and then played a recording of a consensual encounter with another 16-year-old student for his friends.

Corey had never been in any trouble at school, and he didn’t have a criminal record, but he was called down to the dean’s office on Jan. 11 where Naperville police were waiting for him. Corey had never been in any trouble at school, and he didn’t have a criminal record, but he was called down to the dean’s office on Jan. 11 where Naperville police were waiting for him.

They questioned him about having and sharing “child pornography” and allegedly threatened that he’d be put on the sex offender registry, according to the newspaper. While investigators did find audio of the sexual encounter, they did not intend to press any charges — they’d only hoped to make Corey understand the seriousness of his actions without affecting his record, according to documents cited by the Tribune.

www.nydailynews.com/news/national/teen-commits-suicide-police-scare-straight-article-1.3189296

A really sad story about a teen suicide that should never have happened.

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Illinois 16-year-old commits suicide hours after police tried to scare him straight (Original Post) milestogo May 2017 OP
This is heartbreaking. WhiskeyGrinder May 2017 #1
So heartbreaking I think I just can't read about anymore young deaths for a while it's so depressing luvMIdog May 2017 #2
Ugh! GitRDun May 2017 #3
The kid had an audio only tape of consensual sex with a same-age girl. milestogo May 2017 #4
If the dean and the cop had any sense of honor AngryAmish May 2017 #6
In These Situations, Minors Should Have a Parent Present dlk May 2017 #5
He should never have been questioned at school Phoenix61 May 2017 #7
PIGS! Dawson Leery May 2017 #8
Classic Bully technique... What school Dean would allow a minor/student to be intimidated by law MedusaX May 2017 #9
Naperville IL is fundamentalist christian country. milestogo May 2017 #10
It must have changed since we lived there. phylny May 2017 #13
No more. Naperville went for Clinton by a wide margin and just elected Dem city councilors hedda_foil May 2017 #14
Glad to hear it. milestogo May 2017 #15
Go A Little North and A Bit East. . . ProfessorGAC May 2017 #23
Well done, authorities! Warren DeMontague May 2017 #11
Thanks, Police State! Initech May 2017 #12
Cops. That's who they are. That's what thy do. Iggo May 2017 #16
i'm still trying to figure out what the kid did that was wrong ? JI7 May 2017 #17
Yeah, what is illegal about an audio recording of "sex sounds"... GReedDiamond May 2017 #19
It's not clear from the article, but if the recording was made without the consent petronius May 2017 #20
OK, but that's a far cry from child porn...nt GReedDiamond May 2017 #21
What the ever loving fuck. Hassin Bin Sober May 2017 #18
Expect more of this in the coming Theocracy HAB911 May 2017 #22

GitRDun

(1,846 posts)
3. Ugh!
Tue May 23, 2017, 07:06 PM
May 2017

A terrible tragedy.

On the surface, it doesn't seem to me like the school and police should be sued, but I am admittedly not a psychologist.

Would seem to be worse if they confronted him with the parents present.

I'd be curious if anyone had ideas on how to do this better...

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
4. The kid had an audio only tape of consensual sex with a same-age girl.
Tue May 23, 2017, 07:13 PM
May 2017

He shared it with friends, which is the modern equivalent of teenage boy bragging.

Problem #1 For that he was threatened with being labelled a sex offender and creating child pornography. It just isn't fitting punishment.

Problem #2 This kid had supportive, loving parents. If they had been there with him, they would have been able to take him home safely and help him get through this.

Teenagers are not adults. They are moody and they are immature. Threatening them with adult punishment in the absence of parents is just way too dangerous.

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
6. If the dean and the cop had any sense of honor
Tue May 23, 2017, 07:31 PM
May 2017

They would get a bottle of scotch and a revolver each.

Legally culpable? Unsure. Morally? Of course.

They shame their family.

dlk

(11,552 posts)
5. In These Situations, Minors Should Have a Parent Present
Tue May 23, 2017, 07:28 PM
May 2017

Why wasn't a parent present in this matter? Too often, police take advantage of minors and abuse them when no parent is present. Whether he was guilty or innocent, our Constitution provides for a presumption of innocence for all Americans. I hope these parents sue. Police misconduct is out of control, often with complicit school administrators. At any school, when the police are involved, a parent should always be present.

Dawson Leery

(19,348 posts)
8. PIGS!
Tue May 23, 2017, 07:46 PM
May 2017

The Administrators and Coppers should have their bloated pension funds emptied for this.

This is also proof that we do not NEED any more cops.

Clearly they have nothing better to do.

MedusaX

(1,129 posts)
9. Classic Bully technique... What school Dean would allow a minor/student to be intimidated by law
Tue May 23, 2017, 07:57 PM
May 2017

Enforcement officers on school grounds?

The Dean should be fired, at the very least.

BFD ... an audio recording?

Is this the most extreme criminal activity in the community?
And wTF is the comment about "scaring straight" as if intimidation of a minor
by law enforcement is okay
when they don't promptly commit suicide afterwards...

How about sitting down with the kid and explaining in a calm manner that
Creating or possesing or sharing an audio tape of a sexual encounter is not the best way to make friends & increase popularity...
Then explain the Legal side of the situation...
Here is what you COuLD be charged with
But we are not going to ... unless you do it again...

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
10. Naperville IL is fundamentalist christian country.
Tue May 23, 2017, 08:01 PM
May 2017

The idea of teenagers having sex is probably horrifying to them.

ProfessorGAC

(64,995 posts)
23. Go A Little North and A Bit East. . .
Wed May 24, 2017, 08:30 AM
May 2017

. . .and you're still spot on. The East-West is still called "Reagan" something or other as it runs through DuPage.

GReedDiamond

(5,311 posts)
19. Yeah, what is illegal about an audio recording of "sex sounds"...
Wed May 24, 2017, 12:30 AM
May 2017

...which may or may not be actual "sex sounds"?

And even if they were real, how is that "child pornography"?

I hope the school administrators/cops get sued into oblivion.

petronius

(26,602 posts)
20. It's not clear from the article, but if the recording was made without the consent
Wed May 24, 2017, 12:34 AM
May 2017

of the other party, and/or if it was shared without the consent of the other party, then I'd say that's what he did wrong. And if that was the case, then intervention was appropriate (albeit not in this bungled form, of course)...

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