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(2,955 posts)
Sun May 28, 2017, 03:11 PM May 2017

When did CUCK become the new go-to word for everything?

It's starting to drive me nuts lately.
"Omg man, that sports player is playing like such a fucking cuck"
"dude, you gotta stand up for yourself and not be a total cuck"
"Lul get cucked boy"
"Those europeans are all a bunch of total cucks"
"I fucking hate people who drive like fucking cucks. Some people need to man the fuck up"

It's become the new go-to word for anybody perceived as passive/beta or for anybody losing a contest/game/sports/whatever.

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

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When did CUCK become the new go-to word for everything? (Original Post) Calculating May 2017 OP
Just another pejorative like wimp. It will fade away. DemocratSinceBirth May 2017 #1
Actually it's a very old perjorative in most of the world. Drahthaardogs May 2017 #33
republicans really identify with it, and so project it on to others Achilleaze May 2017 #46
I don't think you understand how the word is used. Drahthaardogs May 2017 #47
When alt-right douchebros made up words to make themselves sound cool. WhiskeyGrinder May 2017 #2
They aren't smart enough to make it up. It comes from cuckold. DemocratSinceBirth May 2017 #3
They are, however, the ones who sprayed it around... JHB May 2017 #6
It's become a porn them. DemocratSinceBirth May 2017 #8
It's always meant the guy who's "woman" was stolen - a patriarchal metaphor that DT plays into bettyellen May 2017 #19
No it doesn't. She was not " stolen" Drahthaardogs May 2017 #34
It's a we'll known insult based on a man who's allowed his women to "be taken" and is steeped in the bettyellen May 2017 #35
It means you are not enough of a man to satisfy your woman Drahthaardogs May 2017 #38
"You're not man enough to_____" is sexist crap. Been to Italy too and it's not the only place it's bettyellen May 2017 #41
You want to make the word a slur against women Drahthaardogs May 2017 #42
Never said that it was a slur on women, LOL. I guess you misunderstood what the word sexist means bettyellen May 2017 #50
I said all of the Latin countries use it. Drahthaardogs May 2017 #51
Oh lord you really don't get sexism either, LOL. Cuckold has English origins, genius. bettyellen May 2017 #53
You are hopeless. Did you read the Wiki? Drahthaardogs May 2017 #61
"Misogynist" might describe a guy who enjoys MAKING another man a cuckold... Beartracks May 2017 #56
A cuckold is a cuckold because of his own weakness. Drahthaardogs May 2017 #62
Yeah, the MRA/PUA bros came up with it. Warpy May 2017 #9
No it doesn't Drahthaardogs May 2017 #44
Europe is irrelevant here, it's from MRA groups in this case. Bradical79 May 2017 #59
It's NOT from MRA and Europe is NOT irrelevant Drahthaardogs May 2017 #60
The way I see it Madam Mossfern May 2017 #63
because they're all into bdsm and like that terminology luvMIdog May 2017 #4
On other boards we use to post photos of interracial couples to annoy them. DemocratSinceBirth May 2017 #5
lol I don't think they mind interracial sex as long as they don't have to acknowledge it ;) luvMIdog May 2017 #7
It's a misunderstanding of the term's meaning, isn't it? wyldwolf May 2017 #11
I dunno I've not had much interest in that stuff & I was told I was vanilla & I had to look that up luvMIdog May 2017 #16
In the sense that the bottom has to consent to everything done and can withdraw that consent mythology May 2017 #18
"Topping from the bottom" becasue wanna be doms are so damned common bettyellen May 2017 #22
Yes. NT lisby May 2017 #28
Well, no. The top is the dom/domme. Bottoms are not supposed to "top," but bottoms do set the basic anneboleyn May 2017 #30
"Topping from the bottom" is what happens outside the scene. Becasue wanna be Doms are ... bettyellen May 2017 #37
No, never obamanut2012 May 2017 #39
Well, I see DU's BDSM experts aren't in total agreement wyldwolf May 2017 #40
Repubs like their cuckold fantasies Hassin Bin Sober May 2017 #13
Trump Adrahil May 2017 #10
Because conservatives lack the imagination to come up with a better insult Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin May 2017 #12
Welp! I'm off to watch Bella and the Bulldogs wyldwolf May 2017 #14
It is a nasty, vile, and hateful term that reflects more PufPuf23 May 2017 #15
I'm in the middle of Trump land and have never heard anyone say the word . .99center May 2017 #17
that's because they'd have to say it to a FACE. Bannon said it publicly not long ago & so did many luvMIdog May 2017 #23
No problem calling people every other name in the book, but cuck is too far? .99center May 2017 #32
Quit being a snowflake...LOL titaniumsalute May 2017 #20
The fact that we're discussing it Dem2 May 2017 #21
I don't think so. Look how long they held onto the term 'libtards' though it made them look stupid luvMIdog May 2017 #24
I make them feel impotent/sniveling Dem2 May 2017 #25
lol they project a lot , don't they? luvMIdog May 2017 #26
It makes me giggle Dem2 May 2017 #27
I think it is stupid, BUT!!!! LOL Lib May 2017 #29
Never heard a single person use the word oberliner May 2017 #31
... tavernier May 2017 #52
The Surprising Etymology of the Alt-Right's Favorite Word, "Cuck" - interesting article diva77 May 2017 #36
This excerpt from the article billh58 May 2017 #55
When "Politically Correct" and "Cultural Marxist" got too many syllables for today's rightie ck4829 May 2017 #43
I hope it fades away soon, along with "nothing burger". panader0 May 2017 #45
The Many Synonyms of cuckold billh58 May 2017 #48
3 Words ProfessorGAC May 2017 #49
T-shirts still available. egduj May 2017 #54
For those of us paying attention to the excretable MRA's ismnotwasm May 2017 #57
I don't use the so-called word. Solly Mack May 2017 #58
Well, you see, repeatedly using an insult with two or three syllables wears out their lips. Efilroft Sul May 2017 #64
Alt Right bloggers watch a lot of porn. n/t DefenseLawyer May 2017 #65
It's the annoying internet word du jour. It's almost exclusively used by the alt-right. Oneironaut May 2017 #66

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
33. Actually it's a very old perjorative in most of the world.
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:21 PM
May 2017

"Giving him the horns" in any country with a Latin language is like flipping someone off here.

Achilleaze

(15,543 posts)
46. republicans really identify with it, and so project it on to others
Mon May 29, 2017, 03:38 PM
May 2017

that's their thing - pretend others are somehow involved in the very things they are doing.

Basically, Comrade Casino* - is "cucking" the whole freaking lameass republican party. So to try and weasel out of facing their own horrid shameful reality, republicans are projecting it all over the place on to others.

deplorable cucks.

* the republican Draft-Dodger-in-Chief, Spousal Cheater & Vow Breaker

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
47. I don't think you understand how the word is used.
Mon May 29, 2017, 03:47 PM
May 2017

A woman cuckolds a man. It's a slur against his weakness sexually to satisfy her. E.g. Trump is a cuck, Baron is probably a Kennedy...THAT is how the word would be used.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
8. It's become a porn them.
Sun May 28, 2017, 03:26 PM
May 2017

A white guy who gets sexual gratification from watching his wife/gf have sex with black guys.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
19. It's always meant the guy who's "woman" was stolen - a patriarchal metaphor that DT plays into
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:14 PM
May 2017

Last edited Sun May 28, 2017, 05:35 PM - Edit history (1)

If you notice in the scandals over his harassment of women, most were married- some partnered to people he was "doing deals" with - he enjoys getting over on other men (making them a cuck ) more than he does the sex itself. It's no fun for him unless someone is being subjugated.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
34. No it doesn't. She was not " stolen"
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:24 PM
May 2017

Last edited Sun May 28, 2017, 06:53 PM - Edit history (1)

She left because her man was unable to satisfy her thus she had to go elsewhere.

Like I be said above, in Italy, Spain, etc. It is a well known insult. I grew up in the culture and spent my summer there.

And on edit

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold

It says exactly what I said it does. It has absolutely nothing to do with "stealing" a woman. It's a dude whose wife cheats on him because he can't satisfy her. Why do people want to turn shit into sociology class?

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
35. It's a we'll known insult based on a man who's allowed his women to "be taken" and is steeped in the
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:30 PM
May 2017

Patriarchal assumption that you can actually possess a woman. It's used for both men who allow it and those who were screwed over. It's we'll known in America among those who are well read. I know it's more of a thing in Italy becasue it's pretty much the most patriarchal country on earth, lol. Been there and done that.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
38. It means you are not enough of a man to satisfy your woman
Sun May 28, 2017, 06:50 PM
May 2017

So she goes elsewhere. It is not some great Patriarchal belief etc. It's pretty simple and very crude. I spent every summer in Torino. I know what the word means.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
41. "You're not man enough to_____" is sexist crap. Been to Italy too and it's not the only place it's
Mon May 29, 2017, 12:24 PM
May 2017

used, much to your surprise. It's an English word that goes back before Shakespeare for christs sake.

Your friends in Torino sound just peachy.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
42. You want to make the word a slur against women
Mon May 29, 2017, 03:30 PM
May 2017

And somehow introduce misogyny into it. I am sorry you don't know what the word means or how it is used. Read the Wiki, it says exactly what I said it means and has absolutely NOTHING to do with women as property and stealing them. It is a common insult in France, Spain, Italy, and Germany and is considered on as vulgar to men as the C word is to women.

How you came up with your definition that this somehow is tied to women as property is beyond me. It's an insult to men, and yes, I have seen it used in country. I know what it means.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
50. Never said that it was a slur on women, LOL. I guess you misunderstood what the word sexist means
Mon May 29, 2017, 05:27 PM
May 2017

I'm sorry but trying to explain it by saying Italians used it isn't really helping your argument. It seems to all be flying over your head. Never mind, LOL.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
51. I said all of the Latin countries use it.
Mon May 29, 2017, 05:38 PM
May 2017

Lol = attempt to patronize because you have no idea what the word means and tried to make it mysoginistic.

Sexist means prejudice based upon sex, usually in the context against women. It fucking doesn't mean that. It's a slur saying you are a weak man who cannot sexually gratify your wife or girlfriend. I suppose that could be a sexist, as one could argue the stereotype is that a man should be virile enough to satisfy his partner.



Did you even read the wiki page? Because if you did, you would realize the Italians and I know what the word means. You don't, but come here and tell me I am wrong as are those macho italiani. You are wrong. Read the Wiki and learn something.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
53. Oh lord you really don't get sexism either, LOL. Cuckold has English origins, genius.
Mon May 29, 2017, 05:59 PM
May 2017

Yeah Latin people tend to obsess over the concept as much as Trump does. You'd think that would actually tel you something, but I guess not.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
61. You are hopeless. Did you read the Wiki?
Mon May 29, 2017, 07:06 PM
May 2017

Did you? The fucking word is described EXACTLY as I did, references to Europe and all.

Why. Won't. You. Read. The. Article?

I know why. It proves you wrong and you would rather talk shit than be corrected.

Nothing more to see here

Beartracks

(12,809 posts)
56. "Misogynist" might describe a guy who enjoys MAKING another man a cuckold...
Mon May 29, 2017, 06:37 PM
May 2017

... by seducing that man's wife -- or, in the misogynist's mind "stealing" her.

Would definitely feed the misogynist's ego to cuckold his business partners that way.



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Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
62. A cuckold is a cuckold because of his own weakness.
Mon May 29, 2017, 07:11 PM
May 2017

Not because of awesome seductive powers of someone else. That is how the slur is used and inferred when used as a pejorative.

It is the cuckolds ineptitude that causes his partner to stray. That is why it is such an insult.

Warpy

(111,243 posts)
9. Yeah, the MRA/PUA bros came up with it.
Sun May 28, 2017, 03:27 PM
May 2017

For them, it means a man who is so weak he can't control a woman.

And that shows exactly where their heads are.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
44. No it doesn't
Mon May 29, 2017, 03:34 PM
May 2017

Fuck. How you guys make this shit into feminist agenda is beyond me. It means you are too weak a man to sexually gratify your woman so she gets sexual pleasure from other men. It is meant to degrade a man on his sexual prowess.

The symbol is the horned hand or corno with fingers up and rotate it. Go to Europe and you will see it just like the bird is flipped here.

 

Bradical79

(4,490 posts)
59. Europe is irrelevant here, it's from MRA groups in this case.
Mon May 29, 2017, 06:44 PM
May 2017

In the current American sense, the meaning stated above is how these idiots used it in the MRA hate groups online, and how it's become a more popular insult since Trump came into office. There's a lot of crossover between these groups when it comes to younger male Trump supporters.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
60. It's NOT from MRA and Europe is NOT irrelevant
Mon May 29, 2017, 07:03 PM
May 2017

MRA may have picked it up but the horns of the cuckold are an ancient slur just like touching your testicles or using the various signs to ward off the evil eye are ancient gestures.

If MRA picked it up feel free to tell the stupid asses they aren't using the word correctly. Don't validate them by accepting their definition. It had NOTHING to do with feminist, men's rights, or any other such position. It is a nasty slur used against a man calling his sexual ability into o question.

Madam Mossfern

(2,340 posts)
63. The way I see it
Mon May 29, 2017, 07:51 PM
May 2017

It means that a man isn't "man" enough to keep his wife.
The term is an old one, from times when wives were kind of considered property.

luvMIdog

(2,533 posts)
4. because they're all into bdsm and like that terminology
Sun May 28, 2017, 03:21 PM
May 2017

a few years back some guy at work told me that if someone goes to those bdsm sites and checks them out most of the profiles say they are Christian next to religion and he says most of them are republican. hahahaha I don't know if that's true, but they sure seem to like the terminology

luvMIdog

(2,533 posts)
7. lol I don't think they mind interracial sex as long as they don't have to acknowledge it ;)
Sun May 28, 2017, 03:26 PM
May 2017

hey many of these racist come from men who were raping their slaves for a century

wyldwolf

(43,867 posts)
11. It's a misunderstanding of the term's meaning, isn't it?
Sun May 28, 2017, 03:36 PM
May 2017

Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't the 'bottom' in BDSM really actually the 'top?'

luvMIdog

(2,533 posts)
16. I dunno I've not had much interest in that stuff & I was told I was vanilla & I had to look that up
Sun May 28, 2017, 03:47 PM
May 2017
 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
18. In the sense that the bottom has to consent to everything done and can withdraw that consent
Sun May 28, 2017, 03:54 PM
May 2017

but that applies both ways. It is sometimes said that the sub has all the power because it's often presumed the top will want to go further than the sub, but that's not always the case.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
22. "Topping from the bottom" becasue wanna be doms are so damned common
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:15 PM
May 2017

They have to really work - or pay somehow- to find a good sub.

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
30. Well, no. The top is the dom/domme. Bottoms are not supposed to "top," but bottoms do set the basic
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:15 PM
May 2017

boundaries of the situation. But the top makes the decisions in a scene, and the bottom is supposed to follow directions (as long as the safeword is respected). The dom/domme must respect the bottom's safeword, and the dom/domme is supposed to establish absolute "don'ts" with the bottom before they engage in a scene. The dom or domme of course is supposed to guide the scene and take control of the bottom and make sexual and non-sexual demands of the bottom (these demands can obviously be made in a thousand different ways) but never to violate the strict boundaries that have already been established.

In the Bdsm world those rules are sacred, and a dom or domme who violates these rules OR a bottom who refuses to respect his/her top (it's called "topping from the bottom&quot are definitely frowned upon.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
37. "Topping from the bottom" is what happens outside the scene. Becasue wanna be Doms are ...
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:37 PM
May 2017

A dime a dozen.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,324 posts)
13. Repubs like their cuckold fantasies
Sun May 28, 2017, 03:40 PM
May 2017


http://gawker.com/report-republicans-get-hard-for-cucks-1783684946
Yet despite their distaste for the cuck cowards of the world, for some reason, it really gets Republicans off. According to xHamster, “Of all the [red] states, the most viewed categories were “Cuckold” and “Mature.”

Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

(107,917 posts)
12. Because conservatives lack the imagination to come up with a better insult
Sun May 28, 2017, 03:38 PM
May 2017

They hear their bros use the words cuck and snowflake and follow suit.

PufPuf23

(8,767 posts)
15. It is a nasty, vile, and hateful term that reflects more
Sun May 28, 2017, 03:46 PM
May 2017

on the individual that uses it than any meaning.

.99center

(1,237 posts)
17. I'm in the middle of Trump land and have never heard anyone say the word .
Sun May 28, 2017, 03:53 PM
May 2017

Maybe it's time to stay away from websites that are infested with right wing teenagers.

luvMIdog

(2,533 posts)
23. that's because they'd have to say it to a FACE. Bannon said it publicly not long ago & so did many
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:26 PM
May 2017

others

.99center

(1,237 posts)
32. No problem calling people every other name in the book, but cuck is too far?
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:19 PM
May 2017

I doubt it. It's used by kids and teenagers as flame bait to try to piss liberals off. A new member seems to start a new topic about the word cuck everyday, why are new DUers so obsessed with what Democrats think of the word cuck?

luvMIdog

(2,533 posts)
24. I don't think so. Look how long they held onto the term 'libtards' though it made them look stupid
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:28 PM
May 2017

Dem2

(8,168 posts)
25. I make them feel impotent/sniveling
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:31 PM
May 2017

Cuck is a fairly easy term to turn against them. I almost relish when they use this dumb "word" now.

Dem2

(8,168 posts)
27. It makes me giggle
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:36 PM
May 2017

Calling someone a "cuck" is like wearing a gigantic "I'm a beta, kick me" sign on one's back.

LOL Lib

(1,462 posts)
29. I think it is stupid, BUT!!!!
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:59 PM
May 2017

I saw on twitter that people are calling little donnie a cuck now for his curtsy. I had to laugh out loud when I saw it.
#DonaldCuck

I like it because it rhymes with Donald Duck and his hair reminds me of a ducks bill.

diva77

(7,639 posts)
36. The Surprising Etymology of the Alt-Right's Favorite Word, "Cuck" - interesting article
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:31 PM
May 2017

The Surprising Etymology of the Alt-Right's Favorite Word, "Cuck"
By Adam Clair | November 8, 2016

https://www.pastemagazine.com/articles/2016/11/the-surprising-etymology-of-the-alt-rights-favorit.html

billh58

(6,635 posts)
55. This excerpt from the article
Mon May 29, 2017, 06:32 PM
May 2017

describing the alt-right's use of "cuck" sums up Trump's and the right-wing's "white male power" attitude toward women and race:

"The implications that a wife is her husband’s property and that her cheating with a black man is more humiliating than it would be with someone of another race..."

billh58

(6,635 posts)
48. The Many Synonyms of cuckold
Mon May 29, 2017, 03:54 PM
May 2017

One of the more glaring inequities of the English language is that it has a significantly larger number of words for “a man whose wife is unfaithful” than it does for “a woman whose man is unfaithful.” Cuckold is perhaps the best known of these words, and it has many synonyms, including (but by no means restricted to) cornute, cornuto, hoddy-doddy, hoddypoll, horn, ram, and wittol (a man who is aware of his wife’s infidelity and acquiesces to it). What of a woman whose husband is unfaithful? For that our language appears to have but a single word, and an obscure one at that: cuckquean.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/cuckold

The implication is that it is far more of a travesty if the wife is unfaithful, than the man. But then again, in a male dominated world where women are considered chattel, nothing less is expected is it?

Efilroft Sul

(3,578 posts)
64. Well, you see, repeatedly using an insult with two or three syllables wears out their lips.
Mon May 29, 2017, 08:30 PM
May 2017

Same thing happens when they read out loud.

Oneironaut

(5,492 posts)
66. It's the annoying internet word du jour. It's almost exclusively used by the alt-right.
Mon May 29, 2017, 09:36 PM
May 2017

It's especially used by the anti-social serial killers / Nazis on /pol/ (don't go there if you want to remain sane. Ever...). It has since bled into use by Conservative, middle-aged men who think that it makes them sound young and cool.

We can all agree that Conservatism in the age of Trump is a cringey embarrassment.

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