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Bill Maher apologizes for using the N-word. (Original Post) oberliner Jun 2017 OP
Great. Now he can apologize for all his anti-muslim bigotry Bucky Jun 2017 #1
Funny your post gives lie to your sig Les Cowbell Jun 2017 #4
I think you'd be hard-pressed to say Maher does not have anti-muslim bigotry Bucky Jun 2017 #13
Saw a lot of unsubstantiated charges and jokes but no, not bigotry Les Cowbell Jun 2017 #21
You have proof enough if you bother to research Hortensis Jun 2017 #18
Unfortunately this won't be enough for many on here Les Cowbell Jun 2017 #2
You mean AFam and Female Democrats.... SaschaHM Jun 2017 #3
Blame those who are responsible not Les Cowbell Jun 2017 #7
Being a racist and using racist language for an inappropriate joke aren't mutually exclusive. SaschaHM Jun 2017 #12
I don't particularly care about his use of the word, which Hortensis Jun 2017 #17
Your comparison of him to Paula Deen says a lot about you narrow mindedness and Les Cowbell Jun 2017 #22
This is laughably pathetic. SaschaHM Jun 2017 #24
Also thanks for proving my point about how an apology wouldn't be enough for some .. Les Cowbell Jun 2017 #23
I'm sorry that you're offended at the policing of racist language. SaschaHM Jun 2017 #26
when you can't dispute a point, lie about it Les Cowbell Jun 2017 #30
I'm glad he made this statement oberliner Jun 2017 #6
IKR? But don't worry - the infighting here will be a big help in 2018 and 2020!!1! Beartracks Jun 2017 #9
Did you actually read the TOS when you joined up? Because your values seem to be at odds with it. bettyellen Jun 2017 #10
Do you actually think about what others post instead of just knee jerk reactions? Les Cowbell Jun 2017 #25
The TOS doesn't approve of racist crap like Maher spewed. So maybe we're not bettyellen Jun 2017 #29
Well it wasn't as you describe as many on here have pointed but you can never understand that Les Cowbell Jun 2017 #32
No ones trying to "police you" so spare me the Libertarian pity party. bettyellen Jun 2017 #33
Maybe you should police yourself when it comes to "expectations of decency.' Les Cowbell Jun 2017 #34
I know I need to be more tolerant of racist and sexist speech .... /s bettyellen Jun 2017 #35
I agree Rustyeye77 Jun 2017 #14
You must have had A LOT of trouble with DUers so far in the half-hour since you joined. Squinch Jun 2017 #20
Actually joined last week so there's that Les Cowbell Jun 2017 #28
Repubs NEVER Apologize! nt JimGinPA Jun 2017 #5
That's because they never end up being attacked by their own. n/t Beartracks Jun 2017 #11
Because they value tribe over moral standards Bucky Jun 2017 #15
There it is! yallerdawg Jun 2017 #8
Bill's apology is good enough for me... ADX Jun 2017 #16
He did good. Now all those who overreacted and turned on a political brother... gulliver Jun 2017 #19
He's not a brother to most women or POC dude, so get over it. bettyellen Jun 2017 #37
I'm glad he apologized. Accepted! mountain grammy Jun 2017 #27
And I accepted his apology. SaschaHM Jun 2017 #31
It's galling to be lectured on what else is important when "cultural anxiety" was an issue .... bettyellen Jun 2017 #36
I would imagine that for many people of color, Trump's rise isn't a surprise at all... Humanist_Activist Jun 2017 #38

Bucky

(53,928 posts)
1. Great. Now he can apologize for all his anti-muslim bigotry
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 02:51 PM
Jun 2017

I suppose I'm gonna lose a lot of sleep waiting up for him to make that Twit

 

Les Cowbell

(84 posts)
4. Funny your post gives lie to your sig
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 02:55 PM
Jun 2017

Your post just contained scorn and no facts. You have proof of his anti-Muslim bigotry? I mean he uses facts, as he did last night, to back up his claims.

Bucky

(53,928 posts)
13. I think you'd be hard-pressed to say Maher does not have anti-muslim bigotry
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 03:01 PM
Jun 2017

I refer you to this article. It goes over several incidents in which Maher said horrible sweeping generalizations about Muslims.

I don't agree with the conclusion that he is categorically racist. But he frequently let's his prejudices against Islam spill over into hateful speech about Muslims as a people

https://thinkprogress.org/bill-maher-racist-history-b1d9c74283cd

And that is where I stand as far as preferring facts over scorn. I don't say I can't have harsh judgments against people. It just means I choose to discuss things rationally and without the coloring of prejudice over reality awareness

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
18. You have proof enough if you bother to research
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 05:15 PM
Jun 2017

for yourself, Les Cowbell. Ignorance, real or claimed, is not only not an excuse, it's not a weapon on DU.

 

Les Cowbell

(84 posts)
2. Unfortunately this won't be enough for many on here
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 02:52 PM
Jun 2017

the self-appointed deciders of who is racist or sexist and must make all pay who don't fit their wobbly standards

 

Les Cowbell

(84 posts)
7. Blame those who are responsible not
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 02:57 PM
Jun 2017

someone who has people of all colors and persuasions represented on his show and calls out true racists regularly. He is not a racist. This is just an easy hammer for those who don't like him to swing and take down the wrong guy.

SaschaHM

(2,897 posts)
12. Being a racist and using racist language for an inappropriate joke aren't mutually exclusive.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 03:01 PM
Jun 2017

When black and brown allies tell you this, you're not doing yourself any favors by dismissing it. Paula Deen had people of all colors on her show, but started throwing around the word "n*gger" in private. That didn't make her usage of the word o.k and it doesn't make his.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
17. I don't particularly care about his use of the word, which
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 04:55 PM
Jun 2017

was appropriate in context (joke) and meaning. I'm a true liberal and at 20 was already too old to be shockable by words used without malice for "ooooh!!! purpose," while those who might grab the opportunity to attack me for saying that practically by definition are not.

That includes, btw, a few self-declared POC members who may be registered and genuine Democrats but seem to be using their voice here to focus on division within the party without inclusion. Anger is understandable in the circumstances, but it's important that we understand its various roots and recognize that we are not all liberals by any means.

The Democratic Party contains conservatives of many colors, ethnicities, and religions, and we should recognize, and accept when they, as is their right, express their beliefs. The Democratic Party also contains far-left members who are at least as akin to far-right conservatives as they are to liberals, and. inevitably, behave that way, and the same goes for them. As long as they all truly support the Democratic Party.

But Maher is deliberately appealing to the "low" in the party wherever it comes from, and to me that's not okay. Copying what's happened to the right is foolishly inimical to our party and our national interests. The media are full of people I agree with. I don't him, and I oppose him and all the other "Mahers" who are profiteering by fertilizing the worst weeds of intolerance sprouting on the left and elsewhere in the party.

And, yes, he's only one of the cynical profiteers feeding this newly energized market for the hostile aggression they're peddling.

 

Les Cowbell

(84 posts)
22. Your comparison of him to Paula Deen says a lot about you narrow mindedness and
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 06:17 PM
Jun 2017

how you are guided by prejudice far more than he is.

SaschaHM

(2,897 posts)
24. This is laughably pathetic.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 06:19 PM
Jun 2017

I'm sorry I upset the apple cart by calling out the use of racist language by someone who occasionally supports left-leaning causes. I'll head to the back of the bus and wait for my turn to speak.

 

Les Cowbell

(84 posts)
23. Also thanks for proving my point about how an apology wouldn't be enough for some ..
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 06:18 PM
Jun 2017

... especially you.

 

Les Cowbell

(84 posts)
30. when you can't dispute a point, lie about it
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 06:31 PM
Jun 2017

Of course nothing I've written would lead a reasonable person to that conclusion but you are obviously not reasonable about this subject - and no I don't mean racism, I mean people like you mischaracterizing what Maher said and acting like he is the enemy.

 

Les Cowbell

(84 posts)
25. Do you actually think about what others post instead of just knee jerk reactions?
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 06:20 PM
Jun 2017

My values are fine ... yours on the other hand seem to be similar to those who don't allow disagreements.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
29. The TOS doesn't approve of racist crap like Maher spewed. So maybe we're not
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 06:24 PM
Jun 2017

"Tolerant" enough for you here? Did you feel good about agreeing to be TOS or did you "disagree" with it?

 

Les Cowbell

(84 posts)
32. Well it wasn't as you describe as many on here have pointed but you can never understand that
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 06:34 PM
Jun 2017

so try using the TOS to police me if it makes you feel better. I feel fine with my values and the TOS. You happy now or just like Maher's apology will that not be enough pound of flesh for you?

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
33. No ones trying to "police you" so spare me the Libertarian pity party.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 06:39 PM
Jun 2017

This community has standards and I just wanted to check and see if you actually knew that. It just sounds like that would chafe you- expectations of decency can be so hard.

 

Les Cowbell

(84 posts)
34. Maybe you should police yourself when it comes to "expectations of decency.'
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 07:37 PM
Jun 2017

And sorry to burst your bubble but I told you to police away not pity me. And I'm not a Libertarian so you are also wrong about that. Voted for every Democratic candidate for prez since McGovern and worked for many and down ballot candidates. But go ahead and attack me and Maher. That should help defeat republicans.

Squinch

(50,901 posts)
20. You must have had A LOT of trouble with DUers so far in the half-hour since you joined.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 05:55 PM
Jun 2017

Such a lot of suffering you must have experienced in such a short time!

 

Les Cowbell

(84 posts)
28. Actually joined last week so there's that
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 06:23 PM
Jun 2017

and I've seen a number of DUers who have a problem with anyone who doesn't toe their narrow line. You'll be happy to know, however, that it hasn't caused me any suffering whatsoever.

Bucky

(53,928 posts)
15. Because they value tribe over moral standards
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 03:06 PM
Jun 2017

If we as a political party are going to have moral standards and live by them, there's going to be times that we disagree with each other.

There's going to be times when we listen to criticism and respond with apologies. That's what both Kathy Griffin and Bill Maher have done. That is the hallmark of liberalism. Not that we're morally flawless, but that we are able to correct ourselves when we don't live up to our standards.

That is what separates us from baboons and from Republicans

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
8. There it is!
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 02:59 PM
Jun 2017

"The lark’s on the wing;
The snail’s on the thorn;
God’s in His heaven—
All’s right with the world!"

gulliver

(13,168 posts)
19. He did good. Now all those who overreacted and turned on a political brother...
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 05:23 PM
Jun 2017

...should apologize back to him. I would argue that what they did was worse, but people are fallible. Maher is a professional and riffed a wrong note by accident. Deliberately turning on your own over such slight, questionable provocation is worse.

I hope a lot of people will see they owe Bill an apology and that they will apologize to him. It's hard to imagine not being further disappointed by people in this though. And I'm not sure Twitter even has a mechanism that would allow so many who owe an apology to apologize to just one person.

SaschaHM

(2,897 posts)
31. And I accepted his apology.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 06:34 PM
Jun 2017

But before he apologized and even now, DU (and others on twitter) frankly showed itself ,as it tends to do when issues of race pop up, to be a shitshow when PoC go up against someone beloved by liberals. And that's not acceptable.

Not to mention this bullshit notion that Black voters, solidly for Clinton and Democrats for years, are not aware of the dangers of Trump. Fuck that meme. Fuck that shit. Lecture to your family members and neighbors about the dangers of Trump, because we got that fucking message before you did.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
36. It's galling to be lectured on what else is important when "cultural anxiety" was an issue ....
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 08:24 PM
Jun 2017

You'd think they'd learn to have solidarity with RELIABLE Dems.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
38. I would imagine that for many people of color, Trump's rise isn't a surprise at all...
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 08:34 PM
Jun 2017

particularly when he started appealing to the Tea Party base of the Republican party. They are themselves a wholesale reaction to the fact that a Black Man held the highest office in the land. This is NOT the first time, by any stretch, that whites overreacted to black people getting equality or freedom, from the Civil War to the end of Reconstruction, from the massacre at Tulsa, to the Busing riots and attacks in Boston. Its slightly toned down, and, so far, slightly less violent, but it's more of the same, white people reacting to a loss of privilege, and they also, in the long run, hurt themselves as well.

White liberals, progressives, or however they label themselves, who claim to be for equality, but frankly it's all just showmanship until they are willing to put themselves out there to support the PoC brothers and sisters. Far too many, having little experience in interacting with PoC or their communities, never witness the struggles, or see the challenges, and hence they have difficulty empathizing with PoC as a rule. In a way, it's not their fault, the bubble they find themselves in is one that their parents or grandparents decided for them through white flight and segregation policies. However, as adults, they should endeavour to open their minds and try to learn how other people live, how it's different, and how it's the same.

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