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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy brother is marrying the Manchurian candidates daughter
My future sister in law and her family are as far right as you can get. My brothers future father in law said to me today well you are a liberal. well then mr liberal explain to me the difference between you and me supporting trump , I said it is simple about 50 IQ points.
sharedvalues
(6,916 posts)And you're neither a billionaire, nor a sucker. So you can't be a republican.
erronis
(15,241 posts)They may fund it, they may promote it, they may demean other news sources.
But only because it serves their pecuniary interests.
The rest are suckers.
napi21
(45,806 posts)change yours, so for the sake of family peace, you both should consider politics off limits,
sharedvalues
(6,916 posts)USALiberal
(10,877 posts)onecaliberal
(32,829 posts)Her from us....
TEB
(12,841 posts)sharedvalues
(6,916 posts)And to bring new information to the table.
Give her articles about how the right lies to America to advance their agenda. It may work. Once she stops talking to you it may be too late. So sorry.
onecaliberal
(32,829 posts)sharedvalues
(6,916 posts)Honestly you may wish to get in touch with cult deprogrammers. They have experience working with scientology, moonies, other right-wing christian cults.
onecaliberal
(32,829 posts)Chalk full of lies with childhood grievances. She was fine and very family oriented until she met this guy and his family. She hung on to us long enough to pay for her entire wedding furniture for her house and a myriad of other things. I have a 15 month old grandson that i miss desperately and am coming to grips with the fact that I likely will never know him. It's sad but I will not allow her to rip the rest of my family apart.
sharedvalues
(6,916 posts)But it might be useful to read it to get a sense of what's worked for other people before.
http://www.culthelp.info/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=24&Itemid=6
jimmil
(629 posts)We rarely get to see them now. Hell, we even gave them a house and we never get to see it. It is really sad.
cstanleytech
(26,284 posts)10+ years and the way he went from being a good son to our mother to treating her horribly before she died.
I can forgive him for it though because he was born with mental problems but I cannot forget it nor will I ever forgive the people that turned him against our mother.
Warpy
(111,249 posts)unless you go all Emily Post on them at the beginning and refuse to discuss politics, religion, or sex. I'm doing that more and more.
I just don't want to know too much about acquaintances, especially ones I will see at family dinners on holidays.
erronis
(15,241 posts)Unfortunately most logic does not work and only forces them deeper into their hole. Usually with assistance from their minders.
If they can't find their way back to sanity by themselves it's better to get on with your life. Sorry.
teezy
(269 posts)He can't come to my house and NOT bring up politics. He can't NOT insult me for being liberal. His right-wing, InfoWars-infused world view (more like back yard view) tells him that making a point means alienating people and being cruel.
We're Canadian, but if my dad could have moved to the US and become American to vote for Trump, he would have.
And we haven't spoken in 7 months because some of his last words to me were, "It's people like you who are destroying this world" after he screamed at me about Clinton and I got up from the table and cleaned up after the THANKSGIVING DINNER we invited him to our home for, as he sat in a corner and pouted and threated to leave.
Nobody needs these abusive assholes in their lives. Nobody.
I'm glad you have some quips to throw back at him, because I think I remember a previous post of yours where he insulted you after you made him dinner. You have more restraint than I do.
sharedvalues
(6,916 posts)You don't even need to say anything, just print and hand over the testimonial from the fox host who said their shows are scripted so liberals lose and Murdoch's agenda wins.
https://medium.com/@tobinsmith_95851/how-roger-ailes-fox-news-scammed-americas-la-z-boy-cowboys-for-21-years-1996ee4a6b3e
If you want, you could say "Fox News lies to benefit GOP billionaires", but it's not necessary.
TEB
(12,841 posts)Different Drummer
(7,614 posts)He came for a visit and, while he was here, he went on a 20-30 minute rant about how greet Dolt 45 is and how he feels, essentially, that Hillary and Obama (or any Democrat, for that matter) are spawns of Satan. He expressed that POV knowing full well I am a Democrat. There were other people there, so I didn't have to respond to him and, in the name of maintaining family relations, I kept my mouth shut. However, I could feel my blood pressure rising as he went on his diatribe and, when I was finally alone, I took my blood pressure. Sure enough, it was high.
juxtaposed
(2,778 posts)TEB
(12,841 posts)But after the trump rally in Iowa I think they trumptards are in de - evolution.
Xolodno
(6,390 posts)..."Well you see, I'm actually a Christian and follow the teachings of Jesus".
That gets them red in the face. And given my knowledge of the Bible, and often they know how well I'm versed, they end up walking away.
erronis
(15,241 posts)And that's not really why they want to argue. It's not religion vs. religion. It's really just hatred of OTHERS.
Xolodno
(6,390 posts)...confirmation that their selfishness is ok and it makes the world a better place. But if you don't give it to them, then they get angry and hateful toward you. But in reality, they hate themselves but don't want to change. Much like the Biblical account where someone wanted to follow Christ, but he told him he should sell everything he had, donate it and follow him. But he had much wealth and couldn't bring himself to it. Thus the statement, its easier for a camel to go through the eye of the needle than a rich man enter heaven.
Vinca
(50,269 posts)DFW
(54,358 posts)TEB
(12,841 posts)They came to visit once and her father made statement,it is criminal how much you union guys make. I let it slide well today they stopped and his future father in law the idiot started. I was not nice this time, and my brother knows me I do push back.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)ProudLib72
(17,984 posts)Because I envision the typical right wing response of throwing punches.
certainot
(9,090 posts)i suggest you use that preface to your answers when responding to rw lies
gordianot
(15,237 posts)Ignoring works until the day they make a physical threat. On that day everything changes even if it is in your own house. I made it clear I did not want to clean the house in the aftermath have never spoken or seen them since except by a drive by.
iluvtennis
(19,851 posts)mahatmakanejeeves
(57,412 posts)Thanksgiving is in just five months, too.
New one or old one? Manchurian Candidate, I mean. The Frank Sinatra version or the Denzel Washington version?
The remake is far more paranoid than the original.
TEB
(12,841 posts)We liberals I'm quoting his words. Are in a coup against trump deep state , I said I hope you are correct as I'm a patriot
And it scares me. That forest trump and his crew have no desire to follow the constitution.
and a little ❤️