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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI don't ever recall anyone on DU upset by Al Franken and
his book "Rush Limbaugh is Big Fat Idiot". In fact there are many here advocating he run for president in 2020.
BlueCaliDem
(15,438 posts)Now we have, um, a much different crowd - one that chases longtime DU-Dems away.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)Response to BlueCaliDem (Reply #1)
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NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)Seems like a pretty shallow view of our long-time members.
Akamai
(1,779 posts)BlueCaliDem
(15,438 posts)Jesus fucking Christ Almighty.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)I can't stay awake for more than about two days straight. I'm not sure where the almighty fits in but who am I to question your religious doctrine.
BlueCaliDem
(15,438 posts)NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)Thank you.
stonecutter357
(12,695 posts)BlueCaliDem
(15,438 posts)(and proven) Democrats were mercilessly attacked, ganged up on with alerts, and forcefully removed.
The bolder one's returned but too many didn't and found homes elsewhere.
Sneederbunk
(14,290 posts)Did not take hold until it was launched in 2001.
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)"Noblesse oblige" not required!
And we used to "fight fire with fire," until everyone began to cry and whine in their little clusters of 'social justice warriors' and 'safe spaces.'
Historic NY
(37,449 posts)Last edited Tue Jul 4, 2017, 05:40 PM - Edit history (1)
no wonder they call us libtards. I'm fat and I couldn't careless, my former co-worker is really fat and he doesn't give a flying f--k. in fact he makes money off being fat. He's a comedian, a real 5ft by 5ft Italian. Its not like people are out on the street corner pointing and calling you a fat f--k. Ok well maybe he's 5.4 X 5.4.
Besides who were we talking about that fat f--k Chris Christie....
Skittles
(153,150 posts)and I hope you know you and your friend do not represent all overweight folk
MyOwnPeace
(16,925 posts)you are correct.
However, (as I once questioned a newspaper editor about the same point) the expression came out of WW2 and WAS "I could care less" and became an accepted idiom/figure of speech.
Either way (you say "eether" - I say "Ither" ) - we do get the point!
Skittles
(153,150 posts)unless you are literally saying you DO care, somewhat
MyOwnPeace
(16,925 posts)but that's how it came down - and to some minds it means the same thing!
Sneederbunk
(14,290 posts)Buns_of_Fire
(17,175 posts)-- Widely attributed to Rutherford B. Hayes, but I have my doubts.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)He's doing important, godly work, shutting down bridges and sending terminally ill pot smokers to prison.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)It's about millions of fat people like me who hear, "yeah, fat is worthy of ridicule. Never forget it."
Do what you want with that. If insulting the man's weight is worth insulting others, whether you meant to or not, then that decision is on you. But you can;t say now that didn't know. You DO know now and are making a deliberate choice.
I know a woman who thinks it's okay to call black people the N-word and she thinks it's okay because she doesn't mean anything bad by it. And she thinks black people who feel insulted are not being reasonable.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)So yeah, the man's morbidly obese hypocrisy on that matter is relevant to the political discussion. He's not in any position to finger-wag at some Boulder resident with a 22 BMI who hikes, mountain bikes, and recreationally uses cannabis.
What's that quote? "Men are afraid women will laugh at them, women are afraid men will kill them"? I know medical marijuana users who need cannabis to survive. People like Chris Christie not only want to send them to prison, they want to kill them. Lets call it what it is. The drug war kills.
So... while people make fun of Chris Christie for eating way too many donuts, no one is gonna send him to prison for them.
treestar
(82,383 posts)someone out of ill will calls them fat personally.
If Christie were a liberal we would not care about his weight (Example Michael Moore).
If Ryan were a liberal, we wouldn't laugh and call him Eddie Munster, likewise Yertle the Turtle.
Donald's hair is fodder for countless jokes and names. If Donald had Bernie's platform, we wouldn't notice it.
I think we who are overweight consider it temporary, also, we aren't really overweight. I think this may explain why I don't feel bad about myself when Christie is called fat.
If it were someone I did like, (I think Al Gore got some of this), then I probably would dislike the right winger mentioning it.
Then again, when it comes to women, it's a whole different thing. Call Hillary fat and I will bring out the pitchforks.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Still, I'll repeat myself: Christie's weight and health is particularly relevant to the political discussion because he's positively gleeful at the idea of sending perfectly healthy cannabis users to prison on the basis of "bad lifestyle habits".
Sort of how if some right-wing politician is on a crusade to ban nudity, porn, or gay marriage, their hypocrisy in the bedroom becomes an actual issue. Look at Newt Gingrich thundering about Bill Clinton's infidelity and then going home to his mistress.
I will always stand up for the rights of individuals to make their own decisions about their own bodies. If someone wants to be fat, or certainly even if they feel their physiology makes it inevitable, that's their business.
Unfortunately we have too many authoritarians who feel entitled to dictate what others do with their bodies.
haele
(12,647 posts)Balancing satire/snark with serious politics.
Some people are serious politicians. Some people are court jesters - which play an equally serious political role.
I tend to side with the court jesters - because if I didn't, I'd get so depressed I'd quit. So in my "well-rounded" personal opinion, hypocrisy should always be pointed out and belittled to take some of the power away from those who abuse it.
And if I'm being a hypocrite, I don't get offended much when I'm called out, because I'm self-aware enough to know that being a hypocrite paints a huge florescent target on one - no matter how big one is...
Haele
(Very much shaped like a Pillsbury Dough-girl...the sign of a great cook!)
George II
(67,782 posts)Adrahil
(13,340 posts)Wait.... no it's not.
Akamai
(1,779 posts)"Please feel free to notify the court of the correct pronunciation of your name and preferred pronoun."
Good going Multnomah County Court House!!!!
deurbano
(2,894 posts)And that orange piece of slime isn't "guilty" for being fat (though he IS guilty of hypocritically attacking others for being fat, living in that glass house and all), but for his abhorrent behavior. I'm all for mocking him for his grotesque behavior, mannerisms, hair "style," chosen skin color, wardrobe, vocabulary, etc.-- just not a physical characteristic like being overweight, when the point seems to be that it in some way adds to his repulsiveness. I do think he should be called out on his hypocrisy about weight and appearance, but not in a way that shames others.
I actually did have a problem with Franken's title, even though the whole point was Limbaugh's hypocrisy, but the nuance of that would be lost on the Limbaugh crowd, and even many liberals don't seem too concerned with fat bashing, so using "fat" in that way just seems to reinforce fat as a stigma.
Motownman78
(491 posts)NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)Last edited Tue Jul 4, 2017, 05:16 PM - Edit history (1)
Being against fat shaming and supporting Franken for President. I don't think I will ever get the purists mentality.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)What's inconsistent?
Loki Liesmith
(4,602 posts)If it's not against TOS who cares what people say about you?
If it is against TOS the problem solves itself.
This is why I'm glad I score high on measures of sociopathy.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)... but I don't condemn a person for one transgression, or even many small transgressions. I didn't like Colbert's "cock holster" attack either, even though he is one of my heroes today. I don't condemn anyone here. I just want them to acknowledge that fat-shaming hurts people like me. If they decide to keep doing it, that's on them.
mwooldri
(10,303 posts)Al Franken is definitely not "bodyshaming" anyone here, not even the aforementioned Rush Limbaugh. After all he is big. He is obese. And he is an idiot. Those who disagree are more likely to take issue with the "idiot" part.
loyalsister
(13,390 posts)And that style of opposition, as well as defending it brought us Trump.
Turns out it isn't unique to his constituency. Some of us appreciate manners and civility that reflect kindness and go a little beyond the TOS. I used to believe people here had higher standards in that regard, but it seems to be as infected with that style as anywhere else.
treestar
(82,383 posts)"big fat" in combo is used to indicate largeness. You are a big fat idiot, means you are not just an idiot on a small scale.
An example would be "shut your big, fat mouth". Meaning someone who talks alot and/or loudly and offensively. Said person doesn't literally have a fat mouth.
Warpy
(111,245 posts)that arose on college campuses in the early to mid 00s, the young finding it much easier to shame their elders over descriptive language than actually getting off their butts to do things like vote.
So yes, the early years on DU were definitely a different crowd. The language warriors moved off the campuses and onto political and social sites in the late 00s and insisted on full censorship of any word they didn't like, and some days it seems like they don't like most of them, preferring to turn language into the equivalent of a bad painting of cows on a hillside, bland and non controversial.
While I do agree that fat shaming ordinary people is wrong, I will hazard to point out that word shaming one's elders is at least as rude. And public figures, especially the ones who habitually fat shame other people, need to be reminded that they, too, are far from perfect.
And the bottom line is that I'm fat, as is anyone else who's been on Prednisone for more than 20 years. I'd rather wince once in a while when someone else points that out than suffer censorship of any kind.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)But I am insulted by fat shaming and I think people who do it should know that. If they choose to continue fat-shaming, then they do it knowing they are insulting me.
broadcaster90210
(333 posts)nt
rurallib
(62,406 posts)sometimes it's like you walk into the middle of a conversation on this board.
Welcome to DU
broadcaster90210
(333 posts)Ha! Yes it is. Makes sense to me now. Def felt like I was walking into the middle on that one. Thanks formthe clarification.
Thank you!
GoCubsGo
(32,080 posts)She wrote the screen plays to, and starred in "My Big, Fat Greek Wedding" and it's sequel, "My Big, Fat Greek Wedding 2."
treestar
(82,383 posts)and it is the wedding that was "big fat" and with Rushbo, it is his idiocy that was referenced as "big fat" and could have been said no matter what Rush's weight.
GoCubsGo
(32,080 posts)Gimme a big, fat kiss. I got a big, fat F on that test. Trump told yet another big, fat lie...
As for Al Franken, having read his book, I know he meant it both ways regarding Limbaugh. He did poke fun at Limbaugh's weight. Having been on the receiving end of a ton of fat-shaming myself, I don't like it when it's used on others. But, when it comes to individuals who mock and shame people for anything and everything, I make an exception. If they can dish it out, they should be made to take it. That includes Limbaugh, Christie and Trump. Fuck 'em. With Trump, all the more so, since he hates it so much to be laughed at and mocked. But, frankly, I think mocking their weight is the lowest-hanging fruit, and not worth picking, given that there's a whole lot more worth going after with these assholes.
treestar
(82,383 posts)women is the one thing I can get behind - they are asserting a double standard there. Don't know if Rush does it. And when they claim feminists are fat or otherwise unattractive women.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)That might have something to do with it.
Owl
(3,641 posts)mythology
(9,527 posts)I don't like that Bill Clinton couldn't stop cheating on Hillary Clinton and find that to be a moral failing. Doesn't mean if I were old enough to have voted in 1992 or 1996 I wouldn't have voted for Bill Clinton.
But also as others have pointed out, the big fat is descriptive to the word idiot. The title isn't "Rush Limbaugh is a big, fat, idiot" or "Rush Limbaugh is big and fat."
It boggles my mind that this is a subject for debate. There are functionally countless reasons to dislike Trump and Christie that have to do with their actual policies, things they do. This junior high level "oh he's fat and he's on a beach, lets call him a whale" should be beneath us. If that's the worst thing I can say about Chris Christie, I'm both lacking in imagination (if I'm going for an insult calling him something like a simpering sanctimonious schmuck or baneful boorish bully is far more fun) and in an ability to express legitimate policy disagreements in a way that shows I actually have a grasp of what I'm talking about.
treestar
(82,383 posts)I see them pop up in every thread on the subject.
nolabear
(41,959 posts)I'd advise against the "it's only abuse because you take it the wrong way" argument. If someone tells you something hurts them the kind and compassionate thing to do is to stop, not to point out how it was okay when HE did it.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)I don't recall the use of Juvenalian Satire on DU as used by Franken... in fact, many here advocated the righteousness of intolerance in and of itself.
The self-styled oppression and fictional persecution in the thread about 'The History of White People in American' by Martin Mull truly illustrates the dramatic ignorance of the difference between satire and bigoted behavior.