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riversedge

(70,047 posts)
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 07:46 PM Oct 2017

Looks like @womensmarch finally decided to listen to actual women instead of old white guys as it's

I, for one, am glad to see this.



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Looks like @womensmarch finally decided to listen to actual women instead of old white guys as it's 2017 not 1917!♀️


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Looks like @womensmarch finally decided to listen to actual women instead of old white guys as it's (Original Post) riversedge Oct 2017 OP
An excellent decision. eom guillaumeb Oct 2017 #1
Great decision...and a perfect opening night speaker. We need to help all of our elected keep Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #13
Excellent... sheshe2 Oct 2017 #27
Enjoy, and report back. eom guillaumeb Oct 2017 #65
Thanks, I am very excited. I was really sad about all the controversy. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #96
Endless and needless division. eom guillaumeb Oct 2017 #130
I don't like division. But some things are worth standing up for...this was unfair and a bit slimy.. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #145
Yes, glad to hear it. Debbie will kick it off on an inclusive note. Hortensis Oct 2017 #104
Yes...let's hope that some learned something in 16 because it seems 2000 was not enough. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #112
Ditto iluvtennis Oct 2017 #14
Good decision. I'm glad to hear it. nt DesertRat Oct 2017 #2
ME TOO! I just posted this under Activist Headquarters BigmanPigman Oct 2017 #44
An event to raise awareness about women's issues should showcase women. procon Oct 2017 #3
DAMN right! calimary Oct 2017 #56
Well, we know what that means Bettie Oct 2017 #4
Standing up for women and their equality is not nitpicking. sheshe2 Oct 2017 #7
+1,000,000 George II Oct 2017 #9
Thank you George. sheshe2 Oct 2017 #17
I'm fully aware of that. Bettie Oct 2017 #10
Everyone I read here is giving them a thumbs up. Good call. Correct choice. Problem resolved. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #11
I'm doubtful that there won't be another Bettie Oct 2017 #16
It looks the opposite of divided here. So maybe you can join in the unity and help it along. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #21
Do you see the irony of your position? It's there. Squinch Oct 2017 #24
Defending a Woman's rights... sheshe2 Oct 2017 #23
Everyone knows the issue was that one particular person melman Oct 2017 #37
Sorry melman, no. sheshe2 Oct 2017 #42
Then why is there nothing about the other man speaking? Lordquinton Oct 2017 #73
The other man? He was not given a key speaker spot. sheshe2 Oct 2017 #77
No where they said he was opening Lordquinton Oct 2017 #87
They released a statement saying that he was the headline speaker. all american girl Oct 2017 #105
Tamika Mallory repeatedly tweeted that Bernie Sanders was opening the conference yardwork Oct 2017 #114
You mean this tweet? progressoid Oct 2017 #125
No, Im talking about all the other tweets she sent this past week. yardwork Oct 2017 #142
That's what I was looking for. progressoid Oct 2017 #146
Thats too bad. yardwork Oct 2017 #147
No, he was never announced as an opening or headlining speaker. betsuni Oct 2017 #78
Good thing he wasn't either of those things Lordquinton Oct 2017 #88
This message was self-deleted by its author betsuni Oct 2017 #89
Not everything is melman Oct 2017 #92
So let's say another male, Barack Obama, had been chosen, there would have been the same outcry? progressoid Oct 2017 #121
Non sequitur. nt fleabiscuit Oct 2017 #149
Yep. shanny Oct 2017 #54
Nope. sheshe2 Oct 2017 #69
Yes and no, the fact he is male was a factor...a woman should give an opening night speech Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #97
This would be the nitpicking? I felt this was front and center to the issue, myself. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #134
I agree...I an not the one who made the nitpicking comment... I feel this was an Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #143
It meant a great deal to many women...or they wouldn't have changed it... Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #28
First you called the pushback 'nitpicking'... sheshe2 Oct 2017 #40
She...thank you!!!!! all american girl Oct 2017 #106
Thank you, all american girl. sheshe2 Oct 2017 #139
Good for you, Bettie. Others have a different view, and you are hearing them. susanna Oct 2017 #90
I second that thought. It was not nitpicking but a legitimate concern. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #15
And we most certainly have a right to our voices. sheshe2 Oct 2017 #25
Yes this is a great outcome and it helps our Michigan elected in 2018 and 2020 Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #29
Well said, she! mcar Oct 2017 #33
They should have... sheshe2 Oct 2017 #45
Great post Gothmog Oct 2017 #63
Thats not accurate, not entirely. Nevernose Oct 2017 #76
"for free, as best I can tell" -- it's illegal for a Senator to be paid to speak. betsuni Oct 2017 #80
You know... sheshe2 Oct 2017 #83
Thats weird. Honestly, and in good faith Nevernose Oct 2017 #93
A woman who happens to be a Bernie supporter invited him... and supposedly Nina Turner was Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #101
I still really like Sanders Nevernose Oct 2017 #133
I agree. I used to like Sen. Sanders. At the time, I did not care who won. But Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #144
He is not the right person for a Woman's conference. But whatever. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #100
TRUTH. Thank you, sheshe2. n/t susanna Oct 2017 #91
+1000 (nt) ehrnst Oct 2017 #117
+1000000000 treestar Oct 2017 #141
I just want to support your post. Curmudgeoness Oct 2017 #60
Except, no one has moved the goalposts. Everyone who objected before is now happy. stevenleser Oct 2017 #74
Goal posts are constantly being moved. Curmudgeoness Oct 2017 #132
Good for Them peggysue2 Oct 2017 #5
I posted a petition...thousands of women had already signed it... Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #18
A Good Faith Effort Me. Oct 2017 #49
Thank you...I had doubts about posting it. I want to be fair. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #98
Makes much more sense. nt stevenleser Oct 2017 #6
Good decision. yardwork Oct 2017 #8
I'm glad to see this NastyRiffraff Oct 2017 #12
I love men...and don't want to exclude them as friends,husbands, lovers and participants. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #20
This. cwydro Oct 2017 #32
Thank you. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #39
So they're going to pretend they never announced him as the opening speaker pnwmom Oct 2017 #19
So it seems. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #22
I got a call from another organizer who said they were making protest signs...that by God they were Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #26
And did it after deadline for refunds. JI7 Oct 2017 #30
Exactly. Iggo Oct 2017 #36
Seriously, was he going to be a speaker or headliner or wasn't he? betsuni Oct 2017 #67
Do you have backup for "pretend"? Jim Lane Oct 2017 #70
Yeah, must be that all these women just misunderstood. pnwmom Oct 2017 #79
Definitely a game of "Telphone" or "Operator" Hassin Bin Sober Oct 2017 #82
Oooops sheshe2 Oct 2017 #85
"the media don't think a story about a black woman is as newsworthy" betsuni Oct 2017 #86
Send me a link where they announce Maxine before Sen. Sanders...I have never found one...I Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #107
Tamika Mallory has stated it and no one has given me a link to the contrary. Jim Lane Oct 2017 #122
I am merely saying it was said after the fact...and their were many 'weasel' words after the Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #128
K and r. nt cwydro Oct 2017 #31
The sign of real wisdom is the ability to admit errors and change. BlancheSplanchnik Oct 2017 #34
So now they're good women again? Iggo Oct 2017 #35
The jury is out...and I saw a big picture of Nina Turner on an online ad...I knew she was mixed up Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #38
That's great news! Glamrock Oct 2017 #41
Post removed Post removed Oct 2017 #43
This message was self-deleted by its author SharonClark Oct 2017 #46
+1 sheshe2 Oct 2017 #47
"Moving along. Nothing to see here." Tarheel_Dem Oct 2017 #48
"Old white guys" eh? Lol. nt Purveyor Oct 2017 #50
Just making sure you all are good GaryCnf Oct 2017 #51
Thanks, Gary. sheshe2 Oct 2017 #72
. . . GaryCnf Oct 2017 #95
+1000 all american girl Oct 2017 #108
You know that GaryCnf Oct 2017 #129
Thank you Gary. sheshe2 Oct 2017 #137
As the expression goes..."the power of the purse". They were far behind schedule.... George II Oct 2017 #52
"reclaiming my time"! Poetic. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #53
Right on, Reclaiming my Time! UtahLib Oct 2017 #55
I love this!!! sheshe2 Oct 2017 #57
"Nevertheless, She persisted"! George II Oct 2017 #59
That she did... sheshe2 Oct 2017 #61
She, that's what lions do! George II Oct 2017 #64
;) sheshe2 Oct 2017 #66
So true...it is going to be a hell of a Woman's conference. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #99
K&R musette_sf Oct 2017 #58
I also received this e-mail Gothmog Oct 2017 #62
Dammit to hell...why are you disparaging "old white guys" as though we are ALL pieces of chit like Ferrets are Cool Oct 2017 #68
Excuse me? Really? I'm an "old white guy" and I'm happy they made this statement. George II Oct 2017 #75
Because they had their time in power. nt Tavarious Jackson Oct 2017 #81
And their votes don't matter anyway, remember? Purveyor Oct 2017 #84
That's what you took from this? all american girl Oct 2017 #109
LOL, Not all old white guys.... FSogol Oct 2017 #113
It's just one old white guy that gets a lot of people's hackles up. progressoid Oct 2017 #123
lulz obamanut2012 Oct 2017 #138
This is great news. It should send a clear message about R B Garr Oct 2017 #71
The message was heard loud and clear. Good ending to this story. kcr Oct 2017 #94
It looks to me like the initial statement ProfessorPlum Oct 2017 #102
Tamika Mallory had over a week to correct the record, if the problem was misreporting. yardwork Oct 2017 #110
OK, if that is the timeline, thank you ProfessorPlum Oct 2017 #120
This will put a kink in the attempts to troll women about this event. MrsCoffee Oct 2017 #103
WOW, who knew having an actual woman headline a woman's all american girl Oct 2017 #111
Its interesting isnt it? yardwork Oct 2017 #115
+1 betsuni Oct 2017 #116
Yep...some can't believe that women all american girl Oct 2017 #118
Not just a man...but a certain man...it is a cult of personality. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #131
Reminds me of Trump's meeting on women's health care IronLionZion Oct 2017 #119
Great news. liquid diamond Oct 2017 #124
Isn't that interesting that the criticism is directed to old white guys? Baitball Blogger Oct 2017 #126
Excellent! Glad to see this! NurseJackie Oct 2017 #127
the fact that it took so much backlash before the organizers did this is very telling. niyad Oct 2017 #135
So true. This was an obvious one to which anyone from any diversity group would have objected stevenleser Oct 2017 #136
True, sheshe2 Oct 2017 #140
They wanted to make it against Dems. joshcryer Oct 2017 #150
look good amandasmile Oct 2017 #148
welcome to du niyad Oct 2017 #151

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
13. Great decision...and a perfect opening night speaker. We need to help all of our elected keep
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:45 PM
Oct 2017

their jobs and gain more seats to fight Trump.. I am so going!

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
145. I don't like division. But some things are worth standing up for...this was unfair and a bit slimy..
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 07:13 PM
Oct 2017

glad it is over. But politics involve passion and sometimes people get carried away.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
104. Yes, glad to hear it. Debbie will kick it off on an inclusive note.
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 08:22 AM
Oct 2017

What follows will be the responsibility of others.

BigmanPigman

(51,560 posts)
44. ME TOO! I just posted this under Activist Headquarters
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 09:46 PM
Oct 2017

when I saw it on my emails 5 min ago. Then I looked at the rest of DU and saw this post. YEAH!!!!

procon

(15,805 posts)
3. An event to raise awareness about women's issues should showcase women.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:03 PM
Oct 2017

This was a good decision and it will let women take central roles. Women should lead the way and give testimony to encourage, support, and inspire their sisters in the struggle for rights and equality. Let our brothers, friends and lovers listen and participate as our trusted allies, aligned with the righteousness of our cause, not their own agenda.

Bettie

(16,058 posts)
4. Well, we know what that means
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:05 PM
Oct 2017

Time to move the goal posts! Find another thing to nitpick about to keep us all divided.

sheshe2

(83,633 posts)
7. Standing up for women and their equality is not nitpicking.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:34 PM
Oct 2017

We are living with an admitted sexual pervert, in our White House, that stalks and preys on women. We have a GOP that is trying to take women's rights and equality away from us. This was a conference advertised to be for women, first conference in 40 years. Then after the refund date they announced that a man would be the first speaker...not a woman, a man. I am so sad that on a Democratic board that defending women and their rights and making our voices heard is just nitpicking to you.

This conference was suppose to be about us.

Bettie

(16,058 posts)
10. I'm fully aware of that.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:40 PM
Oct 2017

watch...there will be another quibble with this event and people will once again declare the organizers dead to them.

I'm tired of the infighting. We should be banding together to fight the monsters in the GOP (including the horrific orange clown in the WH) and instead we're fighting over, honestly, the primaries again.

I am a woman, but I don't believe that one speaker makes or breaks an entire conference.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
11. Everyone I read here is giving them a thumbs up. Good call. Correct choice. Problem resolved.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:44 PM
Oct 2017

You are the only one being negative.

Bettie

(16,058 posts)
16. I'm doubtful that there won't be another
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:48 PM
Oct 2017

attack on this.

Before the Women's March, there were daily posts about how awful it was.

I have no faith in anything anymore.

The only thing I'm sure of is that we will lose big if we stay divided and, given what I see here daily (and how many threads I trash on a usual day), we're right on schedule for that. a

I predict that in the next 24 hours, there will be some new "OH MY!" moment about this conference.

sheshe2

(83,633 posts)
23. Defending a Woman's rights...
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:55 PM
Oct 2017

Defending their right to have a conference that was announced to be for Women is fighting the primaries? I think not. Women's issues did not begin and end with the primary and in fact has nothing what so ever have anything to do with it.

It was advertised as the first Women's Conference in 40 years. It was for us. Now it is again.

sheshe2

(83,633 posts)
42. Sorry melman, no.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 09:29 PM
Oct 2017

Not everything is about Bernie. This is about woman and I am appalled you do not understand that. It was not about the man, it was about a man.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
73. Then why is there nothing about the other man speaking?
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 11:17 PM
Oct 2017

It's clear to everyone what this whole uproar has been about.

sheshe2

(83,633 posts)
77. The other man? He was not given a key speaker spot.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 11:34 PM
Oct 2017

I have no problem with any man speaking, no woman does....well unless it was Dump or a GOPer...lol.

You all keep jumping on these threads and telling us it is clear why we protested a man opening a Woman's Conference because it was 'the man' when it was always about 'the women'. Sad that none of you have applauded or supported a Conference that was aimed at women until a few organizers decided differently and made it about politics. For once, just once could you reach out and support women? Gotta tell you, we are pretty magnificent creatures. You should try to get to know us sometime.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
87. No where they said he was opening
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 01:24 AM
Oct 2017

Or a keynote speaker. He was speaking on the first day, which could have been any number of reasons, but the interpretation was made to make it seem like it was all about him.

Looking at this from a lens bigger than these threads leaves the reason obvious.

all american girl

(1,788 posts)
105. They released a statement saying that he was the headline speaker.
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 08:39 AM
Oct 2017

The headline speaker should be a woman...we have tons of awesome women who should have been thought of before any man. Sorry, but sometimes it is just about women wanting things for women. I'm not sure why everyone is confused about this, or upset.

yardwork

(61,533 posts)
114. Tamika Mallory repeatedly tweeted that Bernie Sanders was opening the conference
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 09:01 AM
Oct 2017

They only just now asked Debbie Stabenow to open. It’s less than a week before the conference.

The organizers admitted that they made a mistake and they fixed it.

It’s kind of sad that a handful of men can’t accept that. Did it really mean so much to you to have a man open the Women’s Conference?

progressoid

(49,931 posts)
125. You mean this tweet?
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 12:02 PM
Oct 2017



MAXINE WATERS IS THE #WOMENSCONVENTION HEADLINER! Y'all may not have noticed but we announced that weeks ago...#ReclaimingOurTime
1:46 PM - Oct 12, 2017

progressoid

(49,931 posts)
146. That's what I was looking for.
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 09:01 PM
Oct 2017

I figured it would be easy to find since everyone keeps talking about her tweets. But I guess my old eyes aren't as good as they should be. I went back to the 12th and that's the only one I could find in her twitter feed addressing this.

betsuni

(25,367 posts)
78. No, he was never announced as an opening or headlining speaker.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 11:43 PM
Oct 2017

That's why there was no "uproar," and nobody cares about Sanders being on a panel. Opening, headlining: this is the reason.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
88. Good thing he wasn't either of those things
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 01:26 AM
Oct 2017

He was speaking on the first day, then it got blown out of proportion. He's a big and popular name, so it would be wise to let people know he was there.

Like my other response says, the reason is clear.

Response to Lordquinton (Reply #88)

progressoid

(49,931 posts)
121. So let's say another male, Barack Obama, had been chosen, there would have been the same outcry?
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 11:29 AM
Oct 2017

I'm gonna go ahead and say, no.

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
97. Yes and no, the fact he is male was a factor...a woman should give an opening night speech
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 06:17 AM
Oct 2017

at a women's conference. However, Sen. Sanders was not a good choice considering his stance on Identity politics (AkA social justice which includes women's rights) and he also called planned parenthood establishment. His stance on women's abortion rights has been disturbing to many women including me. Some think it is about one man...it is not. It is about women's rights. We are under attack and can not be relegated to the back of the progressive bus while our menfolk who think they know best work on populist economics which really can't include us without social justice. Women's rights are human rights and are not negotiable.


"Reproductive rights advocates have also been disturbed by Sanders’s post-election comments on abortion rights, as Rebecca Nelson notes at Cosmopolitan. Sanders endorsed Heath Mello, a mayoral candidate this year in Omaha, who had sponsored or voted for several anti-abortion bills during his time in the Nebraska state legislature. When criticized, Sanders said such choices might be necessary “if we’re going to become a 50-state party...To others, Sanders’s willingness to budge on the issue of abortion was at odds with his campaign message of proud, unapologetic democratic socialism. If the left doesn’t need to compromise on a $15 minimum wage or single-payer health care, some wondered, why give ground on abortion rights?..."It also fed the fear among many feminists and other activists that Sanders might be willing to sacrifice racial and gender equality in favor of economic populism. “Economic policy is not the singular answer to violence, hatred, oppression, and marginalization,” Carmen Rios wrote at Argot in response to Sanders’s November speech. “That doesn't mean it isn't important — it just means we don't have to choose. It means we cannot choose

This is why Sen. Sanders was not a good choice for a woman's conference and yes his votes are stellar, but his words not so much. Read the article if you have a chance...good article explaining the issue...uses different sources.

https://www.vox.com/identities/2017/10/13/16469216/bernie-sanders-womens-conference-speech

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
143. I agree...I an not the one who made the nitpicking comment... I feel this was an
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 07:02 PM
Oct 2017

important battle...a woman's convention should have a woman starting it off and Sen. Sanders in particular was a bad choice for reason already posted.

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
28. It meant a great deal to many women...or they wouldn't have changed it...
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 09:01 PM
Oct 2017

I can tell you when I complained I was basically told to bad so sad and get lost.

sheshe2

(83,633 posts)
40. First you called the pushback 'nitpicking'...
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 09:20 PM
Oct 2017
4. Well, we know what that means

Time to move the goal posts! Find another thing to nitpick about to keep us all divided
https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029722277#post4


Now you call it a "quibble". What a sad thing to do on a Democratic board. You as a woman are trivializing what all these women stand for. They want there voice heard, and it was, they want equality and the basic human rights over their own bodies at a Conference for Women.

Please do not seek to demean what we have to say and feel by calling it 'nitpicking' and 'quibble' when we express our opinions and protest something that we feel is wrong.

all american girl

(1,788 posts)
106. She...thank you!!!!!
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 08:42 AM
Oct 2017


I'm so tired that people seem to think women are just being petty, instead of listening to the actual outcry as to why this was wrong.

susanna

(5,231 posts)
90. Good for you, Bettie. Others have a different view, and you are hearing them.
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 01:51 AM
Oct 2017

on edit: clarity as to who I was responding to because this thread got craaaaaazy.

sheshe2

(83,633 posts)
25. And we most certainly have a right to our voices.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:58 PM
Oct 2017

By calling it nitpicking it diminishes our voice.

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
29. Yes this is a great outcome and it helps our Michigan elected in 2018 and 2020
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 09:02 PM
Oct 2017

That is a good move.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
76. Thats not accurate, not entirely.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 11:29 PM
Oct 2017

Michigan senator Debbie Stabenow is delivering the opening remarks. Sanders and a couple dozen other people are speaking on opening night. That’s not nitpicking; that’s an actual, meaningful difference.

Sanders is also in Congress, fighting tooth and nail against the GOP POS who are “trying to take women's rights and equality away” and found time out of his busy schedule to speak to women about that effort (for free, as best I can tell).

A man who has been a consistent champion of women’s rights — with a 100% rating from Planned Parenthood and NARAL — has two percent of the total speaking time. Giving someone else two percent of the time in the name of diversity sure as Hell seems like poetic justice to me.

sheshe2

(83,633 posts)
83. You know...
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 12:08 AM
Oct 2017

You all want to pile on, have at it.

One sentence to Senator Stabenow.........then the rest of your post is all about Bernie. This was all about The Women's Conference...Women. All women, colors and preference. The Conference was about empowering women. Our equality and our lives. Yet here you are making it about one man when it was never about him, nor should it have been.

I give up.....carry on just leave the women behind because we obviously mean nothing to you. When you make this all about one man you leave us behind.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
93. Thats weird. Honestly, and in good faith
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 02:17 AM
Oct 2017

I think that’s it’s you that made it about Bernie. I didn’t invite him — the women throwing the conference did that. I spoke in support of the women organizing the women’s conference, without a lot of help from national leaders meaning an actual grassroots effort to promote women.

YOU made two percent of the speakers, and less of the programming, about a man whose biggest claim to fame so far is LOSING to a woman. I wrote three paragraphs: one about the woman actually giving the opening in direct contradiction to what you claimed, and the other two about a human being that has done far more for women’s rights than most living Americans have. You seem to be the one concerned with genitalia. So that’s 100% of that post about women and their supporters. All of it. Maybe I’m wrong, but yours seems to be super concerned with personalities involved. Much less than the people who did all the actual work.

I’m not the one arguing in thread after thread here and across the Internet about how one token voice is silencing women. This is, in fact, the first of these threads I’ve jumped in on.

I’m not making it about ANYTHING. I’m not there. I didn’t attend or contribute or organize it. Even if I had, what’s the harm in giving 1/50th of the time to a male ally with an excellent track record of supporting women? He’s a token. He’ll learn how it feels, right? He gets about 1/500th if the total programming.

One male voice out of scores of speakers and thousands of participants is not “leaving women behind.”

We’re all in this horror show together and we all want better for everyone — and that includes the many women and men that want to hear people like Bernie Sanders speak.

This divisiveness that Bernie and Hillary people keep pushing? Arbitrarily and capriciously? It’s doing way more to empower people like Dotard Donald and his crew of fundamentalists than anything Clinton or Sanders EVER said about each other on the camps trail.

Why can’t we just support each other? Serious question. The fucking Republicans have us tearing each other’s throats out over two candidates that agree with each other 95% of the time. This is crazy at this point, and our seemingly always total inability to get over shit, at this point, is just sort of depressing.

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
101. A woman who happens to be a Bernie supporter invited him... and supposedly Nina Turner was
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 07:14 AM
Oct 2017

involved. I have seen ads for the conference with her pictured...but I don't know if that is true. What is true... is Tamika and other leaders invited Sen. Sanders to give a speech on opening night at a woman's convention...no doubt the usual stump speech! She admitted she knew it would be unpopular and waited until refunds were unavailable to announce it. Those who want to hear from Sen. Sanders, and as you know I am not one;I don't like his post-election stance on women's rights, can attend one of his rallies, but we do not need to do listen to him at what is supposed to be a Women's convention. Not everyone is a fan. I respect Sen. Sanders work in the Senate...but I would not attend any of his rallies...and resented being tricked into it...glad it is over. We truly need to unite and beat the GOP in 18 and 20. I hope this mess makes Sen. Sanders think long and hard about running in 2020, he has less support than in 16 and will not win the nomination in 20... but will sow controversy and division should he make the attempt. We don't need that in 20 where we must win to save the courts and any hope of a progressive agenda.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
133. I still really like Sanders
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 12:57 PM
Oct 2017

But him running again in 2020 would be an unmitigated disaster, on that much we can agree.

We have so many young, talented Democrats waiting their turn. I remember when an unknown guy with a funny name from Illinois was brought to Nevada to campaign for Democrats here in 2004. Half the crowd thought O’Bama was going to be Irish.

I can’t wait to kick some GOP butt in 2018.

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
144. I agree. I used to like Sen. Sanders. At the time, I did not care who won. But
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 07:04 PM
Oct 2017

I voted for Sanders in Ohio...now after the stuff he has said about Democrats, Mello...all the stuff... I just don't care for him. We need new blood. I want a younger candidate...let's move into the future.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
60. I just want to support your post.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 10:52 PM
Oct 2017

You are right. And it isn't "everyone" who is opposed to your comment, it is only "everyone who is posting in this thread."

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
74. Except, no one has moved the goalposts. Everyone who objected before is now happy.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 11:17 PM
Oct 2017

So you can be in favor of that persons comment all you want, its factually wrong.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
132. Goal posts are constantly being moved.
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 12:42 PM
Oct 2017

It used to be that men who support women were not villains. I used to be that black women who put together a women's conference were not called liars. Pretty soon, there will only be a few women who are "acceptable" to some of the people here. It is divisive, just like the comment said.

peggysue2

(10,819 posts)
5. Good for Them
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:15 PM
Oct 2017

Listening to women in regards to a Women's Convention. You would've thought this was a no-brainer. But I'm sure the correction/clarification is appreciated by . . . the women involved and those expecting to attend.

The blowback from this snafu must have been significant.

NastyRiffraff

(12,448 posts)
12. I'm glad to see this
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:44 PM
Oct 2017

I don't care if Sanders has a small role in the convention; speaking at a panel discussion about resistance is fine. I don't like him, but that's okay too.

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
20. I love men...and don't want to exclude them as friends,husbands, lovers and participants.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:50 PM
Oct 2017

But the opening speaker should be a woman at a woman's convention.

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
22. So it seems.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:52 PM
Oct 2017

I heard there was significant backlash...I am not on any committees or anything but some of the girls I work with at election time are and there was some real pushback...some were even talking about holding an alternative convention at the same time...I would have gone to that.

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
26. I got a call from another organizer who said they were making protest signs...that by God they were
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 08:59 PM
Oct 2017

going and intended to disrupt the Sanders speech...holy shit! Glad it is over...we really do need to unite and beat the living shit out of the GOP in 18 and beyond.

betsuni

(25,367 posts)
67. Seriously, was he going to be a speaker or headliner or wasn't he?
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 11:09 PM
Oct 2017

Why did they say he was if he wasn't -- they could've cleared this up immediately. If he was, they're being dishonest: disorganizers, not organizers.

 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
70. Do you have backup for "pretend"?
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 11:11 PM
Oct 2017

I haven't paid much attention to this brouhaha, but in a quick search just now I found several tweets from Convention organizer Tamika D. Mallory. I'm not fluent in Twitter so I'll just give you the URL that was in my browser window:




Here's the gist of what she said in several tweets back on October 12:
* Weeks ago, the organizers announced Maxine Waters as the headliner;
* "Maybe folks should ask why mainstream media didn't give a black woman the same attention when she was announced as a headliner & speaker?";
* A USA Today article referred to Bernie as "a headliner", as to which Mallory wrote, "notice that everything else I said is in actual quotes except this part. This was a paraphrase of the question and answer."

My tentative conclusion is that Mallory never said "a headliner" let alone "the headliner". Similarly, the information that Bernie would be a speaker on the opening day was transmuted into "they...announced him as the opening speaker," as you put it.

Based on my limited research, it's at least possible that the organizers planned a pre-eminent role for Bernie, but then, facing backlash, made the "decision" (so widely lauded in this thread) to downgrade him. On the evidence I have now, though, I'm going to go with Occam's Razor. There was a game of Telephone here, augmented by a couple of regrettable media tendencies: First, as Mallory implied, the media don't think a story about a black woman is as newsworthy; second, when Bernie's name popped up as one of the speakers, the corporate media saw a chance to generate a lot of clicks and sow dissent on the left by exaggerating his role.

Someone in the Twitter thread charges the organizers with failing to control the message. There may be some truth to that, but they presumably had a lot on their plates and (somewhat naively) didn't realize how this one attack on the event would get hyped.

pnwmom

(108,953 posts)
79. Yeah, must be that all these women just misunderstood.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 11:44 PM
Oct 2017


Look at the TITLE of the USA Today article that the Women's March tweeted.




And look what the organizer said in response to a question about Bernie being the headliner. She didn't deny it.

Oct. 12

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2017/10/12/bernie-sanders-speech-womens-convention/756825001/

When Women's March co-founder Tamika Mallory was asked: "People are going to say, wait a minute, there’s a man as the headliner at the Women’s Convention, the first women’s convention in 40 years?" she replied:

"I would say that (U.S. Rep.) Maxine Waters is also coming to the conference, and we know she has been a very, very powerful voice in terms of all we’ve seen happening in terms of this administration, particularly, and she’ll be at the conference as well. And a lot of other people have been invited to the conference and we’re hoping to hear back from these folks. Thankfully, SenatorSanders has agreed to attend."


Hassin Bin Sober

(26,308 posts)
82. Definitely a game of "Telphone" or "Operator"
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 11:54 PM
Oct 2017

Maxine Waters was always they keynote.

Most of the players didn't eve know she was speaking. One refused to believe she was even asked to speak prior to Sanders. No amount of links to contemporaneous news reports to the contrary would suffice.

Are we still accusing the organizers of lying about inviting Harris, HRC and Warren? Or are we good now?

Is this still a Putin funded event or are we good now?

betsuni

(25,367 posts)
86. "the media don't think a story about a black woman is as newsworthy"
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 12:44 AM
Oct 2017

Why would a woman headline speaker at a women's convention be big news? This is not surprising. When a man was announced as headline speaker at a women's convention, it was surprising and therefore newsworthy.

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
107. Send me a link where they announce Maxine before Sen. Sanders...I have never found one...I
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 08:46 AM
Oct 2017

saw a link that thanks Maxine for allowing them to use her words in the title of the convention but nothing about speaking until after Sen. Sanders was announced. Also, to announce the speaker after the time for a refund had passed and then to make it a racial thing in their comments...does not show naivete on the part of organizers of the women's convention but cold calculation. I am glad women stood up and it was resolved. Now we have Democratic elected who are running for office speaking on opening night and that is a good thing. This is not about corporate media...women objected to having a man open a woman's convention.

 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
122. Tamika Mallory has stated it and no one has given me a link to the contrary.
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 11:36 AM
Oct 2017

This subthread is about the charge that the organizers are "pretend[ing] they never announced him as the opening speaker." No one has given me a link showing that the organizers did actually make such an announcement. Mallory has said that that report was the media garbling the facts.

I've provided information from someone with first-hand knowledge. My inclination is to believe her unless and until there's solid evidence to the contrary. If you disagree, fine, you go right on thinking that the organizer of the Women's Convention is lying to the public about what announcements they made.

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
128. I am merely saying it was said after the fact...and their were many 'weasel' words after the
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 12:25 PM
Oct 2017

announcement. I am just glad it ended on a positive note.

Demsrule86

(68,455 posts)
38. The jury is out...and I saw a big picture of Nina Turner on an online ad...I knew she was mixed up
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 09:17 PM
Oct 2017

in this.

Response to riversedge (Original post)

Response to Post removed (Reply #43)

sheshe2

(83,633 posts)
72. Thanks, Gary.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 11:16 PM
Oct 2017

We are good now. Our voices were heard, doesn't happen often for us. Amazing in 2017 our voice could be silenced. We are thrilled that the conference that was set up as the first in 40 years to honor women, motivate and empower women is doing just that.

 

GaryCnf

(1,399 posts)
129. You know that
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 12:26 PM
Oct 2017

I have a personal interest in this story but I wanted to make sure you knew that I haven't and wouldn't have gotten directly involved in a decision that needed to be resolved between women - and I can pretty much guarantee that I wouldn't have been listened to if I had. Your post is spot on in every way and I am glad for all involved. Thank you!

George II

(67,782 posts)
52. As the expression goes..."the power of the purse". They were far behind schedule....
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 10:25 PM
Oct 2017

....in raising funds for the event. Faced with an angry constituency that was either not contributing, not signing up to attend (at $295 each) and some backing out even without getting a refund, the only thing left to do was rearrange the speakers.

Each and every woman who spoke up was simply "reclaiming my time"!

sheshe2

(83,633 posts)
57. I love this!!!
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 10:45 PM
Oct 2017

"reclaiming my time" Love it! That we did George, that we did, everyone of us that spoke up did just that.

Thank you Auntie...you reclaimed your time and so did we.

Ferrets are Cool

(21,102 posts)
68. Dammit to hell...why are you disparaging "old white guys" as though we are ALL pieces of chit like
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 11:10 PM
Oct 2017

the OLD WHITE REPUGS. Give me a fucking break.

all american girl

(1,788 posts)
109. That's what you took from this?
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 08:53 AM
Oct 2017

Not everything is about old white dudes...sometimes it's about women. It's OK to have women speak to women about women...we don't need white dudes to tell us what to think.

progressoid

(49,931 posts)
123. It's just one old white guy that gets a lot of people's hackles up.
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 11:43 AM
Oct 2017

His name begins with Bernie and ends with Sanders. If Jimmy Carter had been chosen to speak, we wouldn't be having this discussion.


I'm not really sure what it is about Bernie that gets people so upset.

ProfessorPlum

(11,253 posts)
102. It looks to me like the initial statement
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 07:48 AM
Oct 2017

Was deliberately misreported and then hyped to create division between progressives, and that this annoucement represents no change on the part of the conference. So what was all the f*ing fuss about over a lie?

yardwork

(61,533 posts)
110. Tamika Mallory had over a week to correct the record, if the problem was misreporting.
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 08:55 AM
Oct 2017

Instead, Mallory repeatedly tweeted that Bernie Sanders was the opening speaker, and that Maxine Waters was “also” speaking.

Debbie Stabenow is only just now asked to be the opening speaker, less than a week before the event.

There was no misreporting. The event’s organizers changed their plans because of the intense pushback. The criticism worked.

MrsCoffee

(5,801 posts)
103. This will put a kink in the attempts to troll women about this event.
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 08:00 AM
Oct 2017

The Russian (and even some domestic) troll farms have been great at using Bernie to divide groups.

Great to see women standing up and speaking out. I’m sick of the tone deafness in politics.

all american girl

(1,788 posts)
111. WOW, who knew having an actual woman headline a woman's
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 08:56 AM
Oct 2017

event (and not a man) would make people get so upset. Women spoke up and were heard, if that upsets some, they may want to look at themselves and sort out why they are upset about women's voices.

yardwork

(61,533 posts)
115. Its interesting isnt it?
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 09:05 AM
Oct 2017

A handful of men in this thread seem to be hysterical at the thought that a man is no longer the opening speaker at the Women’s Conference.

Most men and women posting here see this as a very positive correction by the organizers. But a couple of posters are beside themselves with disappointment and rage.

Very illustrative.

all american girl

(1,788 posts)
118. Yep...some can't believe that women
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 09:30 AM
Oct 2017

would rather have a woman, and many let there voices be heard. It's sad really, makes me think some don't want to believe women when we state our opinions...like they know more they we do about ourselves.

IronLionZion

(45,380 posts)
119. Reminds me of Trump's meeting on women's health care
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 09:34 AM
Oct 2017


There are old white men trying to put women in their place. Bernie isn't one of them.

Baitball Blogger

(46,676 posts)
126. Isn't that interesting that the criticism is directed to old white guys?
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 12:05 PM
Oct 2017

We have heard a lot about date rape, which is a heinous act in its own right. But, this is something different. This is old guys abusing their autocratic power over women. They should forfeit their positions and jobs over this.

On edit: In lieu of Bill Cosby's similar actions, maybe we should edit it to old powerful guys.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
127. Excellent! Glad to see this!
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 12:06 PM
Oct 2017
Victoria Brownworth @VABVOX

Looks like @womensmarch finally decided to listen to actual women instead of old white guys as it's 2017 not 1917!♀️
7:17 PM - Oct 17, 2017

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This is very good news.

niyad

(113,021 posts)
135. the fact that it took so much backlash before the organizers did this is very telling.
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 02:11 PM
Oct 2017

such a problem should NEVER have come up.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
136. So true. This was an obvious one to which anyone from any diversity group would have objected
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 03:23 PM
Oct 2017

if it was done to them.

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