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bigworld

(1,807 posts)
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 01:49 PM Jun 2016

Ex-wife of suspected Orlando shooter: ‘He beat me’

Source: Washington Post

The ex-wife of the 29-year-old man suspected of killing 50 people in a Orlando nightclub early Sunday said that he was violent and mentally unstable and beat her repeatedly while they were married.

The ex-wife said she met Omar Mateen online about eight years ago and decided to move to Florida and marry him.

At first, the marriage was normal, she said, but then he became abusive.

“He was not a stable person,” said the ex-wife, who spoke on the condition of anonymity because she feared for her safety in the wake of the mass shooting. “He beat me. He would just come home and start beating me up because the laundry wasn’t finished or something like that.”

Read more: https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/national-security/ex-wife-of-suspected-orlando-shooter-he-beat-me/2016/06/12/8a1963b4-30b8-11e6-8ff7-7b6c1998b7a0_story.html?hpid=hp_rhp-banner-main_flashoot-1237pm%3Ahomepage%2Fstory

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Ex-wife of suspected Orlando shooter: ‘He beat me’ (Original Post) bigworld Jun 2016 OP
Pakistani men can beat wives 'lightly,' Islamic council says BlueNoMatterWho Jun 2016 #1
Been doing that here for over 200 years. n/t jtuck004 Jun 2016 #3
I think this kind of progress sulphurdunn Jun 2016 #8
Thank God his access to guns wasn't curtailed! villager Jun 2016 #2
Yes, and it would be a needless knee-jerk reaction to this "story" if anything like that happened avaistheone1 Jun 2016 #4
Sorry, you are very very very wrong. Darb Jun 2016 #6
It is I that am sorry. I thought my sarcasm my obvious. avaistheone1 Jun 2016 #13
The new right-wing talking point is that this dude was a 'registered democrat'. Chicago1980 Jun 2016 #5
I see your Mateen and raise you one registered Republican McVeigh. Bernardo de La Paz Jun 2016 #7
Yeah, but that was 20 years ago. Chicago1980 Jun 2016 #9
It's already making the rounds. Who cares? BlueNoMatterWho Jun 2016 #10
Actions show him murdering most likely democrats. rockfordfile Jun 2016 #11
I can call myself a fire hydrant Skittles Jun 2016 #20
yet another mass shooter with a history of domestic violence arithia Jun 2016 #12
Yep. Always. smirkymonkey Jun 2016 #14
if she didn't prosecute or make an official report then he still had the right to buy weapons Demonaut Jun 2016 #15
he might have kilked her JI7 Jun 2016 #17
true Demonaut Jun 2016 #18
So the abused ex wife is to blame? pennylane100 Jun 2016 #19
no, the situation is more complex than it appears Demonaut Jun 2016 #23
Because we often ignore people who take such actions. MisterFred Jun 2016 #22
So why was he allowed to own weapons? alarimer Jun 2016 #16
Too bad we often tolerate domestic abuse in the United States :( MisterFred Jun 2016 #21
when the FBI checked him out TWICE for crazy internet posts, why didn't they talk with wife and empl Sunlei Jun 2016 #24
 

sulphurdunn

(6,891 posts)
8. I think this kind of progress
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 02:35 PM
Jun 2016

is called incremental change, which is great if you're controlling the increments, don't really like the idea and aren't in any particular hurry.

 

avaistheone1

(14,626 posts)
4. Yes, and it would be a needless knee-jerk reaction to this "story" if anything like that happened
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 02:03 PM
Jun 2016

going forward.



 

Darb

(2,807 posts)
6. Sorry, you are very very very wrong.
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 02:27 PM
Jun 2016

We need some knee-jerk reactions. We need to take some toys away and make it harder to get them.

Bernardo de La Paz

(48,964 posts)
7. I see your Mateen and raise you one registered Republican McVeigh.
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 02:34 PM
Jun 2016

Regardless of party affiliation, the problem is angry unstable people with high power weapons. Period.

Which reminds me, keep that angry unstable tRump away from high power nuclear weapons. Period.

rockfordfile

(8,699 posts)
11. Actions show him murdering most likely democrats.
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 02:51 PM
Jun 2016

Sometimes actions of a person show the opposite of what they really are.

arithia

(455 posts)
12. yet another mass shooter with a history of domestic violence
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 03:07 PM
Jun 2016

it's depressing how little attention this statistic gets. It doesn't matter what philosophy the shooter claims to ascribe to, there is almost always a dead or battered woman where the violence began.

Demonaut

(8,914 posts)
15. if she didn't prosecute or make an official report then he still had the right to buy weapons
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 06:11 PM
Jun 2016

why was this not reported?

pennylane100

(3,425 posts)
19. So the abused ex wife is to blame?
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 08:42 PM
Jun 2016

That is a lot more reasonable than blaming the NRA, or the politicians that refuse to pass sensible gun control laws.

Demonaut

(8,914 posts)
23. no, the situation is more complex than it appears
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 10:39 PM
Jun 2016

my thought process was cultural, not person specific

MisterFred

(525 posts)
22. Because we often ignore people who take such actions.
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 10:02 PM
Jun 2016

U.S. justice is messed up.

Not to mention guns get sold at gun shows without any effective gun control. A report, even a conviction, wouldn't have made a difference. I don't know why anyone would think a conviction is a barrier to buying a gun.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
24. when the FBI checked him out TWICE for crazy internet posts, why didn't they talk with wife and empl
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 10:30 AM
Jun 2016

employers?

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