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riversedge

(70,195 posts)
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 02:26 PM Jun 2017

Outside A Clinic In Charlotte, 600 Protestors Claim Abortion Is A Mans Issue

Source: huff post





For many women, “access” to abortion care includes enduring harassment.

06/12/2017 12:37 pm ET | Updated 1 hour ago





Volunteer clinic escort and Pro-choice Charlotte member Alixandra waits in the clinic parking lot to direct patients past throngs of protesters.





CHARLOTTE, N.C. ― On any given Saturday morning, Calla Hales is faced with hundreds of protesters outside the abortion clinic she runs. Members of various anti-abortion rights groups flock to A Preferred Women’s Health Center to preach, pray, and shame women who are trying to access their federally protected right to an abortion.

Patients are told that abortion is a violent act and that a woman’s sole purpose is to bear children. They are called selfish murderers; their husbands and boyfriends are called cowards.

The city of Charlotte has granted these groups sound permits, thus allowing them to set up their microphones and sound systems just off the property of the clinic. Through the doors of the health center, patients can hear the anti-abortion diatribes, almost all of which are given by white men.

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“In Charlotte, black women are being persecuted by white men in the name of their God and it is wrong,” she told HuffPost. “This city isn’t doing it’s part to protect black women and that means it is my job as a black woman to help my sisters in need. That support is also extended to other people of color and white women.”
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Outside A Clinic In Charlotte, 600 Protestors Claim Abortion Is A Mans Issue (Original Post) riversedge Jun 2017 OP
as soon as they can get pregnant, then they can talk, until then, you woman-hating assholes, niyad Jun 2017 #1
What is that saying women have about your boyfriend, find out if he Eliot Rosewater Jun 2017 #2
pretty much niyad Jun 2017 #4
These dudes want to do everything they personally can to stop abortion? forgotmylogin Jun 2017 #17
Nicely stated. And very PC! erronis Jun 2017 #22
thank you!! your post is absolutely spot on!!!! niyad Jun 2017 #25
Absolutely right! RoBear Jun 2017 #28
I hate these assholes. CrispyQ Jun 2017 #3
What do you expect? LisaM Jun 2017 #5
Anyone who dismisses women's reproductive health care and childbearing as a "social issue" ehrnst Jun 2017 #8
Any politician who doesn't vehemently support choice is not a liberal. Plain and simple. moda253 Jun 2017 #29
These assholes should be out helping the poor nini Jun 2017 #6
Meanwhile, thousands of unwanted and unloved children cry out Croney Jun 2017 #7
Ask the supposed pro-lifers to adopt the children...... Silence? keithbvadu2 Jun 2017 #14
"a womans sole purpose is to bear children" SLAVERY CousinIT Jun 2017 #9
+1000 smirkymonkey Jun 2017 #31
It sure as hell is a man's issue Orrex Jun 2017 #10
Where can a dude sign up to be an escort? IronLionZion Jun 2017 #11
Here you go... CousinIT Jun 2017 #12
Thanks! IronLionZion Jun 2017 #13
Definitely do not show up at a clinic until you have gone through the training. ehrnst Jun 2017 #16
That's good to know IronLionZion Jun 2017 #18
This is one of the best posts I've read in long time AwakeAtLast Jun 2017 #23
Here's an entertaining read from Cracked IronLionZion Jun 2017 #24
Thank you! nt JTFrog Jun 2017 #30
I wrote another $50 check to PP before I hit the end of the erticle. SpankMe Jun 2017 #15
When men can get pregnant and pay the real costs EllieBC Jun 2017 #19
+1000 crazylikafox Jun 2017 #21
This is gender-based terrorism musette_sf Jun 2017 #20
If men could get pregnant... Zoonart Jun 2017 #26
IMO, the only pregnancy ANY man has ANY reason to have ANY... 3catwoman3 Jun 2017 #27
Hear, hear! smirkymonkey Jun 2017 #32

Eliot Rosewater

(31,109 posts)
2. What is that saying women have about your boyfriend, find out if he
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 02:30 PM
Jun 2017

has a good, positive relationship with his mother, if he does he will likely make a good husband or whatever.

I can tell you from personal experience rightwing men see women in two modes only, as sex objects or as mothers who are on pedestals who are not equal in anyway to them.

forgotmylogin

(7,527 posts)
17. These dudes want to do everything they personally can to stop abortion?
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 03:29 PM
Jun 2017

They should get vasectomies.

They should park an outpatient surgical truck right at the edge of this demonstration and invite them in to put their cojones where their mouths are. If they'd like to plan future children, they can wank into a vial and freeze it, but otherwise, for jeebus, snip that shit right off at the source.

If they're not willing to get snipped and do their part for no accidental pregnancies, they might as well pack their signs and go home.

erronis

(15,241 posts)
22. Nicely stated. And very PC!
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 05:29 PM
Jun 2017

Even Jeebus, who liked to turn his cheek, would have thought castration would be OK for these assholes.

I think one video of a anti-choice man giving birth through his wanker canal would cause a whole lot of "family planning"!

LisaM

(27,803 posts)
5. What do you expect?
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 02:36 PM
Jun 2017

Even Bernie Sanders dismissed Planned Parenthood as part of the "Establishment" and asked Rachel Maddow if he could "move past" Donald Trump's comments on punishing women who have had abortions to discuss something that "really matters".

 

ehrnst

(32,640 posts)
8. Anyone who dismisses women's reproductive health care and childbearing as a "social issue"
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 02:51 PM
Jun 2017

Is flying in the face of settled social and medical science.

It's a medical issue and should be viewed as such.

 

moda253

(615 posts)
29. Any politician who doesn't vehemently support choice is not a liberal. Plain and simple.
Tue Jun 13, 2017, 02:30 PM
Jun 2017

Fuck Bernie Sanders. This guy cannot go away fast enough.

nini

(16,672 posts)
6. These assholes should be out helping the poor
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 02:38 PM
Jun 2017

I wish I was physically able to be an escort for these poor women.

Croney

(4,657 posts)
7. Meanwhile, thousands of unwanted and unloved children cry out
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 02:48 PM
Jun 2017

for someone to care about them. But oh no, let's not shrink their ranks by letting women decide; let's pile on more.

CousinIT

(9,240 posts)
9. "a womans sole purpose is to bear children" SLAVERY
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 02:56 PM
Jun 2017

That is what these men are advocating for.

I had a doctor tell me that was his attitude. I NEVER WENT BACK TO THAT OFFICE AGAIN. Fucking slave-driver should have lost his license.

But what do I mean when I say that attitude is "slavery"? THIS: https://www.thenation.com/article/reproductive-rights-and-long-hand-slave-breeding/

It's a long article. To sum it up: DENYING another human being complete agency over their own body and denying another human being SELF-DETERMINATION is SLAVERY. It's NO DIFFERENT than this country's disgusting past of selling -- and breeding - other human beings without their control or consent. There is NO difference. NO. DIFFERENCE.

Women ARE human - and this is something the MRAs, other assorted woman-haters and anti-abortionists cannot acknowledge or do not believe. Because they do not believe women are fully human (they're male service units, utilities, or incubators) -- they do not believe women deserve a basic set of human rights - among the most important of those - self-determination and agency over their own bodies.



Orrex

(63,203 posts)
10. It sure as hell is a man's issue
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 02:56 PM
Jun 2017

Insofar as every man should be working to protect a woman's freedom of reproductive choice.

Otherwise, they should stay the fuck out of the way.

IronLionZion

(45,431 posts)
11. Where can a dude sign up to be an escort?
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 02:57 PM
Jun 2017

Since the more racist anti-choicers think I'm stealing jobs away from Americans and will call ICE on me (All-American, born and raised US Citizen), I might as well escort these women and we can be hated together.

If these assholes assume I'm the baby daddy for some young white woman, they will have a difficult decision to make on whether they hate choice or mixed race babies more. The internal dilemma might leave some of them speechless as they process their thoughts.

 

ehrnst

(32,640 posts)
16. Definitely do not show up at a clinic until you have gone through the training.
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 03:22 PM
Jun 2017

There are definitely different roles, and all require very specific knowledge.

Thanks for stepping up!!!

SpankMe

(2,957 posts)
15. I wrote another $50 check to PP before I hit the end of the erticle.
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 03:16 PM
Jun 2017

I donate $50 three to four times a year.

EllieBC

(3,013 posts)
19. When men can get pregnant and pay the real costs
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 03:54 PM
Jun 2017

I'll say they can have an opinion.

And by costs I don't mean financial. I mean the unending nausea, the aches and pains and General discomfort, the worrying about if you're eating right or enough or too much, worrying about gestational diabetes, pre-eclampsia, being on bed rest (I was with my 1st and it sucked), worrying about things going wrong during labour...it's endless.

Then once the baby is born, a new mental load lands. My husband is an awesome dad but at the end of the day *I* am the one who knows when our oldest has occupational therapy next, when the baby's next round of vaccinations are, and when the cut off date is to sign our toddler up to be waitlisted for pre-k for 2018 (this is seriously ridiculous). *I* spend my days planning meals that are nutritionally not too shabby and tasty and worry about which kid will treat it like poison. *I* am the one who fields weekly phone calls from the school because our oldest has ASD and has many a meltdown. *I* am the one constantly thinking about tomorrow, next week, next month, next year in their lives.

When men do all that...ok they can have an opinion. Until then, just no.

musette_sf

(10,200 posts)
20. This is gender-based terrorism
Mon Jun 12, 2017, 03:55 PM
Jun 2017

done by anti-American males, terrorizing innocent female US citizens and attempting to interfere with their sacred civil, human and Constitutional rights.

Zoonart

(11,852 posts)
26. If men could get pregnant...
Tue Jun 13, 2017, 12:23 PM
Jun 2017

...abortion would be a sacrament.

GloriaSteinem

There has always been harassment at women's clinics. In the early 80's I escorted for a while and the deplorables were always there. Sometimes they threw chopped chicken parts at the women entering the clinic as they screamed at them that this was what they were doing to their unborn babies.

The cruelest cut, however, was reserved for the poor women that they were able to convince to not have the procedure. They brought them in for religious counseling, and even threw them baby showers. They were Besties until the baby had been born...then, they cut them off cold. The cult of the fetus is a deeply sick one.

3catwoman3

(23,973 posts)
27. IMO, the only pregnancy ANY man has ANY reason to have ANY...
Tue Jun 13, 2017, 12:41 PM
Jun 2017

...opinion on is one he has been party to in a committed/non-casual relationship, and then, only if he plans to stay involved in the child's life in supportive ways, both financial and emotional.

Otherwise, butt out and STFU!

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