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George II

(67,782 posts)
Mon Aug 13, 2018, 11:14 PM Aug 2018

Source: Aretha Franklin is in hospice care

Source: CNN

Aretha Franklin is in hospice care at her home, a source close to the 76-year-old singer told CNN's Don Lemon.

Word of the "Queen of Soul" being gravely ill was first reported by Showbiz 411.

Showbiz 411's Roger Friedman told CNN: "She has a great family, she's surrounded by love, and the world is sending prayers. All further announcements will be made by her family. We just want to send love and prayers."

The soul singer has been dogged by reports of failing health for years and appeared frail in recent photos, but she has kept her struggles private.

Read more: https://www.cnn.com/2018/08/13/entertainment/aretha-franklin-ill/index.html



To me her most memorable performance was at President Barack Obama's first inauguration.

She also performed at the inaugurations of Jimmy Carter and Bill Clinton. She was the first woman inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.

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Source: Aretha Franklin is in hospice care (Original Post) George II Aug 2018 OP
. democratisphere Aug 2018 #1
One of my favorite Aretha moments OnlinePoker Aug 2018 #2
Love that scene. iluvtennis Aug 2018 #11
that does not sound good... chillfactor Aug 2018 #3
such a great loss to music period crazycatlady Aug 2018 #30
R E S P E C T Botany Aug 2018 #4
Aretha Franklin, President Barack Obama...such a strong voice! George II Aug 2018 #5
K&R burrowowl Aug 2018 #6
Huge crowd, Bayard Aug 2018 #7
Thank you. n/t Judi Lynn Aug 2018 #12
so beautiful. just think, it wasn't that long ago when we had a President with a SOUL. olddad56 Aug 2018 #15
I remember Carole King was overwhelmed TexasBushwhacker Aug 2018 #21
------- Lugnut Aug 2018 #8
Hospice is a day or two. sheshe2 Aug 2018 #9
Not necessarily. SergeStorms Aug 2018 #14
God Bless your Mom and God Bless you. olddad56 Aug 2018 #16
Thanks. SergeStorms Aug 2018 #22
I'm so sorry to hear that. joshcryer Aug 2018 #17
Thanks for the thougts. SergeStorms Aug 2018 #23
Hugs to you in this time BumRushDaShow Aug 2018 #19
Thanks. SergeStorms Aug 2018 #24
Peace to you and your mom. sheshe2 Aug 2018 #20
Thank you. SergeStorms Aug 2018 #25
My sister and I have been doing home care for mom. sheshe2 Aug 2018 #27
You know exactly... SergeStorms Aug 2018 #29
My aunt lasted in hospice for six months. kwassa Aug 2018 #26
I agree with Sergestorms - hospice can be for much longer csziggy Aug 2018 #28
Still got my fingers crossed that the Queen of Soul can recover - what a talent - singer iluvtennis Aug 2018 #10
Be it on Earth or in Heaven, Biden My Time Aug 2018 #13
She is most certainly... Sophiegirl Aug 2018 #18

OnlinePoker

(5,719 posts)
2. One of my favorite Aretha moments
Mon Aug 13, 2018, 11:18 PM
Aug 2018

Blues Brothers.



On edit: And we lost Matt Murphy, her husband in this scene in June.

chillfactor

(7,574 posts)
3. that does not sound good...
Mon Aug 13, 2018, 11:19 PM
Aug 2018

hospice care usually mean death is imminent. Such a great lost to soul music...….I have always loved her and cried tears when she sung at Obama's inauguration.

olddad56

(5,732 posts)
15. so beautiful. just think, it wasn't that long ago when we had a President with a SOUL.
Tue Aug 14, 2018, 03:18 AM
Aug 2018

Neither Aretha (or Carole King) would ever even consider attending an event where Putin's puppet was in attendance, much less perform for him.

God Bless Aretha, I wish her a smooth transistion.
God Bless Barrack Obama, the people's President.
God help us all.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,174 posts)
21. I remember Carole King was overwhelmed
Tue Aug 14, 2018, 10:47 AM
Aug 2018

that Aretha not only sang, but played the piano for that number.

SergeStorms

(19,195 posts)
14. Not necessarily.
Tue Aug 14, 2018, 03:05 AM
Aug 2018

My Mom has been in hospice for over two weeks now and shows no immediate signs of dying. Renal failure is a tricky thing. There's no way to put a timeline on many life ending diseases. You just wait and hope they're not in too much pain or mental anguish.

Not to wish my mother a speedy death, but at $350 a day it's adding up quickly. They say Renal failure is not an unpleasant way to go (how would they know for sure?). They go to sleep and just drift off into.......whatever comes next, if anything. So "they" say.

olddad56

(5,732 posts)
16. God Bless your Mom and God Bless you.
Tue Aug 14, 2018, 03:24 AM
Aug 2018

Your Mom will pass when everyone who loves her lets go, she is only hanging on for you. Spiritually, she will never leave you, she will always be there for you.

And in case you are wondering, whatever comes next is everything.

We are all spiritual beings having a human experience, we come to this laboratory to learn what we are here to learn, and then we graduate.

SergeStorms

(19,195 posts)
22. Thanks.
Tue Aug 14, 2018, 06:17 PM
Aug 2018

She and all her children/grandchildren/great-grandchildren have made their peace with it and with her. She's ready to go.

SergeStorms

(19,195 posts)
23. Thanks for the thougts.
Tue Aug 14, 2018, 06:22 PM
Aug 2018

Medicaid kicks in after all her money is gone, so it's not like they're going to kick her out if she (or we) can't pay anymore. It's a beautiful place and they treat her like a queen. She's ready to "move on", so to speak.

BumRushDaShow

(128,870 posts)
19. Hugs to you in this time
Tue Aug 14, 2018, 06:53 AM
Aug 2018


Been there done that a few years ago with my mother. It was only for a couple days, after almost a week in a hospital and transit to the hospice facility. The staff apparently had enough medical info for her to know which room to put her in for those last days (and it was $500/day) but she was basically in a twilight/in and out of sleep those couple days before she passed. There were others in the facility who had been there for some time (weeks?) and some were up and about, but mom's condition was such that she was no longer ambulatory.

SergeStorms

(19,195 posts)
24. Thanks.
Tue Aug 14, 2018, 06:26 PM
Aug 2018

She's 92 and ready to move on. The past 10 years have been filled with pain, Doctors and hospitals. She said if euthanasia was available in New York she'd already be a "crispy critter" (cremated). Her words, not mine! Our entire family has a wicked sense of humor, even in the face of death.

SergeStorms

(19,195 posts)
25. Thank you.
Tue Aug 14, 2018, 06:29 PM
Aug 2018

She's ready to move on, and the family is at peace with it as well. My Dad died in 1996, so we've been looking out for her since that time. Thanks again.

sheshe2

(83,746 posts)
27. My sister and I have been doing home care for mom.
Tue Aug 14, 2018, 10:27 PM
Aug 2018

She turned 92 in July. All things considered she is doing pretty well. She is sharp though gets a bit weaker by the day. Dad and BIL, 5 years ago and died in ten days of each other. One in a nursing home and one at home.

Best to you Serge. I know it's not easy.

SergeStorms

(19,195 posts)
29. You know exactly...
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 02:51 AM
Aug 2018

what we're going through here. It's nice to have people to commiserate with. So often we think we're the only ones going through something like this, but it happens millions of times each day. My Mom was quite self-sufficient (with my brother and I doing her housework for her) until around 8 weeks ago. Then into the hospital for some fainting issues and general weakness. There wasn't anything they could do for her after they discovered the kidney failure, and along with COPD (she's had pneumonia 3 times), congestive heart failure and a few other smaller issues, we chose a hospice for her on the Dr. and Social Worker's advice (she loves it!) and that's the story thus far. She says she's ready to go, and I don't blame her. She's in good spirits, and would welcome death at this point.
I made a vow to my daughter that I'd never put her and her family through all of this this with me. If it means putting a shotgun to my head (when my death is certain) so be it. My Mom has suffered (along with the family, to a lesser extent) so much in the past 10 years, and I won't put myself or my daughter through that unnecessarily. There's living, and existing. If I can no longer live it's time to shuffle off my mortal coil, so to speak.
Good luck to your Mom and yourself - and the rest of your family - and hopefully it will be a peaceful and dignified passing for your mother. Thanks again for the kind thoughts, and good luck to you my friend!

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
28. I agree with Sergestorms - hospice can be for much longer
Tue Aug 14, 2018, 10:54 PM
Aug 2018

After my uncle's stroke, hospice helped my aunt and cousins with his home care for nearly two years. My brother in law and my father were each under hospice care for a week. My mother has been under hospice care since last November.

The time period varies a lot and each hospice organization has their own rules, but generally the length of time they will help a family is dependent on the patients' needs.

iluvtennis

(19,850 posts)
10. Still got my fingers crossed that the Queen of Soul can recover - what a talent - singer
Tue Aug 14, 2018, 02:27 AM
Aug 2018

songwriter, awesome piano player.

Here is one of my favorites from the 80's disco era. Luther Vandross who we lost 4/5 yers ago was on keyboard.

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