New Yorker: Remembering Sandra Bland's Death in the Place I Call Home
Remembering Sandra Bland's Death in the Place I Call Home
By Karen Good Marable, 7/13/16
After watching the video of Blands arrest, Mama Marable and I were quiet. Before long, I heard my daughter through the monitor calling Mama-ma-ma-ma-ma. I turned off the television and went to pick up the baby. While my mother-in-law warmed up leftovers of baked chicken, cabbage, and Rice-A-Roni, I asked her an impossible question: What do I do?
She knew without asking what I was talking about: What do I do to keep my black child safe? Mama Marable has three children whom she and her husband, who was a chief master sergeant in the Air Force, brought up all over the world. She didnt answer immediately, and when she did her tone was resigned. I dont know, she said, shaking her head. I guess
tell her to pick her battles.
I knew what she meant. She was speaking as a seventy-year-old woman from Quitman, Georgia, who came up picking cotton and tobacco and now owned all the farmland around her. She was advising her granddaughter not to engage. Just get home.
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The question I am really asking is: What do you do when the battle picks you?
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