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teach1st

(5,935 posts)
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 01:31 PM Sep 2016

Donald Trump Is Being Outplayed by Women—and He’s Losing His Mind Over It

Donald Trump Is Being Outplayed by Women—and He’s Losing His Mind Over It
The Nation, 9/30/16 -- By Joan Walsh

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Four days after his pathetic debate performance, Donald Trump is still digging himself deeper down the hole that Hillary Clinton dispatched him to on Monday night when she disclosed his racist and sexist treatment of former Miss Universe Alicia Machado. He didn’t deny Clinton’s claims that he’d fat-shamed his employee, calling her “Miss Piggy” and “Miss Housekeeping;” he essentially confirmed it, telling Fox and Friends the next morning that she’d gained weight, and it was a problem for him. Then his allies began attacking Machado for rumors that she’d been involved in a murder plot—she was never charged, with anything—and in the porn trade. The story’s latest twist is Trump’s meltdown in the wee small hours of Friday morning, attacking both Clinton and Machado on Twitter, and urging his 11 million followers to look at a “sextape” of Machado (one that Snopes.com says doesn’t actually exist.)

We already know the Trump phenomenon channels the tremendous and tragic backlash to the advancements of women and people of color in the last few decades. The folks in those “Make America Great Again” hats are almost always white and usually male. They are in thrall to a reassuring story that restores men to the head of society and whites to their central, superior place. Sure, there’s a strain of economic anxiety that reflects troubling economic trends for the white working class over the last 40 years. But Trump is also relying on male anger at female advancement. His serial adultery and his swaggering misogyny are key to his appeal to some older white men.

But they’re appalling to women of every race and age group, who are coming to see Trump as the belittling boss and callow playboy who shames employees, wives and daughters alike with cruel or crude comments about their appearance. The notion of a man who is clinically obese fat-shaming a beautiful but curvy young woman exemplifies the double standard that reduces women to their youth and beauty, but allows men (especially wealthy ones) a lifetime of presumed virility and social prestige.


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Donald Trump Is Being Outplayed by Women—and He’s Losing His Mind Over It (Original Post) teach1st Sep 2016 OP
swaggering misogyny-she's got that right. Lifelong Protester Sep 2016 #1
I love Joan Walsh... Satch59 Sep 2016 #2
this paragraph: niyad Sep 2016 #3
I doubt Trump can even play checkers. C_U_L8R Sep 2016 #4
What's happening is completely foreign to him. He can NOT wrap his "squirrel-fur" head around it. PearliePoo2 Sep 2016 #5
He is being publicly humiliated and his inner circle is cracking beachbumbob Sep 2016 #6
"see Trump as the belittling boss & callow playboy who shames employees, wives and daughters alike" Bernardo de La Paz Sep 2016 #7
The Queen of hearts beats the King of clubs in my book. TexasProgresive Sep 2016 #8
Hillary poker.... getagrip_already Oct 2016 #25
Exactly Jon King Sep 2016 #9
Welcome to DU, Jon King! calimary Sep 2016 #21
My older brother Johnny Noshoes Oct 2016 #26
Hugs! I'm married to a 67-year-old white guy. He's with her, too! calimary Oct 2016 #27
Thanks cali Johnny Noshoes Oct 2016 #29
CORRECT Skittles Oct 2016 #23
"presumed virility" dobleremolque Sep 2016 #10
Trump has many failings; Kindergarten was one; never learned "play nice" sanatanadharma Sep 2016 #11
i think we're all witnessing something called retrowire Sep 2016 #12
Beautiful AND curvy... Mme. Defarge Sep 2016 #13
I thought the exact same thing! n/t renate Sep 2016 #22
We need to see an expose on the fakeness of "Reality tv" SleeplessinSoCal Sep 2016 #14
I really like Joan lillypaddle Sep 2016 #15
Hillary should respond when necessary, lillypaddle Sep 2016 #16
I am beginning to be concerned for Melania's safety. mnhtnbb Sep 2016 #17
Either that, or she, too, is on her way to being dumped for a younger version. calimary Sep 2016 #19
And it appears he's well on his way to being BEATEN BY A GIRL!!! calimary Sep 2016 #18
But He Is Still Winning the Douchebag Vote TomCADem Sep 2016 #20
There are ways he could lose the douchebag vote, but it would require.... Moonwalk Oct 2016 #24
DJT earned his karma. no_hypocrisy Oct 2016 #28
he's not losing too much...Ha-ha-ha!! Bill USA Oct 2016 #30

Satch59

(1,353 posts)
2. I love Joan Walsh...
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 01:41 PM
Sep 2016

Clinton campaign has perfectly timed this...just when voters are starting to pay attention and they have really found a subject that can touch the heart of women...and men who don't want to be associated with the He Man Womens Haters Club...(for all you Little Rascals fans...)

Empowering women is a beautiful thing...

niyad

(113,259 posts)
3. this paragraph:
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 01:50 PM
Sep 2016

 It’s no accident that three of Trump’s victims—Machado, the Khan family, and Judge Gonzalo Curiel—are not white. Hostility to minorities is the animating energy of the campaign. But the candidate’s derangement over Machado surpasses his prior breakdowns—for a good reason. A woman he once controlled, quite literally—making her exercise in front of the media, to prove she was taking his demands to lose weight seriously—is defying him publicly. Another woman, Hillary Clinton, refused to slink into obscurity after her husband humiliated her (last year Trump shared a fan’s tweet asking, “If Hillary Clinton can’t satisfy her husband what makes her think she can satisfy America?”) and is currently leading him in the race for the presidency.

PearliePoo2

(7,768 posts)
5. What's happening is completely foreign to him. He can NOT wrap his "squirrel-fur" head around it.
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 01:56 PM
Sep 2016

The pampered "Golden Boy" has had people kissing his ass his entire life.
Now...he's getting his flabby, flaccid ass KICKED from here to next Tuesday...by a GIRL!
I'm RELISHING his public meltdown. May it be EPIC!



 

beachbumbob

(9,263 posts)
6. He is being publicly humiliated and his inner circle is cracking
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 01:58 PM
Sep 2016

They had no idea how unstable trump is....So sweet to watch

Bernardo de La Paz

(48,988 posts)
7. "see Trump as the belittling boss & callow playboy who shames employees, wives and daughters alike"
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 02:13 PM
Sep 2016

Donald doesn't have a clue how negative he is playing out.

Jon King

(1,910 posts)
9. Exactly
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 02:33 PM
Sep 2016

This is why the venom is even higher among his supporters. They can deal with Obama more than a women. He looked like an athlete they might have seen on TV. Didn't vote for him, but dealt with it. But Hillary is getting vitriol that is off the charts.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
21. Welcome to DU, Jon King!
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 03:58 PM
Sep 2016

I wouldn't rule that out, either. At least, for some of them, at least Barack Obama is a guy. But a WOMAN in charge? OMG, can't have that, can we?

Johnny Noshoes

(1,977 posts)
26. My older brother
Sat Oct 1, 2016, 01:45 PM
Oct 2016

My older brother who is sadly a Trump supporter said being President is a man's job. Insulting to women and our sister on top of it. My sister is a bank executive with a small bank in New Hampshire. I think if our mother was still alive she'd have to smack him upside the head and maybe knock some sense into him. A lot of these old white guys will NEVER get it. This 62 year old white guy sure as hell does - I'm with her!

calimary

(81,220 posts)
27. Hugs! I'm married to a 67-year-old white guy. He's with her, too!
Sat Oct 1, 2016, 01:53 PM
Oct 2016

My husband is a remarkable feminist, and has been from the time I met him back in college. He is very highly evolved. Sounds like you are, too!

Johnny Noshoes

(1,977 posts)
29. Thanks cali
Sat Oct 1, 2016, 05:23 PM
Oct 2016

I had a cousin say to me once at a family gathering "You know you never really did fit in". I wasn't insulted at all as most of my cousins are right wingers so I wear my "not fitting in" as a badge of honor. I think part of the not fitting in was that when my mom had my older brother Italian tradition is name the first born son after the paternal grandad. Well my mom being the woman she was said I carried him nine months and I'll name him what I please. When she had me she named me after HER father kind of like a big old middle finger to them all. The funny thing is she set the example and most of my male cousins born in 1954 are NOT named after grandpa. My mom - I miss her.

sanatanadharma

(3,699 posts)
11. Trump has many failings; Kindergarten was one; never learned "play nice"
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 02:49 PM
Sep 2016

The big take away from the, under oath, video deposition released 9/30, is hearing Trump, in his own voice, admitting that he does not think about the consequences of his actions.

Trump fails both intermediate Bhagavad Gita and kindergarten.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,110 posts)
14. We need to see an expose on the fakeness of "Reality tv"
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 03:15 PM
Sep 2016

The whole world is ill served by the revenue stream that has so many addicted to it.

One example: We go to a charming bed and breakfast in the mountains. The proprietors were approached by a "rescue/fixer upper" production team for doing a makeover. They didn't need one, but they were told that they would provide crappy looking furniture to then be replaced by newer, purchased furniture. We have no idea how this would have worked because they turned the show down. Thankfully.

Also HGTV has been sued over failure to provide quality renovations whuch are sometimes incomplete. House Hunters require the couple to buy a house first before hunting.

All the other shows have gimmicks and scripted parts that are far from reality. Perfect exampke Duck Dynasty. It works. They are virtual scams passing as Reality TV. The smaller the network, the bigger the scam. And we are all dumner for it.

lillypaddle

(9,580 posts)
15. I really like Joan
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 03:25 PM
Sep 2016

She's a straight shooter and one smart cookie. She is certainly right on the money on this.

lillypaddle

(9,580 posts)
16. Hillary should respond when necessary,
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 03:48 PM
Sep 2016

but otherwise stay above the fray and not get down and dirty -

"One day in late October
when I was far from sober
returning with my load with manly pride,
my feet began to stutter
so I lay down in the gutter,
and a pig came near and laid down by my side;
A lady passing by was heard to say:
"You can tell a man who boozes,
By the company he chooses,"
and the pig got up and slowly walked away,

-unknown



mnhtnbb

(31,382 posts)
17. I am beginning to be concerned for Melania's safety.
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 03:51 PM
Sep 2016

Yes, she made a deal with the devil, but she ought to be able to get out safely, if needed.

I hope she has the contacts and ability to make a quick exit if needed. Women who have lived
in abusive relationships need a tremendous amount of support to break free.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
19. Either that, or she, too, is on her way to being dumped for a younger version.
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 03:55 PM
Sep 2016

I started worrying about her awhile back, when I learned she's 46. Uh-oh...

Wonder if he's already on the look-out for Wife #4?

calimary

(81,220 posts)
18. And it appears he's well on his way to being BEATEN BY A GIRL!!!
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 03:53 PM
Sep 2016

This is one guy who very badly needs a BIG-TIME dose of humility. Force-fed.

TomCADem

(17,387 posts)
20. But He Is Still Winning the Douchebag Vote
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 03:58 PM
Sep 2016

I am sure there is a segment of the male population that totally empathize with his views on women.

Moonwalk

(2,322 posts)
24. There are ways he could lose the douchebag vote, but it would require....
Sat Oct 1, 2016, 12:40 PM
Oct 2016

...the douchebags to realize they're being screwed over by him. Being that they are douchebags, and like their leader, live in their own realities, it's likely that this will never happen.

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