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demmiblue

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Mon Jan 8, 2018, 01:21 PM Jan 2018

Each day is a gift: Woman's heartbreaking letter goes viral after her deather at age 27

The note was shared by her family on Facebook

Source: The Independent

A moving letter written by a dying woman has gone viral after she sadly passed away last week.

On January 4, Holly Butcher, 27, from Grafton, in New South Wales, Australia, lost her battle with Ewing’s sarcoma – a rare form of cancer in and around the bones that affects mostly young people.

But, before she died, the woman penned a letter to the world which she asked her family to post on her Facebook account.

“It’s a strange thing to realise and accept your mortality at 26 years young,” she wrote.


More: http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/holly-butcher-death-27-ewing-s-sarcoma-cancer-viral-letter-facebook-a8146271.html



A bit of life advice from Hol:

It’s a strange thing to realise and accept your mortality at 26 years young. It’s just one of those things you ignore. The days tick by and you just expect they will keep on coming; Until the unexpected happens. I always imagined myself growing old, wrinkled and grey- most likely caused by the beautiful family (lots of kiddies) I planned on building with the love of my life. I want that so bad it hurts.

That’s the thing about life; It is fragile, precious and unpredictable and each day is a gift, not a given right.

I’m 27 now. I don’t want to go. I love my life. I am happy.. I owe that to my loved ones. But the control is out of my hands.

I haven’t started this ‘note before I die’ so that death is feared - I like the fact that we are mostly ignorant to it’s inevitability.. Except when I want to talk about it and it is treated like a ‘taboo’ topic that will never happen to any of us.. That’s been a bit tough. I just want people to stop worrying so much about the small, meaningless stresses in life and try to remember that we all have the same fate after it all so do what you can to make your time feel worthy and great, minus the bullshit.

More: https://www.facebook.com/hollybutcher90/posts/10213711745460694




Thank you, Holly.
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Each day is a gift: Woman's heartbreaking letter goes viral after her deather at age 27 (Original Post) demmiblue Jan 2018 OP
K&R uppityperson Jan 2018 #1
Thank you for posting this. What a beautiful soul. So wise. lucca18 Jan 2018 #2
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