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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsAnyone know about Facebook?
I have a Facebook account, but only so that I can participate in some FB groups. I don't "do" Facebook. Which is to say...I don't post anything on my FB pages. No pictures, no messages to other FB people, no "friends." Nothing.
So I don't know how to do FB very well (the settings and all), since I don't "do" FB. But I keep getting Friend requests. I don't ever accept them, because there's nothing on my FB page for them to see. And I don't know them, so there's no reason for me to keep up with their FB pages. I ONLY do those FB groups.
My question is this: Can I turn off the ability for others to request being a "Friend" on my FB page? Or should I politely respond to these people to let them know why I won't accept their request? I just leave the requests sitting there, open.
Is there an established way to handle this?
ProudMNDemocrat
(16,784 posts)I think you can belong to groups if you have an account.
Most use Facebook to stay connected to family and friends, promote a business, buy or sell things.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)That's the only reason I opened an account.
Thanks. Good to know that others ignore friend requests. I didn't know the protocol. I didn't want a bunch of people mad at me.
ProudMNDemocrat
(16,784 posts)I learn more things about Period Clothing(which I do professionally), things Historical, various social groups connected to Renaissance Festivals and Pirates, Science Fiction , etc. FB can be an excellent tool if used right.
Drunken Irishman
(34,857 posts)At least that's how it used to be. Pretty sure it hasn't changed, though.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Drunken Irishman
(34,857 posts)Go to settings > privacy settings then you should see an option that says: Who can send you friend requests? To the right should be an edit option. Click it. It brings up a dropdown (should be defaulted EVERYONE) and select 'friends of friends'. Since you have no friends, it should prevent anyone from adding you.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Cattledog
(5,914 posts)That would mark you as a target. They are phishing to get access. Just delete them. You can change your contact info
by going to the top blue bar clicking on the downward arrow. Click on privacy. Here you will find all the settings for contacts. Good luck!
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Iggo
(47,551 posts)Lisa0825
(14,487 posts)If you set it so only friends of friends can send you friend requests, and you don't have any friends, that should mean nobody can find you.
Also make sure each of these settings is on the most restrictive choice (screenshot here):
https://imgur.com/a/dFabr
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Fullduplexxx
(7,859 posts)Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)bikebloke
(5,260 posts)They give you the option to decline a friend request - a button click. You don't have to give a reason. And the requester is never informed that they were declined.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)I recognize their names. (I participate in a community FB group.) Good to know.