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Reel Bummers: Movies that Depressed the Hell Out of You? (Original Post) Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 OP
Cold Mountain Faux pas Jan 2018 #1
Oh man! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #3
Dont read the book. Cracklin Charlie Jan 2018 #34
Gallipoli shenmue Jan 2018 #148
Thank you Faux pas Jan 2018 #165
Magnolia (1999) pdxflyboy Jan 2018 #2
Yep! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #4
Plus, it was a horrible movie anyway. longship Jan 2018 #94
Thank You! RobinA Jan 2018 #217
Missing. Girard442 Jan 2018 #5
Good flick! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #6
'night, Mother catbyte Jan 2018 #7
Wow! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #10
very disturbing movie samnsara Jan 2018 #76
This message was self-deleted by its author catbyte Jan 2018 #79
I remember somebody interviewing Sissy Spacek & she was saying how awful & draining catbyte Jan 2018 #83
One of my all time favorite movies. LiberalLoner Jan 2018 #230
death wish samnsara Jan 2018 #8
On so many levels! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #11
Pixote lunasun Jan 2018 #9
Just the description bums me out! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #14
You asked! Saw it over 30 yrs ago still bummed & not made in Hollywood . Real on the streets lunasun Jan 2018 #20
Thanks! Im going to try to find it! Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #21
Well there are a couple of scenes at the bottom of that link . Watch and decide if you want to go on lunasun Jan 2018 #32
Thanks! Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #48
Just reading the plot synopsis is as far as I want to go, thanks for the warning! Canoe52 Jan 2018 #74
It's a bummer but got a lot of critical acclaim its not like a cheap horror flick but horrors abound lunasun Jan 2018 #78
On the Beach unc70 Jan 2018 #12
Indeed! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #15
Well done, but it is a serious downer movie. (nt) Paladin Jan 2018 #19
It ruined my childhood. mainer Jan 2018 #222
The Pawnbroker. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2018 #13
Great movie! 😢 Steiger shouldve gotten the Oscar! Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #16
Agree & great actor . He got one for Heat of the Night few years later lunasun Jan 2018 #22
Yep! Great talent. He was brilliant in The Loved One. Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #23
My dad loved this movie MFM008 Jan 2018 #42
Great movie! dhol82 Jan 2018 #203
Dancer In The Dark sharp_stick Jan 2018 #17
Yes!😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #18
Sophie's Choice Trailrider1951 Jan 2018 #24
Same here! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #25
I agree with you... CatMor Jan 2018 #33
It still haunts me. I read the book, so I was prepared. But the visuals wounded me for life. Guilded Lilly Jan 2018 #153
Yeah, that last scene with quoting Emily Dickinson's poem "Ample make this bed" just made CTyankee Jan 2018 #132
Mee too. Read it and saw the movie and it was one of the saddest things I ever read. Left a huge OregonBlue Jan 2018 #179
Schindler's List zipplewrath Jan 2018 #26
Absolutely! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #28
Well here's another downer discntnt_irny_srcsm Jan 2018 #157
He was no saint zipplewrath Jan 2018 #161
I took a "first date" to that movie years ago. Buckeye_Democrat Jan 2018 #158
George Washington zipplewrath Jan 2018 #160
Amazing, isn't it? Buckeye_Democrat Jan 2018 #162
Unfortunately no zipplewrath Jan 2018 #163
Yeah, that's sad too. Buckeye_Democrat Jan 2018 #164
I once had an office mate who thought... ailsagirl Jan 2018 #224
Yeah that movie made me physically ill. I got a really bad headache. mucifer Jan 2018 #216
Open Water... TheDebbieDee Jan 2018 #27
Can you imagine? 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #29
OMG, yes. Such an unbelievable downer. Nay Jan 2018 #208
It's a movie you'll only watch ONCE! TheDebbieDee Jan 2018 #209
Yes, it was a true story. The boat captain who left them behind was never punished Nay Jan 2018 #219
The Road MuseRider Jan 2018 #30
The worst. Cracklin Charlie Jan 2018 #37
Yup. MuseRider Jan 2018 #41
Saw it! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #49
:-) :-( MuseRider Jan 2018 #58
Town Without Pity. KY_EnviroGuy Jan 2018 #31
Yep! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #51
The Deer Hunter. Cracklin Charlie Jan 2018 #35
Great flick! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #53
Requiem for a Dream LonePirate Jan 2018 #36
JINX! mr_lebowski Jan 2018 #43
Yes. I will never watch it again. Most devastating movie livetohike Jan 2018 #52
I only watched it once and I will never watch it again. It is simply life crushing. LonePirate Jan 2018 #111
One of the best/worst! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #56
Requiem for a Dream ... also, Leaving Las Vegas (n/t) mr_lebowski Jan 2018 #38
Yes! LLV was harsh! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #57
Seven. revmclaren Jan 2018 #39
Brutal! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #61
OMFG Yes! Proud Liberal Dem Jan 2018 #137
Million Dollar Baby alittlelark Jan 2018 #40
Man o man! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #63
Yes Bayard Jan 2018 #95
The person I went with asked me " why did you want to ruin my day? " although we both agreed lunasun Jan 2018 #145
Atonement 50 Shades Of Blue Jan 2018 #44
Indeed! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #69
that movie killed me. It was beautifully done but a sad tale indeed. CTyankee Jan 2018 #200
Yes, just a tragedy all around. Few movies have made me sob uncontrollably afterward 50 Shades Of Blue Jan 2018 #211
Seconds, Rosemary's Baby The_Casual_Observer Jan 2018 #45
😢On both counts! Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #70
"The World According to Garp" Va Lefty Jan 2018 #46
Agree! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #71
Oh Man cannabis_flower Jan 2018 #81
21 Grams was gritty. jalan48 Jan 2018 #47
That nearly did me in Beaverhausen Jan 2018 #54
It was the first time I'd seen Naomi Watts-she was great. jalan48 Jan 2018 #93
Really was! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #73
Grave of the Fireflies Doc_Technical Jan 2018 #50
😢On all! Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #77
Into the Wild.... loved it but yeah, that was some heavy shit. bettyellen Jan 2018 #55
True! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #89
Really good adaptation of the book, I thought. bettyellen Jan 2018 #99
Didnt read the book! Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #100
Its Jon Krakhauer (sp?) the guy who wrote about that awfulEverest bettyellen Jan 2018 #104
Thanks! Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #106
Youre very welcome Floyd! bettyellen Jan 2018 #107
He got his start writing articles for Climbing Magazine and Outside. Great writer. n/t FSogol Jan 2018 #169
Yeah. He feels awful he had any part in the whole commercialization of Everest because of what it bettyellen Jan 2018 #171
Looking for Mr. Goodbar lapfog_1 Jan 2018 #59
I think a lot of people did! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #91
I worked near the bar in Chicago it was filmed at . Inspired by a true story lunasun Jan 2018 #146
What was the point of that movie??? ailsagirl Jan 2018 #184
I think it was a cautionary tale TexasBushwhacker Jan 2018 #225
I suppose so ailsagirl Jan 2018 #234
went to an Icelandic film festival DBoon Jan 2018 #60
Wow! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #98
Threads. Starseer Jan 2018 #62
Yes! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #101
What Dreams May Come rsdsharp Jan 2018 #64
I thought it was excellent at the time and watched it again recently. mahina Jan 2018 #67
Know what you mean! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #102
Got a few Proud Liberal Dem Jan 2018 #65
Agree on all! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #105
Incendies mahina Jan 2018 #66
Here's my list of movies that scarred me and that I would NEVER watch again: Upthevibe Jan 2018 #68
Now Im intrigued! Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #108
Brazil hurl Jan 2018 #72
Yes it is! 🎭 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #109
One of my favorite movies. hunter Jan 2018 #196
Awesome! hurl Jan 2018 #198
Blue Jasmine JDC Jan 2018 #75
Oh man! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #113
Leaving Las Vegas, The Road, Sophie's Choice catbyte Jan 2018 #80
Yes! Yes! Yes! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #114
Leaving Las Vegas....loved that one. Grew up around alcoholism, felt it was so accurate. LiberalLoner Jan 2018 #231
"All is Lost" / Robert Redford Wwcd Jan 2018 #82
Know what you mean! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #115
A movie that amplified the emotions of hope to hopelessness, & despair Wwcd Jan 2018 #121
The Spy Who Came in from the Cold lpbk2713 Jan 2018 #84
Havent seen it in years! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #116
The Virgin Spring by Ingmar Bergman Canoe52 Jan 2018 #85
Yikes! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #118
I posted my answer (The Virgin Spring) further down, and then read the list skylucy Jan 2018 #218
I tend to eschew "downer" movies. 3catwoman3 Jan 2018 #86
Understandable! Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #120
Meet Joe Black Bradshaw3 Jan 2018 #87
Yep! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #122
The Boy in the Striped Pajamas cannabis_flower Jan 2018 #88
That would be my answer too. nt Binkie The Clown Jan 2018 #92
Brutal! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #125
That was a hard one to watch. smirkymonkey Jan 2018 #212
Requiem for a Heavyweight First Speaker Jan 2018 #90
Yes, but still a favorite. Brilliant writing, casting, directing, and acting! Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #126
One last one: "Farewell, My Concubine" I saw it in 1996 & the thought of it still depresses me. catbyte Jan 2018 #96
Yes! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #127
Saving Private Ryan IADEMO2004 Jan 2018 #97
It is! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #129
The Wrestler - Mickey Rourke Runningdawg Jan 2018 #103
God yes! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #130
It wasn't a bad movie/documentary or anything Proud Liberal Dem Jan 2018 #110
I gave my copy to the library! Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #131
Brokeback Mountain LonePirate Jan 2018 #112
Pence would cry for a reason other than the rest! Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #133
Pence would cry because he was secretly jealous! Canoe52 Jan 2018 #220
Bless the Beasts and the Children Adsos Letter Jan 2018 #117
Havent seen it in forty plus years! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #168
The Last Picture Show dlwickham Jan 2018 #119
Yes! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #170
DU is slipping - Fahrenheit 9/11 NewJeffCT Jan 2018 #123
I did Proud Liberal Dem Jan 2018 #134
You did NewJeffCT Jan 2018 #140
China Syndrome: my 1st unhappy ending movie Bucky Jan 2018 #124
A welcome to reality! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #172
The movie "My Girl" lopes along like light family fare; Onyrleft Jan 2018 #128
That reminds me: Proud Liberal Dem Jan 2018 #135
Yep! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #173
The Curious Case of Benjamin Button Proud Liberal Dem Jan 2018 #136
Welcome to the club! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Jan 2018 #176
Eraserhead hurl Jan 2018 #138
It was so weird that I got creeped out before I could become depressed. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2018 #142
Good point. hurl Jan 2018 #144
Angela's Ashes and Breaking the Waves IcyPeas Jan 2018 #139
The Killing Fields NewJeffCT Jan 2018 #141
That's another one. It's a terrific film but really horrifying. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2018 #143
A Tree Grows in Brooklyn MaryMagdaline Jan 2018 #147
Never saw the movie... MsBeckee75 Jan 2018 #215
"Idiocracy". Aristus Jan 2018 #149
It came out way before Bush was selected lunatica Jan 2018 #174
It was released (if you could call it that. Something like 16 theaters for a week or so) in 2006. Aristus Jan 2018 #175
Wow! I remember it so differently! lunatica Jan 2018 #177
Shindlers list. Texasgal Jan 2018 #150
Raise the Red Lantern nmgaucho Jan 2018 #151
The Onion Field milestogo Jan 2018 #152
Couldn't bring myself to watch/read it ailsagirl Jan 2018 #188
A young Ted Danson plays the cop milestogo Jan 2018 #190
Definitely. And James Woods is the perfect stereotypical killer ailsagirl Jan 2018 #191
Yeah, he was great in that role. milestogo Jan 2018 #195
Imitation of Life Chipper Chat Jan 2018 #154
Titanic. I was haunted by the 3rd class passengers pnwest Jan 2018 #155
It Comes at Night Skittles Jan 2018 #156
Guyana Tragedy: The Story of Jim Jones Buckeye_Democrat Jan 2018 #159
Pan's Labyrinth Steerpike Jan 2018 #166
The Hunger Games - the first one Alpeduez21 Jan 2018 #167
Ironweed redstateblues Jan 2018 #178
Yes, that was a tough one to watch. smirkymonkey Jan 2018 #210
Frozen (2010) BarbaRosa Jan 2018 #180
Moon (2009 with Sam Rockwell) Hav Jan 2018 #181
The House of Sand and Fog. Also the book. kairos12 Jan 2018 #182
Easy Rider!! ailsagirl Jan 2018 #183
Ring of Bright Water ailsagirl Jan 2018 #185
Mystic River (2003) mikeargo Jan 2018 #186
"Miracle Mile" (1988) and "Melancholia" (2011) Tikki Jan 2018 #187
Watership Down and The Little Mermaid (Not the Disney film) IrishEyes Jan 2018 #189
In Cold Blood ailsagirl Jan 2018 #192
Make Way for Tomorrow JonLP24 Jan 2018 #193
Melancholia. NP Homer Wells Jan 2018 #194
Ugh! That was so depressing! smirkymonkey Jan 2018 #213
Yes that one. MissB Jan 2018 #239
Nobody has mentioned "The Unbearable Lightness of Being." hunter Jan 2018 #197
Dead Birds - an anthropology documentary jpak Jan 2018 #199
Lord of the Flies no_hypocrisy Jan 2018 #201
Mudbound dhol82 Jan 2018 #202
Pay it Forward DUgosh Jan 2018 #204
Seven Pounds lkinwi Jan 2018 #205
The Virgin Spring (1960 Ingmar Bergman film) skylucy Jan 2018 #206
I had to bookmark this thread. IcyPeas Jan 2018 #207
The Lovely Bones smirkymonkey Jan 2018 #214
Whos Afraid of Virginia Woolf ....(1966) Tikki Jan 2018 #221
The Heart is a Lonely Hunter. nt LWolf Jan 2018 #223
"One Who Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest",& "Night and Fog' - (documentary) Stuart G Jan 2018 #226
The Descendants and Manchester By The Sea. El Supremo Jan 2018 #227
Clockwork Orange fierywoman Jan 2018 #228
American Beauty. muntrv Jan 2018 #229
Johnny got His Gun LiberalLoner Jan 2018 #232
Soylent Green LiberalLoner Jan 2018 #233
Threads maryellen99 Jan 2018 #235
I just saw another one: "We Need to Talk About Kevin" catbyte Jan 2018 #236
The book is amazing. PassingFair Jan 2018 #238
My second choice is Blow Out JonLP24 Jan 2018 #237

longship

(40,416 posts)
94. Plus, it was a horrible movie anyway.
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:59 PM
Jan 2018

Raining frogs? Really?????

It's a terrible movie. Absolutely terrible!

RobinA

(9,886 posts)
217. Thank You!
Sun Jan 21, 2018, 01:17 AM
Jan 2018

God awful. And loud. I was wishing I had some of the morphine or whatever Julianne Moore was looking for so I could put myself out of my misery.

catbyte

(34,359 posts)
7. 'night, Mother
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 02:48 PM
Jan 2018

Sissy Spacek & Anne Bancroft, 1986. From imdb:

Summaries

What would you do if someone you loved sat down with you one night and calmly told you that they were going to end their life before morning? This is Thelma Cates' dilemma. Her daughter, Jessie, has had it. A middle-aged epileptic unable to hold a job or drive with a failed marriage and a drug-addicted runaway son on the wrong side of the law, Jessie can find no reason to go on living. Adapted from the play by Marsha Norman, "'night, Mother" is the story of a parent's worst nightmare. How can Thelma convince her daughter that life is worth living if she can't feel her pain? How can she end her daughter's embrace of death before morning?
—Mark Fleetwood /Reid Taylor

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0090556/plotsummary?ref_=tt_ov_pl
--------------

I was depressed for a week after watching this. Awful, wrenching.

Response to samnsara (Reply #76)

catbyte

(34,359 posts)
83. I remember somebody interviewing Sissy Spacek & she was saying how awful & draining
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:42 PM
Jan 2018

that shoot was. She said her she jumped at the offer to act in "Crimes of the Heart" because it was a 180 departure from the grim "'night, Mother" script.

LiberalLoner

(9,761 posts)
230. One of my all time favorite movies.
Sun Jan 21, 2018, 05:34 PM
Jan 2018

For the first time I felt a movie really understood suicidal ideation.

It’s not about being “crazy” per se and it’s not about trying to get attention - sometimes you just get soul weary and want to get the hell off the bus.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
20. You asked! Saw it over 30 yrs ago still bummed & not made in Hollywood . Real on the streets
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 03:09 PM
Jan 2018

It was up for a lot of awards including oscar best actress but more explained here
http://www.altfg.com/film/marilia-pera/

In real, real life the star was killed by police @19
He was reported to have been resisting arrest following an assault when shot.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
32. Well there are a couple of scenes at the bottom of that link . Watch and decide if you want to go on
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 03:27 PM
Jan 2018

Not recd for everyone...

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
78. It's a bummer but got a lot of critical acclaim its not like a cheap horror flick but horrors abound
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:35 PM
Jan 2018

Wiki
Film critic Roger Ebert, who wrote for the Chicago Sun-Times, considers the film a classic, and wrote, "Pixote stands alone in Babenco's work, a rough, unblinking look at lives no human being should be required to lead. And the eyes of Fernando Ramos da Silva, his doomed young actor, regard us from the screen not in hurt, not in accusation, not in regret -- but simply in acceptance of a desolate daily reality."[2]

Critic Pauline Kael was impressed by its raw, documentary-like quality, and a certain poetic realism. She wrote, "Babenco's imagery is realistic, but his point of view is shockingly lyrical. South American writers, such as Gabriel Garcia Marquez, seem to be in perfect, poetic control of madness, and Babenco has some of this gift, too. South American artists have to have it, in order to express the texture of everyday insanity."[3]

The New York Times film critic, Vincent Canby, liked the neo-realist acting and direction of the drama, and wrote, "[Pixote], the third feature film by the Argentine-born Brazilian director Hector Babenco, is a finely made, uncompromisingly grim movie about the street boys of São Paulo, in particular about Pixote - which, according to the program, translates roughly as Peewee...The performances are almost too good to be true, but Mr. Da Silva and Miss Pera are splendid. Pixote is not for the weak of stomach. A lot of the details are tough to take, but it is neither exploitative nor pretentious. Mr. Babenco shows us rock-bottom, and because he is an artist, he makes us believe it as well all of the possibilities that have been lost."[4]

The review aggregator Rotten Tomatoes reported that 100% of critics gave the film a positive review, based on nine reviews, none of which include the reviews of the previously mentioned three critics.[5]

Filmmakers Spike Lee, Samuel van der Lande, Daisuke Lieberman, and Harmony Korine have cited it as being among their favorite films.[6]

mainer

(12,022 posts)
222. It ruined my childhood.
Sun Jan 21, 2018, 12:49 PM
Jan 2018

I was depressed for years, thinking that the world would actually end that way. And yes, Waltzing Matilda still makes me want to cry.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,658 posts)
13. The Pawnbroker.
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 02:51 PM
Jan 2018

It's an old movie (1965), starring Rod Steiger and directed by Sidney Lumet. I saw it when I was in college and was bummed out for days. It's a very good film, but very, very heavy. https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/the_pawnbroker/

dhol82

(9,352 posts)
203. Great movie!
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 09:21 PM
Jan 2018

Had to leave about half way through. Could not deal with emotions.
My parents had been in a slave labor camp in Germany and I was born in a DP camp.
It was just too much at that time. I could deal with it better now.

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
17. Dancer In The Dark
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 02:59 PM
Jan 2018

I think you could generalize and say pretty much anything by Lars Von Trier but this one had me shaken for days.



I agree with They Shoot Horses Don't They as well. I saw that on TV when I was a teenager and I didn't expect it to be anywhere near as hard hitting as it was.

CatMor

(6,212 posts)
33. I agree with you...
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 03:30 PM
Jan 2018

I couldn't imagine being in that situation. The movie haunted me for a long time.

CTyankee

(63,899 posts)
132. Yeah, that last scene with quoting Emily Dickinson's poem "Ample make this bed" just made
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 06:34 PM
Jan 2018

me horribly sad. Great acting. But it broke my heart...

OregonBlue

(7,754 posts)
179. Mee too. Read it and saw the movie and it was one of the saddest things I ever read. Left a huge
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 04:03 PM
Jan 2018

impression on me. I still use it when someone is in a total lose/lose position as having a "Sophie's Choice".

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,479 posts)
157. Well here's another downer
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 08:48 AM
Jan 2018
http://articles.orlandosentinel.com/1994-02-06/news/9402060244_1_emilie-schindler-oskar-schindler-film-schindler-list

From a 1994 article:
"Yet to Emilie Schindler, living alone in Argentina where Oskar Schindler left her after 29 years of marriage, such behavior yields to less flattering interpretations.

''He was a hero to the Jews,'' Emilie Schindler says. ''Not to me.''

A stooped, slight woman with fine white hair and sharp blue eyes, Emilie Schindler first disclosed her bitterness last summer to the Buenos Aires newspaper Pagina/12."

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
161. He was no saint
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 09:17 AM
Jan 2018

The movie makes that pretty clear. To some extent he seems to be an "instrument" of some larger force, barely aware of what he's doing or why.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
158. I took a "first date" to that movie years ago.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 08:56 AM
Jan 2018

Probably a bad movie idea for a first date, I admit.

The movie was depressing (but well done), but the more depressing aspect was that we walked out of the theater and she wondered why anyone wrote such a terrible story. It soon became clear that she thought it was totally fictional, so I told her that it was based on REAL events that happened in Germany during WW2.

She knew NOTHING about the Nazis or the Holocaust.

At least she was basically a decent person, crying actual tears about anything of that nature ever happening. I later discovered that she was mostly home-schooled by Christian evangelical parents.

She declined a second date.

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
160. George Washington
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 09:15 AM
Jan 2018

Went to a Washington exhibit once. Went with some friends, one of whom had a new boyfriend. We get about 2/3 rds of the way through the exhibit when the new boyfriend says; "Was Washington a General or something?". Apparently Washington was "that guy on the dollar bill" to this guy. The relationship didn't last long.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
162. Amazing, isn't it?
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 09:30 AM
Jan 2018

I used to work in a factory where a Turkish immigrant was studying for her citizenship test. I looked through the booklet and expressed my surprise that the test questions were so easy. (I didn't know how many representatives were in Congress, though, so that's a question that I could've answered wrong.)

A Vietnamese-American (who took the test years earlier) said that many USA-born people couldn't answer most of the questions, and he pointed out a group of three women in the factory who he knew couldn't answer even the easiest questions.

I was skeptical of his assessment, but he was proven correct. I asked them (during lunch break) some of the easier questions, such as the number of stars on the flag. They didn't know. So I eventually "dumbed it down" even more with questions not listed. I asked who was the first President of the USA. They didn't know that either. I then provided a clue that his portrait is on the one-dollar bill, and his surname is under it. They still didn't know. One of them then said with an annoyed voice, "We're not in school anymore!"

I assume (and HOPE) that experience was highly unusual! It's not like it was a place that required a highly educated workforce, but it still shocked me.

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
163. Unfortunately no
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 09:46 AM
Jan 2018

History, and government in general, is a subject that most folks willfully forget as soon as they leave school.
If you want to depress yourself go look at the Mindset List from Benoit College. There is so much they don't know, and will never know.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
164. Yeah, that's sad too.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 09:53 AM
Jan 2018

The women who didn't know that George Washington was the first President of the USA were all baby-boomers, though. (All older than me, and I'm one of the earliest "members" of Generation X.)

ailsagirl

(22,893 posts)
224. I once had an office mate who thought...
Sun Jan 21, 2018, 04:06 PM
Jan 2018

the Holocaust took place in WWI
Schindler's List was an exploitative (and FICTIONAL) movie
we've already had WWIII

I tried to enlighten her but I don't think she was convinced. She was intelligent enough but woefully unaware of world history, to say the least



 

TheDebbieDee

(11,119 posts)
209. It's a movie you'll only watch ONCE!
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 10:18 PM
Jan 2018

It was based on a true story of a couple not discovered to have been abandoned/stranded until a week or 10 days after they were left...

Nay

(12,051 posts)
219. Yes, it was a true story. The boat captain who left them behind was never punished
Sun Jan 21, 2018, 09:18 AM
Jan 2018

in any way, IIRC.

Absolutely frightening.

MuseRider

(34,103 posts)
30. The Road
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 03:25 PM
Jan 2018

I read the book too, a real sucker for punishment. The movie was well done I thought but depressing as hell. The book worse. *sigh*

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
37. The worst.
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 03:34 PM
Jan 2018

I didn’t see the movie, but that book made me want to lie down under a tree and give up.

Yuck

MuseRider

(34,103 posts)
41. Yup.
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 03:40 PM
Jan 2018

The movie personalized it even more. I saw the movie first so when I read the book I already had the characters in my head. There was something about it that made me finish it. It did make giving up seem like a good idea.

LonePirate

(13,412 posts)
111. I only watched it once and I will never watch it again. It is simply life crushing.
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 05:28 PM
Jan 2018

Devastating is too kind of a description for it. It is well-made but the emotional, mental and visual toll it takes on the viewer is overwhelming to say the least.

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,401 posts)
137. OMFG Yes!
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 07:01 PM
Jan 2018

I thought it was more or less going to be a standard police detective/buddy cop murder mystery and that they would eventually catch the bad guy committing the grisly crimes. I had *no idea* that it was going to end the way it ended. Absolutely shocking and depressing. Never want to see it ever again, either.

Cape Fear (Remake) was kind of depressing too with the absolute wringer that Cady (played by a seriously disturbed Robert DeNiro) puts the Bowden family through but it's still one of my favorite horror/psychological thrillers. Since that movie, I have struggled to picture DeNiro as anybody but "Max Cady".

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
145. The person I went with asked me " why did you want to ruin my day? " although we both agreed
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 08:03 PM
Jan 2018

it was a good movie

CTyankee

(63,899 posts)
200. that movie killed me. It was beautifully done but a sad tale indeed.
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 09:02 PM
Jan 2018

Actually a funny story: I was watching it with a friend, and when the love scene in the library was going on, she whispered to me "Those Brits will do it anywhere!"

But I was so moved that the film that I got book it was based on and read it. Sad tale all around. Vanessa Redgrave was fabulous and the scene of the hero of the movie dying at Dunkirk just killed me...

50 Shades Of Blue

(9,957 posts)
211. Yes, just a tragedy all around. Few movies have made me sob uncontrollably afterward
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 10:32 PM
Jan 2018

but that one did. I literally had to run out of the theater.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
104. Its Jon Krakhauer (sp?) the guy who wrote about that awfulEverest
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 05:18 PM
Jan 2018

expedition- which he has deep regrets about to this day. Also a great book about the polygamous Mormon sects intertwined w a murder trial. I think he also did one about Pat Tillman. He’s a compelling writer. He also appeared in an HBO doc about the polygamous Mormon community. Fascinating stuff.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
171. Yeah. He feels awful he had any part in the whole commercialization of Everest because of what it
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 02:34 PM
Jan 2018

led to. Said it’s his biggest regret and the source of a lot of pain.

ailsagirl

(22,893 posts)
234. I suppose so
Sun Jan 21, 2018, 05:55 PM
Jan 2018

I recall my sister saying she went home and threw up after seeing it-- stayed vivid in my memory!

DBoon

(22,350 posts)
60. went to an Icelandic film festival
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:03 PM
Jan 2018

saw this:

ANGELS OF THE UNIVERSE (ENGLAR ALHEIMSINS), 1999, 97 min. Dir. Fridrik Thor Fridriksson. Based on the award-winning novel by Einar Már Gudmundsson (who wrote CHILDREN OF NATURE), Fridriksson’s newest film is a luminous, unearthly portrait of a talented schizophrenic (brilliantly played by Ingvar Sigurdsson) who has been institutionalized his entire life. Together with his inmates Oli the missing Beatle (Baltasar Kormákur) and Viktor the sometimes Hitler (Björn Jörundur), the outcasts try to come to grips with a world that neither knows nor wants them.


Incredibly depressing.

When we see a real downer of a movie now, we say "The only thing that would make that movie more depressing would be dubbing it in Icelandic"

rsdsharp

(9,161 posts)
64. What Dreams May Come
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:06 PM
Jan 2018

My wife and I saw it after we had to put our dog down. We knew nothing about it, but thought a Robins Williams movie would cheer us up. We left the theater just short of suicidal.

mahina

(17,637 posts)
67. I thought it was excellent at the time and watched it again recently.
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:09 PM
Jan 2018

It’s much darker than I had recalled. Brilliant, though. Don’t think I’ll ever watch it again.

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,401 posts)
65. Got a few
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:07 PM
Jan 2018

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1. Transformers The Movie (1986)- Deaths of so many major characters
2. The Neverending Story (1984)- Fantasia was almost completely destroyed, though it had a tacked on "happy ending"
3. Star Wars Episode VIII: The Last Jedi (2017)- Great movie but had quite the bittersweet ending (esp. with the real-life loss of Carrie Fisher). I'm still sort of processing through it all.
4. Star Wars Episode III: Revenge of the Sith (2005)- Destruction of the Jedi Order, Anakin's fall

Probably can think of a few more but this is all I can think of off the top of my head.

Upthevibe

(8,030 posts)
68. Here's my list of movies that scarred me and that I would NEVER watch again:
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:20 PM
Jan 2018

The House of Sand and Fog (I just saw this in the past few months and had NO idea what I was getting myself into - I was at a friend's and it just came on cable), Sophie's Choice (of course), Manchester by the Sea, Requiem for a Dream, The Deerhunter, The Pianist, Precious, and I'm sure there are more but these are what immediately come to mind....

hunter

(38,309 posts)
196. One of my favorite movies.
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 05:24 PM
Jan 2018

The world we live in now is more like Brazil than Orwell's 1984.

I first saw Brazil in an old fashioned Art Deco theater.

The crowd was sparse and included many senior citizens, maybe from an assisted living place.

One old guy was so upset at the end of the movie he climbed up on the stage and gave it a standing double middle finger salute.

I saw 1984 in the same theater. People were walking out. By the end of the movie I was the only one left. That was a depressing movie.

hurl

(938 posts)
198. Awesome!
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 05:45 PM
Jan 2018

I love Art Deco buildings. Yeah, the studio refused to release the movie for a while because Terry Gilliam wouldn't change the ending.

catbyte

(34,359 posts)
80. Leaving Las Vegas, The Road, Sophie's Choice
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:38 PM
Jan 2018

Ugh, I think I'll go watch Pee Wee's Big Adventure as an antidote to this thread!

 

Wwcd

(6,288 posts)
82. "All is Lost" / Robert Redford
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:40 PM
Jan 2018

Great writing & acting but with Redford as the sole cast, I wanted a better more hopeful ending.

This really left me wishing I hadn't watched it at all.

 

Wwcd

(6,288 posts)
121. A movie that amplified the emotions of hope to hopelessness, & despair
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 06:00 PM
Jan 2018

And then it ended. That's it.

Canoe52

(2,948 posts)
85. The Virgin Spring by Ingmar Bergman
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:43 PM
Jan 2018

Friends decided to cheer me up right after my girlfriend had dumped me and took me to see this.

I’d had never heard of it before, twice as bummed, as I was before, after seeing it.

skylucy

(3,737 posts)
218. I posted my answer (The Virgin Spring) further down, and then read the list
Sun Jan 21, 2018, 06:19 AM
Jan 2018

of answers and saw yours was the same. Such a disturbing film...I actually wish I hadn't watched it.

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
86. I tend to eschew "downer" movies.
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:43 PM
Jan 2018

I work in health care - nurse practitioner in a pediatric office. Overall, it is a pretty happy place, as most of our patients are generally healthy. Nonetheless, it can be a stressful place because parents bring their kids to us because they are worried/anxious about something - what if that lymph node is cancer/ what if that headache is a brain tumor/ what if that sore neck is meningitis/ what if that rash is Lyme disease? All the parents reading this will understand what our parental imaginations can do to us, with little to no provocation sometimes.

Anyway, I spend all day doing whatever I can to make people fell better. The last thing I want to do when I am not working is watch something that makes me feel crappy.

Accordingly, I've not seen most of the movies listed above. Saw and detested The Deer Hunter. Also couldn't stand Terms of Endearment.

Bradshaw3

(7,493 posts)
87. Meet Joe Black
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 04:46 PM
Jan 2018

I know it was about death but it was relentless and manipulative in its method and a waste of talent like Anthony Hopkins. Just went on and on. Can't believe they still show it on cable.

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,401 posts)
110. It wasn't a bad movie/documentary or anything
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 05:26 PM
Jan 2018

but I couldn't watch Michael Moore's Fahrenheit 9/11 after the 2004 election, knowing that, despite everything documented/discussed in the film, W won (re-)election.

LonePirate

(13,412 posts)
112. Brokeback Mountain
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 05:33 PM
Jan 2018

I saw it in a packed theater and there were numerous loud sobs during those final minutes. That movie might even make Mike Pence cry.

dlwickham

(3,316 posts)
119. The Last Picture Show
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 05:59 PM
Jan 2018

I saw it in college and me and my friends walked home in the rain. I don't think we noticed that it was raining.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
140. You did
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 07:21 PM
Jan 2018

but, until a few years ago, F9/11 would have been posted as a response in the first 10-15 minutes.

Bucky

(53,986 posts)
124. China Syndrome: my 1st unhappy ending movie
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 06:02 PM
Jan 2018

I remember as a kid staring at the end credits thinking, "What the hell? They didn't even arrest the bad guys!"

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,401 posts)
135. That reminds me:
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 06:57 PM
Jan 2018

Bridge to Terabithia. I had never read the book or knew about the brutal twist at the end. *ugh*

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
141. The Killing Fields
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 07:23 PM
Jan 2018

Really left me drained after I saw it. Great movie, but I haven't been able to watch it since I saw it in the theater. (Come to think of it, I never really see it on those non premium cable movie channels TNT, TBS, AMC, etc.

MsBeckee75

(21 posts)
215. Never saw the movie...
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 11:02 PM
Jan 2018

However, my mother bought the book for me when I was probably 10-12 years old. It was the only book she ever specifically picked out and said, "Here, you have to read this." I remember it being quite sad! I've thought of looking for it to read as adult and see if my impressions are different.

Aristus

(66,307 posts)
149. "Idiocracy".
Thu Jan 18, 2018, 11:39 PM
Jan 2018

It was billed as a comedy. But I was depressed for days after watching it.

It left me utterly hopeless, especially because it seemed (in 2006, and even more today) that it was happening now, not five hundred years in the future.

I may give it another look someday. I really admire Terry Crews. And fans of the film point out the hopefulness of the film to me. The idea that as stupid as everyone was in the future, they knew, deep down, that this wasn't how things were supposed to be, and wanted someone with intelligence to fix it.

Aristus

(66,307 posts)
175. It was released (if you could call it that. Something like 16 theaters for a week or so) in 2006.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 03:44 PM
Jan 2018

Still two years of GWB to go, and Barack Obama hadn't announced by that point.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
177. Wow! I remember it so differently!
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 03:47 PM
Jan 2018

And I watched Bush and was a DUer too!

Thanks for the correction.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
152. The Onion Field
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 12:09 AM
Jan 2018

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True story of a police officer who was killed and the effect it had on his partner's life. Very sobering and sad.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
190. A young Ted Danson plays the cop
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 03:48 PM
Jan 2018

and an evil James Woods plays the killer.

There's something about a true story that gives it more impact.

Chipper Chat

(9,675 posts)
154. Imitation of Life
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 01:21 AM
Jan 2018

Overly melodramatic. But the heartbreaking rejection of her mother by Sarah Jane was gut wrenching. The sexist treatment of aspiring actresses by their agents smacks of present day Harvey weinsteins. The ending with the brass band and horse drawn carriage - so hard to sit thru. Outstanding performance by Lana turner.

Skittles

(153,138 posts)
156. It Comes at Night
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 04:51 AM
Jan 2018

great acting, but it seemed to be about people taking drastic measures to live in a world that really doesn't seem to be worth living in

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
159. Guyana Tragedy: The Story of Jim Jones
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 09:06 AM
Jan 2018

It was actually a TV mini-series, but it depressed me immensely as a kid.

Mystical thinking has always made me sad, and there's far worse results from it throughout history, but that "movie" was one of my earliest exposures to it.

Alpeduez21

(1,751 posts)
167. The Hunger Games - the first one
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 12:18 PM
Jan 2018

I mean, what the hell!? Everyone just accepted that situation as normal!!!???

When I was in third grade we read John Henry Had a Hammer. I cried and cried that night in bed.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
210. Yes, that was a tough one to watch.
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 10:30 PM
Jan 2018

I watched it when I was very young, but it really stayed with me. I feel like I should watch it again as an adult, but I don't know if I could handle it.

Hav

(5,969 posts)
181. Moon (2009 with Sam Rockwell)
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 04:45 PM
Jan 2018

I'd still recommend this very good Sci-Fi movie, but witnessing the decline of the protagonist's health over the duration of the movie, the beautiful and haunting music, the robot's empathy and the realization of the truth just add to a very sad movie. The one scene where the robot, who uses smilies to show feelings, explains the truth to him and changes from displaying a sad smilie to a crying smilie always gets me. Especially the ending made it one of the most depressing movies for me that affected me for many days.

ailsagirl

(22,893 posts)
185. Ring of Bright Water
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 01:08 PM
Jan 2018

Perfectly engaging movie-- until the end. I was so angry after watching it-- I had no idea of what was to come. Definitely felt manipulated.

And it was G-rated, no less. If it upset me, how would a child react??



https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ring_of_Bright_Water_(film)

mikeargo

(675 posts)
186. Mystic River (2003)
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 01:32 PM
Jan 2018

Based on the best seller by Dennis Lehane and starring Sean Penn, Tim Robbins, and Kevin Bacon. Wish I had read the book first as I was not ready for such a downer.

Tikki

(14,555 posts)
187. "Miracle Mile" (1988) and "Melancholia" (2011)
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 02:20 PM
Jan 2018

Actually are stories of love found or rediscovered; just too late.

Q: Is love ever too late?


Tikki

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
189. Watership Down and The Little Mermaid (Not the Disney film)
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 03:03 PM
Jan 2018

All I remember is crying during that film. I was a little kid and my mom put in front of the TV to watch what she thought was a simple cartoon while she was working at her desk in the other room. It was awful.

I also had the same thing happen with the Little Mermaid. It was a film made before the Disney version. It was so depressing. My mom was more careful after that when she picked up films at the video store for me.

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
193. Make Way for Tomorrow
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 03:53 PM
Jan 2018

It is the best old movie I ever saw. Way better than Citizen Kane.

Orson Welles said of Make Way for Tomorrow, "It would make a stone cry,"[2] and rhapsodized about his enthusiasm for the film in his booklength series of interviews with Peter Bogdanovich, This Is Orson Welles. In Newsweek magazine, famed documentary filmmaker Errol Morris named it his #1 film, stating "The most depressing movie ever made, providing reassurance that everything will definitely end badly."[3]

Make Way for Tomorrow also earned good reviews when originally released in Japan, where it was seen by screenwriter Kogo Noda. Years later, it provided an inspiration for the script of Tokyo Story (1953), written by Noda and director Yasujirō Ozu.

Roger Ebert added this film to his "Great Movies" list on February 11, 2010, writing:

"Make Way for Tomorrow" (1937) is a nearly-forgotten American film made in the Depression...The great final arc of "Make Way for Tomorrow" is beautiful and heartbreaking. It's easy to imagine it being sentimentalized by a studio executive, being made more upbeat for the audience. That's not McCarey. What happens is wonderful and very sad. Everything depends on the performances.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Make_Way_for_Tomorrow

hunter

(38,309 posts)
197. Nobody has mentioned "The Unbearable Lightness of Being."
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 05:30 PM
Jan 2018


Director Philip Kaufman and screenwriter Jean-Claude Carrière portray the effect on Czechoslovak artistic and intellectual life during the 1968 Prague Spring of socialist liberalization preceding the invasion by the Soviet-led Warsaw Pact that ushered in a period of communist repression. It portrays the moral, political, and psycho-sexual consequences for three bohemian friends: a surgeon, and two female artists with whom he has a sexual relationship.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Unbearable_Lightness_of_Being_%28film%29



Stuart G

(38,414 posts)
226. "One Who Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest",& "Night and Fog' - (documentary)
Sun Jan 21, 2018, 04:41 PM
Jan 2018

I saw Cukoos Nest 43 Years ago..still Depresses me when I think about it

"Night and Fog," about Nazi concentration camps, and what happened there. Most horrific movie ever made, and all true..32 minutes of hell. Gets worse and worse as the film progresses.

read the reviews at this link. First 10 reviews also say it is most horrific and depressing movie ever. Warning: If you see this movie, you will never forget it. Yes, it is available for viewing on the internet, for free, somewhere.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0048434/

El Supremo

(20,365 posts)
227. The Descendants and Manchester By The Sea.
Sun Jan 21, 2018, 04:47 PM
Jan 2018

Couldn't even make it through Manchester it was such a downer.

catbyte

(34,359 posts)
236. I just saw another one: "We Need to Talk About Kevin"
Mon Jan 22, 2018, 01:48 PM
Jan 2018

I had to immediately watch "Caddyshack" as an antidote.

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