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Silver1

(721 posts)
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 12:19 AM Feb 2018

Hi. I'm new here.

Silver1, AKA hoi polloi.

Not sure what else to say except I'm happy to be here, and thank you all for being here too. I hope I never offend anyone ... I'll try my best not to. But I do intend to speak for the hoi polloi at any cost.

Lets talk while the 1st is still in place. And lets stick up for it so it stays that way unabridged.

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Hi. I'm new here. (Original Post) Silver1 Feb 2018 OP
if you offend someone, learn to use IGNORE Skittles Feb 2018 #1
Thank you! Silver1 Feb 2018 #4
Please please offend someone kiri Mar 2018 #92
Hi, Silver1! Rhiannon12866 Feb 2018 #2
Thank you. Silver1 Feb 2018 #6
Glad you finally signed up! Rhiannon12866 Feb 2018 #8
I thought the Bush years were bad ... Silver1 Feb 2018 #24
I know! Who could have ever predicted this??? Rhiannon12866 Feb 2018 #30
Hi Silver! - Welcome! Upthevibe Feb 2018 #3
Thanks. Silver1 Feb 2018 #10
Hi Silver! Welcome to DU! lunamagica Feb 2018 #5
Thanks! Silver1 Feb 2018 #12
Offend away... LuvLoogie Feb 2018 #7
Hello. Silver1 Feb 2018 #14
Style shmyle. Welcome anyway. LuvLoogie Feb 2018 #16
Aw thanks. Silver1 Feb 2018 #25
DUCK! A HERETIC I AM Feb 2018 #9
Hello. Silver1 Feb 2018 #19
Welcome pandr32 Feb 2018 #11
Thanks! Silver1 Feb 2018 #26
Welcome aboard 😊 MLAA Feb 2018 #13
Wow Silver1 Feb 2018 #27
Welcome! Phoenix61 Feb 2018 #15
Thanks! Silver1 Feb 2018 #22
Hi ho Silver1. AJT Feb 2018 #17
Ha ha! Silver1 Feb 2018 #20
Hi MFM008 Feb 2018 #18
Hello! Silver1 Feb 2018 #21
Well hello! Beartracks Feb 2018 #23
Thank you! Silver1 Feb 2018 #28
A warm welcome to you, Silver1, you will love 💕 it here! secondwind Feb 2018 #29
Thank you. Silver1 Feb 2018 #31
Welcome to DU! WhiteTara Feb 2018 #32
Thank you! Silver1 Feb 2018 #33
Good. We need our voices WhiteTara Feb 2018 #34
Welcome. Aristus Feb 2018 #35
Thanks. Silver1 Feb 2018 #37
Welcome, Silver1 sheshe2 Feb 2018 #36
Thanks. Silver1 Feb 2018 #38
Hi back atcha! raven mad Feb 2018 #39
Tahnks. Silver1 Feb 2018 #44
welcome, Silver1... hwmnbn Feb 2018 #40
Thanks! Silver1 Feb 2018 #45
Welcome to you. Fla Dem Feb 2018 #41
Thanks. Silver1 Feb 2018 #46
Welcome to DU. malthaussen Feb 2018 #42
Thank you. Silver1 Feb 2018 #47
Welcome, but odds are against any of us NEVER offending anyone hlthe2b Feb 2018 #43
You are right. Silver1 Feb 2018 #48
Welcome, speak your mind. TNNurse Feb 2018 #49
Thanks for the welcome TNNurse. Silver1 Mar 2018 #50
Welcome aboard matey... pbmus Mar 2018 #51
Hey there. Silver1 Mar 2018 #61
Welcome and dont worry, youll offend someone. bullimiami Mar 2018 #52
I know it. Silver1 Mar 2018 #62
Welcome to DU! ploppy Mar 2018 #53
I do like it here ... Silver1 Mar 2018 #55
Hello Silver1 Amsterdammer Mar 2018 #54
Hey. Silver1 Mar 2018 #56
We were in Amsterdam last week... Amsterdammer Mar 2018 #65
Never been to Amsterdam Silver1 Mar 2018 #83
Sorry, I meant Amsterdammer Mar 2018 #84
The northeast. Silver1 Mar 2018 #91
howdy doody rurallib Mar 2018 #57
I see that ... Silver1 Mar 2018 #59
Double Doody rurallib Mar 2018 #67
Welcome! Yokoso! Irasshaimase yuiyoshida Mar 2018 #58
Thank You! Silver1 Mar 2018 #60
most welcome yuiyoshida Mar 2018 #63
Welcome! nt steve2470 Mar 2018 #64
Thanks. Silver1 Mar 2018 #72
Welcome Silver1 True Dough Mar 2018 #66
Wait, what does that mean? Silver1 Mar 2018 #69
I'm being sarcastic. Silver1 Mar 2018 #70
My post was just in jest True Dough Mar 2018 #73
My post was just in jest True Dough Mar 2018 #74
Thanks for the welcome and the thoughtful advice. Silver1 Mar 2018 #75
Hi, Silver. Welcome. Just to put your experience in context, though, Squinch Mar 2018 #85
Yeah, I think I've noticed that. Silver1 Mar 2018 #88
Hi-Ho, Silver! kooth Mar 2018 #68
Hey thanks! Silver1 Mar 2018 #71
Welcome. Laffy Kat Mar 2018 #76
I checked out the Lounge today. Silver1 Mar 2018 #80
Oh yeah? What do you mean by that?!! -- Just kidding -- I kid -nt Freelancer Mar 2018 #77
Ha ha. Silver1 Mar 2018 #81
The first rule of DU is that you do not talk about DU... Freelancer Mar 2018 #87
Haha! Silver1 Mar 2018 #89
Welcome! Glad ta have ya! Glamrock Mar 2018 #78
Allright. Silver1 Mar 2018 #90
Howdeedoo! InAbLuEsTaTe Mar 2018 #79
Hey there! Silver1 Mar 2018 #82
Welcome to DU Sienna86 Mar 2018 #86
welcome to du--this place has been saving what is left of my sanity since chimpy. these niyad Mar 2018 #93

Silver1

(721 posts)
4. Thank you!
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 12:29 AM
Feb 2018

I'm not sure I could "ignore" someone. It would probably be too irresistible and I would have to take a peek. If I start loosing sleep though ....

kiri

(788 posts)
92. Please please offend someone
Mon Mar 5, 2018, 03:32 AM
Mar 2018

No timids.
If you never offend anyone, your voice/values are weak and ephemeral.

Progress is made by squeaky wheels.



Silver1

(721 posts)
6. Thank you.
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 12:32 AM
Feb 2018

I've been following for a couple of years and finally joined. i wanted to comment so many times. Glad to be here.

Rhiannon12866

(204,476 posts)
8. Glad you finally signed up!
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 12:36 AM
Feb 2018

DU has been an oasis for so many of us throughout the Bush* years and we need it so much more right now! And as long as you don't lose your temper with anyone, LOL, and continue to support Democrats, you should be just fine.

Rhiannon12866

(204,476 posts)
30. I know! Who could have ever predicted this???
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 01:19 AM
Feb 2018

I remember how devastated I was after the 2004 election - was so grateful for the support of DU back then. Little did we imagine how much worse it could get! But you'll find the latest news, kindred spirits and even some humor here!

Silver1

(721 posts)
10. Thanks.
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 12:39 AM
Feb 2018

I really appreciate it. I've been following for a while. So many people posting ... hard to keep up with the names. I appreciate the warm welcome.

secondwind

(16,903 posts)
29. A warm welcome to you, Silver1, you will love 💕 it here!
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 01:14 AM
Feb 2018

This site is a haven for many, it is rich with information from all around the world, and it never gets old.

Silver1

(721 posts)
31. Thank you.
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 01:23 AM
Feb 2018

I relay on it every day, both for news and for the discussion. Better by far than anything on the mainstream.

Silver1

(721 posts)
33. Thank you!
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 01:33 AM
Feb 2018

I know, it's inevitable. But I also know from experience it leads nowhere, or worse, so I'll try really hard to avoid it. I don't mean to say I won't speak up. I will.

Aristus

(66,250 posts)
35. Welcome.
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 01:41 AM
Feb 2018

Don't worry, the DU-ers who offend easily hang out in General Discussion and the Gun Dungeon.

You're safe here...

Fla Dem

(23,542 posts)
41. Welcome to you.
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 11:08 AM
Feb 2018

We're a pretty friendly bunch.

Never hurts to just review DU's Terms of Service.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=termsofservice

They're pretty straight forward, and helps keep folks from stumbling in their 1st few months.

Hope to see you post often.

malthaussen

(17,174 posts)
42. Welcome to DU.
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 11:35 AM
Feb 2018

Be careful out there!

I find that it is impossible to assure that I offend no one. So when it happens, just consider the source and the substance of the complaint. I also find that they are usually baseless.

-- Mal

Silver1

(721 posts)
47. Thank you.
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 04:12 PM
Feb 2018

I've seen the pointless, angry, insulting conversations. Not interested in getting sucked into that. Discussion yes, always.

I'll be careful -- and not fall for the bait! (Well, I'll try. )

hlthe2b

(102,057 posts)
43. Welcome, but odds are against any of us NEVER offending anyone
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 11:42 AM
Feb 2018

--even if only a misunderstanding. A laudable goal, though.

Silver1

(721 posts)
48. You are right.
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 04:16 PM
Feb 2018

There's so much we're all stressing about right now, it's a good thing to have a place where discussing the issues gets us away from that, instead of piling it up more.

Thank you for the welcome.

TNNurse

(6,924 posts)
49. Welcome, speak your mind.
Wed Feb 28, 2018, 10:23 PM
Feb 2018

People may misunderstand what you say and you may have to clarify yourself. If you offend, I suggest your politely explain your point again. I have been slapped down a couple of times but it is a great place to speak up.

Amsterdammer

(130 posts)
65. We were in Amsterdam last week...
Fri Mar 2, 2018, 04:11 AM
Mar 2018

...this week with in-laws in and near Prague, Czech Republic.

Sunday night we're back stateside, we live in a suburb of Atlanta.

How 'bout yourself?

Silver1

(721 posts)
83. Never been to Amsterdam
Sat Mar 3, 2018, 03:36 AM
Mar 2018

but I know a lot of people who have and who really love it. I look forward to going one day.

Right now I'm facing the Noreaster that's come our way. I think it'll be gone by the time you fly in.

rurallib

(62,371 posts)
57. howdy doody
Thu Mar 1, 2018, 10:11 PM
Mar 2018

once you come in you may never find the way out. I am still looking.

BTW what was Howdy Doody's twin's name? - and it wasn't Trey Gowdy.

Silver1

(721 posts)
69. Wait, what does that mean?
Fri Mar 2, 2018, 09:01 PM
Mar 2018

I already got majorly attacked. Because I didn't like a billboard message. And I said so. Now I'm standing accused of being a Putin troll.

My husband warned me.

True Dough

(17,237 posts)
73. My post was just in jest
Fri Mar 2, 2018, 09:26 PM
Mar 2018

But I have seen people, particularly newcomers, abandon this site rather quickly due to having their opinions attacked. It can be a rough ride at times. Sometimes the accusations made by other posters are plain ridiculous: overstated and unsupported. I've been targeted by that a few times. I just let it slide. If there's a real concern then someone will "alert" on your post and a jury will remove it.

True Dough

(17,237 posts)
74. My post was just in jest
Fri Mar 2, 2018, 09:26 PM
Mar 2018

But I have seen people, particularly newcomers, abandon this site rather quickly due to having their opinions attacked. It can be a rough ride at times. Sometimes the accusations made by other posters are plain ridiculous: overstated and unsupported. I've been targeted by that a few times. I just let it slide. If there's a real concern then someone will "alert" on your post and a jury will remove it.

Silver1

(721 posts)
75. Thanks for the welcome and the thoughtful advice.
Sat Mar 3, 2018, 02:18 AM
Mar 2018

What you said makes a lot of sense. I'll keep it in mind next time someone pounces on me.












Squinch

(50,890 posts)
85. Hi, Silver. Welcome. Just to put your experience in context, though,
Sat Mar 3, 2018, 08:24 AM
Mar 2018

DU is continually attacked by trolls who come with the sole purpose of disrupting here. You'll see it soon enough, and it will piss you off as much as it pisses the rest of us off. They go back to their conservative sites and gloat about the nonsense they pull here. So we are all wary.

It tends to be low count posters (though some are good at it and have lasted to become very high count posters) so you might be getting a little bit of a side-eye for a while. But I think as soon as you see a true troll in action, you will understand the caution around new people.

In the meantime, glad you are here.

Silver1

(721 posts)
88. Yeah, I think I've noticed that.
Sat Mar 3, 2018, 12:45 PM
Mar 2018

I've been following DU for a long time, and have seen really nasty comments out of nowhere.

I was accused of being a troll just a couple of days ago. Really pissed me off.

Silver1

(721 posts)
71. Hey thanks!
Fri Mar 2, 2018, 09:04 PM
Mar 2018

I really wasn't thinking of the Lone Ranger when I came up with that name. Something silverish was nearby! But I always liked the Lone Ranger, so it's OK. Hi-Ho!

Freelancer

(2,107 posts)
87. The first rule of DU is that you do not talk about DU...
Sat Mar 3, 2018, 12:24 PM
Mar 2018

The second rule of DU is that you do not talk about DU.

Just remember that you're not going to win. You can't.

Just like this reply -- after rereading it, I realize that without knowing the pop culture reference to the movie "Fight Club," that little joke could be taken in any number of different ways. So, I add a bit here to explain that I was referring to "Fight Club." That pushes down on some people that were ready to flame me, but ignites another group, who are insulted I would think they were so stupid that I needed to add the explanation. And, by adding that sentence, now I've just reignited the bunch who actually didn't get the reference and that I've now called stupid.

Oh well, "Welcome back my friends to the show that never ends We're so glad you could attend Come inside! Come inside." --That's ELP (Emerson Lake and Palmer).

Damn it! You see -- I just did it again.

Silver1

(721 posts)
89. Haha!
Sat Mar 3, 2018, 12:51 PM
Mar 2018

Thanks. You're right. Really, I might just stick around in the Lounge. Just following the news is stressful enough! I don't want to fight about it.

By the way, I've always been a freelancer.

Glamrock

(11,787 posts)
78. Welcome! Glad ta have ya!
Sat Mar 3, 2018, 02:34 AM
Mar 2018

As far as offending people, some don't take it to heart and let it roll like water off a ducks ass. Some are just waiting to be offended. Give it time, you'll figure out who they are.....
Some buddies of mine sum it up pretty well

Silver1

(721 posts)
90. Allright.
Sat Mar 3, 2018, 01:05 PM
Mar 2018

I'll try to keep cool. The thing is, I'm thin skinned, and I can shoot my mouth off pretty well. Then I feel bad.

Nice song. Made me think of Tied To The Whipping Post.

niyad

(112,948 posts)
93. welcome to du--this place has been saving what is left of my sanity since chimpy. these
Mon Mar 5, 2018, 01:57 PM
Mar 2018

people are the BEST!!

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