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Phentex

(16,334 posts)
Fri May 4, 2018, 11:56 AM May 2018

What do you say to someone who recommended a movie you ended up disliking?

Someone recommended a movie to me and told me I just HAD to watch it so we could talk about it. No Letting Go. The story was okay but the actors were horrible, the lines very cheesy (and I mean almost worse than plenty of Lifetime movies I've seen) and the whole thing was just hokey. One of the few highlights was "Fig" from Orange is the New Black was in it and she knew her lines.

I'm not going to tell my friend I thought it was bad and maybe there's a way to talk about the plot but short of that, I don't want her movie recommendations anymore.

It gets good reviews on Amazon but here's one I found from the LA Times online that sums it up:

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A family drama about mental illness in the very young, "No Letting Go" seeks to shed light on this issue through the story of Tim, the middle son of Catherine (Cheryl Allison) and Henry (Richard Burgi).

Catherine initially takes on the bulk of the burden tackling Tim's issues, but director Jonathan D. Bucari's film illustrates how his behavior radiates throughout his family, friends and community. A time jump from age 10 to 14 shows how these issues can persist for years, with many brushing it off as "a phase."

"No Letting Go" has all the subtlety of an after-school special, and the performances feel like they're from a public service announcement about mental illness. As wildly mercurial as Tim can be (he's played by David Schallipp and Noah Silverman), it's the parents who can be the most frustrating to the viewer as they are overly indulgent and seemingly unwilling to recognize their son's issues early on.

In typical PSA fashion, there's a dearth of subtext as characters spout platitudes about self-care and read poems about nature's therapeutic qualities to the tune of a treacly piano score. Kathy Najimy and "Spotlight's" Neal Huff are the easy standouts as the warm and insightful therapists who offer treatment. Clearly an important and relevant topic, one wishes the filmmaker had approached the subject with a better sense of nuance.

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What do you say to someone who recommended a movie you ended up disliking? (Original Post) Phentex May 2018 OP
I'm honest..."thx for the rec, but just didn't work for me" NRaleighLiberal May 2018 #1
That's a good way to put it... Phentex May 2018 #2
Me too....my wife and I now prefer well done tv series like NRaleighLiberal May 2018 #3
Glad to hear Ohiogal May 2018 #4
I have been debating watching that and wondering if I should spend the smirkymonkey May 2018 #8
Tell the truth left-of-center2012 May 2018 #5
I recommended Justified to a friend OriginalGeek May 2018 #6
My ultra conservative neighbors recommended that I watch "The Shack". Initech May 2018 #7
'Sorry but I disagree.' elleng May 2018 #9
If I know them well, I ain't afraid to tell them it sucked. Iggo May 2018 #10

NRaleighLiberal

(60,013 posts)
1. I'm honest..."thx for the rec, but just didn't work for me"
Fri May 4, 2018, 12:05 PM
May 2018

We've recently watched Dunkirk, Darkest Hour, Phantom Threads and Shape of Water and didn't like any of them.

NRaleighLiberal

(60,013 posts)
3. Me too....my wife and I now prefer well done tv series like
Fri May 4, 2018, 12:14 PM
May 2018

Leftovers, Homeland, etc...all time faves Breaking Bad, 6 Feet Under, Sopranos. Movies...The Hours, English Patient, Out of Africa. They don't make them like that any more...takes too much attention span I guess

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
8. I have been debating watching that and wondering if I should spend the
Sat May 5, 2018, 04:47 PM
May 2018

$3.99 on Amazon Prime to rent. It doesn't really sound all that appealing to me, but I thought because it got so many rave reviews that there must be something to it. However I don't like spending money on total duds. Can you give a brief review?

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
6. I recommended Justified to a friend
Fri May 4, 2018, 03:22 PM
May 2018

he hated it. I told him he was crazy. We're still friends. Even though he is crazy.

Initech

(100,059 posts)
7. My ultra conservative neighbors recommended that I watch "The Shack".
Fri May 4, 2018, 03:42 PM
May 2018

Which is already two types of movies I can't stand - religious movies and super depressing movies. So after the party I happen to catch 5 minutes of it on HBO. What a piece of shit! The scene I saw - one character is trying to teach the other character how to literally walk on water. If that's what passes for entertainment in the Christian world, no wonder they hate Hollywood.

Iggo

(47,547 posts)
10. If I know them well, I ain't afraid to tell them it sucked.
Sat May 5, 2018, 05:07 PM
May 2018

If I don't, I either lie about it or more often I just don't bring it up again.

*cough*cough*Ready Player One*cough...

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