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It's been confirmed: I have first-stage cancer. (Original Post) Archae Jun 2018 OP
Hugs. applegrove Jun 2018 #1
oh no... handmade34 Jun 2018 #2
strength is resilience Mopar151 Jun 2018 #3
Sending you hugs and positive thoughts, so you may get through this difficult time. FM123 Jun 2018 #4
Oh no, my dear Archae! CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2018 #5
So sorry. lark Jun 2018 #6
I have had stage two cancer surgery..... chillfactor Jun 2018 #7
Archae, you have support here True Dough Jun 2018 #8
Your friends here are with you. CurtEastPoint Jun 2018 #9
Hugs. sheshe2 Jun 2018 #10
Not an easy thing to hear! madamesilverspurs Jun 2018 #11
All the best to you. Freedomofspeech Jun 2018 #12
I had Stage IV cancer surgery and am still here. Hang in there. sinkingfeeling Jun 2018 #13
Best of luck with your surgery LyndaG Jun 2018 #14
Thanks, everyone. Archae Jun 2018 #15
Ah, stage 1.. ghostsinthemachine Jun 2018 #16
Sending hugs and good wishes your way. Fla Dem Jun 2018 #20
"I'm a lucky man, who can count on both hands, the ones I love ghostsinthemachine Jun 2018 #31
I am so happy for you! Fla Dem Jun 2018 #35
Beautiful cilla4progress Jun 2018 #36
That Is Fantastic DarthDem Jun 2018 #38
And Willie and family too. ghostsinthemachine Jun 2018 #44
Hugs iamateacher Jun 2018 #17
That must be terrifying. bitterross Jun 2018 #18
Treatment is so much better for us now than it was even just ten years ago ... marble falls Jun 2018 #19
All the best to you as you travel this journey. May you have a complete recovery and enjoy many Fla Dem Jun 2018 #21
Hugs jpak Jun 2018 #22
I have my fingers crossed for a good outcome Archae SkatmanRoth Jun 2018 #23
Sending good thoughts and positive vibes your way, Archae. badhair77 Jun 2018 #24
Best wishes - know that the community is behind you. rurallib Jun 2018 #25
💕💕💕 blogslut Jun 2018 #26
Stay strong, fight on. liberal N proud Jun 2018 #27
Best wishes Archae. . CentralMass Jun 2018 #28
I'm confident you'll find much support and encouragement here. Miles Archer Jun 2018 #29
I'm sorry to hear that, Archae. Here's hoping for the best possible outcome Glorfindel Jun 2018 #30
I'm sorry vercetti2021 Jun 2018 #32
So sorry to hear that, but it sounds like it has been caught early (first stage). Sending lots skylucy Jun 2018 #33
Best of wishes oldtime dfl_er Jun 2018 #34
So Very Sorry DarthDem Jun 2018 #37
Sorry to hear that. Solly Mack Jun 2018 #39
Lots of cancer survivors on here. DFW Jun 2018 #40
Maintain a positive attitude and stay with it. oasis Jun 2018 #41
You can beat this Archae. kentuck Jun 2018 #42
They caught it early! Adrahil Jun 2018 #43
I had 3 cancer surgeries in my mouth..(tongue) Stuart G Jun 2018 #53
. denbot Jun 2018 #45
Oh no!!!! LeftInTX Jun 2018 #46
Best wishes for a good outcome, Archae! n/t Different Drummer Jun 2018 #47
Yikes! You are strong, Callalily Jun 2018 #48
This Stage 4 cancer survivor has a nugget of advice Brother Buzz Jun 2018 #49
Very sorry to hear that. I hope the best fro you! Kaleva Jun 2018 #50
Going in your favor is astounding advances in quartz007 Jun 2018 #51
My heart goes to you and I say "stay strong." Doreen Jun 2018 #52

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,588 posts)
5. Oh no, my dear Archae!
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 05:04 PM
Jun 2018

I am sorry to hear this dreadful news. All my very best vibes to you for the best success.

I believe we have a cancer support group here. They can help too.



Here's the link for the Cancer group: https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1146

lark

(23,091 posts)
6. So sorry.
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 05:06 PM
Jun 2018

I had Stage 1 cancer once (breast cancer) and Stage zero cancer twice (breast cancer in another spot and a Melanoma). They are survivable at this stage, in general, if you take quick action. It's now been 15 years since the last diagnosis and no recurrence.

Good luck!!

chillfactor

(7,574 posts)
7. I have had stage two cancer surgery.....
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 05:07 PM
Jun 2018

I came through it very well. I opted for medicine rather than chemo.....and I came through the ordeal with flying colors. I am not saying don't worry......but do not get depressed either...….You will be fine. I have been cancer free since 2002.

True Dough

(17,302 posts)
8. Archae, you have support here
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 05:10 PM
Jun 2018

Please post whenever you need a boost. Best wishes as the surgeon hopefully rids you of what your body does not need!

madamesilverspurs

(15,800 posts)
11. Not an easy thing to hear!
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 05:14 PM
Jun 2018

Mine was lung cancer. After surgery and one bout of chemo, I've been cancer-free for 12 years.

I'll be thinking of you!


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Archae

(46,318 posts)
15. Thanks, everyone.
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 05:30 PM
Jun 2018

Not going to be enjoyable, but I hope this will be the end of it.

My Dad died of cancer 8 years ago.

ghostsinthemachine

(3,569 posts)
16. Ah, stage 1..
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 05:43 PM
Jun 2018

I was stage 3, had my esophagus removed last May. 6 weeks chemo and radiation the removal of esophogus . Now in my leg and liver. Gone from curative to palliative care, with chemo every other week. Holding steady. No worse.
At stage one you should be fine. Let's hope anyway. The operations, the radiation and chemo, while not easy to deal with, are easier than being dead.
BTW, I am on a massive amounts of cannabis, THC & CBD, as well as the reccos by my doctor. Leaving nothing to chance.
Good luck to you. Study. Take advantage of the services available to you as well.

Fla Dem

(23,650 posts)
20. Sending hugs and good wishes your way.
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 06:27 PM
Jun 2018

whatever time you have I hope you are able to enjoy it to the fullest with friends and family.

ghostsinthemachine

(3,569 posts)
31. "I'm a lucky man, who can count on both hands, the ones I love
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 09:39 PM
Jun 2018

This is my therapy.Music.
My friends have stepped up HUGE for me. I've got shows lined up to Fleetwood Mac in November. Dead Winter Carpenters in Tahoe tomorrow. Dead and Company, High Sierra music festival, World Fest, Guitarfish, Phish, Hangtown, Hardly Strictly Bluegrass...my friends, musicians, fellow festivarians, and online acquaintances have accomodated it all via a go fund me account my daughter started secretly.

Amazing and it touches me deeply every time someone donates. I cried like a baby yesterday after a donation.

Fla Dem

(23,650 posts)
35. I am so happy for you!
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 11:41 PM
Jun 2018

“Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it.” Good for you! And what wonderful family and friends you have.

 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
18. That must be terrifying.
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 06:10 PM
Jun 2018

Fortunately, you caught it in the first stage. I hope your doctors have given you a good prognosis based on the early detection. Though it may be difficult to do, I bet I'm not the only one who would welcome your sharing your journey through these difficult times with us here. We can be a support group for more than our shared dismay over politics.

As we live longer, the chances of all of us getting a cancer increase. My father passed away from prostate cancer in 1992. Had he been diagnosed with it today, he would have most likely have survived. The treatments progress all the time.

marble falls

(57,077 posts)
19. Treatment is so much better for us now than it was even just ten years ago ...
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 06:18 PM
Jun 2018

I believe we got my colon cancer stopped quick and simple. The bladder cancer really early, I've had four surgeries in the last four years. Also I've had three series of immunotherapy with a couple of individual "doses" of it several other times. It certainly beats what my mother or my dad went through with chemo, for me only a nasty two day flu and sleeping.

Today I'm starting to feel 35 again and I'm 68.

Let your Doctors know you are very interested in what is happening to you, that you want to be able to make informed decisions.

Don't let the cancer define you. But don't forget that for at least the short term is an aspect of you. It is a serious thing but these days it is less likely, a lot less likely to beat you.

Fla Dem

(23,650 posts)
21. All the best to you as you travel this journey. May you have a complete recovery and enjoy many
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 06:28 PM
Jun 2018

years ahead.

badhair77

(4,216 posts)
24. Sending good thoughts and positive vibes your way, Archae.
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 07:28 PM
Jun 2018

Best wishes with your surgery and treatment. Please keep us updated.

blogslut

(37,999 posts)
26. 💕💕💕
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Jun 2018

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Miles Archer

(18,837 posts)
29. I'm confident you'll find much support and encouragement here.
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 09:33 PM
Jun 2018

Wishing you the strength and determination to kick its ass and fully restore your health.

Glorfindel

(9,726 posts)
30. I'm sorry to hear that, Archae. Here's hoping for the best possible outcome
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 09:36 PM
Jun 2018

and many, many more years of life and of fighting the good fight.

skylucy

(3,739 posts)
33. So sorry to hear that, but it sounds like it has been caught early (first stage). Sending lots
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 09:55 PM
Jun 2018

of positive vibes to you. My father had cancer a decade ago. He beat it and celebrated his 91st birthday in April. All the best to you, Archae.

DFW

(54,349 posts)
40. Lots of cancer survivors on here.
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 07:02 AM
Jun 2018

I hope to welcome you to the ranks later on this year.

Catching it early is usually everything. My wife has had it twice, and the second time was one called "the murderer" here. Maybe one case in a thousand survives it (it's fairly rare). She caught that one early enough, too. She was the one in ten thousand. You CAN get through this!

Both my parents and all their siblings had cancer. With me, it's not "if" but "when" and "where." I will be joining the ranks at some point. You can stick around and join the welcome-to-the-club post (don't get me wrong, I'm in no rush, but I know it's coming).

Stuart G

(38,419 posts)
53. I had 3 cancer surgeries in my mouth..(tongue)
Tue Jun 19, 2018, 08:42 PM
Jun 2018

..So the first one was 13 years ago, then 6 months later, same place..tongue, then another 8 or 9 months later...on the tongue again..3 surgeries in about a year and a half......since then, cancer free. I am indeed very lucky..you hang in there. You can beat this...

Brother Buzz

(36,416 posts)
49. This Stage 4 cancer survivor has a nugget of advice
Tue Jun 19, 2018, 12:23 PM
Jun 2018

Listen to the doctors, but believe the nurses.

The nurses will become your best friends; remember and try to do everything they tell you.

Oh, the surgery will be a snap, but it's all the crap following the surgery that will wear you down. Never give up (something the nurses will repeatedly tell you).

 

quartz007

(1,216 posts)
51. Going in your favor is astounding advances in
Tue Jun 19, 2018, 12:27 PM
Jun 2018

treatment of cancer. And you were very lucky cancer was diagnosed during 1st stage. You are going to live along time!

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