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pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
Sun Jul 22, 2018, 09:02 PM Jul 2018

Imagine if you were a young woman, and you had been treated for 12 years

for anxiety, depression, pseudo-seizures, fainting spells, migraines, digestive problems, PTSD, borderline personality, and you were given one drug after another and put in long term treatment programs, but nothing ever worked . . .

And it all turned out to be a serious physical (not psychological) disorder, that was finally diagnosed by a specialist you turned to because your friend said it sounded like what her sister had finally been diagnosed with -- and, coincidentally, your aunt had done some googling and suggested the same possible disorder.

Unfortunately, it has no cure but there are some treatments that seem to be helping my young relative . . . fingers crossed.



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Imagine if you were a young woman, and you had been treated for 12 years (Original Post) pnwmom Jul 2018 OP
That's a long time to wait for a correct diagnosis Sanity Claws Jul 2018 #1
No, I don't think it affected the prognosis, which is individual and unpredictable. pnwmom Jul 2018 #3
Oh, lord! What's the diagnosis? That's awful. Squinch Jul 2018 #2
A disorder of the autonomic nervous system called P.O.T.S. pnwmom Jul 2018 #4
Wow. That looks like it would be a bear to live with. Squinch Jul 2018 #5
How dreadful Ohiogal Jul 2018 #6
Yeah, I wonder if that was part of the problem. And with a teenage girl pnwmom Jul 2018 #7
I lived with undiagnosed sleep apnea for 9 years. Lochloosa Jul 2018 #8
Glad you figured that out! pnwmom Jul 2018 #10
It will kill you. Lochloosa Jul 2018 #13
Seems like too many doctors think it's all in a woman's head when it comes to female smirkymonkey Jul 2018 #9
Yup. I was having all the symptoms of low thyroid but had to go to 3 doctors to get one to test me TexasBushwhacker Jul 2018 #15
Good for you for persisting! pnwmom Jul 2018 #22
Same with me. I was hypothyroid and it took forever to get an accurate diagnosis. smirkymonkey Jul 2018 #24
sounds like my youngest. mopinko Jul 2018 #11
Aww . . . . pnwmom Jul 2018 #12
she's getting there. mopinko Jul 2018 #20
Reminded me of her. elleng Jul 2018 #17
. mopinko Jul 2018 #21
The medical community has a long history of treating women as hysterical Coventina Jul 2018 #14
As long as the treatments are the correct ones! lunatica Jul 2018 #16
The treatment for what she actually has isn't terrible, at least, since her insurance covers it. pnwmom Jul 2018 #18
Whoever that doctor is definitely keep him or her! lunatica Jul 2018 #19
The irony is pnwmom Jul 2018 #23

Sanity Claws

(21,846 posts)
1. That's a long time to wait for a correct diagnosis
Sun Jul 22, 2018, 09:07 PM
Jul 2018

Did the delay in diagnosis affect her prognosis?

Can you share the name of the condition? I am just curious.

pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
3. No, I don't think it affected the prognosis, which is individual and unpredictable.
Sun Jul 22, 2018, 09:12 PM
Jul 2018

It's a disorder of the Autonomic nervous system, called P.O.T.S. All the body systems that are supposed to regulate themselves don't do a great job in her case. There were some simple physical tests that diagnose this (one involving a tilt table) but no doctor over all those years thought to administer them.

pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
7. Yeah, I wonder if that was part of the problem. And with a teenage girl
Sun Jul 22, 2018, 09:21 PM
Jul 2018

it's probably even worse.

pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
10. Glad you figured that out!
Sun Jul 22, 2018, 09:54 PM
Jul 2018

I know two people who only learned after they had complications; one had a grand mal seizure from low oxygen levels, and the other had permanent eye damage.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
9. Seems like too many doctors think it's all in a woman's head when it comes to female
Sun Jul 22, 2018, 09:25 PM
Jul 2018

disorders. Part of the reason I only go to female doctors (w/ the exception of an orthopedic trauma surgeon for a broken arm - who by the way told me I would only get 70% mobility back at best and I got 100% mobility back, thank you, doctor).

TexasBushwhacker

(20,165 posts)
15. Yup. I was having all the symptoms of low thyroid but had to go to 3 doctors to get one to test me
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 09:08 PM
Jul 2018

The others thought I was just trying to get thyroid supplements to lose weight. Turns out I have autoimmune hypothyroidism (Hashimoto's disease).

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
24. Same with me. I was hypothyroid and it took forever to get an accurate diagnosis.
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 09:57 PM
Jul 2018

I am on both T3 and T4, but I actually one Dr. in NYC tell me that I didn't need them and wouldn't prescribe them so she took me off. I was so dead tired all the time and freezing cold without them so I found another doctor who would take me seriously.

mopinko

(70,071 posts)
11. sounds like my youngest.
Sun Jul 22, 2018, 10:57 PM
Jul 2018

finally figured out at 21 that she had epilepsy from a head injury at 5. nobody guessed until the seizures advanced to grand mal.
even the pediatric neurologist she saw for headaches didnt figure it out.
she has autonomic issues, too.

docs are so quick to settle on the crazy. in this case it was a crazy mom, then a crazy young lady.

pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
12. Aww . . . .
Sun Jul 22, 2018, 11:25 PM
Jul 2018

I'm so glad you figured out what was happening with her. I hope she's found some medications that are helping.

mopinko

(70,071 posts)
20. she's getting there.
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 09:41 PM
Jul 2018

it has been a harrowing experience, and, w that timing, has impacted who she is.
but she is reclaiming that, and integrating things slowly.

she still has strange things that happen, but she has found some compassionate docs that take pretty good care of her.

her life is a battle, but i raised a warrior.

Coventina

(27,093 posts)
14. The medical community has a long history of treating women as hysterical
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 12:03 PM
Jul 2018

rather than having a real physical problem.

It's beyond frustrating.

pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
18. The treatment for what she actually has isn't terrible, at least, since her insurance covers it.
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 09:36 PM
Jul 2018

It's a medicine to regulate her heart.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
19. Whoever that doctor is definitely keep him or her!
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 09:40 PM
Jul 2018

She shouldn’t have to fight every doctor she sees. Hopefully there’s some way she can keep her medical records in case she needs them, like if she ends up in a hospital with unknown doctors.

pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
23. The irony is
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 09:56 PM
Jul 2018

her dad's a doctor. But they're in a rural town, and he started to believe all the (wrong) specialists who couldn't diagnose her so they thought it was mental.

The mom was the one who kept pushing, and pushing, and pushing. She finally brought a bunch of articles to a cardiac doctor in town. Probably because she was married to a doctor, he took her seriously enough that he at least read them. And the next time he saw them he admitted, though he had never seen a case himself, that he thought they were right -- and referred them to an autonomic disease specialist in a large city who diagnosed her very quickly. But it had taken her 12 years to get to that point.

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