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IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
Mon Sep 10, 2018, 01:58 PM Sep 2018

Wedding anniversary present ideas?

Does anyone have any good ideas for an anniversary present?

My parents are celebrating a big anniversary this year. My siblings and I want to get them a really nice present to celebrate. They are both retired and in their 70s but very healthy and active. They both enjoy theater, museums, classic cars and classical music. They love to travel in their RV. They have been all over the country. I thought about giving them a hot air balloon ride for two since that is something I know neither of them have done.

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Wedding anniversary present ideas? (Original Post) IrishEyes Sep 2018 OP
Find out first if they really want to do it. greymattermom Sep 2018 #1
I got them season tickets for Christmas IrishEyes Sep 2018 #3
Do they enjoy cruising? A nice ocean voyage might be nice! Floyd R. Turbo Sep 2018 #2
They don't seem to be interested in going on a cruise. IrishEyes Sep 2018 #4
balloon ride sounds pretty cool Kali Sep 2018 #5
How about a nykym Sep 2018 #6
Have you thought of going together to make up a family album? Frustratedlady Sep 2018 #7
That's a great idea! csziggy Sep 2018 #13
"Candlesticks always make a nice gift. " Yavin4 Sep 2018 #8
I love that film. IrishEyes Sep 2018 #9
We had a big anniversary this year. Our sons and their spouses rented a home on the water and Cousin Dupree Sep 2018 #10
My mother would like that but I can't get my sibling to do it. IrishEyes Sep 2018 #11
If they like theater, get them tickets to a Broadway show and book a hotel room mnhtnbb Sep 2018 #12
Thank you for the suggestion IrishEyes Sep 2018 #14
Our North Carolina Symphony schedules performances all over the state mnhtnbb Sep 2018 #17
How About RobinA Sep 2018 #15
Arrange for a classical ensemble to play in their honor, as a way to give back to their community Donkees Sep 2018 #16
Buy them a complete set of new high end tires for all their vehicles. Tikki Sep 2018 #18
balloon ride could be risky unless you know they will both enjoy it MissMillie Sep 2018 #19
TA/Petro restaurant gift card jmowreader Sep 2018 #20
A manager with a history degree and an MBA is in a balloon and he gets completely lost... NNadir Sep 2018 #21
That is a good joke for my parents. IrishEyes Sep 2018 #22

greymattermom

(5,754 posts)
1. Find out first if they really want to do it.
Mon Sep 10, 2018, 01:59 PM
Sep 2018

How about season tickets to the theater? I'm their age and would love that.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
4. They don't seem to be interested in going on a cruise.
Mon Sep 10, 2018, 02:05 PM
Sep 2018

They were given a weekend in a bed and breakfast. They said it was nice but they would rather be in their home or the the RV. Maybe I can send them on a day cruise on a sailboat.

nykym

(3,063 posts)
6. How about a
Mon Sep 10, 2018, 02:14 PM
Sep 2018

Scavenger Hunt for them in their RV.
You plan out the hunt and the items culminating in a giant party at the end in honor of their anniversary.

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
7. Have you thought of going together to make up a family album?
Mon Sep 10, 2018, 02:15 PM
Sep 2018

Gather photos from your childhood to adulthood, the grandkids and spouses of each, homes, etc. We take photos and stuff them away somewhere and maybe your parents have never seen them. You can gather everything together and work with Shutterfly or some other company to compile the book. (You might also plan on making up a book for each sibling, as well.)

As we grow older, we don't have a lot of dreams that you could make come true. I see you thought of cruises, but they weren't interested. I'm 80 and I sure wouldn't be interested. Twenty five years or so ago, my husband and I put together two books and a photo album for our children. His childhood, my childhood and a photo album of their lives up to the point when they married. They all cried when they received them. I have a feeling your parents would do likewise.

Memories are better than any gold.

csziggy

(34,135 posts)
13. That's a great idea!
Mon Sep 10, 2018, 09:50 PM
Sep 2018

For my mother in law and my Mom we had blankets made with a collage of photos of their children and grandchildren (and for my MIL, great grandchildren) at a place called https://www.collage.com/photo-blankets

My sister had a Groupon coupon and saved a bunch of money for them: https://www.groupon.com/deals/gg-customizable-collage-blanket-200

Both mothers loved them. my Mom used hers, MIL hung hers up on the wall so she could see it.

Collage.com has lots of other products and I was very happy with their service. If you do any of their collage items, you upload the photos, the program will automatically arrange them, and then you can shift them around to your satisfaction. It was pretty painless once I collected the digital images from the families.

Cousin Dupree

(1,866 posts)
10. We had a big anniversary this year. Our sons and their spouses rented a home on the water and
Mon Sep 10, 2018, 02:58 PM
Sep 2018

we spent 5 days together with them and the grandchildren. They had dinners planned and took us out to a lovely restaurant one night sans children. The length of time was perfect. We couldn’t have asked for a better gift.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
11. My mother would like that but I can't get my sibling to do it.
Mon Sep 10, 2018, 03:24 PM
Sep 2018

We all live in different states that are far from each other.

mnhtnbb

(31,382 posts)
12. If they like theater, get them tickets to a Broadway show and book a hotel room
Mon Sep 10, 2018, 09:42 PM
Sep 2018

for them for a couple of nights. Maybe also a concert at Lincoln Center or Carnegie Hall?

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
14. Thank you for the suggestion
Mon Sep 10, 2018, 10:13 PM
Sep 2018

Unfortunately, they don't live anywhere near NYC and they don't like to visit very large cities. I will try to find a symphony near where they live. They like classical music.

mnhtnbb

(31,382 posts)
17. Our North Carolina Symphony schedules performances all over the state
Tue Sep 11, 2018, 10:49 AM
Sep 2018

They play in Chapel Hill, Wilmington, Southern Pines, New Bern, as well as in their home base in Raleigh. There may be other state symphonies which do the same thing so they wouldn't have to travel far and could combine a trip with a concert to also visit a museum or do something else they like.

RobinA

(9,888 posts)
15. How About
Tue Sep 11, 2018, 08:22 AM
Sep 2018

an RV improvement they have always wanted? Or would be a nice luxury that they've thought about? You'd obviously have to have their input, but there are all kinds of RV upgrades that make life a little easier or more fun.

Donkees

(31,374 posts)
16. Arrange for a classical ensemble to play in their honor, as a way to give back to their community
Tue Sep 11, 2018, 10:19 AM
Sep 2018

sharing their love of music, perhaps as a charity event (?)

Tikki

(14,556 posts)
18. Buy them a complete set of new high end tires for all their vehicles.
Tue Sep 11, 2018, 11:31 AM
Sep 2018

They will appreciate this.

The Tikkis

MissMillie

(38,548 posts)
19. balloon ride could be risky unless you know they will both enjoy it
Tue Sep 11, 2018, 12:15 PM
Sep 2018

A lot of the things you mentioned that they enjoy are things I would enjoy. But you couldn't get me up in a hot-air balloon in a million years. (I would ride any roller coaster any day of the week, as I would only be up in the air for a few seconds, but being up in the air for a few hours... no thanks!)

How about a meal prepared by a private chef?

jmowreader

(50,552 posts)
20. TA/Petro restaurant gift card
Tue Sep 11, 2018, 03:28 PM
Sep 2018

TA and Petro are truck stop chains with really good restaurants.

A lube/oil/filter service on the RV would also be good.

NNadir

(33,512 posts)
21. A manager with a history degree and an MBA is in a balloon and he gets completely lost...
Tue Sep 11, 2018, 08:23 PM
Sep 2018

...and he sees someone on the ground.

He yells down to the guy on the ground "Hey you! Where am I?"

The guy yells back, "You're in a hot air balloon at an altitude of approximately 45 meters, traveling South-Southwest with an airspeed velocity of 2 meters per second."

The manager yells back, "Hey you must be an engineer! Your answer is correct, but it is completely useless to me."

The engineer yells back, "You must be a manager! You got where you are with a lot of hot air and don't know where you are or where you're going, and now you want to tell me it's my fault."

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
22. That is a good joke for my parents.
Tue Sep 11, 2018, 09:26 PM
Sep 2018

One of them was an executive. The other one was an engineer. They are both retired now.

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