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Dennis Donovan

(18,770 posts)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 12:36 AM Jul 2019

I'm burying my brother tomorrow



My parents were married Dec 1947. My siblings spanned from June 1950 to Feb 1963. I, "the baby" was born September '65.

This picture was taken the summer of 1967. The summer of love.

The jokeyman grabbing his brother's arm died Wednesday morning.

The little shit in the foreground is me @ 2 1/2 yrs old.

I keep focusing on my Mom, in the extreme right of the photo.

Just to make it better one last time.
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I'm burying my brother tomorrow (Original Post) Dennis Donovan Jul 2019 OP
My condolences. RIP. DonaldsRump Jul 2019 #1
My condolences. CentralMass Jul 2019 #2
I offer my deepest condolences. BlueDawn Jul 2019 #3
I'm very sorry for your loss. MontanaMama Jul 2019 #4
I am so sorry for your loss, my dear Dennis Donovan... CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2019 #5
What a great picture. Botany Jul 2019 #6
I'm so sorry for your loss. barbtries Jul 2019 #7
So sorry for your loss Cetacea Jul 2019 #8
It's really tough to lose a sibling lunatica Jul 2019 #9
I am sorry for your loss. Too young 😪 joet67 Jul 2019 #10
My very deepest sympathy. colorado_ufo Jul 2019 #11
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. It's so hard to lose a brother. PatrickforO Jul 2019 #12
May you find peace, Dennis Donovan. Take good care of Mom. No Vested Interest Jul 2019 #13
Condolences, Dennis Donovan. pazzyanne Jul 2019 #14
So sorry, Dennis. Granny M Jul 2019 #15
I'm very sorry, Dennis. LuckyCharms Jul 2019 #16
I am sorry. murielm99 Jul 2019 #17
Peace to "Jokeyman" lillypaddle Jul 2019 #18
I'm so sorry. Duppers Jul 2019 #19
I am so sorry. redwitch Jul 2019 #20
I'm so sorry for your loss, Dennis. brer cat Jul 2019 #21
I'm sorry for your loss. sl8 Jul 2019 #22
Awww, my babylonsister Jul 2019 #23
Sorry for you. Were you close? DFW Jul 2019 #24
So sorry for your loss. Remember the good times. Fla Dem Jul 2019 #25
My condolences Faux pas Jul 2019 #26
Please accept my condolances. Collimator Jul 2019 #27
Compassion my friend to you and family TEB Jul 2019 #28
It's never easy. progressoid Jul 2019 #29
May you always have wonderful memories of your brother..sorry for your lose.. asiliveandbreathe Jul 2019 #30
RIP...my sorrow and best wishes go out to you and yours... SWBTATTReg Jul 2019 #31
So sorry for your loss. greatauntoftriplets Jul 2019 #32
Thank you for sharing a family photo Niagara Jul 2019 #33
Aw damn. I'm so sorry. femmedem Jul 2019 #34
I am so sorry Dennis.... Maraya1969 Jul 2019 #35
Sorry to hear this Dennis. bluestarone Jul 2019 #36
I am so sorry for your loss, hugs and prayers coeur_de_lion Jul 2019 #37
Very sorry for your loss, a big brother can never be forgotten. appalachiablue Jul 2019 #38
I'm so sorry. yardwork Jul 2019 #39
I am so sorry. I cant imagine peacebuzzard Jul 2019 #40
It's going to be a really tough day.....that somehow you will get through. UniteFightBack Jul 2019 #41
I'm sorry for your loss DesertRat Jul 2019 #42
i am so sorry. remember all the good times you had with your brother Demovictory9 Jul 2019 #43
I'm sorry for your loss Dennis. It's hard when you lose your siblings Autumn Jul 2019 #44
im so sorry...(((hugs))) samnsara Jul 2019 #45

BlueDawn

(892 posts)
3. I offer my deepest condolences.
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 12:42 AM
Jul 2019

I am so very sorry about the loss of your brother.

Thank you for sharing your wonderful photo and showing us the fun-loving side of your brother. And you were such an adorable little tot. I hope the two of you shared some great times together, Dennis. Your family photo is priceless and reminds me of that era in time in my own family.

Thank you. I hope it is okay to offer you a hug.

Warmly,
Blue Dawn



CaliforniaPeggy

(149,560 posts)
5. I am so sorry for your loss, my dear Dennis Donovan...
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 12:56 AM
Jul 2019

I wish I had the words to help you now, but all I have are my deepest condolences and sympathies.

You will heal but it will take time. And there is no timetable for grief. Be good to yourself.

We do have a Bereavement Group which you might find helpful. Someone is nearly always there.

Here's the link: https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1234

May he rest in peace, and may you find peace too.



Botany

(70,483 posts)
6. What a great picture.
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 01:01 AM
Jul 2019

We lost my Dad in late January of 2019 @ 90 and I fought tooth and nail to get him
back home for his last month ... and one of the last lucid things he said was looking
around was, "family is a good thing."

I see your two brothers, sister, and who is holding you in the pix?

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
9. It's really tough to lose a sibling
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 01:11 AM
Jul 2019

Of course the death of any member of a family is devastating, each one hurts in s different way, depending on the relationship dynamic. It’s all heartbreaking.

Hugs to you and your family.

PatrickforO

(14,569 posts)
12. I'm deeply sorry for your loss. It's so hard to lose a brother.
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 01:50 AM
Jul 2019

Condolences to you and your family in this time of grief.

pazzyanne

(6,546 posts)
14. Condolences, Dennis Donovan.
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 01:58 AM
Jul 2019

Losing a sibling is so hard to do. I lost my brother a year and a half ago, and still miss him. May memories of good times comfort you.

DFW

(54,330 posts)
24. Sorry for you. Were you close?
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 07:41 AM
Jul 2019

I can’t even conceive how hard that must be. My wife lost her younger brother over ten years ago and she still talks of him frequently.

Collimator

(1,639 posts)
27. Please accept my condolances.
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 10:42 AM
Jul 2019

When one of my brothers died in 2007, I remember one of my other brothers use the phrase "I lost a brother". It struck me that those words had an added weight than when I, his sister, said them.

Of course, brothers and sisters can be very close. My best friend has a twin brother whom she adores, while she and her sister are not that close. Still, there is a longing there for that special same sex sibling bond.

I hope you and your brother were great friends and friendly rivals. From the pictures it seemed as though you understood how to tease and tussle and close ranks when it really mattered.

You lost a brother, but the gift of the bond you had is yours forever.

appalachiablue

(41,113 posts)
38. Very sorry for your loss, a big brother can never be forgotten.
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 08:43 PM
Jul 2019

All of you, including your mother look so happy and close, the way siblings and family should be.

Peace and best now during this very difficult time.


peacebuzzard

(5,158 posts)
40. I am so sorry. I cant imagine
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 10:29 PM
Jul 2019

Since the only relatives I have are 2 sisters, both disabled.
I have fur babies, but 3 out of 4 are also ill.
Life is so fragile. The image is great, my sincere condolences.

Autumn

(45,026 posts)
44. I'm sorry for your loss Dennis. It's hard when you lose your siblings
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 09:13 AM
Jul 2019

I found that not only were my siblings gone but I had lost my best friends and confidants.

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