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Danmel

(4,907 posts)
Tue Dec 17, 2019, 07:25 PM Dec 2019

My father in law died today

He was 88. In the last month, his health kinda fell off a cliff. He was a very smart man. Pretty snarky and sarcastic but a loyal husband and devoted dad and grandfather.
A true blue Democrat, with a giant blinking D. Ran for judge on the Liberal line in a pretty conservative suburban county. Got thrashed of course, but stood by his principles.
He had a good run, but I will really miss him.

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My father in law died today (Original Post) Danmel Dec 2019 OP
Sorry for your loss Sherman A1 Dec 2019 #1
Rest in peace democrank Dec 2019 #2
I am very sorry for your loss. dewsgirl Dec 2019 #3
So very sorry for your family's loss. Zoonart Dec 2019 #4
Peace to your family Donkees Dec 2019 #5
Rest in peace DonaldsRump Dec 2019 #6
Peace to you TEB Dec 2019 #7
So sorry Danmel MaryMagdaline Dec 2019 #8
So sorry for your loss Freddie Dec 2019 #9
Sounds like you will have good memories dhol82 Dec 2019 #10
As others have said.......I am sorry for your loss. chillfactor Dec 2019 #11
A life well lived, I think. Sincere condolences. NNadir Dec 2019 #12
Sounds like we lost a good one! So sorry for the family's loss. ❤ Karadeniz Dec 2019 #13
so sorry. kozar Dec 2019 #14
Very sorry for your family's great loss. sinkingfeeling Dec 2019 #15
Condolences. littlemissmartypants Dec 2019 #16
Sorry for your loss kimbutgar Dec 2019 #17
I'm actually a woman. Danmel is a combo of my kids names Danmel Dec 2019 #31
See my revised kimbutgar Dec 2019 #33
He did indeed Danmel Dec 2019 #34
My heart goes out to you/family/friends. My he rest in peace.. iluvtennis Dec 2019 #18
I'm sorry. yardwork Dec 2019 #19
💫💖💫✨ MLAA Dec 2019 #20
My beloved father in law warmfeet Dec 2019 #21
I am so sorry for your great loss 🕯️ irisblue Dec 2019 #25
I'm so so sorry Danmel Dec 2019 #30
Sorry for your loss. Paz to you and your family RestoreAmerica2020 Dec 2019 #36
I'm so sorry for your loss. cate94 Dec 2019 #22
It's so heartbreaking to lose a family member; it's sad to lose a true Blue voter. Backseat Driver Dec 2019 #23
He did his part.. Permanut Dec 2019 #24
I am saddened by your loss🕯️ irisblue Dec 2019 #26
. stonecutter357 Dec 2019 #27
I'm sorry for your loss Blue_playwright Dec 2019 #28
Peace to you and your family (n/t) PJMcK Dec 2019 #29
My deepest condolences to you and yours. May he rest in peace. Maraya1969 Dec 2019 #32
Paz to you and your family RestoreAmerica2020 Dec 2019 #35
I hope you and your family are doing OK lunatica Dec 2019 #37
Sorry, especially because it happened this time of year! VarryOn Dec 2019 #38
I'm sorry about your loss, Danmel. smirkymonkey Dec 2019 #39

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
1. Sorry for your loss
Tue Dec 17, 2019, 07:26 PM
Dec 2019

As you said he had a good run, lots of folks don't make it to 88 so he did pretty good.

Freddie

(9,256 posts)
9. So sorry for your loss
Tue Dec 17, 2019, 07:57 PM
Dec 2019

Sometimes they go so fast after 85. Same with my FIL. He got that nasty flu 2 years ago, turned to pneumonia, that was it. Still miss the old guy.

chillfactor

(7,572 posts)
11. As others have said.......I am sorry for your loss.
Tue Dec 17, 2019, 08:13 PM
Dec 2019

You were so fortunate to have such a kind, wonderful father-in-law in your life. My father-in-law was an alcoholic as was my mother-in-law. They both committed suicide that ended their destructive lives. Bless you and your family. And bless this man that was so important in your life. May he rest in peace.

kimbutgar

(21,040 posts)
17. Sorry for your loss
Tue Dec 17, 2019, 09:13 PM
Dec 2019

Last edited Tue Dec 17, 2019, 10:42 PM - Edit history (1)

Sounds like he was also a good father in law and raised his
(Son) well!

Danmel

(4,907 posts)
31. I'm actually a woman. Danmel is a combo of my kids names
Tue Dec 17, 2019, 10:34 PM
Dec 2019

Daniel and Melanie. My husband does have a sister, though. We actually have the same name. (Slight spelling variation.)

warmfeet

(3,321 posts)
21. My beloved father in law
Tue Dec 17, 2019, 09:39 PM
Dec 2019
died 5 weeks ago. He was 81. He was a stalwart Democrat. I loved him, I loved talking to him. He was a man of many ideas.

My wife and I performed CPR on him for 10 minutes before the paramedics arrived. We were too late, it was not enough to save him.



Rest in Peace David, my beloved father-in-law.

Danmel

(4,907 posts)
30. I'm so so sorry
Tue Dec 17, 2019, 10:32 PM
Dec 2019

How traumatic for you. My father in law thankfully died peacefully at a hospice facility. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Backseat Driver

(4,379 posts)
23. It's so heartbreaking to lose a family member; it's sad to lose a true Blue voter.
Tue Dec 17, 2019, 09:45 PM
Dec 2019

Please take comfort that we share your sorrow with so much sympathy for his life, well lived.

Blue_playwright

(1,568 posts)
28. I'm sorry for your loss
Tue Dec 17, 2019, 10:21 PM
Dec 2019

My dad always thought the greatest compliment you could give someone was to call them a good Democrat. I’m sorry you lost your good Democrat.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
37. I hope you and your family are doing OK
Wed Dec 18, 2019, 12:49 AM
Dec 2019

It’s always too tough to lose family. And at this time of year it can be unusually difficult, especially with kids. I hope he went confident that his beloved country was headed back on the right track. Hugs to all of you.

 

VarryOn

(2,343 posts)
38. Sorry, especially because it happened this time of year!
Wed Dec 18, 2019, 01:11 AM
Dec 2019

Prayers that the next couple of weeks are bearable. I lost a grandmother at this time of year a few years back. It was tough, so I've always had a special place in my heart for those that lose loved duing theChristmas time of year.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
39. I'm sorry about your loss, Danmel.
Wed Dec 18, 2019, 01:31 AM
Dec 2019

He sounded like a wonderful person. It's always hard to lose someone, but especially so around the holidays.

Peace be with you and your family.

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