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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI have found myself in a situation I haven't been in for a while.
One of my neighbors seem to be showing interest in me.
I've been burned so many times that I'm a piece of toast. So I'm not really in the market for romance. I'm keeping my distance, but he is showing signs of being the patience and persistent type.
I don't know what he sees that he likes. I'm like a beat up old truck anymore. And I really don't know how to handle this. Been thinking about this for the last week, thinking that he was just being neighborly. But he asked me out today. Told him I'll think about it.
Maybe that was a turnoff, but I'll know if he asks me again.
cayugafalls
(5,639 posts)Getting to know someone before, "going out" can do wonders.
Take a walk, hang out and have a cup of coffee, it goes well with toast...
Be safe lfr.
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)I can't really walk anymore. That is why I can't understand why he is interested.
safeinOhio
(32,641 posts)I'm proof. Didn't meet the love of my life until I reached my mid 60s. I had given up.
MicaelS
(8,747 posts)Each in her own way. If he asks you out, he sees something in you he likes, something you may not be aware of. Something he finds attractive. Give him a chance. Give love a chance.
Guilded Lilly
(5,591 posts)First, do it from yours
Think about it, yes. But dont overthink it to either of your detriments.
Breathe.
Beachnutt
(7,290 posts)Check his facebook or twitter and see what he post.
Sanity Claws
(21,841 posts)Maybe he sees a kind, compassionate person. Maybe he sees the real you. Don't put yourself down like that.
Also, allow yourself to be his friend, even if nothing else. We learn a lot about ourselves and others through our personal relationships.