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underpants

(182,603 posts)
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 09:14 AM Apr 2021

Hey! It's April 6th again! ONE YEAR WITHOUT A CIGARETTE

After basically 35 years of smoking I had my last smoke April 5th last year. April 6th is my quit date. I’ve never liked the number 45 - not for political reasons - which gave me an extra day of smoking a year ago.

So on a Sunday morning a year ago I got up and had two smokes with my morning coffee on the back deck. Waited until I wanted another, smoked it, and then started with THE PATCH. I wore the patch waaaay to long into September I think, it greatly tore up my shoulders even though I rotated it everyday.

I can’t say I even think about them much anymore. Mostly when I’m busting butt in the yard or on a project and I take a break. For most of my life “taking a break” involved a cigarette.

I have to admit I really surprised myself doing it. The lockdown was counter to the normal way of doing it but the steps I’d have had to take to get a pack threw lots of hurdles and stops in the way.

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Hey! It's April 6th again! ONE YEAR WITHOUT A CIGARETTE (Original Post) underpants Apr 2021 OP
I smoked for 40 years and quit 8 years ago. Still quit! BEST TO YOU!!! CurtEastPoint Apr 2021 #1
We had some birthdays recently underpants Apr 2021 #6
Thanks! CurtEastPoint Apr 2021 #9
Congrats! SheltieLover Apr 2021 #2
Congratulations! Dave in VA Apr 2021 #3
At least $2,000 a year underpants Apr 2021 #7
I stopped 20 years ago Dave in VA Apr 2021 #13
Congrats!! Welcome to a fresher, healthier world! I quit in 1985, and have never looked back.. secondwind Apr 2021 #4
Congrats. Never smoked, but if I had, probably could never quit. Girard442 Apr 2021 #5
GREAT NEWS....Congratulations. lapucelle Apr 2021 #8
((undies)) blm Apr 2021 #10
I quit about 8 years ago after trying several times. flying_wahini Apr 2021 #11
The patch worked for me too, but on that last INdemo Apr 2021 #12
Good going! You should be proud.. Dream Girl Apr 2021 #14
Congratulations! That's an awesome accomplishment. nt Phoenix61 Apr 2021 #15
Good for you! You will appreciate this more each year RainCaster Apr 2021 #16
Congratulations! niyad Apr 2021 #17
I'm very proud of you! Congratulations! NurseJackie Apr 2021 #18
Congratulations! I smoked for 43 years and have been smoke free since Jan. 2009. sinkingfeeling Apr 2021 #19
I used to work with the American Lung Association NJCher Apr 2021 #20
Well done! A HERETIC I AM Apr 2021 #21
Congratulations! Jay25 Apr 2021 #22
Congratulations!!!! Trueblue Texan Apr 2021 #23
Congratulations Submariner Apr 2021 #24
I quit November 22, 2019 MiniMe Apr 2021 #25
I managed to quit cold turkey central scrutinizer Apr 2021 #26
I quit 50 years ago rambler_american Apr 2021 #27
Congrats, I know it's tough. I smoked for 50 years before quitting at 66 years old. panader0 Apr 2021 #28
Incredible accomplishment... CONGRATULATIONS! dixiechiken1 Apr 2021 #29
Congratulations!!!! sdfernando Apr 2021 #30
Congratulations RickHworth Apr 2021 #31
Okay that got a chuckle underpants Apr 2021 #33
Way to go Underpants! jmbar2 Apr 2021 #32
Congrats! It is truly a big accomplishment when you give up a lifelong addiction. cayugafalls Apr 2021 #34
COngratulations Old Crank Apr 2021 #35
Congratulations! It's an amazing thing being free from that addiction NoSheep Apr 2021 #36
Congrats!!! NNadir Apr 2021 #37
years without a cigarette maliaSmith Apr 2021 #38
Congratulations! Quitting was so hard for me. nt LittleGirl Apr 2021 #39
That is huge! Congrats. Laffy Kat Apr 2021 #40
Congrats. I quit 48 years ago. The day ours son was born. usaf-vet Apr 2021 #41
Well done, you! BobTheSubgenius Apr 2021 #42
CONGRATULATIONS!!! CaptainTruth Apr 2021 #43
Great news underpants... MiHale Apr 2021 #44
Congratulations! mgardener Apr 2021 #45
Congrats! Great news! 💕 MLAA Apr 2021 #46
That is great! hollygolively Apr 2021 #47
Congrats! I'm happy for you! Moostache Apr 2021 #48
Congrats! cate94 Apr 2021 #49
Congratulations!!! ailsagirl Apr 2021 #50
CONGRATULATIONS!!! pazzyanne Apr 2021 #51
Welcome to the club! bluecollar2 Apr 2021 #52
Good work! Congrats. n/t whopis01 Apr 2021 #53
CONGRATS! Two days ago was my 7 year anniversary! Behind the Aegis Apr 2021 #54
Congratulations Nululu Apr 2021 #55
Congrats on kicking the smokes! n/t Akoto Apr 2021 #56
Congrats! Marthe48 Apr 2021 #57
Outstanding gratuitous Apr 2021 #58
ten years for me Skittles Apr 2021 #59
Congratulations underpants Apr 2021 #60
Today is day 28 for me ChubbyStar Apr 2021 #63
ooh Skittles Apr 2021 #64
Will do ChubbyStar Apr 2021 #67
Take about ten deep breaths if you ever get the urge - it really works rurallib Apr 2021 #61
Well done, Hotler Apr 2021 #62
Congratulations, especially during this pandemic! electric_blue68 Apr 2021 #65
Congratulations underpants The Polack MSgt Apr 2021 #66

underpants

(182,603 posts)
6. We had some birthdays recently
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 09:24 AM
Apr 2021

We have a bunch in a span of a few days. My daughter - she never knew I smoked everyday - asked if I had a lighter for candles. I laughed. For soooo long doing anything without having a lighter with me was like a gunfighter walking out without his guns. Head, feet, wallet, lighter....

Going back into work in July was a bit tough just for the “smoke break” and after lunch element. I stopped noticing it a few months ago.

Congratulations Curt!

Dave in VA

(2,035 posts)
3. Congratulations!
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 09:21 AM
Apr 2021

Did you set the money aside and now you can buy you something special as a reward? You have probably saved nearly $2,000.00

underpants

(182,603 posts)
7. At least $2,000 a year
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 09:25 AM
Apr 2021

That’s the number I’ve always used too. Take $5 a day plus buying this and that it’s at least 2 grand a year.

Dave in VA

(2,035 posts)
13. I stopped 20 years ago
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 09:58 AM
Apr 2021

smoked for 30 years. Every year I go buy something as a reward! Better habit than the cigarettes!

Now to watch out for the triggers that you've not encountered being socially isolated, etc.

Wishing you continued success!



lapucelle

(18,187 posts)
8. GREAT NEWS....Congratulations.
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 09:30 AM
Apr 2021

When my dad quit many decades ago, he told me he was "sick of being serf to Lady Nicotine" which definitely made an impression.

flying_wahini

(6,578 posts)
11. I quit about 8 years ago after trying several times.
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 09:45 AM
Apr 2021

Chantix RX helped me tremendously. Not sure I could have quit without it.

Highly recommend it if you just can’t shake it.

INdemo

(6,994 posts)
12. The patch worked for me too, but on that last
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 09:48 AM
Apr 2021

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day of step 3 was rough but I found that drinking lots of ice water helped me when I was doing my yard projects to overcome the cigarette craving.

So congratulations on your difficult accomplishment

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
18. I'm very proud of you! Congratulations!
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 10:14 AM
Apr 2021

Keep bragging! Keep not smoking! Keep saving money. Keep NOT having to go outside in the rain. Keep not stinking. Keep not having yellow teeth. Keep not having stained walls. Keep not stinking-up your vehicle. Keep not having nicotine stains on your computer screens. Keep not tormenting your pets and others around you.

THIS IS GREAT NEWS!!

NJCher

(35,619 posts)
20. I used to work with the American Lung Association
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 10:21 AM
Apr 2021

and saw a lot of people quit through their 8-week clinics. One strategy I saw that worked pretty well was what you did: wearing the patch until the psychological addiction was overcome. For you, it took a long time but that's nothing compared to what smoking does to you. It raises your susceptibility to all forms of cancer.

American Lung broke down smokers into different types, or psychological profiles. I remember one type was the "handler." This type of smoker enjoyed the entire experience of handling the cigarette, from tamping the pack to opening the cellophane, to holding the cigarette and exhaling the smoke, sometimes into rings.

To this day (and my work with them was over 20 years ago), I look at people smoking and try to determine which type they are.

Trueblue Texan

(2,419 posts)
23. Congratulations!!!!
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 10:33 AM
Apr 2021

Quitting smoking was one of the hardest things I ever did, but it was so worth it!! In March I reached my 32nd anniversary of no smoking after giving up a 3 pack a day habit. The first year was the absolute hardest-- hardly a moment without thinking about smoking. The second year was MUCH easier and it has only gotten easier over the decades. Occasionally I still have a dream that I have taken up smoking again. I hope never to be enslaved by a substance like that again.

I don't know you, but I am so proud of your accomplishment! Keep up the self-loving work!

Submariner

(12,497 posts)
24. Congratulations
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 10:35 AM
Apr 2021

for doing it during the pandemic.

After 52 years of cigs, I quit 5 years ago, but I could only do it because that particular week I had a horrible head/chest cold with total congestion, and a slight sore throat and a lost of taste. Smoking was tasteless and it irritated the throat. It was the perfect time for me to quit cold turkey and stick on the Nicorette patch.

I don't think I could do what you did, because during this past years quarantine I did not even get a sniffle, and I think i was so weak I needed that severe common cold to kick my butt and get me over the hump.

MiniMe

(21,709 posts)
25. I quit November 22, 2019
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 10:36 AM
Apr 2021

It's hard, but so far, I've stuck with it. Mine was cold turkey, had bypass surgery, and it hasn't been that hard.

central scrutinizer

(11,637 posts)
26. I managed to quit cold turkey
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 10:37 AM
Apr 2021

35 years ago. Took the last half pack of Camel straights and flushed them down the toilet. Something just flipped inside my brain and I was done with cigarettes. Didn’t use a patch or gum. Just stopped and never felt tempted. I was smoking pot back then so maybe that replaced some of the need. Stopped smoking weed about 15 years ago. Same thing - just stopped one day. Did take one hit about two years ago.

rambler_american

(789 posts)
27. I quit 50 years ago
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 10:37 AM
Apr 2021

on the day I got married. I had told my fiancee that I had quit a year before so I had to either own the lie or quit. Quitting seemed the better choice for a couple of reasons. Be aware, however, that in my experience, even after 50 years there are still times, albeit very few, when a cigarette would seem good. Thankfully resistance gets easier every year. Good luck to you and may everyone else take your post as an inspiration.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
28. Congrats, I know it's tough. I smoked for 50 years before quitting at 66 years old.
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 10:39 AM
Apr 2021

It had to be filterless cigarettes. Camels, Luckys, Pall Malls or roll your own (Bugler) when I was broke.
So over 4 years for me now. I slowed down for the last year or so, down to 3 or 4 a day, then quit
cold turkey. I still miss it at certain times but I know if I start again I can't stop. Amazingly, my
lungs seem OK. I still have a few tokes of herb almost daily. When I find out what I'm dying from,
I'll start smoking again.

dixiechiken1

(2,113 posts)
29. Incredible accomplishment... CONGRATULATIONS!
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 10:41 AM
Apr 2021

I think it's difficult for people who've never smoked to understand how truly difficult it is to quit. ( Friday will be 7 months for me. 😊 )

This is an amazing milestone. Congratulations and best wishes to you!

RickHworth

(122 posts)
31. Congratulations
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 10:47 AM
Apr 2021

I quit 8 years ago this month, too.
Had to go the Chantix route, finding out that the patch didn't work for me. I had a really hard time keeping it lit.

jmbar2

(4,861 posts)
32. Way to go Underpants!
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 10:50 AM
Apr 2021

Agree with posters above - no one knows how hard it is unless you've been there. I quit in 1999.

I went to a 12-Step program in a building where all the 12-Step programs ran 24/7. Down the hall was Narcotics Anonymous. Every once in awhile, they'd come to the Smokers Anonymous room by mistake. Once they realized, they practically laid skid marks backing out the door.

It was said in that building that our group was the last one they'd go through, after quitting alcohol and heroin. They were terrified of quitting smoking.

Treat yourself to some goodness today. You deserve it!

cayugafalls

(5,639 posts)
34. Congrats! It is truly a big accomplishment when you give up a lifelong addiction.
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 10:55 AM
Apr 2021

I know it all too well.

I'm going on 15 years and I still think and dream about it.

Congratulations!

NNadir

(33,468 posts)
37. Congrats!!!
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 11:18 AM
Apr 2021

I know it's very hard. My father didn't really quit even when smoking gave him the cancer that killed him, and he was in many other ways a very strong man.

maliaSmith

(80 posts)
38. years without a cigarette
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 11:19 AM
Apr 2021

I have 53 years without a smoke. I used to smoke 2 packs a day and I quit cold turkey when I was 22. Thank God!

BobTheSubgenius

(11,559 posts)
42. Well done, you!
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 11:31 AM
Apr 2021

Stay with it, and NEVER assume you can have one "for old time's sake" or "once in a while." It's like every other addiction - it's with you for life, and doesn't need much of an opening to grab you once again.

I didn't keep track of "my" date, because I didn't want it to be a thing. Now, I'm not even sure of the year, but I believe it was 1982.

MiHale

(9,664 posts)
44. Great news underpants...
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 11:38 AM
Apr 2021

Going on 4 years myself and my wife. Thought one day hey let’s try...bummed a drag off my neighbor, just one puff cemented in my brain why I quit. I get an urge I remember that day.

This was all pre-covid.

 

hollygolively

(87 posts)
47. That is great!
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 11:47 AM
Apr 2021

I took a class in becoming a non-smoker. Your lungs and body are way better now that a year has passed.

Good for you for beating the really, really tough addiction to cigarettes.

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
48. Congrats! I'm happy for you!
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 11:48 AM
Apr 2021

As we near the end of the pandemic (hopefully), I would advise on finding new habits and associations to avoid the familiar rhythms that causes so many of us to light up subconsciously before we actually fire one up.

Its been 14 years now for me, and I had to give up my entire social life to break the habit. I was a competitive pool player on a travelling team...THAT was the hardest thing to give up for me. I could not stand the pool rooms and bars without smoking...of course, within a couple years of me quitting they began banning smoking in many indoor places, but for me the association was too strong. It was the same with drinking. I was a hard core drinker in college and the first few years out of school, but that was another unconscious thing....beer + cigarette... shot + cigarette... Margarita + cigarette... etc. etc. etc.

I found that those temptations far exceeded the physical nicotine addiction. I gave those things up rather than tempt fate and my (non-existent) will power. You made one of the most important psychological milestones! Congratulations and continued good fortune on your journey!

pazzyanne

(6,543 posts)
51. CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 12:05 PM
Apr 2021

Achieving a smoke free year is amazing. My Dad was a chain smoker who tried quitting numerous times with no permanent results. He had his first cigarette at age 7 and his last at age 85, so I realize what an accomplishment smoke-free living is.

Behind the Aegis

(53,919 posts)
54. CONGRATS! Two days ago was my 7 year anniversary!
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 12:19 PM
Apr 2021

YEA FOR US!

And a really big HELL YES for you. That first year....damn!

ChubbyStar

(3,191 posts)
63. Today is day 28 for me
Wed Apr 7, 2021, 12:17 AM
Apr 2021

I quit both smoking and drinking after I ended up in the hospital with a very SERIOUS gastrointestinal hemorrhage, I consider myself very lucky to be alive.

Skittles

(153,111 posts)
64. ooh
Wed Apr 7, 2021, 02:22 AM
Apr 2021

tip for you, ChubbyStar - if you get an overwhelming urge to light up or imbibe, resolve to POST YOUR INTENTION ON DU FIRST. Yes indeed......we have your back!

rurallib

(62,379 posts)
61. Take about ten deep breaths if you ever get the urge - it really works
Tue Apr 6, 2021, 08:55 PM
Apr 2021

Bet making it to that year milestone felt tremendous - big congratulations


I've been smoke free for @ 47 years.

electric_blue68

(14,818 posts)
65. Congratulations, especially during this pandemic!
Wed Apr 7, 2021, 04:48 AM
Apr 2021

Luckily I hated the smell of smoke so much I never even tried it - get headachey, irritated eyes, sore throat.
I was a at 'Progressives For Humphrey indoor' rally that my my uncle took me to -a real smoke filled room I was soooo miserable by the time we left!

My mom was a pack + a day but quit after she got severe asthma in '57 - '58 from a bad flu season.
My sib quit ?35+ yrs ago thank goodness! .
Keep up the good work! 👍

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